Texting women these days can be tricky…

You just don’t know what kind of response she will throw at you, and you need to know how to handle her testing. She’s always looking for a reason to poke and prod your act to see if you’re a real man with the ability to drive up her attraction – or destroy it.

In case you didn’t know, texting is a great way to drive up interest from a woman, but it’s also where most guys screw it up.

Here’s how:

• You text too frequently: Women know that a guy who’s texting them a lot in the first few days of meeting her is probably either needy, or just doesn’t have anything else going on. This communicates your social value…
• You text too long: Most guys write texts that are WAYYYY too many words. If you text anything that exceeds the 160 character limit, you’re looking like a try-hard…
• You text too much of the same jokey crap: Stop being a comedian all the time and vary it up. Send her a tease, followed by an insight, followed by your lunch choice… keep her guessing!

Let’s talk about 7 situations where you will need to text her, and how to handle each one. These 7 stealth texts will show you by example what to text a girl…

Starting with:

Stealth Text 2 – What To Text Her: The After-Text

After you meet a girl – in a bar, at a party, whatever – you need to cement yourself into her mind. Chances are, if she was attractive to you, she was attractive to other guys who talked to her that night.

No, huckleberry, you ain’t the only game in town…

You need to make sure you stand out in her mind so that she won’t wonder: “340-334-4145… Who the hell is this?”

In fact, if you’ve ever gotten a text from a girl that said “Who is this?” you know how far behind you are already. That’s one of the worst texts you can get from a girl. Period.

To stand out, you remind her with your name, something she laughed at that night, followed by a sign-off.

Here’s a great one:

“Hey, it’s Carlos – was great meeting you ‘Kittty kicker’ – Let’s reconnect this week…”

In this case, you two were joking about the story she told you about the time she accidentally kicked her sister’s cat. It’s a tease, and it’s perfect to use. Then you hint that you’ll be in touch.

Now she knows who you are, you reminded her of your confidence, and you’re perfectly setup for:

Stealth Text 2 – Text Her THIS: The Warmup Text

You gotta follow up and reconnect with her, ideally within 24-48 hours. There’s a lot of debate on this on the Internet, but take it from Uncle Carlos – you don’t want her to forget you, so act quicker. Just do it with confidence.

You want to remind her again about your connection, and get her warmed up with this:

“Hey, Kitty… How’s your week going? I know you’re missing those laughs from Saturday…”

BOOM! She’s reminded, and you even managed to squeeze in a little callback to that tease about kicking the cat. Without being obnoxious, by the way.

Be careful you don’t overdo any particular tease too many times. It’s douchey.

Right after she responds to this, you hit her with:

Stealth Text 3 – What To Text Her: The Meetup Text

Yeah, baby – it’s time to slap this one on the ass and get it moving…

After her warmup response, you’re going to go for the meetup request. You have to see if this is going to go somewhere.

This step is HUGE – because if there’s anywhere it goes weird, it’s in this call to action step.

• If she’s into it, she’ll jump on it…
• If she’s hesitant, you’ll sense it…
• If she’s reluctant, you’ll KNOW it…

So send her this next:

“Going to the (name of brewery, restaurant, coffee shop, etc) tomorrow night – let’s get together!”

Then listen to her response, because it’s highly likely that she will throw out some random nonsense for you.

Just a note here: The best thing to do is to resist the urge to do too much convincing… Just plow forward with the assumption that she’s a LUNATIC if she doesn’t meet up with you.

By the way, if you believe too deeply that YOU are the one who would be lucky if SHE agrees, you gotta do some inner game work, my friend.

Stealth Text 4 – Send This Text: The Plow Forward Text

When a girl tests you by resisting, what she wants to see is sincerity in your efforts to woo her. Women don’t believe your words, they believe the meaning they get from the ATTITUDE behind the words… and your actions, of course.

Women are INTERPRETIVE creatures, which means they read into you based on the vibe you give off.

The words of this text are less important than the attitude.

So here’s a really good attitude text to plow her forward:

“Are you crazy? We’re gonna have such a great conversation & you’re stalling? You’re so cute…! What time can you meet me?”

If she insists on pushing you back and not committing (which is still highly likely), you should pick up the phone and TALK to her. Never let a girl get away with pushback. Hearing your voice will make it real. Right now you’re just words on a screen.

Don’t be a chicken-sh*t and avoid talking to her because you’re afraid to confront these things and deal with them, you dig?

Chances are high that she will give in and agree when she hears a real voice.

Next up:

Stealth Text 5 – What To Text Her: The Reminder Text

The younger the girl, the more likely she will no-show you. It’s nothing personal, she’s just playing out her mindless automatic program.

So you want to make sure she feels like complete crap if she does flake on you.

This one is a little edgy, but you can pull it off:

“Hey, I promised the sick kids at the hospital we’d be there at 7:30 to cheer them up, so you better be on time! ;-)”

If you don’t get a response to your text – no matter what you send – you still want to show up at the place you agreed.

However, you need to get a friend to be there with you in case she does flake. This way you won’t feel dumb, and you’ll be able to let it go quicker.

And if she shows, you look more socially desirable. Just introduce your friend, then bid him farewell.

You can also send a more gentle reminder like this:

“Hey girl… no flake-outs, I’ll see you tonight at 7:30… ;-)”

If she texts anything but an enthusiastic “I’ll be there” – you should call her again and go voice.

Stealth Text 6 – How To Text Her: The Running Late Text

This one is a great way to demonstrate value AND remind her of her obligation. If you think you have this girl pretty well locked in, send her this… it will drive up your value and her investment in you:

“Hey, girl… wanted to be a little early, but running a few minutes behind… See you there”

This is great for a reminder text because it shows you’re not too needy.. and if she’s got any BS to throw at you about flaking, now is when she’ll tell you.

Stealth Text 7 – What To Text A Girl: The Finisher Text

When your date is over, you want to finish up right where we started this whole thing – with a text that will cement you in her head as the man she wants.

Of course, this is assuming that you aren’t already in a position to just roll over and talk to her at the end of the night…

By the end of this one-on-one date, you better have impressed her enough to be memorable.

If you don’t know how to do it, you need to learn about Sexual Sparks – and how to push her brain into attraction for you.

With this finisher text, you’re going to be a little bit more cocky, with the purpose of making her value YOU as the prize.

Don’t be arrogant! Just be cocky & funny…

Try this 2-part text:

Part A: “OK that was probably THE best time you’ve had all year…”

Part B: “You’re kinda fun, too! Just don’t start stalking me yet…”

Let her say whatever she’s going to say, just don’t read into it too deeply. Let these texts sit with her for a good 15-20 minutes before you even THINK of replying.

Another mistake guys make is, in their eagerness to get a girl to text them back or like them, they text her back WAY too soon.

Wait at least a few minutes before responding to a girl. If you have any questions why, just remember the last time YOU texted a girl and had to wait for what seemed like an eternity for her response. That time she’s waiting, she’s thinking about you.

Driving up her attraction and desire in the process.

There you go, my friend. You’re now in a position of high value if you followed this chain to the end.

But there’s so much more you need to know to make sure you can handle any of the curve balls she throws you…

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And discover the secret to uncontrollable sexual desire…

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Attracting and dating them? That’s a little trickier.

It’s the most frustrating feeling, isn’t it? They’re right at your fingertips, but you don’t have a CLUE how to connect with them…

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For the longest time, we’ve been “trained” to think that women are the gatekeepers to the ONE thing we want.

That gives attractive women leverage over guys because it always seems like WE’RE the ones who want something from them.

But I can teach you something called the Attraction Judo Move to REVERSE that dynamic and give you an UNFAIR advantage over girls – especially the HOT ones.

Once you learn this, you’ll understand what women want from men – then you’ll have THEM chasing after you!

Here’s another problem with meeting women on Facebook: most guys SCREW UP by falling into the Friend Zone and getting stuck there permanently.

No matter how much they try to flirt with a girl, she’ll NEVER consider them as potential boyfriend material.

The reason is simple – they accidentally flipped a switch in her head, making it impossible for her to see them as anything aside from a platonic friend.

That’s why I’ll also tell you how to avoid springing the Friend Zone Trap.

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The best part is that this is strictly under-the-radar stuff, so women won’t have a clue about what’s going on.

Just think how awesome it would be to use Facebook to slip past their defenses like a ninja – they WON’T know what hit them!

Stay Alpha,

– Carlos Xuma

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A multi-million dollar blockbuster hit, of course.

Remember when that sparkly vampire film came out years before? A good segment of the public bitched about Twilight while the creator laughed all the way to the bank.

And it’s happening all over again; talk about history repeating itself.

Once again, women are dragging guys to a movie that, for the most part, is meant for the female demographic. And like before, the people behind the franchise are raking in serious stacks of dough.

Oh, and here’s a fun fact: Fifty Shades of Grey originally started out as Twilight fan fiction (i.e. when people write about their favorite characters and put them in situations beyond the original plot).

So, it’s no surprise that women are eating up Fifty Shades of Grey, especially since its roots go back to the same place.

As for me, I watched it just to see what the hype was about. Like Christian Grey told Anastasia Steele, “Try to keep an open mind.”

And that’s exactly what I did. Funny thing was, it wasn’t as bad as I’d expected it to be.

Sure, the performances were a bit wooden and there were some eye-rolling lines of dialogue. In spite of all of that, the film wasn’t without some important takeaways.

(And hey, Dakota Johnson certainly helped the movie’s visual appeal…if you catch my drift.)

As I sat through two hours of the movie, a few thoughts occurred to me:

#1: Dress to Impress

Christian Grey may not exist in real life, but he does know to how project that I’ve-got-my-act-together vibe to women.

However, you don’t have to be a multi-billionaire like him to make the ladies swoon. Whatever your job is, you need to give women the impression that you’re passionate, driven and self-sufficient.

And that starts with the packaging; so dress like a grown-ass man if you want women to take you seriously as an adult.

You don’t have to overdo it and dress like a trendy D-bag though. Ask your well-dressed friends, research online, consult with the sales clerks at your local men’s store and check out some men’s magazines.

Once you’ve upgraded your style and found a look that works for you, you’ve already taken a huge step in being more attractive to women.

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I’m talking about classics like Friday the 13^th and Scream, and you just want to yell at them so they don’t the spend the night in that creepy cabin in the woods, or wander off alone to “check on that noise”.

And sure enough, that ax-wielding dude picks them off, one by one.

It’s frustrating as hell. It’s kind of like how I look at a lot of guys – and the way they lay waste to their dating lives without even knowing it.

In particular, I wanted to point out a couple of typical attitude mistakes that I see all the time, like a bad movie cliché.

Learn the Importance of Getting It Together

Ok, this is actually an area of your life that isn’t directly related to dating, but still needs to be sorted out. Otherwise, your ability to attract women will suffer.

I’ve seen plenty of men who don’t make their lives work for them, and it affects their dating lives as well. For instance, there’s this one guy I know who would always spend too much time trying to meet women and end up missing work the next day.

Instead of putting his foot down and learning when to call it quits, he’d hit on women all night and let the other parts of his life suffer. This is a harmful habit because he’s letting other people dictate his schedule, and it makes for a bad impression on women.

Beware – this sloppy attitude also manifests itself in other ways:

• Letting your gym membership run out
• Being late to appointments
• Flaking out on people
• Not managing your personal and work hours properly
• Not following through on your promises
• Making impulsive decisions instead of thinking them through

This is why you need to put a stop to it before it becomes a cycle that feeds on itself. I know guys that feel bad for not doing something about it, then go out on dates with a negative vibe, making things even worse.

And when you’re convinced that you’re no good around women, you’ll shuffle into life, thinking it’s pointless to try at all.

But these are nothing more than mental weeds that you need to uproot from your mind so they don’t cloud your thoughts.

To do that, read up on motivational and/or self-help material to break out of your funk. Once you start taking control of your life in general, your dating life will follow.

But remember, do it for yourself whether you’re single or not. Attracting women is simply a side effect of an improved attitude.

Don’t make women think, “How can this guy be anyone’s boyfriend if he can’t even manage his life properly?”

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In a recent survey, it looks like a bunch of women are looking for a “backup husband” (as the study puts it) in case things don’t work out with their current guy.

As disturbing as it is to think there are partners looking for a fallback guy even before the relationship’s over (instead of, you know, ending it first AND then finding someone else), this new discovery is a wake-up call for men nonetheless.

I’m not cool with this kind of behavior, but it does point out the important fact that an Alpha Guy needs to keep his woman happy (regardless of whether she has Husband 2.0 on standby, and in which case, it’s on her).

The Truth About Women

Keeping your girl attracted is never a destination, but a never-ending journey you’ll take with her.

Things will never come to a point where she’ll say, “Yup, I think I’m good right here. You can stop being fun, interesting and affectionate.”

Some guys have told me that you constantly need to game a woman to keep the “chase” going even when you’ve been together for YEARS. And in my own experience, I’d say they couldn’t be more right.

It takes a certain state of mind – specifically, being whip smart – to keep the relationship fresh and vibrant all throughout. Women who cheat on their partners often do so out of boredom and frustration.

Remember all the tingles you felt when you first met your girl? If you’re lazy enough, she’s going to recreate those long-lost tingles with someone else just to recapture that “falling in love stage” (and all the mushy feelings that follow).

So how do you prevent this potential disaster from happening?

Well, the most important thing to remember is that relationships – healthy, lasting ones anyway – never happen by accident. Happiness is always a premeditated effort.

This attitude alone spells the difference between keeping her and losing her to someone else. Let’s face it – people have needs, and they’ll gravitate in another direction if they’re not happy where they are now.

Always Have the Long Game in Mind

Making something happen (i.e. keeping your girl happy and attracted to you) isn’t about taking huge strides, it’s the little steps in between that get you from a casual connection to a committed relationship.

What that means for you is this: If you want to win the war for her heart, you need to win the smaller battles.

A steady dose of love and intrigue is the perfect maintenance plan for your woman. Feed her sizable morsels of the good stuff every day, and she’ll never go hungry.

Most guys think that the solution to a failing relationship is taking drastic measures. All it will do is backfire, if not make her pack her bags faster and find another guy.

Think of it like this – when she’s gradually come to the point where she hates your guts, a weekend at some fancy out-of-town resort is not going to make it all better.

(That also applies to getting her shiny, expensive trinkets to fill that emotional void – just saying.)

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Contrary to what you may have heard elsewhere, you can always compliment her. Say something like “Wow, that looks good on you”, or “You really know how to work with kids.”

Read the rest of the article to find out the rest of the best compliments you can give a woman. Because if you dial this one in, you’ll be deadly when it comes to getting dates…

Stay Alpha,

– Carlos Xuma

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Title: 10 Best Compliments to Give Women

What woman does not like to hear something nice about herself! But there are several times when a guy might think twice before paying compliments to a woman for fear of sounding insincere, patronizing or even downright offensive.

Here are a few ideas on the best compliments to pay which are sure to melt any woman’s heart and give you that extra edge over other men.

“Wow, that looks good on you”. The secret in paying the perfect compliment to a woman is to be specific. You may not be a guy who is a keen follower of the fashion trends of the season, but when saying something nice about a woman’s personal style, try to pinpoint what you are appreciating.

Instead of saying something general like “You look gorgeous”, try to highlight a specific aspect of her style and then compliment her on it. If she has turned up in smashing evening gown for a special date, you could say something like…

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He was already three dates into a girl he really liked when he got the “You’re a nice guy but it’s just not working out” speech from her.

“I thought it was turning into something serious, then she dumped me out of the blue…over a text message! I mean seriously, who does that?”

Then he finished it off by saying, “After all that hard work, she just threw it in my face. God, why do I even bother?”

And that right there, is one of the biggest reasons why guys lose out with women.

I’ve seen a lot of other men like Steve utter that line in similar situations, which brings us to the first problem that typically plagues men…

#1: Having an “Entitlement Mentality”

I feel for guys who put in the effort, learn how to pick up women and try their luck. It’s not easy putting your ego on the chopping block, hoping the girl you like doesn’t chop it into a million pieces and flush it down the drain.

But it happens anyway – all the time.

So guys get bitter over getting burned. Then they develop this belief that women should throw themselves at guys just for showing up.

It’s what “nice” guys whine about: “Why aren’t women into me for being a harmless, non-threatening dude, unlike those a-holes who treat them like crap?”

It’s like saying you deserve a medal for not going to jail for shooting someone or robbing a bank.

Of course you’re supposed to be a decent human being! People don’t have to thank you for that.

Nothing hurts like a bitch more than rejection, I know. But if you’re going to flip out about it, you’re only making it worse for yourself.

As a matter of fact, you’ll let yourself slip deeper into your self-made downward spiral if you’re not careful. That’s why you have to avoid…

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As men, we’re defined by our opinions. What we think says who we are, and apologizing for our beliefs can make a guy look weak and low-value.

Take matters on dating for instance. Some guys would rather go out with different women at a given time.

To them, they’d rather get to know more than one person to make sure that when they do commit to someone, they’re making the best choice possible.

That seems like a fair enough deal as long as he’s on the level with the women he’s dating. If he made any one of them think that they’ve gone steady while STILL seeing other girls, well, that’s something else.

And the biggest mistake in this situation would be to backpedal – or worse, apologize – just to appease a particular woman. If you tried to convince her desperately that you she should be ok with you dating other women, it makes your words incongruent with your actions.

And that makes you unattractive on every level because she’ll know that you relinquished your opinion for the sake of her approval.

Not a good move.

A better way would be to act cool about it and not make it an issue at all. When the subject comes up, the best course of action is to be honest but casual about what you’re doing.

I’m assuming of course, that you haven’t made any sort of promise to that particular girl that you’d date her exclusively. Otherwise, letting her know that you’re STILL dating other women will rightfully earn you a slap in the face.

Obviously, lying is just as reprehensible and backing down from your opinion.

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