What’s Cocky And Funny? Using Humor To Attract Women…
When it comes to creating attraction, there are 3 magic words you need to know: cocky and funny. But what is cocky and funny anyway? How does it work?
Today I want to talk about the inventor of cocky and funny and how the technique of cocky & funny itself works.
Who is this inventor, this giant among men? None other than David De Angelo, the dating guru behind the wickedly successfull cocky and funny technique and Double Your Dating programs.
YOU may have not heard of him yet, but everyone reading this with an interest in the community certainly has… or bought his stuff. David D. got famous for his Cocky And Funny conversational technique, so guess what I’ll be talking about today?
There’s The Funny In Cocky And Funny
Am I like a telepathic mindreader or what? Because I know what you’re thinking: so should I be a clown now, a comedian that entertains her…because I “have to be funny?” NO, because women are turned off by clowns who are cracking jokes all day just to get attention.
Being funny the Cocky And Funny way means that you are:
– Being playful
– Giving double meanings to everything
– Using worldpay
– Using exaggeration
…to create humor, which in turns creates ATTRACTION. Why? Let’s first take a look at a few examples of being cocky and funny and THEN I will explain the psychology behind it for you:
Misinterpreting and double meaning…is accusing her of having a dirty mind after she says anything about: balls, long objects, sticks, saucages, getting wet (because of the rain or something else), bedtime, cucumbers, joysticks, etc.
She (it’s raining): “oh nooo! My new pants are getting all wet!”
Me: “Don’t you think it’s kinda awkward to do it in the rain? You superfreak you! I’d rather go and seek shelter from the rain”
She: (yawning) “it’s bedtime!”
Me: “Excuuuse you? If you want to sleep with me, you could AT LEAST take me out to dinner first!”
She (while we’re playing pool): “yeah I’m very good at this!”
Me: “Very good at what? Holding a stick…or handling balls?” (with a slight smile on my face)
Why does this being cocky and funny stuff work here? Because the difference between becoming FRIENDS and becoming LOVERS is… being sexual! And when you give her all kinds of sexual innuendo like this? You are letting her now you are sexual, and you’re activating her sexuality…
Using exaggeration…is blowing things all the way up when it comes to age, weight, height and so forth or when a girl complains about her clothing.
Me (to a shorter than average woman): “I like shorties, so how tall are you…about 1,40?” (meters)
Me (online to a girl who looks really young): “I saw on your profile that you’re 25, but tell me..I promise to keep it a secret…how old are you REALLY with that babyface of yours? 9?”
She: “These pants suck! They don’t really fit and I look horrible in them!”
Me: “I wasn’t going to say anything, but you took the words right out of my mouth honey!”
> Why does it work? Everyday life is BORING to us: obligations, daily routines…most of us never get to go somewhere interesting, meet someone interesting or DO something interesting, and we CRAVE for an escape, something that will make us feel ALIVE. And when you’re exggerating, you’re being outrageous: out of the ordinary, exciting, someone interesting..which will make YOU become HER escape out of mindnumbing boredom…
Clue #1: being Cocky And Funny is showing you have a sense of humor, that you’re a sexual creature and that you’re FAR from the boring, lame and predictable men who talk about their work all day…nope, you’re EXCITING, the things you DO with her become exciting (both mentally and sexually), and you take her to exciting places because you MAKE them exciting.
Because of it, you’ll become the one guy in her life who actually makes her FEEL alive, FEEL sexual, and provides her with an escape from total boredom.
You’re also showing her that you don’t take life TOO seriously and yourself TOO seriously: everything is done in a playful spirit, and everybody likes to play even long after they’ve outgrown childhood…because it makes things FUN to do again. So the funny part of C&F ALONE multiplies the attraction you’re building…
…And Then There’s The Cocky In Cocky And Funny
I know what you’re thinking: should I play the arrogant dude now? The overly confident guy who’s cocky all the time and struts his stuff or something? NO, because women are turned off by men who are being arrogant…UNLESS they’re really funny.
Being cocky the Cocky And Funny way means that you’re:
– Playing hard to get
– Being indifferent towards her
– Making fun of her
– Busting her balls as much as possible
And you do all this in a way that makes them think you’re being serious, but you leave a shadow of doubt..but WHY?
Let’s take a look at female psychology shall we? There is no doubt in my mind that once I have explained this to you, that you will know for sure how being cocky and funny creates attraction.
Playing hard to get…is like turning the tables around on women, because usually THEY play hard to get. Why? First, there’s the biological (sexual) reason: us men can hump around all we want without any major physical consequences (except for sexually transmitted diseases off course), because WE don’t get pregnant while women do.
When women have unprotected sex they get pregnant for 9 months, which means that DURING those 9 months they’re less and less able to provide for themselves: it gets harder to move around because of their big ass belly, they lose focus because of the kicking baby, mood swings and an all devouring need for food.
Meanwhile, she will need to DEPEND on others for food and protection sooner or later because she CAN’T do it herself.
Do you understand what this means? Don’t worry, this all has a point: explaining why cocky and funny works.
It means that, relatively speaking, women take a MUCH HIGHER RISK when they have sex compared to men. During pregnancy, they can’t earn money, they can’t have a life of their own, they can’t get food for themselves and the baby…so they HAVE to be selective about who they meet, date and have sex with or they’ll be dependent on others for food, shelter, protection and money for their entire lives!
Next to this, there’s the gene pool thing: when women wouldn’t be selective about who they would date and had babies with the first guy they meet next …our species would DIE.
Why? And how does this relate to cocky and funny?
Because when we do NOT select the fittest mate to reproduce with, then the chances for the genes to survive will DECLINE. When we do select the fittest mate however, we have a higher chance of survival, we can reproduce more offspring and thus…the survival of the species is secured. THAT’S why women are selective: it’s in their nature, and we shouldn’t blame ’em.
But guess what happens when you turn things around and are being selective by making fun of her and her ways, when you’re playing hard to get, and are being indifferent towards her attempts to get closer to you?
Then instead of HER being the object of desire, who’s chased after and wanted and because of it has to be selective…now YOU are becoming the object of desire, that gets chased after and is wanted, desirable, which is why YOU have to be selective. This is what being cocky and funny is all about dude…
Clue #2 about being cocky and funny: by being Cocky And Funny, you ALSO show a woman that you’re selective…BECAUSE women chase after you, you’re an object of desire etc. This lets her know that SHE has competition, and will need to win you over because she can have you all to herself..plus that you’re comfortable around women, have lots of them around you, and that you know how to treat them.
It also shows her that you are NOT intimidated by her LOOKS (or presence), which 99% of the men are…and that you’re talking to her about who she IS and what she DOES instead of how she looks (like the vast majority of men do)…and these ALL create massive quantities of ATTRACTION.
Do you see now why being cocky and funny is so effective if you want to attract women?
And if you would like to get access to more state of the art strategies for improving your conversations with cuties, your dating, to meet more women…and to “pimp” the quality of your very LIFE for that matter because you WON’T have to settle for women anymore but will finally be able to CHOOSE who you’ll be with..
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P.P.S. I started to learn how to meet and date women all by myself 5 years ago by befriending naturals who were naturally good with women…on the streets, in clubs and bars and even in groups. It reminds me of a funny story…
Funny story: my dear friend Patrick is a MENACE when it comes to meeting women in groups, and he regularly manages to have instant parties at his house, threesomes and even foursomes. How he did it? He invented his own version of Cocky and Funny. That’s how powerful it can be. Learn more about what to say and using humor to attract women HERE.