Posted by Carlos | Posted on 02-02-2010
Sending flirty text messages has some MAJOR advantages over calling women too!
Think about it… is a flirt through text messages the only way to meet & date women with words? Or is there more to learning to send flirty text messages?
Yes there is!
See, there are these little things called online dating and Instant Messengers (IM) like MSN Messenger or Yahoo Messenger as well. Getting better at creating attraction with words works three ways: you´ll get better at texting, online dating AND using IM to get numbers and to get dates.
Online dating is the one to look out for, because it allows you to meet women whenever you can´t go outside (example: you´re at work, at school, or sick or it´s too cold outside) and get their phone numbers. You can them call and text them to set up a date, so by learning how to flirt through text messages, you get more numbers AND more dates on a regular basis thanks to the internet!
Anyways, let’s take a look at how to send flirty text messages already, before I go on and on… and on about online dating! Text messages are so easy to write and make women think about you the whooole day, especially when you use emoticons…
How To Flirt Through Text Messages By Using Emoticons
Normally, when you talk to someone they understand the meaning of what you’re saying thanks to your body language. On the phone, it’s all about voice tone. With text messages though, you don’t have that much to convey meaning with: no voice, no body, just letters…
And that has consequences when you want to flirt through text messages:
- If you try to flirt through text messages without being clear about the meaning, a woman might misunderstand and think you’re insulting her, being rude, being way too serious, etc. and that’s NOT good.
- If you text anyone, you only have a limited amount of space. More on that later, but what it means is that you have to put more meaning in a smaller space which can be tricky to do.
The best way to prevent both problems and to give extra meaning to everything you say is… drumroll please… using emoticons.
Didn’t see that one coming huh? But emoticons are great to use to flirt through text messages.
Enough kidding around. If you don’t know what emoticons are then I seriously wonder where you’ve been for the last 20 years or so, but just in case: they’re small smilie faces that you can insert into your text message.
So what meaning can you give your flirty text messages with emotions? How do you create attraction with these emoticons I talk about?
The easiest thing I can come up if you want to flirt through text messages, is letting a woman know you’re not being serious but are teasing her, but there are many other things you can do with emoticons so let’s look at the best emoticons and how you can use ‘em:
– a smilie face with it’s tongue sticking out. It shows you’re definitely not serious but in a playful mood, ready to tease her with something. The great thing about this emoticon is that you can get away with saying pretty much everything when you put it behind your sentence.
Example of talking to a woman who isn’t as tall as you are: “so how tall are you? Are you even allowed entry to any rollercoaster because of your height? :P”
Another one: “Hey midget :P, how are you today?”
I think I rest my case: using as a tool for adding more meaning to your playful teases will give you more success with text messages. Hell, the emoticon is THE best thing to use to send flirty text messages that create attraction…
– a smilie face that’s carrying a big smile around. Although most people use it whenever you’re excited or happy about something, I use it in an entirely different way. I use to playfully make fun of a woman who is being a bit too hateful towards me and to show her that I don’t take her comment seriously AT ALL. Now THAT is how you flirt through text messages!
Say a woman teases you back, makes a sort of rude remark about you or whatever, then I’ll send her some flirty text messages saying stuff like “and I love you too honey! :D”. This makes a complete fool out of her and her teasing… works every time!
More Emoticons To Use In Your Flirty Text Messages
(A) – a smilie face with a little halo above it: an angel. On most phones you won’t see the actual smilie being displayed, but the vast majority of people knows what (A) stands for. I use it to pretend like I’m being sweet and innocent while I’m far from it with what I just said.
Say a woman accuses me of being mean or evil, something like that… then I’ll text “evil? ME? But… I’m innocent! I’m my mommy’s little angel! (A)”
Or even better: using (A) when I ask something in return for doing something for her or giving her something. When she asks me what I want in return I’ll text “ohhh… 3 kisses will do just fine (A)” and over time I want more and more outrageous stuff in return. One time I asked a girl to give ma a striptease, lapdance, and a kiss or ten if I would help her download this movie she wanted… and she did it. Thanks to (A).
You shouldn’t bombard a woman with emoticons though by using one every half of a sentence because it pretty much takes away all the impact. Only use it like 3-4 times in one text message, which will be more than enough.
That’s how to flirt through text messages dude!
Want To Know More About How To Send Flirty Text Messages?
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You can also check out another post of mine with many examples of what to text a girl. It will reveal all the insights you need to know if you want to learn how to flirt through text messages.
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To More Dating Success,
Win With Women
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