Youth is always attractive.

Young skin… smooth… firm…

None of those qualities are bad.

There’s a scientific reason you like those qualities: They indicate youth – and youth means fertility.

It’s an evolutionary design that WORKS for a reason.

If you hook up with a girl who demonstrates the signs of youth and fertility, you have a greater chance of getting your DNA into the next generation. It’s how we were programmed by Mother Nature.

But guys are made to feel guilty and “dirty” if they find younger girls naturally attractive. I urge men out there to watch for these little subtle ways that we are made to feel guilty for our natural biology.

It’s how men are whipped into sad, defeated puppies that beg for girls instead of showing their noble masculinity.

When it comes to dating younger girls, guys are portrayed as shallow horny creeps who manipulate women for sex. Women are then painted as helpless victims.

Even though women are – on average – ten times more socially manipulative than men are.

But let’s get back on track here before I get off on a rant.

My girlfriend is 7 years younger than me.

The accepted formula for how young you can go is supposedly half your age plus 7.

So if you’re 40, that’s 20 + 7.

27 is okay, then.

But if you’re 26, you’re SICK.

I’m just kidding, of course. Formulas like this are just another way of victimizing men.

Interestingly, the age of a girl that guys find most attractive is… 20. That’s until about age 60, when I guess guys finally either give up, or realize that a 40 year age gap is a lot to ask. Unless you’re really looking for a gold digger.

So it’s pretty much a universal desire of guys: We’re attracted to younger women.

But here’s something you might not know: Girls are attracted to older men.

She knows that a guy who is more “established” in the world is going to be a better bet to support her. He’ll have had time to cultivate some resources (money).

If she’s going to risk having children with a guy, she has a biological drive to make sure they will have a solid chance to survive.

I know that sounds kind of clinical, but it’s also ruthlessly effective.

So let’s say you understand this little quirk of human mating – and you want to get yourself a younger girlfriend. How do you do it?

Here are 5 ways you can date a younger girl… without feeling like a creep.

The first thing you have to do is get rid of that creepy “pedophile shame” you’re carrying around.

I don’t actually care one bit about formulas or standards. Look at Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta Jones.

He was WAY older than her when they got together.

There are so many examples of older guys and younger girls it’s ridiculous. So let’s let go of that crap right now.

The truth is that no matter what a girl SAYS (like “ew” or “ick”), she’s lying. She is biologically programmed to want older men.

Don’t let that fool you for one minute.

This outdated taboo should be laid to rest once and for all. Mostly because it makes guys feel like perverts.

Sorry, I got started on my rant again…

Just resolve to make your first step to dating younger women being PROUD of wanting a younger woman.

It’s usually just older, bitter women who don’t understand how to be sexy anymore that complain about this desire. If she wants a younger guy, that’s her option, too.

A woman physical attraction peaks earlier than men. Women are most attractive at 20, men are most attractive in their 30s, 40s, and even into their 50s if they take care of themselves.

A woman also knows that an older man will probably satisfy her more sexually, by the way.

So when she goes “eww…” just smile and wink at her. You know the real deal.

By the way, calling someone shallow because they like what appeals to their eye is actually even MORE shallow. It’s judgy and ignorant.

It’s what you want – so go for it. F*** ’em if they don’t like it.

The next step to dating younger women is to act normal.

I see it all the time… a guy starts trying to be all “hip young dude” to cover up his age. This make you look a lot older than you are, so drop the act.

You don’t need tattoos or an eyebrow piercing.

Just be yourself. Don’t act intimidated and weird just because you’re around a girl you want.

Let her youth energize and invigorate you instead of making you act more weird.

You gotta be cool.

You have to have an air of dignity and calm about you all the time. If she gets you riled up, your ship is sunk my friend.

No matter what she says or does, no matter what kind of drama she throws your way, you have to be frosty and in control.

Remember that the difference that makes the difference, is indifference.

If she freaks, you need to be stone cold. Sympathetic and reassuring, but you can’t get perturbed by her hysterics.

This also means you can’t be chasing her around like a lost puppy. An older guy has options and stability, something that younger women are attracted to.

When you act like you’re a guy who just fell off a turnip truck and is all gooey with love, you’re going to send her running.

Chill, man.

Seriously – stop that crap.

Be COOL.

The next step: How to date a girl that’s younger than you – Tease her.

I’m not going to recite my whole teasing strategy here. It’s already viral… you’ve probably heard it called “cocky and funny,” “tease to please,” etc.

The basics are the same. Just act like she’s you’re annoying little sister. (She will probably already be slightly annoying if she’s in her 20s anyway.)

Just make fun of her. Call her on her immature girl stuff that she says and does.

You don’t want to patronize her or be condescending, but you want to carry yourself with an air of authority.

This is the dominance a woman wants from an older guy. She actually expects it.

Keep in mind when dating a girl that’s younger, is that you have to pace yourself. You can’t make a move too soon.

Most women have had an older guy get all pervy on them at some point or another. Most of the time it was wussy, needy guy behavior that would have made him a creep at any age.

But since there are a lot of older dudes out there who still don’t have a clue how to act around women, they poop in the pool for the rest of us.

So her past experience is what makes her say “yuck” about older men. Not that she doesn’t actually find older guys sexually appealling.

Next tip – #4: Be a gentleman.

This means you have to show her the very thing that she needs in a man your age: Chivalry.

Younger guys don’t have a clue about doing the little things that make women moist.

You need to start pulling her chair out for her. Helping her with her jacket.

Walking on the street side of the sidewalk. Opening the doors for her.

I guarantee you the younger guys aren’t doing this, and it’s your ace card up your sleeve when it comes to getting her thinking about you non-stop.

And finally – #5: Be scarce my, friend.

One thing most guys don’t understand very well is how easy it is for a younger girl to fall for an older guy. She can become very emotionally dependent on you.

That means she can smother you fast if you’re not careful. And that takes a lot of the fun out of dating a younger woman.

I don’t care how great the sex is, there’s always a guy who finally got tired of her.

Keep the frequency of contact down.

Don’t call her more than once or twice a week. Don’t fall into that needy guy habit of texting her every day, either.

Frequency of contact is the emotional trigger that tells her if you’re her “fun guy,” her boyfriend, or serious commitment.

Plus, you can’t really see her more than once a week at the most, or you’ll risk either becoming boring to her, or she’ll get attached to you way too fast. I’ve seen it go both ways, and it’s not that fun.

I’ll give you one more bonus tip to dating younger girls…

You also need to remember that a girl between the age of 18 and 24 is in a state of near constant change. She’s finally growing into being a woman, and she will be seeking to establish her own identity.

That’s why you can’t meddle in her life or try to daddy her.

She’ll be unreliable, bratty, indecisive, and constantly changing her mind. It’s the nature of this phase of her life.

So you need to know how attraction works. You have to know how women think, and what women want in men.

In fact, if you don’t have a solid foundation understanding women, you will more than likely trip and mess things up. Everything I just explained will back fire on you.

In my Alpha Sexual Power program, I show you the most powerful secrets of creating and keeping a girl in your bed – and in your life.

These are the secrets your dad wished he could have given you – if he’d known them.

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Last I checked, this fear of talking to a hot woman was somewhere after the fear of death and the fear of being launched into outer space wearing nothing but a strap-on sex toy.

But even if you learn how to talk to girls, you’re still going to find the occasional hot chick that just throws you for a loop.

And if anything distracts you, it’s going to be a girl with a huge rack.

That’s right – boobs.

Knockers.

Hashtag: #BlouseBunnies.

And I sure do like the way they hop…

Yes, I’m a breast man, so I know how cleavage can hypnotize. In fact, they will overwhelm you with nervous excitement.

With that in mind, I want to reveal 3 secrets about talking to women with big breasts that will save you from a painful crash and burn.

These tips aren’t just for the girls with ample bosoms – it could be any trait that just wows you sexually and makes it hard to concentrate on what she’s saying.

Which actually leads us to tip #1: You have to behave like it’s no big deal.

And yes, that pun was intended.

The fact is that most guys are way too obvious. They can’t keep their eyes off her prized assets.

And she’s used to it, too. So you have to make sure you don’t approach with an air of pervy lust, or you’re done before you start.

If you get all warm and rubbery talking to a girl with a fantastic balcony – well, you’re going to probably immediately give her too much credit.

You’ll find yourself thinking about proposing to her before she’s won YOU over with all the other stuff that makes a great girlfriend.

Scientists call this the Halo Effect – where a strong attractive physical quality makes you give that person way too much credit. And ta-tas will blind you before you can make a proper decision.

You have to be completely unaffected by her funbags. It’s gotta be as “so what” as painted toenails to you.

Let me give you 2 ways to change how you think about her:

– Remember she poops, too.

Every time I bring this one up with my classes or bootcamps, I always got a bunch of guys squirming in their chairs. I don’t know any guy that enjoys the image of a hot chick on the Throne pushing one out.

But you know what?

They do.

In fact, what most guys tend to do is over-idealize women up front. They immediately assume that because she’s beautiful, that she has no negative qualities.

They’re intimidated from the first moment because they started up their “wild eyed dreamer” mode instead of their “calm, rational thinking” mode.

It’s that damn Halo Effect again.

As a result, these guys become completely awestruck, and start acting like a goofball teenager.

An idiot…

A nice guy.

And in case you weren’t aware: Nice guy = not getting laid guy.

I just want to be clear about that.

So the next time you catch yourself putting her up on a pedestal too quickly, take a second to imagine her on the porcelain, panties around her ankles, maybe even grunting a bit.

It’s not attractive, but it will help ground you so you don’t start drooling.

– No matter how hot she is, there’s a guy somewhere that’s sick of her sh*t.

This tip goes right along with the whole poop visualization I gave you.

When you first meet a girl, you think she can do no wrong. She’s perfect in your eyes.

Even if you’re a “butt guy” – a splendid set of knockers isn’t going to stop you from wanting to make her yours, right?

But the reality is that every girl has behaviors that would drive you friggin nuts after a while of dating her.

Hey, so do guys.

My point is that you will probably jump in headfirst based on her hot qualities. You’ll actually resist any attempt from your friends or family to talk some sense into you if they see some obnoxious red flags show up.

You won’t want to see those warning signs, because – gosh, in about 30 seconds all you’ll see are those plump delicious melons.

Remember, you don’t need to worry about feeling LESS attracted to a girl.

You need to worry about feeling out of control around her. That’s far more dangerous.

And really, the only way you’re going to pull this off is to…

Tip# 2: Practice with a simulator.

One of the most effective things you can do to talk to a girl with a phenomenal set of jugs is to make it “no big deal.”

One of my favorite tips for guys to do this is to create a distracting situation for him to practice without risking anything.

Something I call a “simulator.”

What you do is get a Playboy centerfold, or just print out a pinup of a hot naked girl.

Tape it up to the wall at about eye level. Make sure it’s an image where she’s making eye contact with you.

The more distracting her body is to you, the better.

Then you just practice walking up and opening a conversation with her. Use your best “line” or routine.

Walk up multiple times, always keeping the eyes from going south. If you slip up, walk away, clear your head, and try again.

(Just be sure to take it down before you invite her back to your place…)

The key here is not to let your eyes wander down to her cha-chas. Or anywhere else for that matter.

You want to look as if you locked eyes with her and can’t see anything else.

The better you can do this, the better chance you’ll have of getting on her radar as a “yes” instead of a “hell no.”

Keep those eyes under control.

The best way to do that is to always keep her eyes and her face as your primary focus.

If you can make her boobs a low priority, and dial up your curiosity about who she is as a person – you’ll have no problem getting a conversation going that will warm her up to you.

#3: Sneak a peek…

Look, the fact is that you’re going to go insane if you can’t check out her gorgeous set of mammaries. It will literally make you freak out if you DON’T look.

So what you have to do is time your peek for when you’ve already got the conversation going. There will come a time when she laughs and closes her eyes, or looks away, or down at her phone…

And when she does, you can drink in the vista of jubblies before you. Go ahead, you earned it.

Take a second to imagine yourself pressed between them. Then look away before she can catch you staring when she looks back at you.

What you’re doing is glimpsing instead of leering at her like a sex-starved fiend.

Just focus your efforts on not checking out her boobs for about the first minute or so of talking to her. That’s all you gotta do, man!

Remember that if she gives you an initial cold-shoulder, it has nothing to do with you. Women with big tits are ogled all the time, and she’s used to every man’s interest in her being just one thing – sexual.

She’s just built up an instinctive defense mechanism over the years.

She has had to handle the lusty stares from men who were clueless idiots, as well as the jealous anger of other girls who see her as a huge threat. (Which she is, by the way.)

Be the guy who wants to get into her brain as much as her bra and you’ll stand a real chance at making her yours.

And that leads us to the last tip…

#4: Know what to say to win her

Look, if you don’t have any idea of what you’re going to say to her before you walk up, it’s almost guaranteed that you’ll make one of these hideous errors:

– You’ll talk yourself out of it completely.

And don’t think you’re “off the hook” either. If you fail to approach, it’s still a failure.

You’ll never get to meet her, and it’s an opportunity you messed up.

In the words of Wayne Gretzky – I miss every shot I don’t take.

Or you’ll make this error:

– You’ll go in without a clue, and she’ll just brush you right off like lint on her sweater.

Most guys think there’s something noble about approaching and talking to a girl without a plan. As if it’s fake or deceptive to have a good idea of what you’re going to say in advance.

Or they feel it’s “wrong” to use tried and true conversation starters that get you talking with her in the first place.

The simple fact is that the one thing that will make you a success with women in general is to have a rock solid strategy for talking to her.

And not just talking to her, but knowing what to say that will flick her interest switch ON in her head.

NOTHING else will increase the number of women you sleep with more.

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In fact, if your phone game is tight enough, you can pretty much skip straight to sex without ever having to hang out with her.

One of the biggest problems I hear about from guys is that they can’t text a woman and get a response from her. It’s almost as if she gets off on reading the texts, but never responding.

Check out this email from a guy who had this problem:
______________________
Hey, Carlos –

I was out last week at a few bars, and I met this really cool chick. We were into the same music, and she even liked some of the geeky shows I like on cable.

So I got her number, and I waited until the next day to text her. I just sent her a quick message:

“Hey, what’s up… I’m heading to Steamy’s later… wanna meet me?”

A few minutes go by, and I see on my iPhone that she got my text message (it showed as delivered) and then those little dots showed up that tell you that she’s typing back.

And then they disappeared…!
No response.

And I waited for about an hour before I just gave up on her responding.

I don’t know what it is these days with women and texting, but it’s really irritating to go through all that effort, and then find out she’s one of those flakey bitches.

Why is it so hard to meet women these days?

Texting girls is a pain in the butt.

It seems like girls are delegating all connection with guys over to their phones, and then they don’t reply to texts, or calls…

How do you get their attention?

How do you text a girl you like?

– Nils in Stuttgart, DE

______________________
CARLOS ANSWERS:

I can totally relate to your frustration, Nils.

Women do use their phones like a digital personal assistant…

And a bouncer!

So it’s critical that you know how to break through the wall of ‘boring’ she has to deal with each day. Message after message of drivel that basically shows only one of three things about his personality:

1) The guy didn’t put any thought into the text at all. Which is a recipe for her ignoring texts.

He just sent out the first thing that came to his head.

“Yo…”

“Whassup…”

“How are you doing?”

Think about how excited a hot girl is going to be to answer that.

Not at all.

In fact she’s waiting to be *entertained* by guys, not interviewed. So you have to be ready to give better than you expect to get.

Hang with me and I’ll explain how you can overcome that with some easy canned texts you can use anytime.

Now the other thing that most guy’s messages show is that…

2) He’s clueless and boring.

Most guys actually aren’t actually boring (some are clueless). Usually it’s his fear of saying anything that might ruin it for him that pushes him into sending generic, conversational texts that make her yawn.

After all, you don’t want to lose all this progress because you risked it all on a weird text message, right?

So you send some bland conversational stuff that isn’t interesting. But – you figure – at least you’re connecting with her.

HINT: You’re not actually connecting.

What usually happens is that the interaction turns into a back and forth about stuff that sounds like Small Talk From Hell. She realizes that you’re probably better off in the friend zone as a result.

For example:

HIM: Hey, you ever go to that new gym on 9th?

HER: Yeah, it’s crazy busy, but I love the machines…

HIM: Me too! I’m a big fan of the Ellipticals with the stirrups to hold your feet in

HER: Yeah…

HIM: So you ever do the classes there? My friend says they’re great if you want something different in your workout…

HER: Not yet…

HIM: Well, the other thing about that gym is that they…

YAAAAAAWWWNNNNNNN….

You get the point, right?

You keep bantering about the same topic, it’s going to get old really fast.

Texting is not the place to hold a conversation. It’s a place to create and spark attraction with her as fast as possible.

Oh, and the last thing that most guys show in their texts is that:

3) He’s crude, unsophisticated, and an oaf.

He basically adjusted his weiner, and thought to himself – “Hey, maybe she’d like a picture of it.”

Nope. That happens … um, never.

You’d think from the epidemic of dick pictures floating around out there that this was a sound strategy, but it’s not. In fact, women don’t find dicks (erect or not) attractive.

(Honestly, I’m not sure if I think my own is all that good looking…)

And the crude comments and sexual hints don’t usually make women all that hot either.

So in order to really get through, you have to know how to navigate the tricky minefield of good texting protocol.

What I’m going to do is share 3 Texting tips you can use to get through to a woman.

If you’re going to try to flirt with a girl over text, you need to know what to say – and how to say it.

So let’s dig in with the first tip:

Tip 1: When you text her, play both sides of the blade.

Most guys are either too serious with their texts, or they fumble it when they try to send a funny text.

I call this the “blade” of texting girls, because there’s a fine edge between being serious to the point of boring and being funny to the point of being a douche.

So the best strategy is to send a text that balances a bit of both.

If you have to ask her a serious question, you can always offset it with a bit of humor. And if you know you need to send something a bit funny, you can inject a bit of serious to keep it interesting.

For example, if she wants to know when and where you’re meeting up with her:

HER: Hey, where we meeting up? n’ what time?

YOU: I’m thinking the Bobcat Lounge on Folkston. I get off the stripper pole at 7:30 and I have to collect my tips, so – 8:00?

You see what I did there? I took an otherwise boring “logistical” text and spiced it up with something fun. And I’m fully prepared to recall that joke again later to get some more mileage from it.

Tip 2: When you text, text irregularly

Again, most guys are so excited to get a text from a woman that they pounce on it and look like they’re Mr. Eager Guy.

I get it, you haven’t had much action in a while, and this texting feels really novel and interesting. Who could blame you?

But you can’t act like a thirsty man in the desert, no matter how parched you may feel.

When she texts you, step back and take a breath. Rejoice a little that you got a response and bask in it for a while.

Then wait a few more minutes… what’s the rush?

After all, when the roles are reversed, don’t you find yourself on pins and needles wondering “When am I going to get a reply?”

Don’t deny her the delicious fun of anxiously waiting for your reply.

Wait it out, Make her sweat a little…

THAT is how the pros do it.

And when you’re ready:

Tip 3: Use a photo to dial up the fun

One thing that can make a text a lot more interesting is including a photo.

Most phones these days have a camera feature, and even the most low-grade budget ones. So you can grab a decent picture of almost anything. (And remember, pictures of any sexual part of your body are off limits.)

I used to send pictures of my knuckles, the neighbor’s cat, and even my sideburns.

You simply send her a picture of it and ask her a crazy question about it.

I asked one girl to tell me if the cat in the picture looked like it was trying to read my thoughts…

It got huge laughs and finally led up to her sending me 3 pictures of her boobs.

(That’s with no top on, by the way.)

Pictures are like letting her in on your side of the story. Without having to say anything, and giving you a chance to really connect in a way that straight texting simply can’t do.

Don’t neglect this under-utilized technique in drawing her attention to you… NO ONE can resist a texted picture. I guarantee it’s beyond her control to ignore you if you use that.

Now, for more tips on getting her to Sext you pictures of herself, and even get her begging you for a booty call, you need to go on to The Next Page –> Click HERE

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Why is getting girls on Facebook playing a numbers game? Because you can’t expect to get a girl on Facebook by sending a handful of girls a message. Attractive girls receive, on average, 30-50 messages a day so the chance to get a reply from one particular girl is far from 100%.

That means that if you want to get a girl on Facebook, then a basic rule applies: the more girls you message, the more replies you get. That’s why it’s a numbers game.

Poker is about playing a numbers game as well: the more hands you play, the more likely you are to win based on experience, knowing the playing style of your opponent, and so on.

I can almost hear you think: “That’s great dude, but what the f*ck has poker to do with how to get a girl on Facebook?”

You’re about to find out, because there are many other similarities between poker and getting girls on Facebook…

Get A Girl On Facebook With Poker: It’s Not The Hand That You’re Dealt… But How You’re Playing Your Cards Man!

When I think of how to get a girl on Facebook and poker, then the first thing that pops up in my mind is: it’s not the hand you’re dealt, but how you’re playing your cards.

You see, you may not be the most good looking man in town…

You may not have your act together (no car, no home of your own, no money, no goob job)…

But when it comes to how to get a girl on Facebook, all that stuff is irrelevant. Why? Because I’ve seen guys with Brad Pitt-like looks and muscles all over the place and rich guys with several cars… screw up so badly online that it would make their mothers cry!

You can get a girl on Facebook without good looks AND with all that materialistic crap, IF you know how to play your cards. Here’s how…

– If you make a fake female dating profile and see how most guys send “her” messages, you’ll know what to do to get a girl on Facebook because it’s everything those guys AREN’T doing

– Attractive girls receive 30-50 messages on a daily basis, but half of those messages don’t have a message subject, 1/4th only say “Hi” as a subject and the remaining 1/4th say corny sh*t (pardon my French) => that means a specific subject about her can get a girl on Facebook for you

– Have you seen the types of messages regular guys like you and me send girls on Facebook? The majority of messages talk about how the girl is so hot and bla bla and none contain stuff you can only say about her => use something you find on her profile to talk to her about

– When you know what type of girl you like, then why write a generic, boring profile? When you write a profile for YOUR type of girl, then you can get a girl on Facebook that’s just the way you like her => use photos, videos, interests and anything else you think your type of chick will like to attract her more easily

That’s how to play your cards to get a girl on Facebook. And last but not least I want to say:

I have met and dated more than 30 girls on Facebook WITHOUT a good profile for dating. Mine only had a couple photos and some random text on there. I achieved success because I played my cards right: I figured out how the online dating game worked and used it to my advantage.

That’s how I learned, for example, that while you focus on sending girls messages? Hardly anyone focuses on commenting on the photos and videos of a girl, so that’s my way in: it’s real easy to get her attention that way.

How To Get A Girl On Facebook Thanks To Poker: Play To Win

If you really want to get a girl on Facebook because you’re lonely, want to meet “Miss Right” or just because you want to be a player who meets dozens of chicks a year…

Then why only put an hour of your time a week into learning how to get a girl on Facebook? As they say in the poker game: don’t play to stay, play to win.

That means:

– Don’t just randomly message some girls, but make a list of all the towns and cities nearby (those you are willing to travel to), then message every single girl in your age group that’s your type and lives in one of those places => be sure to use Google Maps to find the villages that you didn’t even know were there!

– Don’t just randomly message some girls, keep track of who you have messaged and follow up if they have not replied in a week. If they still haven’t replied after another week, then message all their hot friends to reward yourself for being persistent. Persistence is what you need to get a girl on Facebook.

– Don’t just randomly message some girls, but find all the groups and interests your type of girl would like, join them, and start chatting up the Group Walls to get their attention…

– Don’t just randomly message some girls, but experiment with what you say and how you say it until you find a method that half the girls you message respond to.

This is how to get a girl on Facebook: going all-in, every single time.

Get A Girl On Facebook With Poker: Know When To Fold

Both when you want to get a girl on Facebook and in poker, there are times where you can’t play the cards you’re dealt and where continuing is just plain STUPID.

Sometimes you need to fold, like when you’re playing poker and your opponent goes all-in and it’s very likely he has some aces up his sleeve. But when do you fold when you want to get a girl on Facebook?

– Facebook is a means to an end. You can talk up some chicks on Facebook any time, but to get a girl on Facebook means thinking one step ahead: you still need to get a date. So instead of playing your cards for weeks online, fold as soon as you get the chance to take things offline. Know what I mean?

– Don’t go overboard when creating attraction to get a girl on Facebook either, because it’s one thing to tease a girl… and an entirely different thing to tease her so much that she feels like a target. Same goes for showing genuine interest: don’t write essays back to her, but meet her offline. Do it A.S.A.P.

– In poker AND on Facebook, opponents can get the best of you: you’re talking to a girl and she mentions her ex and that he’s a jerk and bla bla. That’s subliminal for “I’m still in love with the fool”, so stop wasting your time by stop talking to her. If she mentions that things didn’t work out, now that’s where SHE made the decision to stop seeing him, so then you can keep doing your thing.

Like I said: sometimes it’s better to fold instead of to play if you want to get a girl on Facebook.

To paraphrase Sun Tzu’s masterpiece The Art Of War here:

“He who knows when he can get a girl on Facebook and when he cannot, will be victorious.”

And if you want more free tips on how to get a girl on Facebook with ease, then I highly recommend you check out my Online Dating Newsletter.

It’s crammed with more secrets of Facebook and even specific things to say to attract girls online, so don’t wait and get those extra tips today.

That’s all I have to say about how poker and how to get a girl on Facebook are related. Use your newly found wisdom wisely!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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Whether you want to know how to get girls to notice you and your “girls” are 20, 30 or 40 years old… it doesn’t matter to me. Because today?

Today I will reveal, in alphabetical order, the principles I’ve used to meet dozens and dozens of girls over the years. Within moments, YOU will be able to do the same and know how to get girls to notice you time after time… after time.

Fasten your seatbelts, because here we go!

The A to E of How to Get Girls to Notice You

A: Approach constantly.

If you want to get girls to notice you, then know that the dating game is a numbers game.

Think about it man: say that you can get the phone number of 1 in 10 girls you approach and start a conversation with, then wouldn’t you want to approach AT LEAST 10 girls as often as possible so you can get as many phone numbers as you can?

Because dude, learning how to get girls to notice you continues with realizing that AFTER you get their number? You still need to get a date… and only 1 in XYZ girls will go on one with you.

Needless to say, the more numbers you make? The more likely it is you will go on dates. So, let the odds work in your favor by approaching girls constantly.

B: Be aware and notice them, before you learn how to get girls to notice you

A classic mistake you can easily mistake is thinking no girl is interested in you. EVER. I mean, why else would you be looking for tips on how to get girls to notice you? Right?

WRONG!

You just haven’t realized yet that girls have noticed you before you even tried getting noticed. Why? Because you SUCK at reading women’s body language. Every guy does. Let’s change that shall we?

Remember this about how to get girls to notice you: whenever a girl is looking your way, it’s on purpose. Not because she accidentally looked your way, not because she saw something behind you, not because you still have some ketchup from your McDonalds burger left on your cheek.

Girls who try to make eye contact with you more than once are interested in you. PERIOD. So, be aware of your environment and notice who is noticing you.

That’s the real way of learning how to get girls to notice you: talking to those that are already interested!

C: Calm down.

That may sound ridiculously easy at first, but it’s not. Not in the dating game. You tense up when you’re around a girl you are interested in. There are awkward silences. You get really nervous right before a date and during one, but my friend…

The more uncomfortable you get? The more uncomfortable girls get. They’re very good at reading body language, so the more you DON’T relax the harder it is to make things go the way you want them to go.

D: Do it yourself.

It’s better to start doing something about the results you’re getting with women RIGHT NOW, then to wait for “the right time” (which is an excuse for postponing tough situations.)

Time waits for no man my friend. It may already be too late once you get around to discovering how to get girls to notice you after several days or weeks…

And as you’re about to learn: everything will only get better when you get better (see the letter E) and failure is your friend (see the letter F).

E: Everything will only get better when you get better

Pardon my French here, but I don’t give a shit who your friends are or where or from whom you get your advice… even if you get your advice from me.

Because no matter how many times I tell you how to get girls to notice you and no matter how much I care? Nobody cares more than you do. Nobody.

And let’s face it: ultimately, you’re on your own… unless you want that friend with the great tips to join you and the hot girl you just met in bed so he can give you some advice.

No? Yeah I thought so.

The F to I of How to Get Girls to Notice You

F: Failure is your friend

If I give you a task and you succeed without much effort, would you have learned from it? No. Not as much as when you would fail, because failure forces you to go and find out what went wrong and how you can improve it, so you prevent screw ups next time.

So when it comes to how to get girls to notice you, you can take action as much as you want because failure makes you improve faster… and if you succeed?

You need to get yourself some bigger problems haha!

G: Goals are important

One of the most important lessons I have ever learned is that you focus or fail. You can’t be good at everything in the entire freaking world, because if you try a billion things at once you will do poorly a billion times.

Same goes for if you want to get girls to notice you. Meeting them left and right will do you no good. It’s like running in circles around a house you want to go in: you never focused on the door so you never found a way in.

Find your way in and set specific, challenging goals. Today you want to approach XYZ amount of girls, tomorrow you will not go home without 5 phone numbers. That type of thing.

H: Highlight your successes

If you want to stay motivated, then celebrate every little win. Because when you highlight your success you give yourself more hope that you can win, that you can do this!

That’s a big difference compared to setting goals, achieving them, and then just keep on keeping on: behaving like a hamster who runs his ass off on a treadmill that never ends like hamsters do will make you frustrated and never feel like you got the job done.

I: Inner game is what you need if you want to know how to get girls to notice you

Having inner game is being confident. You need confidence, hell, you need to love yourself. Because how can you love someone else when you don’t even love yourself? You can’t.

So train your inner game by highlighting your successes and by focusing on what you’re good at and IGNORING what you suck at. This way, you always focus on the positives and stay motivated. Focusing on negatives will make your entire life negative.

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The J to N of How to Get Girls to Notice You

J: Joke around sometimes, this is not a fight to the death

If you take yourself and the dating game too seriously, then girls will either think you’re insecure because you’re so easily offended by them not responding like you would want them to respond…

Or they will see you as a desperate little wussy because you talk and think about marriage, kids, and what not… while they are still thinking about how the date is going.

K: King of your universe is what you need to be.

Other people’s opinions of you or how to get girls to notice you do not matter because:

– Every man likes a different type of woman, so what do they know about YOUR type
– An opinion is subjective and based on feelings instead of facts. Are you a toy for their feelings or are you in complete control of your feelings?
– The only opinion that counts is the opinion you have of yourself: your self-esteem
– You are not a product of your environment, your environment is a product of you. So if YOU change? Opinions and people change.

Be the captain of your own destiny. The king of your universe. You are in the driver’s seat of your life and no one’s putting you in the backseat, you got that?

L: Learn how to get girls to notice you from those around you

What makes you think you are the first guy who tried to figure out how to get girls to notice you? If you were, then I would not be writing this blog post.

So, look around. Look and see if there are other guys and girls who are incredibly good at meeting someone of the opposite sex. Why not befriend them and learn from them?

You will be surprised about just how many there are. It’s where I got my “game” from.

M: Money is useless when it comes to how to get girls to notice you.

Cough up the cash by buying flowers, gifts, dinners, chocolate before/during the first few dates and girls will think you are trying to make up for something.

Why else would you try to buy their approval?

Wait until there’s a relationship and, even then, remember: the most amazing dates are completely free. Counting the stars together, walking on the beach together, etc. Girls love that stuff and it doesn’t cost a damn dime.

N: Never give up.

Put simply, how can you beat someone who never quits? If you never quit learning how to get girls to notice you, then you will become a master at getting girls to notice you. A master of attraction.

The O to R of How to Get Girls to Notice You

O: Over-thinking is not done.

What is a witty thing to say right now? How do I attract her? What does she think of me? When should I kiss her? Stop it. Right now.

The more you think while approaching girls or dating them, the less time you actually spend enjoying yourself. The less time you’re in the moment and the more you start to feel uncomfortable.

Have a great time and turn your brain switch off for the night. It makes a HUGE difference.

P: Psychological needs are THE be-all, end-all of how to get girls to notice you.

Whenever girls aren’t completely satisfied with their lives you can get girls to notice you. Where there’s a need, there’s a way. And frankly? Girls are attracted to you because of psychological needs.

Take girls who grew up without a father or whose father was rarely or never there. They crave a strong, authoritative man in their lives because they never had one. Never had a father figure.

The best way to attract those girls is by being dominant, telling them what they should and cannot do… just like a father would.

There are TONS of other psychological needs and I talk about them all in my free Inner Game Newsletter. Sign up for it today if you want to master every possible psychological need women could ever have… so they will fall in love with you in no time.

Q: Question all the rules

“You shouldn’t talk to a girl when she’s with her mother. That doesn’t work.” It worked.

“Women never have sex on the first date.” With me they have.

“Women don’t like masculine men. They like emancipated men.” I’m both masculine and emancipated, as long as you mean a respecter of women’s rights by that and not a fagget.

As you can see: many rules other people make up for themselves or for others don’t always apply to you.

Hell, I can tell from personal experience that 90% of what everyone said could not be done when it comes to how to get girls to notice you… has been done by yours truly.

So question the rules, bend them and break them. A rule is only good until a better rule is invented

R: Remember this about other guys…

The only guys that will respect you in the dating game when both you and they are single, are guys that already know how to get girls to notice them.

But your friends, family, and other men in general? They will try to compete with you even when they like you, because 90% of the male population doesn’t know how to meet girls.

Because of that they try anything out of desperation, including talking shit about you behind your back. They don’t know what works so anything goes.

I’ve learned this about how to get girls to notice you the hard way, but you can prevent it.

The S to Z of How to Get Girls to Notice You

S: Street smarts count, but book smarts do too

Quite often you will be so caught up in trying to learn how to get girls to notice you that you lose sight of what’s important. It’s like writing an essay and not seeing certain spelling errors others can because you’re too involved in it and don’t have an overview of it all anymore.

So, yes, learning by experience is important. Street smarts are very important, but you need other people’s insights because they look at what you’re doing from a different angle.

That’s why I read several books a month: to get a bird’s eye view of what I’m doing so I can see where I went wrong and improve it. Start doing the same. Read books on how to get girls to notice you, psychology, body language.

The whole nine yards.

T: Take action if you want to know how to get girls to notice you.

Nothing gets done by reading alone. Knowledge may be power, but only if it’s APPLIED knowledge: knowledge put into practice.

The most important lesson to learn about how to get girls to notice you is that you always take action. That way experience will be your teacher… and it’s the best professor ever.

U: Urgency is good for you

You need to learn how to get girls to notice you successfully by YESTERDAY. Not only is it important that you take action, you also need to do it now so hesitation can’t “mind fuck” your mind.

And if you fail because you don’t know how to do something well yet? Great! Because failure is your friend: it allows you to improve the fastest, so the more you fail the faster you learn.

V: Vocalize your opinion, always

Just because you like a girl doesn’t mean you are her “Yes man” now. Don’t agree with everything she says, especially if you do not agree if a male friend would say that.

It makes you look like a follower. Her slave. That’s desperate.

W: Women are not the enemy

Look, when 15 women did not want to give you their number this past week… does that make all women the enemy? Nope. Yet still, I see so many guys start to resent women because a few women hurt their feelings.

A few don’t represent the many. Some women are bitches, but then again, some men are assholes. Deal with it.

You can learn so much from women, have such a great time with them, and mastering how to get girls to notice you improves all areas of your life in so many ways… that it’s insane.

It’s insane to say women are the enemy. They aren’t. You are not trying to get something from them against their will like rapists are. You win WITH women, not from them.

Guess why I called this blog the Win With Women blog? That’s right.

X: Xxx

Xxx stands for romance (3 little kisses). Most guys thinks it’s such a gay thing to say, do, and think about. I think all of those guys are f-ing idiots. They know nothing about how to get girls to notice you, obviously…

Because girls fantasize, giggle, get shy, and fall in love over simple romantic gestures. Just because you don’t think they’re masculine doesn’t make romance suck.

Hell, since you aren’t trying to get guys to notice you? You’d better start thinking about what girls want… and give it to them. Which leads me to the letter Y.

Y: You must think from their perspective to get girls to notice you.

The more you see every aspect of the dating game from a girl’s perspective, the easier it becomes to learn how to get girls to notice you… and to actually get girls to notice you.

Example: tons of guys get all worked up about rejection, saying how girls are bitches and what not. Meanwhile, guess how girls feel about rejecting a guy?

It’s a challenge for them: they don’t want to hurt you, but they don’t like you enough at the same time. They don’t want to crush your confidence, but they also don’t want to be with a guy they don’t have feelings for.

So when a girl says “No”, she just made a tough decision. Why not cash in on her doubts by asking for something a little more low key? If you don’t get her number, ask for her Facebook. A date with you is too soon? Then ask her to come hang out with you and your friends.

That kind of thing is how to get girls to notice you by showing them you understand how they think and feel.

Z: Zero in on your perfect “target”

The sooner you know what type of girl you want to notice you, the better! It makes the dating game so much easier for you because you will know where to look.

I, for example, like exotic women. Latinas and Middle Eastern women especially. So I go where they go. Now YOU decide where YOU are going.

One More Thing About How To Get Girls To Notice You…

These are the 26 basic principles that help you get girls to notice you, but I understand if you crave some practical tips right now. Some how to do this and say that stuff. That’s no problem because you can gain access to more tips for free!

How? Don’t wait any longer and sign up for my Inner Game Newsletter. That’s how.

I hope you liked my tips for how to get girls to notice you!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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A guy asked me recently how do you get girls to like you and I told him, just like I’m about to tell you, that if you know what NOT to do then you’ll do okay every time you avoid it.

Hell, you’ll do better than okay if you do. You’ll do well. You’ll kick ass! And if you want to answer for yourself how do you get girls to like you, then there are 8 things you need to look out for. Eight common mistakes…

Eight things you need to stop doing RIGHT NOW if you don’t want to shoot yourself in the foot in the dating game. Once you stop doing them?

You will get more results with girls in a month than you got throughout last year…

How Do You Get Girls To Like You? Don’t Give What They Want

They don’t say the grass is greener on the other side for nothing dude. People want what they can’t have, and that includes girls.

So, the first thing I’ll say when you ask me how do you get girls to like you, is that you should NOT give them what they want. Want examples? Here you go:

– If girls ask you to do something for them, then don’t do it. You may think you’re being a gentleman by doing it or that you’re romantic, but it’s actually more powerful to NOT do it. I’ll explain in a second, so keep reading…

– How do you get girls to like you, you ask? Remember this: if girls want to do something with you, tell them “NO” and that you’d like to do XYZ with them instead.

– If girls have opinion A, you disagree and have opinion B when you’re not 100% behind their ideas or opinions.

– Hell, even if girls ask you to kiss them (or better), tell them “NO” and that you’ll give them what they want when you feel like it OR that they’ll have to work for it.

Now, why would you NOT give girls what they want? And how do you get girls to like you with it? Is that even possible!?

Yes it is!

You see, girls are used to guys chasing them around. They expect it. They expect to get what they want: attention, love, admiration. They expect you to give it to them because you’re supposed to be impressed by their looks.

So, isn’t that the best and fastest way to get girls then? Hell no! Think about it when you ask yourself how do you get girls to like you: are you the only one who will be giving them what they want? Far from it. You’ll just be another guy.

Imagine what happens when you STOP giving girls what they’re expecting:

– They can’t push you around and let you do stuff (you have more confidence than that)
– You lead them to where you’d like to go instead of following their ideas (you’re dominant)
– You don’t agree or say “YES” when they want to hear it (you’re independent)
– You have extreme control over your emotions, even in bed (you’re totally in control)

In short: by not giving girls what they want you display confidence, dominance, independence, and control over your life and situation. All four of these things are qualities in a guy that attract girls.

And, last but not least, you’ll be hard to get and get girls to like you because of it… because people, including girls, want what they can’t have more than what they can easily get.

Do you see now that you get girls to like you by NOT giving them what they want?

How Do You Get Girls To Like You? Know When To Leave

Another common mistake you should avoid if you want to get girls to like you is always being around. You need to know when to leave. When to leave girls the f*ck alone (pardon my French).

How do you get girls to like you by leaving them alone you say? Some examples:

1) According to my research, 81% of guys get girls numbers in a club or bar or at a party. And what do you do after you get a girls number? You keep on partying so she sees you make a complete fool of yourself when you’re so drunk you can’t walk anymore… OR… you’ll stick to her like bees to honey, which freaks her out and kills ANY AND ALL ATTRACTION.

2) I made this mistake myself many times and it’s a tough one to beat: you get girls numbers and you simply talk too much. There’s too much talking, too little walking. In other words, you should have asked her out like FIVE phone calls ago. Cut to the chase dude. Email, Facebook, texting, calling… they’re all means to an end. So instead of having fun talking, have fun dating by asking her out A.S.A.P.

3) When you manage to pass the drunk/stickiness test (see above), you can’t get girls to like you by calling them or texting them all day long. That’s not the answer to “how do you get girls to like you”. Why? It makes you easy to get and like you just found out: that’s not what girls want. By always being available a girl has NO idea of what it’s like to NOT have you around. She simply won’t know what she’s missing, so make her miss you.

Conclusion: you get girls to like you by making them realize you make their life so much better, because it SUCKS to NOT have you around.

How Do You Get Girls To Like You? Meet Other Girls

One final point I want to make about how to get girls to like you, is that most regular guys such as yourself make a BIG mistake by talking to one girl they like and one girl alone.

Why is this a mistake when you want to get girls to like you?

Simple: not only will you have nothing left when things don’t work out with this one girl, but you’ll also leave money on the tablet by not using what’s called pre-selection.

I can almost hear you think: “how do you get girls to like you with pre-selection then?”

Scientists once did an experiment to discover the mating habits of peacocks. In their experiment they placed a fake female peacock next to a male, put a male all by himself at a distance from the first one, and then they let real female peacocks pick their mate.

Guess which male they wanted to mate with? The male who already had a girl. THAT’S why you get more attention from girls when you have a girlfriend or when you’re with other girls.

That’s the best answer to the question of how do you get girls to like you I can ever give you…

You being in the presence of girls tells a whole lot about you: you’re an attractive guy or the girl wouldn’t be with you, there must be several things about you that girls like because your girl looks happy, etc.

In short: let the girl you want to attract see you with other girls and she’ll get jealous. She’ll want to be with you more than ever before and than with anyone else.

And now you know what you shouldn’t do to get girls to like you, you must be asking yourself what you SHOULD do. Hell, you want examples of what to say to get girls to like you, right?

You want some examples of how to ask girls out too, don’t you? Isn’t having the answer to how do you get girls to like you enough? Just kidding!

No worries my friend, because I have a SHITLOAD of free tips on how to get girls to like you waiting for you. You can find them inside my exclusive Inner Game Members Newsletter, so don’t wait and get those tips now by becoming a member.

And right about now this movie junkie has a thirst…a thirst for Sidney Prescott. A thirst for killers with ghostface masks. A thirst for what “Pick up the phone man! Waaazaaaaaaa!” was based on. And that’s a thirst for Scream 4. I’m out!

Hope you liked my answers on the age old question of how do you get girls to like you.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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