Some women love playing hard to get, others are just not interested. So how can you tell the difference? When is she playing hard to get? Find out!
And, maybe even more important, let’s see what we can do about women who are playing hard to get so you can date them without much effort, shall we?
Check out the blog post about playing hard to get below to see if you’re dealing with one of those hard to get women or a woman who doesn’t want you…
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Posted by Carlos Xuma | Posted in Playing hard to get | Posted on 12-10-2010
Is she playing hard to get, or not? Most regular guys like you and me don’t have a clue. What can you do to know if she’s playing hard to get? Let’s find out…
It’s the age old “she likes me, she likes me not” situation. I’ve asked myself many times: “Is she playing hard to get? Why do I fail to figure her out?”
Have you ever felt frustrated because you seriously don’t have ANY clue about what a woman feels for you? Confused by her games and behavior? We’ve all been there my friend, hell, people don’t say “all is fair in love and war” for nothing!
But today I want to show you WHAT playing hard to get actually means, what’s the reason why hard to get women do what they do, and how to STOP a woman playing games.
It’s time to put all the confusion to rest, don’t you think?
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Why Learn About Women Who Are Playing Hard To Get?
In case you’re wondering: “why should I learn when women are playing hard to get sooner rather than later?” Here’s your answer:
Ninety percent of the times when a guy gives up on a woman and moves on to the next one, she’s actually TESTING him instead of rejecting him!
First off, she wants to know if you’re trying to randomly pick up women OR if you’re genuinely interested in her as a person (not her body), so she starts playing hard to get.
Secondly, purely from a genetic perspective? A strong man increases the chances of survival of a woman’s genes and her offspring’s genes. Therefore, testing a man to see if he’s strong increases the chances the genes will survive. So, it’s to the benefit of the human species that women test.
Thinking along those lines, women are playing hard to get even when they really like you to see if you’re strong enough. Thousands of years ago that meant physically strong enough, but these days it means confidence. Mental strength.
So, don’t be impressed by a test in the form of her ignoring you, saying “NO”, turning her back on you, even pushing you away. She’s just playing hard to get.
Now, the ONLY time when a woman is not interested is when you call her or text her… and she doesn’t answer the phone or text back. Then, when you call or text later on, she still doesn’t reply or does so with generic, boring replies that sound like she’s having a lot of fun (I’m being sarcastic here).
That’s when you know she’s not interested instead of one of those hard to get women: when she doesn’t reply or text at all when you try… or stops replying altogether.
Just to be sure you don’t blow your own chances with hard to get women by thinking they’re not interested, you’ll find some quick tips on how to spot women playing hard to get from a mile away…
Quick Tips To Spot Hard To Get Women
Here are some tips on recognizing women who are playing hard to get:
- When you think a woman isn’t interested, do a little test. Start teasing her with anything you can think of and after 5-10 minutes or so, tell her that you know she likes you. If she starts laughing, denying or saying maybe then she’s playing hard to get, because women who REALLY don’t like you will say something along the lines of “Ielll, get away from me!” Surprise, surprise: not as many women actually end up saying it.
- Women who DO reply but take a long time to reply are playing hard to get too, because even if they have busy lives… anyone has the time to at least send a freaking text messages. That only takes a minute!
- Women who always reply to texts, Facebook messages, calls, and so on but never initiate contact themselves. As long as they keep replying they’re interested and playing hard to get, because they simply don’t want you to think of them as desperate for reaching out to you.
- Women who you approach in the club or bar and who end up ignoring you instead of walking away are testing you
And now you know the difference between playing hard to get and disinterest, hard to get women and women who aren’t into you…
Do you want to know how to ask one of those hard to get women for her number? How to go on a first date and beyond with women who are playing hard to get, maybe even start a relationship?
Then I highly recommend you check out our page on how to get with a girl
, which includes tips for all the phases of meeting and dating women: approaching, attracting, getting numbers, dealing with objections, dates… and the whole nine yards.
That’s all I have to say about women who are playing hard to get
, for now, but stay tuned to the Win With Women blog for more free tips!
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