What To Say To A Woman
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QUESTION FROM A READER
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Hi Dennis, how are you mate? I just wanted to say thanks for sending
me the value formula mini-ebook, I've learned a lot from it about the
connection between dating success, social success and success career
wise and how I can let one of these areas boost the success I have in
the other two. I've never quite thought of it like you do, so thanks!
Your newsletter about confidence was really helpful as well, because
it made me realize what my sticking points are: what the stuff is that I
need to work on.
But now I'm finally over my fear of approaching women I have a new
problem: I have no clue about what to say to women, let alone what to
say to create attraction! I feel really stupid for saying it, but I'm in this
to win this so can you enlighten me?
David R, Manchester, United Kingdom
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MY COMMENTS
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It's annoying isn't it... getting the answer to a question, only to find out
that the answer raises even MORE questions.
But I can help... although I don't know about that "enlighten me" part,
because me and my seductive deeds are far from holy my friend...
No people like me are called bad boys... NOT holy boys hahaha!
When you want to know what to say to women, the first thing you should
do is attach no value at all to the first thing you say.
Why?
I've opened many, oh so many conversations with a simple and plain "Hi"
or a "Hello there, what's your name?" and then walked away with that
woman's phone number in my pocket.
The reason for this is simple: what you say first is a means to an end,
a way to start a conversation and it really doesn't matter how you do it...
Because a woman's first impression of you is based on how you react
to what SHE says or does after you started the conversation.
If this sounds vague to you, here's some proof that shows you how it works:
You: you see a woman who's trying to make eye contact with you,
you hold eye contact, smile, and she smiles back, and so you approach her
and say "Hi there, what's your name girl?"
She: "Hihi hi! I'm Isabella!"
This lady was making eye contact with you first and she even giggled when
you said something to her, which obviously shows she is interested in you.
Imagine what would happen if you would try to come up with all kinds of
fancy crap to say to her or to tease her, while she already showed her
interest...
Do you know what kind of a first impression you would make?
Like you're a total moron who has NO social intelligence AT ALL.
She's already interested, so all you have to do now is take care of logistics:
"I saw you looking at me and thought to myself: you can't look at me like
that without introducing yourself! And now that I know your name,
I'd like to get to know you better. Let's exchange numbers, then we can
grab a cup of coffee soon".
In doing so, you show her you're interested too, and that you're a dominant
guy who likes to get what he wants (and being dominant is VERY attractive)
So don't try and come up with some over-the-top story or question to say
to her just so you can start the conversation, because more often than not
when you've finally come up with something witty to say?
She's already gone.
Don't be locked inside your head over thinking things, over analyzing things,
but seize the moment and start that conversation... even if you only say "Hi"
you already won because you DID manage to approach her!
And now that you know that it's not what YOU say first, but how you react
to what SHE says first... let's take a look at playful teasing.
Playful teasing is a character trait that creates HUGE amounts of attraction,
no matter what age, class, or country a woman comes from... it's universally
attractive to women.
Here's why...
- Women are used to men chasing them around, showering them with
compliments, buying them gifts like flowers and chocolate, and so on...
but when you tease them?
You show them that you're one of the few men
who is NOT impressed with their looks, you show them that they need to
bring more to the table than that and that they have to make an effort
of getting YOU!
- Playful teasing is NEVER boring and ALWAYS fun... you show women
that you don't take yourself OR them too seriously, you give them
something else to talk about then their boring ass jobs, family or hobbies
(the things that all men ask them about)
Here's a quick example of playful teasing:
You: "Hello there, what's your name girl?"
She (hesitates a sec): "Uhhh..."
You: "Uhhh? Is that your REAL name, or are you suffering from Alzheimer
at such an early age that you've already forgotten who you are!?"
And BOOM... you just created attraction!
Let's have some fun with another example:
You: "Hello there, what's your name girl?"
She: "Hi! My name's Rashiva!"
You: "Rashiva? Isn't that one of those Hindu gods with 8 arms? Hey...
wait a second... what happened to your other arms!?"
You just created attraction part 2!
And if you want to learn how playful teasing can create tons of attraction for you and how it makes approaching women really easy 9 times out of 10
because all you have to do is react to women after you said "Hi",
then I think I've got something of interest for you...
My Simple Inner Game System will give you the EXACT words to say to women,
so you'll never be at a loss of words. It shows you how playful teasing and
4 other character traits that create attraction will do all the work FOR YOU while
you fork in as many phone numbers and dates as you want.
The Axe Effect Lifestyle where dozens of women will chase you around and
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SUCCESS STORY
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You're like the master of approaching women or sumthin master D!
I never knew walking up to women and starting conversations could
be this fun, but it is thanks to the playful teasing which you taught me
dog.
I use to have problems with getting to talking with women and man,
was I wrong about what to say to them. It was like we were from
different planets man! I was stumbling and choking up without any
words left to say all the time, but now it's no longer what women
say about me but what I say about them.
I feel more confident thanks to playful teasing and after I got your
Simple Inner Game System, my life hasn't been the same dog.
I got 6 phone numbers from women yesterday, 6 man, that's more
than I managed to get in the last 3 months! You're the top dog of "Inner Game" Dennis and I'm a big fan from now on.
Marvin C, Los Angeles, USA
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MY COMMENTS
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I don't know whether to say thanks or "woof woof!" right now, dog!
But you're right: it's never what women say about you, in fact,
I've dated and slept with more than enough women who started with
hating me, who called me rude and whatever... but who ended up
screaming my name in bed!
And if you're reading this right now thinking "I want to know what
to say to ANY woman at ANY time too?"
Then I highly recommend you check out my Simple Inner Game System
by clicking
the link below:
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I'm not saying you'll also be able to get 6 phone numbers a day, but
what would your life be like if you were able to get only half of that...
3 numbers a day? Or only 1/6th of that... a number a day? Imagine
how you would feel if you would be able to get that kind of success
with women...
Does it feel better than you're feeling now? If so, then click the link
above to check out my Simple Inner Game System and see how it
gives you access to the kind of success with women that you want.
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QUESTION FROM A READER
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D I got a question for you: when do I approach women?
Your techniques for what to say are very good but it is difficult for me
to find the right timing you know? When is it convenient for me
to approach a woman, when will I bother her? Isn't it rude to
stop a woman on the streets to start a conversation?
Ezio, Milan, Italy
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MY COMMENTS
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Stop right there...
Yes I'm serious, STOP.
Do not over think approaching a woman by asking yourself questions
like "will I bother her when I approach her now?"
Because there's only one way to find out, and that's by approaching!
You're thinking yourself almost to death there my friend, and most
men do that when they see a woman they're interested in.
Meanwhile, women practically open themselves!
What I mean by that?
There are probably a thousand ways, if not more, to use a situation
to your advantage... and using the situation gives you an easy way
to start the conversation.
Some examples below...
A woman is staring at a pair of boots that's being displayed in the
window, but walks away from it all of a sudden... so you can say:
- "No I wouldn't buy those boots if I were you either, you have more
style than that!"
- "Did the price tag of those boots scare you there? I wouldn't buy them
either for that price, unless they give me a plane ticket to Africa to go
with them!"
OR...
You're waiting for the bus, train, taxi, boat or some other kind of public
transportation and it's late... which always bums people out, including
women...
- "Let me see... sorry boss I'm late because the bus didn't drive.
Do you think he'll buy my excuse? And what's YOUR excuse missy?"
- "And then they wonder why they can't get everyone to use public
transporation... well, maybe because they never drop you off where
you need to be on time! Don't you agree?"
The standard reaction to these "situational openers" are always a laugh
and a nod in agreement, after which you can take the conversation
anywhere you want it to go...
Why not go ahead and use the playful teasing by accusing that chick
from the boots that she's broke and probably going to hustle someone
for money so she can come back and buy them? Why not accuse that
bus depot babe that the bus isn't late, but SHE is... by sleeping way
too long being the lazy ass that she really is?
And there you go: you´ll create attraction on the spot because of
the situation! All you have to do is OBSERVE what is happening all
around you to find the opportunities for approaching women...
And if you want any situation to create attraction FOR YOU so you can
easily meet as much new women as you want, then I highly recommend
you check out my
Simple Inner Game System.
It gives you a step-by-step method for saying what you need to say
to start conversations, to boost the attraction, and to get a woman´s
number so you can take her out on a date.
You´ll be surprised at how many situations can be turned into
an opportunity to start living the Axe Effect Lifestyle. More and more
women will be drawn into your life... all eager to hang out with you,
all hoping you´ll kiss them, and ALL of them chasing you around!
If that´s the kind of lifestyle you want to life, the life that you DESERVE, then check out my
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SUCCESS STORY
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Your situational openers rule! Dennis I was waiting in front of the
elevator at work yesterday and this hot Asian woman joined me.
We were waiting and waiting and then I thought about what you said.
So I said to her "Then you think you´ll take the elevator early so
you won´t come back from your lunchbreak too late, but the elevator
never comes!" She laughed and I continued "but the stairs are right
next to the elevator, so why haven´t you taken the stairs yet? You´re
not a stalker are you?"
By the time the elevator came, I already had her phone number in
my pocket! Playful teasing really works well in these kinds of situations.
After that I went back to my cubicle after the elevator adventure, and
the cute secretary of the boss was waiting for me and asked if I could
help her with this report that was due today. I showed empathy for
her stress levels haha, but then I accused her of being a lazy ass who
should have started earlier than the day before. Got her digits too!
Consider me hooked to your newsletters from now on, because this
stuff works really well. I´m buying your System later this weekend.
Andrew, Grand Junction, USA
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MY COMMENTS
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You did all of that in 2 days? Wow... I´m impressed! You´re on a roll
buddy. Keep going at it like this and you´ll be making me jealous of
your success...
You lucky basterd you! I´m proud of you man.
And if you´re reading this and thinking: "I want to be just like that guy,
like Andrew!" Then I highly recommend you take a minute to check out my
Simple Inner Game System by clicking the link below:
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And I'll talk to you soon,
Your Friend Dennis Miedema