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A List Of Quick Tips For Dating Older Women

Bullsh*t runs the marathon when it comes to dating older women, so allow me to give you some pointers so you can separate fact from fiction:

1) Remember that when you’re trying to learn how to date older women, they’re from a different year… hell, maybe even a different generation… than you are. That means their idea of romantic music, for example, could be very different from yours: you like R&B for romance, they like … (I’m of the R&B generation, so I really don’t know haha). Just know that you need to adapt to their “time zone” with everything you do

2) If you’re actively looking for older women, remember that you can’t expect to start dating older women by going to a random club. That’s where people your age go. Depending on how old you’re aiming for, look for appropriate places to meet older women. Want a 30 year old hottie? Look for 70s and 80s parties or performances from music artists who were popular back then.

3) It’s been proven by research project after research project that women mature faster than man, so a woman who is 18 for example is mentally more mature than a 18 year old guy. When you want to date older women, the difference is even bigger. But beware: women up until 40 years of ago may HATE immaturity, but women above 40? They want to feel young again, so you can bet your ass they’re attracted to guys with a young spirit!

4) This may sound corny, but wisdom comes with age. Older women are more experienced mentally, emotionally, sexually, and world-wise. Use this to your advantage: learn as much as you can while you’re dating older women, because you’ll be that much more attractive to when you would go back to dating women your age. Women want men who know women.

And these are just 4 of the many secrets behind dating older women...

Dating Older Women And The Kids Issue

With dating older women and the kids issue I mean, of course, how to deal with older women who have kids.

A question I’m frequently asked is: are they any different? Are older women with children different from those without them?

The answer’s YES… and NO.

Yes dating older women with children is different, because next to a man who can satisfy their own needs, they also need a father for their child.

This means that they’ll think twice about giving in to their emotions every time they see you because they don’t want their child to grow up seeing man after man come and go, while the child’s wondering who his/her real father is.

This means she’ll have her shields up at first until she sees you’re good with children and the child seems to like you too. Don’t expect to date older women with a child for long if you and the kid can’t be in the same room…

And no, dating older women with children isn’t that different, because a woman’s still a woman…

So, regardless of if she has kids or not, she’ll still respond to playful teasing. To dominance. To you being mysterious. To you being picky. Hell, it’s likely she’ll respond to it more than other women do because most men do NOT want to date a single mother because they don’t want the responsibility of a child… so she’s lonelier than others and thus more responsive…

Plus, you can still be a bad boy and get her without seeing her child at all. Just don’t expect to be dating older women with kids for long while you’re ignoring the fact they have kids, because she WILL bring up the issue of the father figure I mentioned before.

Check out the blog post of your liking above to discover even more about how to date older women… OR… you can check out our page on how to get with a girl in general to learn more about what women (of all ages) are attracted to, how to approach them, and how to date them successfully.

I hope you liked my thoughts on dating older women. More on this topic’s coming soon!

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women