If you want to know how to get a girl’s number faster than you can say, “Charlie Harper ain’t got SHIT on me!”, then read on and pay attention. Your love life depends on this.

Before I show you how to get a girl’s number as easily as Charlie Harper does though, let’s get some nasty stuff out of the way first.

If someone says women are selective bitches who don’t give their phone number to just anyone, you need to start saying: BULLSHIT!

If someone says it’s all a waste of time because most give out fake numbers anyway, you need to start saying: BULLSHIT!

You CAN learn how to get a girl’s number, her REAL digits, without much effort…

Hell, you CAN get tons of phone numbers even if girls says no at first. How? I’m going to show you how to do it today.

But as with most things in life, there’s a wrong way and a right way to do it.

How To Get A Girl’s Number: The Wrong Way

How do most men learn how to get a girl’s number? They learn they can ask a chick: “Can I have your number?”

If this is the only “technique” you’ve ever used to get a girl’s number, do us both a favor will you? BITCH SLAP yourself right now!

I can almost hear you think: “What the hell?! Isn’t this how to get a girl’s number?”

No.

No, because if you ASK for a girl’s phone number, you’re asking for her permission to call her and that WILL stop you from getting the results you want with women.

And the same goes for all of the yes/no questions that are variations of the one above:

– May I have your number?
– Can I call you some time?
– Would you give me your phone number?
– Etc…

These types of questions SUCK BALLS and won’t ever work when you want to get a girl’s number. And if you want to know why doing this stuff will hurt your results, then listen up…

When you ask for permission to get a girl’s phone number, you’re not showing her ANY sign of confidence. The result?

Women will walk away because of it, because if they wanted a pussy they would have gone to the pet store…

The ladies want guys who ooze confidence, real go-getters who know what they want and go for it. Women don’t want pussies who ask for permission to call them.

By trying to learn how to get a girl’s number and doing it by asking for it?

You simply HURT any attraction you’ve created up until that point, because no one’s attracted to a guy who seems to have zero confidence.

And now you know that asking Yes/No questions when you want to get a girls number is definitely not the way to go, I want to cheer you up a little bit here.

After hearing the brutal truth about how to get a girl’s number I shared with you just now, you’ll be happy to know that there is a way…

There is a way to get a girl’s number that’s successful 90% of the time.

And you’re about to discover the way… the right way to do it.

How To Get A Girl’s Number: The Right Way

So, you’ve come this far and you still want to know how to get a girl’s number? Congratulations!

You’re on the road to becoming a better man (or at least becoming one who gets more women).

So, at this point you’re wondering how to ask a girl’s number. Well, the answer is: you don’t ask. At all. No. You tell her what to do instead.

Want some examples? Here you go:

– Give me your number.
– Let’s exchange phone numbers.
– Tell me your number.

What happens when you stop asking girls for their number and start telling them you want their digits? I’ll tell you what happens…

You’ll start to sound confident. Dominant. And like a guy who is ready to take control of the situation. And chicks LOVE that.

So in a few words, it’s better to tell women what you want than to ask for it.

But there’s one more secret about how to get a girl’s number I want to share with you…

On Stalkers And How To Get A Girl’s Number…

One of the keys to learning how to get a girl’s number is understanding what I like to call the “Stalker Objection”.

You’ll encounter the Stalker Objection when a girl is reluctant to give you her digits because she’s had previous experiences with guys who texted or called her every damn day. She lost her interest in them, but they just didn’t understand so they kept on calling. These kinds of “stalkers” creep her out!

And because these stalkers made her a little scared and made her feel very uncomfortable, she’ll hesitate to give you her number a little longer than usual when you tell her you want her digits.

So, how do you avoid this “Stalker Objection” then? Simple. YOU accuse her of being the stalker because…

Because when you accuse her of being one, you’ll come across like YOU aren’t one yourself.

Think about it: how many nerds bully other nerds by saying they’re stupid nerds?

And now we’ve got the basics of how to get a girl’s number covered, let’s continue and see what you need to say if you want to succeed.

Getting A Girl’s Number: The Right Words To Say

Let’s look at what (in my mind) is the only way to learn how to get a girl’s number successfully. It’s saying the following…

“You know what? I really should get going. Give me your number, and we’ll continue this conversation some other time. But, please, promise me one thing. NO stalking, ok? Don’t send me hundreds of text messages in one day, PLEASE.”

This is how to get a girl’s number in the blink of an eye…

Because it only takes seconds to tell her this and get what you want. Wanna know why this works so well?

I thought you’d never ask!

First, whenever you say “I gotta go” or “I have to go now”, she’ll know she’s about to lose you. She’ll know you have somewhere else to go.

And this creates attraction. A sense or urgency. She’d better give you her phone number now, or she might never see you again.

Did you notice that you’re not asking for permission by the way? You’re telling her what to do instead. You’re being dominant. Dominance creates attraction. And without learning what attraction is, there is no learning how to get a girl’s number.

And finally, by saying, “so we can continue this conversation some other time”, you’re giving her a REASON to give you her phone number.

Her brain won’t have to deal with all of the logical reasons why she should or shouldn’t give you her digits.

Now I did something for you, I want you to do something for me. And it’s this…

Now you’ve learned how to get a girl’s number, I want you to go out there RIGHT NOW and get as many phone numbers from women as you possibly can.

Because it’s one thing to know how to get a girl’s number…

And another thing to actually go and get it. So go and get it already! Get it and then use my comprehensive list of resources for learning how to call girls so you can kick ass in that department as well.

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To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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Want to get your hands on my “formula” that shows you how to get women’s phone numbers? Here it is:

“You know what? I have to go now, give me your phone number so we can continue this conversation another time. You have to promise me something though… NO stalking! I don’t want 10.000 text messages on one day okay?”

Do you see what I’m doing here? When I try and get women’s phone numbers, I’m NOT asking for permission or asking a yes/no question, I’m NOT being a stalker (I’m accusing her of being one), but I’m also doing something else.

The words “I have to go now” are very powerful after you’ve created attraction with a woman, because it makes her feel perceived loss. It’s a fancy psychological term for: she’s interested, she wants to get to know you better, but it looks like you’re trying to leave so she may lose her chance to get the guy or so to speak.

Saying you’re going back to your friends or that you’re about to leave creates a sense of URGENCY, a limited timeframe to make the most of an opportunity. Her mind immediately connects the dots and she knows that when you tell her to give you her phone number, it’s a now or never thing… that she has to TAKE ACTION if she ever wants to get to know you better.
      
But WAIT – there’s more science to my short phone number getting technique…

How To Get Women’s Phone Numbers Thanks To Science

Lets repeat part of my way for how to get women’s phone numbers and see if you noticed too:

“I have to go now, give me your number so we can continue this conversation another time.” Did you notice the so…? The reason I gave her for giving me her phone number?

Why am I even doing that… why am I still giving her a reason when she knows she’s attracted to me and I do too? Because there’s a HUGE DISCONNECT between what’s socially accepted (her logical reasoning) and her sexual nature. Allow me to explain…

You can’t choose who you feel attracted to, heck… not even how fast you’ll be attracted to that person!

Attraction isn’t a choice that’s based on logical decisions, but a FEELING that’s based on EMOTIONS… and we all know how rational and logical our emotions are right? They’re NOT.

Attraction can be created by pushing the right buttons, or to talk evolution here: by displaying the right amount of fitness indicators. More on that later, because we have other business to attend to…

Because while she FEELS attracted to you, she THINKS something else. Our emotions always end up overriding our logical reasoning, but that doesn’t mean that our reasoning isn’t there! That’s why a woman will think things like…

“I normally don’t do this…”

“I normally don’t give my number so fast…”

“I don’t give my phone number to strangers…”

And blah blah blah.

My guess is that you’ve heard at least one of these in your lifetime… and it’s because her logical reasoning tries to backwards rationalize what just happened. Sounds more difficult than it is, because all it means is: while her heart is already temporarily yours, her brain needs a reason to justify it.

That’s why you give her a REASON… a because for giving you her phone number. Tell her it’s because you want to continue the conversation later on, because you want to get to know her better, because she can give you a tour of the city some time because you just moved there.

On Getting Phone Numbers And Why A “Because” Works…

What reason to give a woman for getting her number? It doesn’t matter… because researchers did this test once with AMAZING results. Pay attention if you want to learn how to get women’s phone numbers!

Ok, it was this test where someone tried to cut in line at the photo copier of some random company. They wanted to see what kind of reason people needed to let someone go first.

At first, a plausible reason was tested: “can I please go first, because my job is at stake if I’m late for this presentation I need to do”. And the guy could go first. But the last test was to see if people would still let someone go first with a BS reason: “can I go first? Because my dog ate the previous copy”. Guess what? As long as the guy gave a REASON, people let him go first 90% of the time!

So please, use a because when you use my technique for how to get women’s phone numbers:

“You know what? I have to go now, give me your phone number so we can continue this conversation another time. You have to promise me something though… NO stalking! I don’t want 10.000 text messages on one day okay?”

Hope you liked my tips for getting phone numbers. Stay tuned for more dude! And if you want to know what to do once you get a number and can call a girl, then check out my post on how to call a girl right now.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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