QUESTION FROM A READER
Dear Dennis, I'm a man who really wants to learn how to meet
and date women. I've been out of the whole dating scene for
a while after my last girlfriend cheated on me. I just
couldn't get over her for a year, but now I finally am? I'm
having trouble getting back into the game.
You see, I work fulltime now: 50 hours a week and it takes
me an hour to get to work and an hour to get back. So after
I've gotten home and had something to eat, it's 8 p.m.
already and I only have maybe 3 hours left before I need to
go to sleep because of work the next day! And in the
weekends I'm too tired to do anything, so how am I ever
supposed to meet girls this way?
Alex Sanders, Utrecht, the Netherlands
If you really want it..and have a
BURNING desire to win with women, then being tired should
NEVER be an issue..that's BS.
Unless you want to have what you always had up until now:
hardly ANY success.
You should realize that you're making excuses for taking
action, because you FEAR change and would rather be sure of
a crappy situation than unsure of ANY situation.
It's time to get of your but and do something about the
miserable state of your current sex life, or remain single
for another 30 years.
And it's NOT that you can't improve it because of time, or
location or whatever...that's what I call a LIMITING BELIEF.
You only think you can't do it, because you didn't search
for answers hard enough, long enough..and you didn't think
out of the box.
So how do you think out of the box?
1) After we get home from work, we all have our daily
routines: shopping for groceries, doing our homework,
washing our clothes, working out, etc.
But guess what?
There are women walking around in supermarkets,
hypermarkets and warehouses TOO.
There are women who are on the same bus or train to work
too...and even if you go by car, there are even women who're
walking where you're walking on your way to work too, women
who work at the same company too..
In short: why not meet them WHILE you're shopping, walking,
traveling, working out at the gym?
You need to do all that stuff anyways, so why not meet women
in between places or while you need to be somewhere?
And here's the juicy secret: it'll only cost you a couple of
minutes per day extra!
Remember that it doesn't even MATTER how those women you
meet look...because you want to get the women & dating part
of your life handled, NOT the attractive women & dating
If you want to learn how to interact with women better than you used to,
and to be comfortable around them... then ANY woman can be your
teacher, and teachers are all around you.
Use this wickedkly effective wisdom well... and be the "nerd"
in this field of studying, the one who tries to learn the
And if you can't meet them then, then that's not an issue of
time...but of being insecure.
2) You're thinking get to work OR meeting women now, but the
the truth is: you can work AND meet women at the same damn
time and even pocket an easy promotion!
Because if YOU get yourself a profile on a social networking
site such as MySpace, Facebook (and I know Hyves is big in
the Netherlands) and start messaging women with it...guess
- Your profile will STILL be on that site when you're
asleep, so women can reply to your messages or message you
while you're in bed having sweet dreams.
- Your profile will STILL be on that site when you're at
work, so women can respond or send you something first while
you wash your company lunch down with a tasty beverage
- Your profile will STILL be on that site when you're on
vacation, so women can reply or message first while you're
on the beach enjoying the sun
Do you believe me now, when I say it really doesn't matter
how much you work, or are busy with school or on vacation
for that matter?
I used to have the exact same dillema: how do you meet women
while you have a very busy life? Then I discovered the way
to make meeting women while AT work..work..thanks to online
And once I did, I would get home after work, to consistently
find between 20 and 40 replies from beautiful, intellectual
and attractive women in my inbox..thanks to discovering
IMPORTANT insights of how profiles work that supercharged my
But WAIT - there's more...
How much women could you possibly meet and get the phone
number (or email or Instant Messenger) from in an hour when
you're outside on the streets or in a club?
Even if you're a world-class seduction expert who knows all
the secrets of attraction, you need to approach her, talk
to her, keep the conversation going, attract her, ask for
the number, etc.
So maybe you'll hit 20, and that's IF you're lucky enough to
find that many attractive women then and there.
But online? Attractive women are ALWAYS there..
If you know how to scan a woman's profile for something you
can create attraction with, you can message between 30 and
60 women PER HOUR depending on how fast you can type...
It's as simple as "using her own life against her" - her
hobbies, her interests, her likes, dislikes and looks...
And here's the beauty of it all: I have handcrafted a
step-by-step program that teaches you an insiders
kick-ass secrets for scanning a girl's profile, getting that
contact info thanks to your messages and TONS of
other timesaving tips...
It doesn't stop there though, because yeah...learning the
fanciest tricks in the book to get a phone number online
sounds nice... but it's useless if you DON'T know what to do
with that phone number afterwards to get a date... right?
That is why I created mindblowing lessons riddled with
hidden tactics for what to do AFTER you get that contact
info - phone, email or IM...it doesn't matter, because I'll
cover them ALL for you.
And if you want to know how to become a master of meeting
the hottest women out there with your profile too, women
that'll just make the competition and your buddies drewl and
envy you... and learn the techniques for meeting women online
so you can get rid off feeling miserable and alone because you
couldn't get a date before... then I highly recommend you check
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Fill in your details below now to find out out more about the Online Mentorship Program...
And I'll talk to you soon,
Your Friend Dennis Miedema