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Attracting Women With Foreignality

Posted by Carlos | Posted in Attract women | Posted on 13-12-2008

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Frankly, EVERYBODY wants to be unique. NO ONE wants to be part of ‘the herd’. This is why foreign women attract us so much: by their background alone they stand out in the crowd, in the so called herd. You and I find them exotic, mysterious even, because there’s something unique and unknown about them…an X-FACTOR if you will.

Many men try to generate attraction using their ‘own’ x-factor, by TRYING to be perceived as unique. However, as it turns out…MOST attempts at being unique aren’t unique AT ALL! Women hear things like you have such beautiful eyes, you’re gorgegous, is heaven missing an angel because…from men who are strangers to them ALL THE TIME. If you’re one of those people who ever tried these ‘canned opening lines’, you’ll know the result: little to NO succes.

Now let me ask you: have you EVER tried to get the most out of HER uniqueness, her x-factor? When looking to create uniqueness in her eyes…have you EVER thought about using her own uniqueness AGAINST her, about polarizing it, with the result of creating your OWN uniqueness while you haven’t even talked about yourself yet? Your answer will most likely be no…and that’s …

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Being Sexual…Is A Gentleman’s Game

Posted by Carlos | Posted in Attract women | Posted on 13-12-2008

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You know…some people tell me I tease women too much, bust their balls too often or whatever you want to call it and that it’s very “beginner” of me to tease women the way that I do…and I don’t blame those dumb asses for not knowing me that well.

There are…also some people who think being sexual (one of the attractive character traits) is about being naughty and talking about sex all day…and I don’t blame THOSE dumb asses for knowing SEXUALITY not that well…

And today, I want to straigthen some things out and talk to all you readers out there about being sexual…and we’ll kick this series off with being a gentleman.

But Wait A Damn Minute! Isn’t Being A Gentleman, Being A WUSSY?

If you ONLY knew…because if there wasn’t no sex going on AT ALL during the 1800s, 1900s and so on because there was no attraction? YOU would not be alive today because of your dry spell great great grandfather!

You see, being sexual is always looked upon as “one thing” instead of TWO very unique mindsets. We have…
- The badboy mindset – raw sexuality, sex topics, being naughty, hard
- The gentleman mindset …

Is Learning How To Attract Women Ethical?

If you’re wondering whether learning how to attract women is manipulating them or not, then keep reading…

Frankly, in my opinion? Learning how to attract women is not manipulating them. NOT learning is!

Because would you give your best friend flowers, take him out to dinner, give him cholocate, give him compliments for the way he looks all the time, and the whole nine yards? Hell no.

So, what are you doing if you do this for women? You’re acting in a completely different way than the way you normally act around your male friends. THAT’S manipulation.

Learning how to attract women by using the character traits you already have isn’t manipulation however, because it’s simply trying to achieve your full potential. What’s wrong with that? It’s being yourself for crying out loud!

And now we got that out of the way, let’s look at some of the common mistakes men make when they want to attract women…

Common Mistakes That Don’t Attract Women

Let’s check out some obvious and not so obvious mistakes you’re guaranteed to make when trying to learn how you can attract women:

1) One of the biggest secrets of attracting women most men will never know is that because you think getting a woman is hard, you try HARDER when her interest in you seems to be lower than before. It’s the logical thing to do, but attraction is based on nothing logical. It’s based on emotions, so when you do your best and a woman puts you to the test? Do less! Being harder to get than everyone else gets you the girl.

2) There are a 1000-and-1 ways to attract women, but there’s no need to learn them all. The less experience you have with women and the more you learn… the more you’ll be confused and the less you’ll do! So, find one thing that works and keep doing what works ad infinitum (until you drop dead to the ground).

3) Although there are things (character traits) that attract women of all ages, shapes, sizes, and races? No woman is the same as the one before her. That means that while they all respond to playful teasing, an attractive character trait, some women respond very well to it and others only barely because of their experiences in life. So know that if you want to attract women, better said ANY women, you have to adapt to who she is to do it…

And if you want to know more about getting women beyond attracting women, like how to ask them out for a first date, what to do on a date, and more? Then I highly recommend you check out our page with a list of all the best tips on how to get with a girl.

Anyways, I hope you found my thoughts on how to attract women useful. Make sure to stay tuned to the Win With Women blog, because there are more tips coming soon!

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women