What happens if my dating tips help you get a successful date? That’s right: porn-like sex! But for that to happen, you need to know how to please your girlfriend in bed first!

But first, let’s get something straight about how to please your girlfriend here…

When I say please your girlfriend in bed, I mean the woman you’re in a relationship with for months or years. But I also mean a girlfriend for 1 night…

Hell, even if you want some advice for all twenty of your girlfriends. It’s fine with me. I don’t judge.

Whether you’re an one night stand man or a relationship man, I don’t care. I’m just the guy giving sex advice.

So, let’s get started with that advice for how to please your girlfriend better then, shall we?

How To Please Your Girlfriend In Bed Tip 1: Don’t Be A Wussy

Maybe this sounds obvious, but it’s not. Here’s why…

1) 90% of the men out there today focus on a woman’s pleasure. They want to make sure she has an orgasm, because they think that tells them they’re great lovers. This is NOT how to please your girlfriend, because you’ll screw up in bed (no pun intended) and you’ll find out why a bit later on…

2) Most regular guys like you and me also ask “does that feel good to you?” and similar questions several times. The worst question to ask in the world: “did you come?” Why so insecure about whether you can please your girlfriend or not?

3) Guys also tend to ask women to change position or to do something, instead of telling women or simply putting them where they need to be.

Have you ever felt like you need to achieve in bed? Ever had problems with getting it up because you felt too much pressure to please a woman in bed?

Don’t lie now, be honest: You’re beating yourself up about the fact that you don’t know how to please your girlfriend in bed!

The #1 cause of feeling anxiety to achieve in bed is focusing on HER pleasure and on if you’re doing things the right way. That’s when you think too much. Stop overthinking it and start enjoying it!

And the 3 mistakes in bed I told you about before can be summarized in one sentence: don’t try to get approval from a woman in bed. It turns her off BIG TIME. If you want to know how to please your girlfriend in bed, then know that this is how to FUCK IT UP!

Don’t ask anything and tell women what to do in bed. Hell, don’t even tell them and physically put them where they need to be. Want a different position? Take her hand and put her in that freaking position!

Why is this one of the best things to learn if you want to know how to please your girlfriend?

Women want to meet and date “real” men: dominant, non-approval seeking, confident…

And if they want that with dating already, they REALLY want it in bed. Women don’t want a wussy in bed, ever. They want a gentleman on the street and a beast in the bed just like we want a lady in the street and a freak in the bed…

So if you want to know how to please your girlfriend in bed?

– You don’t ask, you do
– You don’t focus on her pleasure (too much)
– You don’t think about sex or during sex, you enjoy the damn moment

Doing these 3 simple things and knowing why is the first step to pleasing your girlfriend in bed. Hell, it’s the first step towards having pornstar-like sex!

And YES! I said the first step, because there’s more…

Last Longer In Bed To Please Your Girlfriend Better

I have always wanted to last longer in bed. I’ve been practising it for years and I have much sex advice to share with you to please your girlfriend in bed…

And although women usually don’t climax just by having sex, they really enjoy having it! That’s why it’s not a bad idea to try and last longer in bed.

Here are several ways to last longer and please your girlfriend better:

1) The moment you feel like you’re almost going to climax? STOP! Take your penis out of her and leave it out of there for 10 seconds. Then go back in. We can only climax with continuous stimulation. Those 10 seconds are just long enough for us to need stimulation from start to finish again. In short: you will last longer in bed with these extra seconds.

2) Different positions require different amounts of effort. Don’t be stupid by doing her while standing and then going doggystyle. Why is that being stupid? Because you need lots of energy and a muscular sixpack for both positions. You will get tired or get cramps and that’s a sure fire way to screw the sex up. No climax then buddy! So switch it up: go from a position that’s physically heavy for you (doggy) to one that’s heavy for her (her on top facing you), back to heavy for you again… and so on. That way you can last much longer in bed… and please your girlfriend better!

3) Different positions stimulate you and her in different ways. You feel a different sensation when you have sex doggystyle than when she’s riding on top of you. Because you’re stimulated in different places, you can last longer in bed by switching positions. Positions that stimulate different things (than the missionary position): doggy, standing up with her back towards you, her on top, her on top with her back towards you, sideways while laying on the bed, with her legs over your shoulders, etc.

Bonus tip: heard of the Kama Sutra? It’s the most ancient book with sex advice ever and PUA Malibu wants to share some awesome Kama Sutra Sex Tips with you. Check them out.

NOTE: I just gave you sex advice for lasting longer that doesn’t have anything to do with breathing, meditation, tantra or any of that other stuff on purpose. Why? because for most people it’s a little “out there” to start talking about chi and whatever.

Stop being a wussy and start doing these 3 things in bed I mentioned above and you’ll be much better at pleasing your girlfriend in bed.

And remember: don’t overthink it, enjoy it!

Once you start doing this?

– You will feel no more pressure to achieve in bed and can finally relax and enjoy the sex
– You will know exactly how to please your girlfriend in bed
– You will last much longer in bed

In short: follow my sex advice and you will know how to please your girlfriend AND how to have better sex for a longer period of time!

One More Thing About How To Please Your Girlfriend…

Here’s an overlooked secret of how to pleasure your girlfriend:

Study after study has shown that, for women, 80% of sexual arousal happens mentally instead of physically. In other words, your ability to please your girlfriend and to keep her attracted to you largely depends on if you can attract her psychologically.

But don’t worry, because it’s easy to take care of the mental part of pleasing your girlfriend thanks to the attraction tips you’ll find inside my Inner Game Newsletter. So, what are you waiting for? Get more tips by signing up for the newsletter right away!

And do leave a comment to tell me:

1) Which sex tip is the most useful tip for you and why? How do you please your girlfriend?
2) Do you have any sex advice to share with the world? Tell us!

And now if you’ll excuse me?

This movie abuser is going to watch The Matrix for the fourth time now.

No matter what you think of action movies, only a dumb ass would NOT admit that The Matrix raised the bar for all action movies: an incredibly deep story, awesome graphics and slow-motion bullet time…

It makes me want to please my girlfriend in bed in slow-motion to see what happens… just kidding!

Use these tips for how to please your girlfriend wisely. I know I have.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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One of the callers asked us how to keep a relationship interesting, we both shared some valuable insights, and I wanted to share them with you.

But first: you’ll find the best tips I can ever give inside my post on how to please your girlfriend.

Anyways, Debra recorded the whole show, so thanks to her I can now share my tips for keeping the attraction going for as long as you want. Check out the video where Debra Berndt and me share our thoughts on the topic below:

Some of the things we discuss in the short video above are:

– Why (over time) most relationships become a routine where both partners lose interest and tend to stop paying attention to each other… and what to do to keep the relationship interesting by grabbing your partner’s interest and never letting it go again…

– Why most conversations in a relationship get boring… and what to do about it in a way that lets you discover things about your partner you didn’t know before

And with most marriages ending in divorce these days? With 10-20% of the population admitting in polls that they are cheating, have cheated, or have thought about cheating on their partner?

These insights are relevant for ANYONE in the dating game and guys in relationships especially.

And you know what?

I’m willing to bet that MORE marriages will end in divorce and MORE partners will cheat on each other in the future…

Why?

Because the relationship becomes a routine instead of something to enjoy. Because conversations get boring. But most of all: men don’t understand what attraction is and how to create it.

If you don’t know how to create attraction, you don’t know what attracted a woman to you in the first place. And if you don’t know that dude? How are you supposed to improve things when you feel your relationship is getting worse and worse… and worse? You won’t be able to improve ANYTHING!

You won’t have ANY control over your relationship if you don’t understand how to create attraction, simply because you don’t know what works and what doesn’t to improve it. That means you’ll be a victim of circumstances… and that’s not good.

90% of the population doesn’t REALLY know how to create attraction, so it’s only logical that more and more marriages, relationships, and dates will fail in the future: because most people don’t have control over it.

My questions for the comments:
1) Have you ever lost interest in the woman you were dating? Why?
2) Has a woman ever ended the relationship she had with you because she said she didn’t feel in love anymore? What did you do? How did you feel?

And now? Now it’s time for this movie junkie to get in his car, drive to Utrecht (the 3rd biggest city of the Netherlands) and enjoy me some drive-in movies on a big ass screen to keep my relationship with movies interesting, lol! Drive-in movies are very rare here…

Because believe it or not, while drive-in movies are pretty common and accepted in the US? The Dutch hardly ever organize or make a business out of drive-in movies. And at the same time? The drive-in McDonalds here are insanely popular. Isn’t that weird!?

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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Here’s why…

– Most dating experts out there SKIP relationships altogether, saying dating is different from relationships and thus limiting their fans and students to achieving SHORT TERM success. That SUCKS!

– Of the dating experts that DO give relationship advice, most are coming from either a false Hollywood fairytale position of total bullsh*t, or, even worse… the way too old perspective of “a relationship means being married to someone for 10-20 years.”

In short: there’s nothing in the middle. There’s no one….

No one that really talks about how to “keep the girl” after dating her several times.

No one that talks about the early stages of a relationship.

No one that talks about how long to wait before saying those 3 magic words (I… love… you)

I think you get the point.

That’s why I’m happy to announce that I’ve made some cool videos about relationships which contain TONS of top notch relationship advice. Better said, what you’re about to hear is me coaching one of my students (Tom) on the topic of relationships…

Actually, these recordings are a little sneak preview of things to come… things I’ve got planned when it comes to coaching men until they reach insane amounts of success with women. But more on that later!

Let’s get to it!

Part I of my relationship advice for Tom:

Part II of my relationship advice for Tom:

Did you like these vids? I’m willing to bet that your answer’s YES purely because it’s tough to find people (especially dating experts) talking about these kinds of topics.

But I don’t pass up ANY opportunity to share my thoughts on ANYTHING. I’m just open-minded like that. No taboos in MY corner, period.

And to drive my point home I made a blog post about how to please your girlfriend so you have even more relationship tips that work which you can use any time you want.

Anyways…

I want to end this blog post with a question or two:

1) What do YOU think are the biggest mistakes men make with relationships?
2) Why do YOU think most dating experts skip relationships altogether? And why are the ones giving relationship advice talking from a “here’s a good tip for all those married for 20+ years people out there”?

Drop your comments below!

I’m outta here to satisfy my by now over the top movie addiction with a slice of Cop Out. Let’s see if Bruce Willis can still be funny after the whole nine yards…

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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