Any guy knows approaching women is hard, but it’s only hard to start learning yet easy to master approaching. Find out why and what to do about it!
Learning how approaching women is done always starts with that much feared word, doesn’t it? The word I’m talking about is, of course, REJECTION. The fear of approaching women.
But once you learn why you’re too afraid to approach women and how you can overcome your approach anxiety, striking up conversations with women you’ve never seen before gets easy and gets easy FAST.
I can almost hear you think right now: “So how can I learn to stop being too scared to approach women then? And what are the best ways to do it? What should I say?”
My answer: keep reading below to learn more about the art of approaching women…
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Posted by Carlos Xuma | Posted in Approaching women | Posted on 15-01-2011
Want to know how to approach a girl you like and not become paralyzed with fear at the thought of talking to her? And are you TERRIFIED of approaching girls?
Let’s find out if you’re too scared to approach a girl you like! And then let’s do something about it, so you’ll know how to approach a girl you like, and get her number too, from this day forward.
But before I show you how to approach a girl you like though, it’s time to ask tough questions about approaching girls…
- Do you feel you don’t have the courage to step up to a girl you find attractive?
- Are you confused about what to say, even if you would grow the balls to approach?
- Do you freeze, get all tongue-tied and eventually give up when you try to start a conversation?
- Are you so scared she’ll reject you, that you decide to never approach her?
- Do you feel like you can’t take any more rejection?
- Are you clueless about how to approach a girl you like?
If this is you, then I have to say: I know where you’re coming from. I was …
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Posted by Carlos | Posted in Approaching women | Posted on 10-05-2010
Romantic types always say this about women and compliments: compliments work, but is that really the case? Let’s find out the truth about compliments!
Single men all over the planet have been disagreeing about it for dozens of years: women and compliments, they go hand in hand. No they don’t, etc. It’s about time we end the debate, wouldn’t you agree?
NO… this won’t be a let love in, gayish speech. This blog post about women and compliments right here will give you no-nonsense advice on when to use compliments.
So, do women and compliments go hand in hand? Or do compliments make women run away from you as fast as they freaking can?
First things first: let’s talk about the mistakes most single men make when they want to know how to get that girl they’re after… and throw billions of compliments at her!
This is familiar stuff for the critics, but keep on reading if you’re one of them because I do present new stuff…
Women And Compliments Mistake #1: You’re Not A Cannon…
A lot of men ask me why a woman just want to be friends with them after they were open to her about …
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Posted by Carlos | Posted in Approaching women | Posted on 10-04-2010
As a dating coach it’s only right that I share with you some of the “rookie mistakes” many of my students make when they try to approach women.
Why? So YOU won’t make the same mistakes as they’ve made of course!
I’ve coached over 600+ men with achieving dating success in 2008 and 2009 combined… and the moment I told them about these things not do? Was the moment they started getting a LOT more results with women, because everything gets much easier once you handle the fear of walking up to a woman to start a conversation.
Here’s the juicy secret: you’ll find out that women aren’t that scary once you actually start talking to them.
Anyways, here’s my top 10 things NOT to do when approaching women…
#1 Don’t Do A “Random Pick Up”
This one deserves the number one spot of most common mistakes of approaching women, hands down!
You see, women absolutely LOVE bad boys for lots of reasons… but they HATE players. Better said: no one wants to feel like they’re not important, like they don’t matter, like they’re far from unique and just one out of many… and women are no different. They don’t …
Why Learning About Approaching Women Is Important
If you’re wondering whether you really need my advice on how to approach women or not, then listen carefully to what I’m about to say…
- Starting a conversation is half the battle. If you never talk to her, you’ll never know if she was interested in you even before you said “Hi” (trust me, it happens a lot) or not…
- Overcoming your fear of talking to strangers in general, and women in particular, means you’ll become more social and talkative wherever you are. Think about the potential benefits of learning how approaching women is done here: finding it easier to talk to your boss (to ask for a raise), making new friends a whole lot faster, etc.
- Let’s say you haven’t met your dream girl yet and let’s assume she exist, then wouldn’t NOT being able to approach women prevent you from ever talking to her? And wouldn’t some practice in the art of approaching women
mean you’ll be ready for her when you meet her? You know I’m right!
And there you go.
That’s why it’s a good idea to learn about approaching.
Oh, and did I mention it’s so much fun to know you can walk up to pretty much any woman and have a great time talking to her already?
And if you want to know more about what you can do to get women AFTER you’ve approached them, then be sure to check out our page about how to get with a girl
Hope you liked my blog posts on approaching women
and, if you don’t mind, this caffeine junkie who didn’t sleep too well last night is going to get himself a half a liter can of Redbull.
To More Dating Success,
Win With Women