Because knowing the best places to meet women is one thing, another is knowing all the good places to pick up women AND how to “get the girl” there. But you know what?

I won’t stop there, because don’t you just HATE it when you’re looking for the best places to meet women and everyone’s telling you to go there and there… and then you actually go there and leave the place freaking empty handed? With ZERO phone numbers OR dates?

If you hate that, then you’re in luck my friend… because today I’ll show you both the best places to meet women and how to get what you came for in them… AND…

The worst places to pick up women plus the reasons why they suck, so you can avoid them and let the single douchebags who think they know better but can’t get a date worry about it on their own.

Now let’s check out the best places to meet women already, shall we? For your convenience, I’ve categorized the places to pick up women based on different types of women.

The Best Places To Meet Women Who Are “The Girl Next Door”

Some of us guys have an acquired taste and some of us just want a cute looking, ordinary chick.

And these are the best places to meet women who are your ordinary, girl next door type a girl…

1) The malls and stores. Malls and stores are some of the best places to pick up women, because it’s easy to get to know women there. Why? Because women shop around. They never walk into 1 store, get what they need, and leave like men do. They spend entire DAYS in malls and think that’s fun. The best way to meet women there is to ask them to help you with your shopping. Tell them you need to buy a gift for your sister but have no clue on what to get or that you want a female’s opinion on a suit you need to get for work.

Women will love helping you, you have plenty time to talk to them, and you could even get their number by telling them you want to call if you ever need another shopping guide.

This is why malls and stores are among the best places to meet women who are just like you.

2) The supermarket. Going to the supermarket is, again, stepping on “female turf” because it’s assumed that women cook way better than men do. So, why not use that to your advantage? Tell women you want to make a certain dish but don’t know which ingredients to put in it. Or you can go to another part of town that you usually never go to so you have to FORCE yourself to ask women in the market for directions to whatever you always need.

3) The sidewalk. Yes, you heard me. The sidewalks and streets of your local city or town are some of the best places to meet women simply because they don’t expect it! You see, in clubs and bars women have their “game face on”, but on the streets? They’re usually going somewhere. Other guys don’t approach them because they think it’s scary because other people might notice. Funny thing is though, no one does. EVERYONE needs to go somewhere so they really don’t care who talks to who because they have places to go and people to see.

On the streets you can ask them for directions to start a conversation, then ask why they know the place so well (or not at all), introduce yourself, tease her, tell her you want her to be your tour guide some time (if she knows the place) or that she gets another chance to be a GOOD tour guide instead of a crappy one by giving you a tour of her hometown, and so on.

4) Public transportation. In the US, people aren’t big on public transportation… but that doesn’t mean there’s no subway, bus, train or plane (or cable car in San Fransisco hehe). People need to wait before their mode of transportation arrives and are bored until it does, so why not meet women at the station/airport/harbor and make it less boring for them? Plus, they need to wait until they get where they want to go too, which is another opportunity to meet women.

Long story short: all public transportation places are among the best places to meet women, ordinary women.

Now, maybe your type of woman isn’t “ordinary.” No problem dude, just check out one of the other best places to meet women that match your wish list below…

The Best Places To Meet Women Who Are The Sporty Type

If you’re into athletic women, then pay attention because these are some of the best places to meet women who are your type…

5) Exercise classes. Contrary to popular beliefs, gyms where Arnold Schwarzenegger look-a-likes go to aren’t among the best places to pick up women, but more on that later because exercise classes are! I’m talking Tae Bo, aerobics, cycling, yoga, and all that other stuff here. These classes are filled with women who are easy to meet if you talk about common interests (like working out and working out together if she likes you).

6) Parks. Parks are included in my list of best places to meet women simply because there are lots of women there. Take Central Park in New York City for example. Women jog there, do yoga there, rollerskate there, etc. An easy way to get to talking is by joining what they’re doing, teasing them with how they’re trying to work all the damage done by junk food at work away, and so on.

7) Marathons and other sports events. If you’re in terrible shape, then this won’t be where I tell you to join what the women here are doing. Duh! But you can always walk up to them and talk about how good they were, that they deserve a bunch of medals… and then tease them with how their work out shoes suck though, that no you don’t want a hug because you don’t like sweaty women. I think you get the idea here.

Moving on… on towards the best places to meet women who are foreign

Places To Pick Up Women Who Are Foreign

Here’s a short overview of the best places to meet women who are from other countries…

8 ) National holiday parties, parades, etc. Not all countries have their own parade or otherwise public celebration of a national holiday like, for example, Spanish people do with their Cinco de Mayo.

But that doesn’t mean women from other countries don’t wear special things on a holiday! So, depending on which country you like the women of, Google and Wikipedia a bit to find out their holidays and go out and meet those women on the holidays. All you need to do to get to talking is ask about their holiday and tell them what you know already. They don’t expect you to know that since you’re not from their country.

9) Performances from music artists. Some artists are national: they’re popular in their own countries but unknown outside. You can find them via Google by looking for, for example, Japanese top 40 or Polish top 40. Then simply look for tour dates and see when (if at all) they’re doing a tour in your country.

10) Theme parties. Over here in Holland there are Asian Pride parties (which attracts mostly Indonesians and Chinese women)…

And then there’s the Summer carnival (mostly Surinam women), and the list goes on and on.

Just keep a close eye on the clubs and bars in town and see when there’s another theme party. You’ll be surprised by how many there are, which is why they’re among the best places to meet women from other countries.

11) Stores where they sell country-specific foods and drinks are THE best places to meet women from other countries in my opinion. Here in Holland, Turkish people have their own stores. Polish people do too, so if I want to meet a Polish woman then where do I go? That’s right! Same goes for your country. Use the examples of what to do in supermarkets (see place #2) to start conversations.

Side Note About The Best Places To Meet Women

I feel I had to mention something here while I’m discussing the best places to meet women at, and it’s this…

In case you’re thinking: “It’s easy for him to talk about places to pick up women, but starting conversations is a lot harder than you make it sound…”

Then you’re right. I know it is. You need to have a certain level of confidence before you have the guts to walk up to a woman you don’t even know and start talking with her.

Hell, maybe you even need to overcome your fear of rejection and failure before you can do or say anything. But you know what? That’s okay. It’s okay… and I’ve got your back.

I’ve got your back because, inside my free Inner Game Newsletter, I’ll reveal how to overcome your fears and insecurities, how to build your confidence afterwards, and last but not least… what to say to women to attract them in all the best places to meet women.

That’s why I highly recommend you sign up for my Inner Game Newsletter right now.

Onward…

Places To Pick Up Women, Classy Women

By classy women I mean educated, intelligent, sophisticated women. So, prudes and nerds! Haha. Quiet types. These are the best places to pick up women like that…

12) Bookstores. Yes, ordinary women go there too but the difference between them and classy women is that ordinary women look for popular books and sleazy romance novels, while classy women look for philosophy, history, and those kinds of books. To make this one of the best places to meet women, all you need to do is be interested in what they like because it allows you to talk about common interests, tease her with how she’s such a nerd, etc.

13) Wine tastings. This is where you’ll only find refined women (don’t forget though that most women like wine) and older women. If that’s your thing, then read up on different kinds of wines and start talking with women about it during a tasting. Again, talking about common interests make things a whole lot easier for you.

14) High society places. By that I mean clothing stores with upper class (business like) clothing for women. Golf tournaments. Tennis clubs and tournaments. Horse riding clubs and events. These are all places the high society usually goes to, which is why they’re some of the best places to meet women. Classy women aren’t really my type, so the best advice I can give you is (starting to sound like a broken record here) talk about common interests.

The Best Places To Meet Women, Career Women That Is

The best places to meet women who are independent and all about their careers are…

15) Networking events. Request your local Chamber of Commerce for information about networking events and you’ll find out where they are near you in no time. These events always include some keynote speeches, drinks, some snacks, and… of course… a lot of time for business-minded people to network and connect. This is why these events are among the best places to pick up women who are all about their careers.

16) The first class section of any public transportation. Business trips. Need I say more? Use the public transportation examples (see place #4) I gave you earlier on. They work well in first class too.

17) Stores with suits, ties, and the whole nine yards. This is where you’ll find women looking for business outfits for themselves. The easiest way to start talking to them is by (just like before) talking about common interests: the job, career, bosses, etc. Professional stuff.

Continue reading below if you want to know the best places to meet women who are artsy…

The Best Places To Meet Women Who Are Artsy

Are there any special places to meet women who are into art and culture? Duh!

18) Art galleries. If you like artsy women then you must be into art yourself (why else would you like them? Booooring! Just kidding…), so galleries are among the best places to meet women for you because it’s easy to talk about a common interest, appreciate the art in front of you, invite her to discuss art some more over a drink at XYZ (or at your place).

19) Museums. Plenty museums have art collections and all kinds of refined culture waiting for an enthusiastic eye to be seen, so it’s likely you’ll find women there. You can follow the same “routine” as with art galleries here.

20) Culture trips on vacation. I’m talking all-in tours in a foreign country AND all-inclusive cultural vacations here. Of course you’ll find artsy women on these kinds of trips and vacations man! You can talk with them about the country you’re about to enjoy, what they want to see, offer to check some history out together, etc. These trips and vacations are the most fun and thus best places to meet women who’s middle names are Art and Culture.

And last but not least: it’s time to check out some of the WORST places to pick up women that won’t do you any good…

Or… which are simply too difficult when you’re just starting to learn how to meet and date women.

The Worst Places To Pick Up Women

So… what are some of the worst places to pick up women? I think you’ll be very surprised…

21) Clubs and bars. They’re loud. They’re often so crowded that it’s hard to move. They’re full of drunken people who are easily pissed off. And oh yeah, did I mention already that all the women there have their “game face” on, making it hard for you to get their attention… let alone attract them?

Sure, it’s doable, but why go through all the trouble when you can, for example, meet a woman in a supermarket in less than a minute and easily get her number? The only exception I know of when clubs ARE among the best places to meet women is when there are theme parties that foreign women go to.

22) Gyms. And by gyms I mean the work out section where the halters and dumbbells are. Gyms are filled with mirrors AND steroid filled men with a macho syndrome, both of which make most women very uncomfortable. It’s better to check out the exercise classes than to go to the regular workouts trying to pick up women.

23) Colleges and job sites. Yes, you can meet women in college and at work, but is it easy? Hell no! They’re closed environments and that means that when you screw up, you could hear it for months (or years) to come. Again, why make things hard for yourself when there are other, easier places to go to? That’s why colleges and the workplace are not in my list of best places to meet women.

And now you know everything about where and where not to find women… and all the best places to meet women who are exactly your type… don’t you want to know more about how to attract those women? Don’t you want to know the exact words to say to get their number?

And don’t you want to know what to do to go on a date with them?

If so, then I highly recommend you check out the free tips inside my Inner Game Newsletter because they’ll reveal secrets of attraction most men will never know…

I hope you liked my thoughts on the best places to meet women (and the worst places to pick up women). Stay tuned to the Win With Women blog for more tips!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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You can get “good tips” on where to meet women like that one within seconds, with a little help from Google… but there’s one BIG but here, and it isn’t a woman’s ass I’m talking about:

What if you don’t have that many (good) friends that will help you find out where to meet women?

Let’s face it: if you’re a regular guy like me, then you probably don’t have that many good friends who will help you get any woman you want…

Why?

Because sure, every human being can help find another human being with breasts and a pussy… but there are a total of ZERO people that’ll help you with finding single women that are right for you. Women that are your type.

And quite frankly? Most tips for where to meet women, and the people giving those tips, SUCK. They suck balls, because they give you an answer that works short term. Not long term.

That was up until today, because…

I will show you where to meet women that are a perfect fit in a rather… unusual way. But sometimes?

Sometimes you need something unusual to happen to change your way of thinking.

Here we go. Discover the 10 myths about where to meet wome, or the 10 things I hate about where to meet women as I call them, below!

Where To Meet Women: The First Myth…

It’s wrong. Asking random people where to meet women, people who probably know less about finding single women than you do because they never read blog posts about it while YOU did?

It’s just… plain wrong. (You should see my sad face and the tears in my eyes right now).

All joking aside though, letting yourself belief that you need to go somewhere to meet women before you can attract women? It’s a bunch of crap with a big red cherry on top trying to pose as something awesome.

You see, if you want to achieve more dating success by knowing where to meet women? Then look around you bro.

Women are all around you. They’re everywhere.

Everywhere I tell you!

Look, playful teasing, being dominant, being picky, using humor in general… these are all traits that universally attract women.

In other words, if you know that snappy comment worked on a woman or two before, then it’s likely to work on woman number 3.

Screw finding out where to meet women. Start to practice creating attraction with every single freaking women you meet.

Practice makes perfect, plus when you try stuff on every single woman you meet? You’ll learn how to meet and date women twice as fast (if not more) than most losers who only try their luck with the women they’re physically interested in.

Why practice on women you don’t even like?

The answer’s simple: so you’re prepared like CRAZY when “miss right” does come around the corner. This is how I learned what dating women was all about. And look at me now: I’m writing this blog as we speak and getting sucked off in the mean and between time.

Just kidding about that last part dude! But I think you get my point…

Where To Meet Women: The Need To Know Is A Myth Too!

I’ll try to be as straightforward with you here about where to meet women as I possibly can:

– There are 6 billion people on the planet
– Roughly half of those are female (3 billion)
– Let’s say that only 10% of those are about as old as you are (300 million)
– What if 90% of those are horribly ugly, scare even? (30 million left)
– And in a dark, dark world, only 10% is your type (3 million)

Do you know what that means mister “I want to know where to meet women”?

It means that if you dated 1 woman a day of those 3 million “leftovers”? It would take you 8,333 years before you get to date them all. And from where I’m standing? You’re long gone before you’ll even manage to date 10%

Moral of the story to remember when you’re trying to learn where to meet women: even if you’re the pickiest guy of the whole damn planet and tried really hard NOT to encounter women in your everyday life?

There are still wayyyyyy more women, fuck tons more, that are you type, waiting for you out there than you could possibly handle. Ever. Open your eyes dude. Your type of woman is everywhere. And isn’t that awesome to realize!? So…

Don’t think in terms of scarcity, think in terms of abundance.

And to end my sermon here: “Thou shalt succeed when thy talketh to women…” instead of worrying about excuses for NOT to talk because it’s so hard to find your type of woman and blab bla bla.

Myth: The Best Place To Meet Women

When it comes to where to meet women, there’s no such a thing as THE best place to meet women.

It doesn’t exist. It doesn’t exist just like Atlantis, Planet X, and all that other BS.

You see, the best place to meet women depends on what YOUR type of woman is.

And guess what? The question of where to meet women that are right for you requires a different answer for every guy on the planet.

Want some examples of why this is so? Here you go:

1) If artistic, cultural chicks are your thing and you want to know where to meet women like that: art galleries, museums, foreign countries during tourist seasons, paint classes and other kind of “creative arts” stuff, etc.

2) If spiritual, intellectual chicks are what turn you on and you want to know how to find single women like that: go to philosophy classes, keynotes, and what not, yoga classes, Buddhist temples, theology-related classes and events, public debates, science fairs and other “techie” stuff, etc.

3) If latinas are your thing and are wondering where to meet women with a hot temper: concerts from Spanish speaking music artists, go on vacation to Spanish speaking countries, take Spanish classes so you’ll HEAR when someone’s a Latina, etc.

Do I really need to go on and on here? That’s why I hate all the lame ass advice about where to meet women that’s circulating out there in the big, bad world as we speak.

A Little Secret About Where To Meet Women…

In this day and age, we want instant gratification: when we want something, we want it right now and without much effort.

But guess what happens when you ask yourself: “Do you know where to meet women?”

You start thinking about places to go. The mall. A fashion show. A random college. Whatever. Doesn’t matter, because why would you go there to find single women?

Dude, I’m willing to bet you for $10 right now that you won’t go through the trouble of setting one foot outside that door if it’s snowing, raining, or when there’s any other kind of annoying weather.

That’s not how you can get MASSIVE and CONSISTENT results with women. The truth is, you don’t need places to meet women at all.

You can ALWAYS meet women. Whenever you want. No need to know where to meet women then! Why?

I can answer that question with two words: online… dating.

You can find out where to meet women and then meet them within seconds afterwards online., no matter how late it is or how shitty the weather outside is. There are always women online somewhere.

Tips for where to meet women online: try Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, Match.com, and if you’re not from the US? Google to find your local online dating site. In Holland it’s Relatieplanet for example.

Where To Meet Women: More Myths And Misconceptions

I’m running out of time here, so I’ll briefly reveal the other 6 myths about where to meet women now:

5) Other people should tell you where to meet women: screw them! What do THEY know about your type of woman? Instead, imagine where a girl that’s right for you would go and go there.

6) Lists of places to meet women are awesome: I’ll bet my entire small “fortune” of movies and money that I can add more places to any “be all, end all” list of places where to meet women. Plus, who says your type of woman actually goes there?

7)It’s good to try and find single women: I’m sorry, but I don’t chase women. I let women chase me. I don’t meet women, they meet me. Why? Because I truly believe in what I just told you about how there are 3 million women all over the world waiting for me right now. That makes ANY hot chick look way less important in a heartbeat, right? Right!

8 ) Finding single women is a matter of life and death: all kinds of people, including you, would like for you to believe that you need a woman in your life, you need to get laid, etc. Who doesn’t? But being desperate scares women away, so relax. You’ll know good places to meet women when you see ‘em. How? It’s filled with smoking hot chicks. Duhhh! So, as The Joker said in The Dark Knight “Why so serious!?”

9) All the places to meet women are known, so knowing where to meet women means knowing those places: back when I was really into intellectual, kinda nerdy chicks (as long as they were hot) I met loads of women… at a big gaming event. The few women (there were four) that came there and looked nice got to know me, and the game babes that were hired to be there who actually did like games got to know me better as well. And that’s all I’ll tell you! Because dude, there are many places to meet women that most guys would have never thought of themselves. Go find them.

10) Blog posts about where to meet women are awesome: yes, I’m mocking myself here. The essence of this blog post boils down to: women are everywhere, now go get them. Take action. Take action relentlessly. Outlast your rivals and jealous friends and you’ll be successful, because practice makes perfect.

What To Do After You Know Where To Meet Women?

I think that’s the best question of this entire blog post about where to meet women. Because after you find single women?

You still need to talk to them, attract them, get their number, date them, and so on and so forth.

So, how can you do all that after learning where to meet women in a way that would almost make even Hugh Hefner himself jealous?

With the tips inside my Inner Game newsletter, because they’ll let you approach AND date women after you find them without much effort… all thanks to a couple simple steps. So what are you waiting for?

Go get more inner game tips thanks to the newsletter already! While you do that, this movie junkie will watch The Dark Knight one more time. Brings back memories, you know.

Hope you liked these thoughts on where to meet women!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

P.S. Looking for more tips on how to improve your confidence... or how to approach women, oh so beautiful women? And do you want tips for how to create attraction as well? Then get instant access to more tips by signing up for our FREE Inner Game Insider.

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