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Why Most Men Fear Hot Women... And What To Do About It |
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You know, my first girlfriend EVER cheated on me. The second? Broke my heart by breaking up with me when I was going through some tough times...and the third? The third played me for my money... This was all before I ever knew what I was doing, and it hurt so bad...I never felt so lonely in my entire life. It was before I knew what worked and what DIDN'T work when it came to meeting and dating women. And because of my insanely evil exes (aren't they all?), I began to FEAR women...began to fear approaching them. Hell, I became nervous as soon as a woman got physically close to me and I would always find ways to AVOID it... What do you mean..."just walk up to them and talk?" I couldn't even open my mouth out of sheer anxiety, let alone say some words! After all this drama, I swore I would get the women and dating part of my life handled, I read dozens of books on attraction, tried picking up women in clubs all over town with the craziest and lamest lines I could think of just to see what would work and other things I'm too embarrassed to talk about... But the FEAR of approaching women was always there..stalking me, haunting me even in my dreams...it would NOT go away! Then I met this very pretty girl out of Eastern Europe, she was (and still is) the queen of flirting...a female seducer. I was very much attracted to her, but instead of trying to date her, I asked myself: how much could I learn from a FEMALE seducer? So I befriended her...and it was the best decision I ever made during those days! Why? Which is that we need to STOP thinking from our own perspective and identify with HERS. Here's the story: instead of thinking about YOUR own fears, you should identify with the opposite perspective..with how SHE feels...and realize that: 1) Before a hot woman goes out, she needs to match her shoes with her purse and probably her belt too, she needs to do her hair..and they have LONG hair which takes hours to wash, comb, style and so on...she needs to put on mascara, blush, lipstick, eyeliner... In total, that's like an HOUR or maybe even TWO hours she spends in front of the mirror...do you REALLY think she would spend all that time in front of that damn mirror, only to go out and NOT even be appreciated for her beauty ? Hell no. She CRAVES to be appreciated for it, for someone to notice all the work she put in...and that's your job my friend - APPRECIATE her beauty. Because while you fear approaching her, SHE fears she did all of the stuff I mentioned for ZERO appreciation, for nothing... And did you know that... 2) The better something looks in the eyes of us men, the more we want it and the harder we think we can get it: the most beautiful women, Ferrari's, silk suits?... And we all think: it would be so friggin' awesome to have that stuff, but we can't afford it...we don't DESERVE it. The same goes for the hottest women out there: we automically ASSUME they're taken (because they're so hot), we ASSUME she's hard to get (because everybody wants her).. And we decide to leave her alone because she probably already has a man or we're out of her league. But guess what? You think it, the next man thinks that, and that guy way over there too... The result: MOST men leave her alone except for the extremely confident ones, which means that she'll feel ALONE most of the time. Alone as in lonely...alone as in: I WANT to be approached, to meet a guy who DOES have the balls! And it gets better...because gosh, would she be nervous when some guy finally does approach her after she's been left alone for a while...and she doesn't want to screw things up because of it? Duhhh. SHE's nervous too! That's just for starters, because there are many more reasons for why fearing women or fearing the approach is IRRATIONAL. And if you want to discover other street-wise insights of
why this is so, thorny techniques that take the sting out of
ANY woman's defenses and other awe-inspiring strategies
for meeting women that will sweep them off of their feet...
guaranteed! And I'll talk to you soon,
P.S. how much women could you possibly talk to when you
were put in Hugh Hefners Playboy Mansion for a day... maybe
20, 30, or 40? That's great, but what if you could talk to
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What if you could do that, get their number within minutes, and
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