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More On Social Skills…

I’d like to take some time and share some more secrets of social kills with you that have helped me improve my life a lot.

First off, the more social skills you have, the easier it is to make new friends. With new friends come birthdays, parties, holidays and I don’t know what else… and invitations for them.

If you really want to improve your social skills AND dating success, them I highly recommend you accept EVERY invitation to hang out and to catch up later with someone if you’re already busy.

Why?

Because you never know who might show up too.

I’ve experienced first hand how the hottest, smartest, and funniest women can show up on some random nobody’s birthday. So, always go.

Secondly, if you ever find yourself in situations where the conversation with a woman goes stale? Then you simply haven’t got enough social skills to keep the conversation going.

In other words: with enough social skills there is no such thing as an awkward silence…

Hell, with enough social skills there is no such thing as having trouble attracting women because you’ve talked to a shitload of women before and can simply tell from experience what they do and do not respond well too.

I hope you realize now how important improving your social skill is.

Improving Your Social Skills One Obstacle At A Time

The main reason why most men never get to improve their social skills is because they aim too high. Don’t do that!

Don’t immediately aim for being able to talk to women really well if you can’t even keep a conversation with yourself going for a couple minutes.

Start slow if you want to improve your social skills. Here are some increasingly difficult step you can take:

1) Try talking to one of your parents or any other family member for 5-10 minutes straight. Don’t talk about yourself. Ask them questions and follow-up on their answers.

2) Improve your social skills by talking to a friend you have the least in common with for 5-10 minutes straight AND make sure it’s a fun conversation from start to finish

3) Talk to a random stranger like he/she’s your friend and have a fun conversation for around 5 minutes. Repeat this with 14-21 strangers over the course of a week, which is only 2 to 3 strangers a day when you think about it.

4) Work on your social skills by talking to a girl/woman your age who you’re friends with or very familiar with and talk to her for 5 minutes and make sure she’s enjoying it. Repeat this with 5-10 people depending on how many women you know. Colleagues and family members of friends count too.

5) Repeat the step above, but now try to keep the conversation going for half an hour. Try to tease her a little bit, be dominant a little bit or use any of the other attractive character traits.

6) Talk to a random woman your age you’ve never met before and practice your social skills by having a fun conversation about anything you want. Keep it going for 3-5 minutes and then say goodbye and walk away. Repeat this with 7-14 women over the course of a week, which is only 1 to 2 women a day.

7) Talk to a random woman your age who seems to be your type and who you’ve never met before. Try having a fun conversation with her for 3-5 minutes and try to tease her a little bit, be dominant, etc. Repeat this with 7-14 women over the course of a week, then do the same the week afterwards but now ask for their number.

One thing’s for damn sure when you’re improving your social skills in this step-by-step way:

You’ll feel more and more comfortable around other people with each new step. By the time you get to step 7 it’s no biggie to talk to hot women anymore!

Now tell me…

Do you want to know more about meeting women after reading how big an advantage having good social skills is in the dating game? Then I know just for the thing for you…

Check out our page on how to get with a girl and how you can make it easy for yourself. The biggest enemy that prevents you from getting the results with women you want is called… you, so we’ll start with how to accept and improve yourself on that page.

Anyways, this movie maniac is about to watch himself some Transformers 3 because I’m somewhat of a geek who likes techie stuff (including robots). Talk to you later…

And I hope you liked my thoughts on what to use your social skills for and on how to improve your social skills.

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women