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Wanna know something funny?
Million of guys keep themselves busy with meeting girls online everyday, especially on social networks such as Facebook, or Myspace, or Bebo, and on and on.
But all these guys don't have a CLUE about how to write a profile fit for online dating..
In all the time I�ve been meeting and dating women on the internet via around 11 different, social networking sites, I�ve discovered an amazing secret that seems so obvious but eludes so many of us.
You see, 99% of the men online use only ONE THIRD of the full potential of their profiles, while the remaining two thirds only SERIOUSLY INJURE the chances of them ever achieving success.
And that�s when they�re knowing what they�re doing with that one third of potential, or things are sure to get even WORSE for them (how does RUINING your chances online forever and ever sound?)
But what's the cause of the vast majority of men out there getting bad results?
It�s NOT using all the areas of your profile that are available to you, because you either:
- DON�T know they EXIST, or:
- DON�T know how to USE them
On social network sites like MySpace, there are EIGHT profile areas (and them I�m grouping some into one BIG area) you can use to MULTIPLY the amount of women who will message YOU first, and to MAXIMIZE the effect of the messages you reply to so you�ll have more women eagerly awaiting your reply than you can handle.
And the brutal truth is: the vast majority of males who�re doing their best with meeting girls online are only using THREE of these profile areas and, if they DO know about other profile areas, they DON�T know how to use them to create attraction.
Do you understand what this means?
It means that the majority of their profile (around two thirds) is WASTED SPACE and if the other three areas are well done (and they almost never are), the huge amounts of wasted space will SABOTAGE their attempts at meeting women.
I highly recommend you check out the profiles of other MEN after reading this, just so you�ll see how much they SUCK (so you�ll know how much women you can meet when you do it right because other men don�t stand a chance against your profile).
And it means that you, IF you know what these profile areas are and how to insanely improve them so not even a tenth of an inch of space on your profile is wasted because EVERYTHING is designed to create attraction, that you�ll have an unfair advantage over every single rival for as long as you keep your profile up there!
Let alone the effects on the number of messages you�ll receive (think a TENFOLD increase in very interested responses from women.)
There are in total 8 profile areas you can use that will seriously boost the number of conversations you'll have with hot women online as fast as humanly possible..but let's look at two of them, photos and descriptions, and see how you can improve those..
1. Photos
She'll look at your photos FIRST, because a picture will tell her so much more then just some words..plus it tells her if you're cute or not. You can use them to let her know:
- She has competition (photos of you & other women)
- That you are a REAL guy and not some guy who's trying to be smooth (photos of you & family or friends)
- That you have a sense of class & style (your wardrobe and the people you hang out with on your photos, etc.), and more�
Things to do
- Show her you�re a desirable man with options, who she�ll have to fight for and who�s comfortable around women: include 2 photos of you hanging out with cute women
- Don�t try to be mister smooth and show women you�re a real person, a people�s person: include a photo of you and family, and 1 of you and friends
- Make her desire to join your exciting life: include some photos of you on vacation, traveling, or in beautiful settings (sunset, in front of a waterfall, etc.)
- Smile, once upon a time there was this little research project where women were given photos of two guys, one smiling and the other with a straight face, and asked which one was more attractive�guess what? The smiling bald guy won from the straight faced guy that still had hair
2. Descriptions
The area where you can talk freely about yourself.
Women watch HOW you talk about yourself closely to find out who you are: it shows them if you're confident, if you're exciting or just some boring guy, if you're attractive or a total wussy, or a needy guy, etc.
From your descriptions she can tell whether or not you have standards and an exciting life she would like to join.
Things to do
- Don�t be boring�and use humor in your descriptions, use some emoticons (those :P and (A) and :) thingies, as they add EMOTIONAL impact, hence the name) and EMPHASIZE some words to again give everything you say more IMPACT
- Tell about crazy experiences, wild adventures or your greatest passions and talk about it VIVIDLY: no I went to A, B and C but sensory details (how the setting smelled, sounded, felt, the colors and shapes) and emotional drama (how did you feel: anxious, happy, sad, enthusiastic, delighted, in love, etc.).
Why? Because it lets her imagine it like she�s there herself, which makes it compelling to talk to you more..because you tell stories that move her..and women fall for men who can capture their imagination..
And if you want to learn everything about how to use great photos, descriptions and the other areas of your profile to grab a woman's attention by the throat and make her feel immensely attracted to you..
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