The Friends Zone

Every guy knows the friends zone. Everyone that likes a girl needs to stay out or get out, so here’s how to beat the friends zone and get the girl too!

And, contrary to popular belief, getting out of the friends zone ISN’T done by working harder to “get the girl” and/or by pleasing her more… oh no… it’s the complete opposite of both of these things.

As a matter of fact, doing too much is what got you in the horrible friends zone you’re in right now. Read the blog post about the friends zone below right away to learn more…
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Getting Out of The Friends Zone Is Easy With These 4 Rules

Posted by Carlos Xuma | Posted in The Friends Zone | Posted on 06-11-2010

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Getting out of the friends zone is what my but should have done 5 years ago after I met Shirley. And so should you. Get out of it. NOW. Prevent the pain. How?

Good question! Here’s an in-your-face solution to getting out of the friends zone:

Getting Out Of The Friends Zone: Accept You’re In It First

Being stuck in the friends zone sucks, so I know how you feel. It happens to the best of them so don’t beat yourself up about it. Accept that you’re in the friends zone right now and only then you can do something about it, because millions of men are in the denial phase… and still chasing the same chick 6 months from now like I did with Shirley.

Here’s the story of how I did NOT get out of the friends zone with Shirley…

I met her on a friend’s birthday party. Dark hair, dark eyes. Hot. Just the way I like them. She was funny too, so I chased her around. She was hard to get, but I didn’t care. I had to have her.

Have you ever chased that hard to get girl that seemed to be the woman …

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Why Learn About The Friends Zone?

Look man, you can either pretend to be a girl’s best friend and stay in the friends zone, thinking she’ll see just what a great guy you are… or…

You can live in reality for a change.

Because the moment you’re NOT a sexual threat to a woman anymore? The moment you try to get her with likability instead of attraction (which is sexual tension)?

Is the moment you’ll stay in the friends zone and get your heart broken when she starts dating another man who IS a sexual threat to her. There is no way in hell you can get the girl and keep her by trying to please her.

So, man up and date her or be her b*tch and don’t get laid.

Take your pick.

You learn how to get out of the friends zone to earn back your self-respect, because you’re definitely NOT respecting yourself when you’re doing everything for a girl with nothing to show for it.

Secondly, learning how getting out of the friends zone is done puts you on track to move out of this danger zone for good… so that it’ll never happen to you again.

And the reason why most regular guys like you and me end up in there in the first place is ignorance. Not knowing. Not seeing.

The reason why most men end up in the friends zone is because they don’t see the difference between sexual communication… and “normal” communication.

This let’s you make some common mistakes that’ll get you trapped in the friends zone you’re now trying to get out of.

Common Mistakes That Create The Friends Zone

Let’s check out some examples below of the mistakes that let you end up in the friends zone…

1) Don’t always be available. If you respond directly after you receive a text from her, do whatever she asks you to do, try to be around her as much as possible like you have no life of your own, and so on? Your value to her goes down. Way down. It’s like when gold would be lying on the street everywhere, then it wouldn’t be so freaking valuable, would it?

2) Don’t accept everything if you want to stay out of the friends zone. If she says something you would punch a guy in the face for (that’s how insulting or hurtful emotionally it is), then confront her with it. If she does something you think is not cool, confront her with it. Don’t accept second class behavior. In short: no special treatment. Treat her like you would treat a stranger on the bus.

3) Keep doing you. If she says A is correct but you fanatically support B, don’t change your opinion to please her. If she thinks your friends sucks, then tough luck missy… it’s your friend not hears. In short: don’t bend the rules for her. Stick to what you always do and if she doesn’t like it? She can go. There’s the door honey. Bye!

Be honest about these mistakes that let a guy end up in the friends zone: you’ve made some of them, haven’t you? Maybe even all of them?

But don’t worry, because if you want to know a step-by-step way to getting out of the friends zone, then just check out the blog post of your interest above to learn more about how to do it.

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women