It’s worse when you feel stuck in a rut, especially with your dating life. The older the single dudes get, the more they feel that frustrating need to find a lady friend who’s hot, smart, funny and a tiger in the sack.

Don’t worry, that’s where I come in – you might want to check this out if you need help with that.

By the way, I found this funny article about the common types of guys in their 30s who haven’t found The One just yet.

(If I were you, you’d best check out my product page so you don’t end up like #10.)

In the meantime though, read the article below and see if you can relate to the list – or know someone that fits into one of these guys.

Stay Alpha,

– Carlos Xuma

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Title: 10 Types of 30-Year-Old Single Guys

30-year-old guys are a curious bunch.

Find me a group of 30-year-old men and I’ll pick out one overgrown frat dude living with roommates, another guy who just dropped his two kids off at school, a few who are well into their careers and a couple soul-searchers looking for work. Some will tell you that they’ve finally figured it all out and some more will say they feel hopeless for the first time in their lives. It’s a motley crew.

But perhaps the motliest part of this crowd is the ever-growing group of 30-year-old single guys. If you want a case study in humanity, 30-year-old single guys have pretty much all the bases covered. Let’s examine some of the common types:

1) The Total Package:

The Total Package is smart—he went to a top college. The Total Package is an athlete, a musician, and an avid traveler. The Total Package is handsome—and you better believe he’s well-groomed.

The Total Package has a hell of a career going, but…

Click here to read the rest of the article and get to know the other types at WaitButWhy.com…

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They say what they mean and they follow through with what they say they will do. This is a person that elicits trust and respect from others. They are, in essence, a “No Bullshit” kind of person. If you cross them, you know what the penalty will be. And it will be swift and certain. That is because this person understands and utilizes their boundaries in a very solid and strong way, from a position of inner strength. Do you?

Has anyone ever cheated on you? Did you say that was unforgivable, yet still stay with that person after? If so, let me guess, they did it again, right? Probably.

How about the same thing with lying? Disrespecting you? Stealing from you? What did you do? Did you leave them? Or did you give them just… one… more… chance…?

If you did the latter, my friend…

You have some serious issues with your personal boundaries.

What exactly are boundaries? Well, in a nutshell, they are your own personal rules of conduct that you will accept from the outside world. A boundary is a line that should not be crossed by others in their dealings with you. When this line is crossed, there will, and most importantly, MUST be consequences. If she does “A,” then “B” will happen. Period.

We, as men know that women are constantly testing us. And yes, the women know it too. They are actually not testing you, per se, but they are testing your boundaries. They need to know how far they can push before you push back. They want to know that you are a strong man with a firm resolve; when you say something, you mean it. This helps them respect and believe in you, they feel safe with you knowing that you have their back, so to speak.

I heard it said that a woman was asked why she was testing her man, and she responded, “How can I know you will stand up for me, if you won’t stand up to me?” This espouses the quintessential need for boundaries in a relationship. And they serve a great purpose in the realm of confidence for you. They are the walls of your structure.

We discussed your foundation in the Kai Zen piece earlier (part 1 and part 2). You lay the foundation with knowledge, you build the walls with commitment; to yourself and those around you….

Get the rest of the article HERE…

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I regularly share many tips on improving your confidence inside my Inner Game newsletter, but…

But your lifestyle is important too. Just answer the questions below and you’ll see.

Have you ever…

– Have you ever stayed home because none of your friends had time to go out with you to an awesome club or bar nearby while you wanted to go out? It disappointed you didn’t it? You wanted to meet some women but you couldn’t. It’s frustrating, right?

– Have you ever moved from one city to the next, felt isolated, and noticed that meeting women was suddenly much more difficult because you didn’t know where to go? First you seem to know everyone and then your life seemed to be pretty damn empty…

– Have you ever had a period in your life where you didn’t go out much and stayed at home most of the time? Try to think back to that period in your life: could you count the number of friends you had on 1 or 2 hands?

If you have ever been in one of these situations or still regularly get into them, then something’s wrong with your lifestyle. This blog will help you change that, because it’s a shame. What is?

You’re missing many, many opportunities to meet women because of your own lifestyle… and that’s a damn shame! Hell, you’re missing opportunities to expand your social circle and meet more women with it…

I can almost hear you think: “Why is improving my lifestyle important in the dating game?”

Scientists once did a research project on the attraction levels of men during the 60s and 70s. You know, the hippie ages.

They wanted to discover why some men were able to sleep with much more and much better looking women than others.

And what they found? What they found was AMAZING…

The scientists were quick to discover that the most attractive men were the men with the most NOVELTY in their lives. The men that did exciting, fun stuff in their free time got the most women.

Better said: the guys with an exciting lifestyle got the most women.

Are you starting to see the big picture here? Are you starting to realize that your lifestyle can help you meet more women?

Look, do you really want to be a guy who stays home during weekends or who spends months or even years on getting his next girlfriend? If your answer is no, then this blog post is for you.

This blog post is all about how to improve your lifestyle to meet more women. In a moment you’ll see how improving your lifestyle has a lot to do with expanding your social circle…

Because the ultimate goal of improving your lifestyle is attracting the people and circumstances that you want into your life. And you need friends to do that: your social circle is the key.

#1 Way To Improve Your Lifestyle: Don’t Fly Solo

Whether you love basketball, soccer, hockey, reading books, or watching movies like me: it doesn’t matter. If you really want to start attracting more women into your life, then flying solo has to go.

What I mean by that is simple: do as little as possible alone. Always invite people and always accept invitations.

Example of this social circle way of doing things:

Why read books all by yourself when you can invite friends or women to read or discuss books together? Hey, reading books can be boring but newsflash dude: 80% of the world’s readers are female…

And the more you invite others to join you to do some fun stuff together, the more they will invite YOU. This is the magic of the social circle: invite… and you will get invited, so invite as many as you can as much as possible.

An important lesson from Dale Carnegie’s book How To Win Friends And Influence People is: you never know who’s going to show up too when you accept an invitation. Maybe it’s your future date or even your future girlfriend.

So never turn down an invitation from ANYONE in your social circle and outside of it: always accept, show up, and see who’s there. This way you’ll get to know many fun, exciting people who all know women you DON’T know yet…

Plus, never doing things on your own but doing it all with friends or women means you can practice your conversational skills, your social skills, and so on with everything you do.

If you want to learn how to know what to say to women, then working on your conversational skills and social skills can never be a bad thing right?

#2 Way To Improve Your Lifestyle: Keep Your Type Of Woman Close

There’s something I’ll never understand about 90% of all the single guys out there. I hope you’re not one of them: you go out once in a while, go to a birthday here and there, but you stay single. You hope you’ll find your type of girl somehow some way, but she never comes.

And you’re still wondering why you can’t find a woman that’s right for you? Come on!

If you know what your type of woman is, you should place yourself in as many situations as possible where she would be. It’s that or never finding “miss right”. Here’s what I mean:

– Like sophisticated, intellectual, artsy women? Make sure you spend most of your time in art galleries, museums, on culture trips, and in book stores.

– Like political or activist women? Go to peace rallies, conventions of political parties or debates, or join Greenpeace and similar organizations. They’re something like a huge social circle anyway, so definitely go.

– Like Asian women? Become a member of Facebook groups called Asian pride, befriend Asian people, get your groceries in Asian supermarkets, always eat and possibly get a job in Chinatown, go to parties with Asian DJ’s or Asian themes. The list goes on and on…

Like I said: place yourself in as many situations as possible where YOUR kind of girl would end up in too.

When you start doing this, you’ll DOUBLE your chances of meeting your type of woman. If not more.

Start doing this and it will only be a matter of time until you will meet a hot, interesting, intelligent woman that is just right for you. I 100% guarantee it!

#3 Way To Improve Your Lifestyle: Never Stay Home

This is a BIG ONE. Never stay home when you have free time on your hands. Period.

I know way too many guys who stay home on a Friday or a Saturday because their buddies can’t go clubbing with them. That means they can only go clubbing if they go alone so they never go, because they think it’s weird.

It’s not weird if you show up ANYWHERE alone. It’s weird if you stay alone. Who cares if you need to go to a club or bar alone? You can always make new (female) friends there…

Remember how the social circle game goes?

It’s:

1) Make friends wherever you go and invite your new friends to do fun stuff with you
2) They are happy to return the favor and invite you for social stuff = your social circle just got bigger!
3) You don’t know who else shows up for the ocassion, but there will always be women there…

Are you starting to see how meeting women through your social circle can be a never ending thing when you keep adding people to your social circle? And the best way to make new friends is to… improve your lifestyle with these tips for going out more.

Here’s a funny story: I once had a bit too much Goldstrike (40% alcohol with gold flakes in it) to drink but nothing to do because my loser friends bailed on me and didn’t want to go out. I didn’t want to stay at home, so I took a book about economics as thick as a phonebook to a loungebar downtown. Most of the night is a HUGE black hole in my memory, but I still remember how a pretty dark-haired girl approached me to ask if I was alright.

I playfully commented that although I needed to study for an exam that day, I came to make a statement: being a bookwurm and a party animal at the same time is more than possible. She laughed so hard and told me that was exactly what she was thinking. She studied medicine and had exams coming up as well.

Then I suddenly woke up with sweat dripping down my back and my heart beating like crazy in a strange looking room: gray-colored, papers and books all over the place. I was totally confused and, disorientated as I was, I tried to get up, tripped and fell flat on my face. Ouch! I just tripped over my own Economics book…

I was scared, because this looked like a man’s room! God no! I thought crazy thoughts: “have I been kidnapped by the Chinese organ mafia? Have I been raped by a gay looking for some heterosexual piece of ass? Am I being Punk’d by Ashton Kutcher?”

All the noise I caused made someone run up the stairs and slam open the door. It was the pretty dark-haired girl from the night before asking me if I was alright. I was relieved. No Chinese organ mafia or rapist homosexuals here. Just a girl who spends most of her life studying instead of decorating her room…

But then she asked me if we were in a relationship now that we had sex and if I wanted to meet her parents or not. Red alert! Any woman who asks for a relationship after having drunken sex is a lunatic! But I saw no way to escape and I got nervous. There are just too many crazy psycho b*tches out there who do awful things with a man’s sausage when you make them angry…

So when she walked to the shower and asked me to join her, I told her I would come in a minute. I didn’t know how fast to get the hell out of there! I wanted to get away from that lunatic who expected a relationship and “meet the parents” out of drunken sex. Have you ever tried to run down the street with your pants on your ankles? It’s challenging, trust me!

And it turns out she was a lunatic: she texted me for 3 weeks straight about how she would have her revenge if she would ever find me. And I don’t even remember giving her my number. Needless to say: she still has my book about Economics to this very day!

Moral of the story: you never know what happens when you never stay at home. It’s fun to experience crazy adventures like the one I just shared with you. This kind of stuff only happens when you get out more, even if you feel like nothing special is going to happen.

And now I’d like to throw some questions at you. Please answer these in a comment below:

1) There are 7 days in a week. How many nights a week do you stay home?
2) How many times are you invited for social ocassions? And do you think you can improve that?

And maybe it’s because I’m a total movie slut. Or… maybe it’s because I grew up on the Rambo, Terminator, and Diehard series, but I just have to tell you a thing or two about The Expendables.

It’s the first movie EVER in which Arnold Schwarzenegger, Sylvester Stallone, and Bruce Willis meet to kick the crap out of some loser dictator and his mindless slaves. I loved the body parts flying around.

I often end up in heated arguments with other movie junkies every time I say there’s something wrong with the movies of today: they’re too soft! I hate wussy movies to death. They make me sick.

The Expendables brought back memories… memories of how a REAL action movie should be: senseless violence where you see enemies being murdered for almost the entire length of the movie!

Hollywood is finally back… but I’ll shut up now and find more ways for you to improve your lifestyle to meet more women.

So more tips for lifestyle improvement coming your way soon… time to work on your social circle dude!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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