Whether you want to get internet date tips to meet women on internet dating sites, social networks or Yahoo/MSN Messenger… it doesn’t matter to me. Because today?

Today I will reveal, in alphabetical order, the principles I’ve used to meet one woman after the other, after the other… after the other while internet dating. Within moments, YOU will be able to do the same with my “back to basics” internet date tips.

So, fasten your seatbelts, because here we go!

The A-E Of Internet Date Tips

A: Always exceed other guys. Internet date tips that fail to mention that are unrealistic.

That almost sounded like you have to compete like CRAZY just to “get the girl”, didn’t it?

But it actually works both ways and here’s why:

– Start regularly checking what other guys in your area have on their profile. If they all have lots of cool photos, a funny description and all of that, then you’re dealing with stiff competition and you have to go beyond what they’ve done.

– On the other hand, when you check the profiles of the guys in your area and they’re all simple, crappy, cheesy, and have really bad pictures? Then using tons of cool photos, humor, a long and high quality description of yourself and so on can come across like you’re overdoing it. Like you’re too good to be true. Like you’re a player.

My internet date tips will show you how to match and exceed what your worthless and already defeated rivals… uhh… I mean formidable adversaries… are doing on their profiles.

B: Be aware of what women typically receive.

One of the best internet date tips I can ever give you is that you should get yourself a fake female profile with photos of a hot chick on there.

Why?

When you see what kind of idiotic messages other guys send women and how many idiots try to get a woman’s attention in your inbox, the way you view internet dating will be changed forever.

Because here’s the brutal truth most internet date tips neglect:

– Attractive women get an average of 30-50 messages from idiots a day

– Of those messages, half don’t even have a message subject so why should they open one of those?

– Of the remaining half, half has a subject that says “Hi” or is a cheesy pick up line (again: why would they open one of those?)

Thinking along those lines, internet date tips should better start telling you that internet dating is mostly about how to stand out in the sea of jackasses that don’t even take the time to send a woman a REAL message.

C: Calm down. Or as Samuel L. Jackson said in Pulp Fiction: “Tell that b*tch to chill!”

When women don’t reply to your message or stopped replying, don’t you freak out on me! And especially don’t send them 5 angry messages demanding an explanation (a lot of guys do that, trust me). Calm down…

Because here’s something to think about: since attractive women who are into internet dating receive so much junk mail from idiots every day, imagine what happens if they aren’t online for a day or two…

Do you really think they want to open hundreds of message that are all lame, predictable, boring, and cheesy? They’ll stop opening messages fast and it’s likely they simply haven’t seen your message yet.

So calm down and try again after a week or so because a woman might read your message the second time around. Now THIS is a realistic internet date tip.

I’m sorry for ranting here, but those “cloud nine”, Fantasy Land based internet date tips most people give you that don’t work really piss me off!

D: Do or die, that’s what the land of internet dating is like.

Here’s another piece of realism for you: since most women get so much junk from jackasses who have no genuine interest in them at all, they get bored with a site FAST.

That’s why you’ll quickly discover that most “members” of internet dating sites are actually women who gave up on the site a long time ago and who are never online anymore.

In short: new female members of a site are easier to talk to (try finding them by looking at the dates chicks signed up for the site)… AND… new dating sites and social networks are a great place for you to meet women (since they haven’t been junk mailed to death there yet).

E: Every response you get because of my internet date tips is a good one.

Yes, that’s true even when you tease a woman and she replies all pissed off. And yes, it’s also true even when a lady says “NO” when you ask for her number.

Think about it: interesting women get 30-50 messages a day on average. That means you have to stand out in a sea of freaking messages every time you send them one, so getting a reply thanks to my internet date tips means hitting their emotional sweet spot enough for them to reply.

And remember: attraction is a FEELING based on emotions, so even when you get an angry emotion thrown at you? You still did better than 99% of the men why try to meet women online that NEVER get a reply.

So, you just have to calm down that angry chick, make her laugh, and you’ve got her in the pocket. And I can tell you that from experience, because hot tempered women are my favorite and I dated many of them thanks to internet dating!

The F-I Of Internet Date Tips That Spark The Chemistry

F: Fugget about it.

Forget about getting dates by meeting women online if you reply to their messages within minutes of getting them. That looks like you’ve been waiting for their reply all damn day!

Forget about getting dates with my internet date tips when you never attempt to take things offline and into the real world. You can hide behind a computer screen all you want, but a date still happens face-to-face my friend.

Forget about ages, especially on social networks, because you won’t believe how many women say they’re 99 or 11 on purpose just so you stay of their case. Just so no one can find them. Guess why? They got tired of all the junk mail idiots always sent them.

In other words: read up on the don’ts, then check out some of my samples of dating profiles so you know what the do’s are too.

G: Go beyond websites to meet more women online.

There’s more out there than dating sites and social networks you know. Take forums for people (including women) who share a common interest for example.

And take apps like Foursquare and other location-based services.

Experiment until you find the best place to meet and date women online.

H: Hold it together man! Use my internet date tips to hold your dating profile together!

Now when I say hold it together I mean your profile on a social network.

You see, most social networks give you a BILLION things you can put on your profile: photos, comments, videos, groups, interests, and the list goes on and on.

That’s a blessing if you try and use every single area of your profile for attracting women, but it can seriously hurt your chances of getting the girl if you have attractive photos… but the rest of your profile is total garbage that ruins the perfect picture you’re trying to paint, know what I’m saying?

That means you need to go hard or go home (offline): either pimp your entire internet dating profile to attract the women you would want in your life or don’t even freaking bother.

I: If you build it, they will NOT come.

There are too many losers out there trying to tell you with their internet date tips that if you write a dating profile, then smoking hot women will magically fall into your lap.

That’s not reality. That’s wishful thinking.

You have to actively start messaging women if you want to get yourself some dates, because internet dating is a numbers game: not all women will respond, of those who respond not all of them give you their number… and of those that do, not all of them will go on a date with you.

So it’s safe to say that the more women you talk to online… the higher your chances of getting women will be. That’s a “minor” detail most internet date tips fail to tell you.

The J-N Of Internet Date Tips That Make Women Want You

J: Just text. It’s what makes internet dating and thus internet date tips different.

I’ll give you a hint here and let you do the math…

In clubs, bars, stores and what not, you can use your body language, voice tone, eye contact, clothing style, female friends, and much more to attract women. Online you can’t. Online there’s only text you can talk to women with. And, remember, attraction is a feeling based on emotions.

Do you realize what this means? It means you have to find ways to create as much emotion with text as possible to attract women. You can do that with emoticons, EMPHASIZING words, and with pauses… just like the one in this sentence.

K: Kama Sutra.

Wait a minute! Did I just mention an overly sexual book in a blog post with internet date tips? Yep! And here’s why…

Guess why most guys try to meet women online? Usually because they feel uncomfortable talking to women face-to-face because they lack the confidence, social skills or conversational skills to do so.

The result: most guys who talk to women online beat around the bush. They’re not to the point. They don’t directly say what they want, how they feel, and so on and so forth.

Guess how you stand out in the internet dating world of the overly timid dudes? Correct: by being overly sexual. So, by being VERY direct.

Example: instead of chatting up a woman about her hobbies, job and I don’t know what else, be very direct after you’ve made her laugh and say something along the lines of…

“Look, I normally don’t do this but I think you’re absolutely beautiful from head to toe and you’re funny too. Just the way I like it, so let’s continue this conversation over a cup of coffee.”

That’s being direct, wouldn’t you agree?

L: Love comes AFTER the date, not by talking to someone online.

You will come across women online who are lonely but don’t want a relationship. And you will meet women online who say “NO” for months before you can date them (if they ever agree to date you that is).

And over time, you get to know those women. Get to know them well. What kind of person they are, their ambitions, their likes and dislikes and bla bla bla. Most guys (including me once) tend to confuse having lots of fun with a woman online with love. Don’t.

Because the moment you say the three magic words (I love you), you’ll scare them away. Plus, how do you know if you love someone when you haven’t ever met them in person?

M: Multiply.

Since woman A can be on site 1 while woman B can be on site 2 but not on 1, internet date tips that say you don’t need multiple profiles can do nothing but SUCK.

That says it all really. You can increase your chances of achieving internet dating success just by having more than one profile at any one time.

N: No means not yet.

When you ask a woman for her number online and she says “NO”, never forget that you managed to stand out in a sea of messages from jackasses remember?

There’s an emotional connection there, because if she didn’t care then she would have just read your request and never respond to it. But she did. That tells you something: that she’s not sure she’s NOT interested. And that means she’s not ready… yet!

All you have to do then is persist. Tease her by saying you promise you will only call her 10,000 times a day.

If it’s still no, then attract her some more. Get to know her a little better. Then try again.

The O-R Of Internet Date Tips

O: Overly confident is what all internet date tips should show you how to be.

Why?

Because like I said before: most guys who sign up for internet dating are NOT the confident types. They tend to be shy, to have no clue of what they should say, etc. Meanwhile, women are attracted to confidence.

So it’s easy to stand out in the crowd by being slightly too confident. Examples:

Her: “You’re sweet”
You: “I know!”

Her: “Why do you want my number? I don’t give my number to strangers”
You: “I want it because I know you’ll like me even more when you can hear my voice”

P: Protect your interests man.

I just know I’m going to piss off female readers with this, but I’m still saying it because my goal is to help MEN succeed online with my internet date tips… not women.

Dude, when on a social network, never forget that people can see everything. So when you got a girl’s number on Facebook and add a different girl as a friend the next day for example?

Don’t be surprised if you get questions about it. Hell, don’t even be surprised if the girl that gave you her number sends a message filled with jealousy to the new chick if she really likes you.

That happened to me all the time back in the day.

So do yourself a favor and protect your interests by not befriending every girl you meet and/or get the number from, otherwise you may end up with a Wall filled with hate messages (like I did).

Q: Questions keep things going.

Were you looking for internet date tips about how to talk to women online when you started reading this blog post? Of course you were. So keep this in mind:

Keep asking questions. If you only tease a woman to create attraction, comment on what she says or answer her question and that’s it… then why would she respond?

The only good response would be a “hahaha” but what good will that do you when you want to get dates? So always ask a question, even if it’s as basic as asking her what she’s going to do or did this weekend.

It keeps her talking which, in turn, makes her trust you more and feel more comfortable around you. You need both trust and comfort before you can get a woman’s number.

R: Regularly redesigning your profile is a smart move.

Because although most women wait for men to respond to their profiles, there are plenty of women who will actively search for guys and show their interest in them.

Guess how they try to find guys? By using a site’s search engine of course.

Do you know how the search engine has been built on most internet dating sites? By displaying the people who are online or were most recently online on top.

And by regularly redesigning your profile you make sure you were online most recently a lot, which means you’ll be found by more women. Pretty awesome right?

The S-Z Of Internet Date Tips That Attract Women

S: Store everything you can use later.

If you notice that a certain playful comment about, say, True Blood that you tease her with works, then try it again on a different woman. Still works? Then store it somewhere so every time when True Blood comes up you can boost the attraction by copy and pasting a freaking piece of text.

Now THAT is one of those internet date tips that will last you a lifetime.

T: Terminator + internet dating = winning!

In other words: do you feel like it will take ages until you can finally get her number? Terminate the conversation. Don’t even bother. Save yourself the time and energy.

Do you feel like a certain site sucks because you’ve been using my internet date tips but still haven’t gotten results with women online? It’s a useless site for you. Maybe all the women there are not online as much as the site led you to be believe. Go somewhere else.

V: Violating socially accepted behavior can be a good thing.

Why? Because whether they like it or not, women fall for bad boys over and over again. And guess what bad boys do? They don’t give a shit about socially accepted behavior.

So be rude for once. Be indifferent about a woman’s feelings for once. It can help you get over your desperation.

W: Why change a winning team of internet date tips?

I should have said internet date techniques. Anyways, just like it’s a smart move to store sentences about certain topics that always work… also look for patterns in entire conversations.

Have you noticed that you most often get a woman’s number by teasing them first, then being serious, then teasing, and then asking for the digits? Write it down and most of all: keep doing it!

Have you noticed most women respond in similar ways? Why not test what’s the best reply to all of the most common replies and then never change your winning “team” of replies?

X: xxx, better known as K.I.S.S. (Keep It Simple Stupid!)

When in doubt about what to say to women online to show you have a genuine interest in them, find something on her profile that’s easiest for you to comment on.

Remember, your job is not to impress women. It’s to attract them. Big difference.

Y: Why so serious?

Yeah here I come with the Batman quotes again. But seriously, why are you making a life and death situation out of internet dating?

Relax!

If a woman stops replying altogether, there’ll be more. Look at it this way: sure you want to meet Miss Right, but the more women you practice your skills with? The better prepared you’ll be when Miss Right does come around.

So ANY practice, even when you don’t get a number, is good practice!

Z: Zero in on your perfect target

Don’t just write a profile for anyone, including for yourself. No.

Use my internet date tips to write a dating profile that attracts YOUR type of woman. After all, would you rather be insanely dateable to 5 women or not so attractive they’d date you to a million women?

One More Thing About These Internet Date Tips…

These are the 26 basic internet date tips that’ll help you get girls to notice you online, but I understand if you crave some specific techniques right now. Some things to say. That’s no problem because you can easily gain access to more tips for free!

How? By getting the tips inside my members-only Online Dating Newsletter. That’s how!

Now if you’ll excuse me, I’m going to stuff my face with Pringles chips right now. It’s my latest and greatest addiction. Anyways, I hope you liked my internet date tips!

Check out the rest of the Profile For Dating series.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

P.S. According to Forrester Research, 97% of the men who try online dating quit within 3 months because of a lack of results. And if you want to belong to the 3% who meet women online without much effort because you know when to do what, then click here now to gain access to the dozens of tips inside my FREE Online Dating Newsletter.

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And in case you’re wondering: “Is finding a girlfriend online for the long run really possible?” Then my answer is: HELL YEAH. Why?

Because several years ago, I started finding a girlfriend online myself and I pulled it off. And she’s hot, funny, intelligent, real, and we’ve been together for almost 4 years now.

Plus, over the years I’ve coached plenty of guys who were also able to find a girlfriend online.

And if I, and they, can find a girlfriend online successfully, why can’t you?

Like I said before: if you know what you’re doing online, finding a girlfriend online is only a matter of time. So are you ready to speed up the process with my insider secrets of how to do it?

Finding A Girlfriend Online Starts With Your Type

Finding a girlfriend online starts with finding a site for your type of woman… and if it doesn’t exist? It starts with writing a dating profile that attracts your type.

Don’t believe those online date tips that say you need to sign up for site such and such because they have XYZ million of subscribers, because what good does that do you if all those women are NOT your type?

That’s why you need to put some effort into finding a site that attracts your type of woman, so you can start finding a girlfriend online without much effort.

Because isn’t that what you want?

A site for finding a girlfriend online that’s your type
Check out this awesome list of sites to find out if there’s a site or soial network for your type of girl.

Did you know there’s a site for people who love running and swimming where you can find a girlfriend online, for example?

Let me guess: you didn’t think there were so many sites for so many different interests and countries, right? I know!

Once you’re on one of those sites, just talk about the same passion as your type of woman has on her profile and show it in your photos… and she will come. Trust me.

And hey, in case you’re beating yourself up about the fact that there’s no site for your type of woman so finding a girlfriend online must be impossible… chill out!

Why?

Because you can always write…

A profile for finding a girlfriend online that’s your type
Before you go ahead and write a dating profile that tries to attract everyone, STOP. It will only somewhat attract some women, but the moment you write one for 1 specific kinda girl?

That’s the moment you will attract that type of woman (YOUR type) like CRAZY, while other women won’t be attracted to you… but they aren’t your type anyways so who cares!?

And if you want to start finding a girlfriend online thanks to your profile, follow these steps:

– Ask yourself what hobbies and interests she would have. Use some of them on your profile
– Ask yourself what she would hate… and voice your own negative opinion about it
– Ask yourself what she would eat and drink… and mention some of it
– If possible, use photos and videos of stuff she would probably like
– Ask yourself where she would go to on a date or in her free time and mention it

I can almost hear you think: “Finding a girlfriend online with this sounds easy, but how do I actually write a profile based on my type of woman?”

Stop worrying already man! Because I’m about to give you an example of how to find a girlfriend online because of a profile that attracts her… that attracts your type of woman.

Finding A Girlfriend Online: A Profile Example

Alright, in this example of finding a girlfriend online with a profile, my type of woman is a cultural, artsy chick. So a woman who loves art.

– Hobbies: bashing on art critics who don’t know what they’re talking about, appreciating paintings of still unknown artists in a local art gallery
– Favorite food: 5 star restaurant stuff because those chefs make a piece of art of my plate, lol
– Interests: Picasso, Van Gogh, Dali, painting wannabe paintings that I won’t show anyone, ever, because they’re THAT “beautiful”, visiting the National Gallery Of Art and the Guggenheim

Do you see what I’m doing here to find a girlfriend online?

I’m using humor to express my love of art AND that I don’t take myself too seriously. Showing you’re not too serious is important, because most men have expectations BEFORE the first date that women end up having after several months or even years: I love you, marriage, making babies, etc.

By showing you’re not so serious, you’re showing a potential girlfriend online that you’re not desperate.

Let’s continue with some more examples of finding a girlfriend online who loves art:

– The photos I would use: some museum photos, one of me painting or me making some pottery stuff, me next to a well-known artist, a picture of a famous painter, etc.

– Videos: something similar to what I mentioned above

– Profile text: I would talk about who I’m fascinated by the lives of famous painters and how their success didn’t come without drama, that I hope to become a great painter once without cutting my ear off like “You Know Who” did (an artsy chick will know those)…

This is just an example of how finding a girlfriend online is done when your type of woman loves art, but you can use something similar for ANY type of woman as long as you A) be specific so she knows you’re a lot like her, B) use humor to attract her, and C) make fun of yourself here and there.

Just use your imagination to come up with stuff for your kind of girl.

More About Finding A Girlfriend Online

And now you know where to start finding a girlfriend online and how to do it using your profile, you want to know what to do once you find her, right?

Then wait until you hear this:

I have dozens and dozens of FREE tips about how to talk to women online, attract them, and get a date waiting for you inside my Online Dating Newsletter. So sign up now to get those tips about what to do AFTER finding a girlfriend online.

And while I’m about to go watch myself some Super 8 like the true movie junkie that I am, I want to end this thing by saying: stay tuned to the Win With Women blog for more tips on finding a girlfriend online!

Check out the rest of the Profile For Dating series.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

P.S. According to Forrester Research, 97% of the men who try online dating quit within 3 months because of a lack of results. And if you want to belong to the 3% who meet women - online or offline - with no effort, because you know when to do what, then get instant access to more tips by getting your FREE Dating Insider.

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You know, it amazes me. There are so many ways to meet women on line, but I’m willing to bet you for $10 that you only use a handful of them. Why does that suck you ask?

Because all the ways for how to meet women online that you DON’T know let you meet women online faster, effortlessly, and let you have more fun while doing it too… because the guys who haven’t read this blog post have never thought of using these tips for meeting women online themselves!

So let’s get started, shall we?

The Top 10 Tips To Meet Women On line

Let’s start this one with a BANG! Check out the 10 best tips to meet women on line that give you more results with women the fastest…

1) You tend to start meeting women online close to home: you want to meet women who live nearby. Always remember when you meet women on line though that woman A may be on online dating site 1 and woman B may be on dating site number 2. So get more than 1 profile!

2) Attractive women online get (on average) 30-50 messages per day from men. Half those messages don’t have a message subject, a quarter has “Hi” or something similar as a subject and around another quarter has a cheesy message subject like a lame pick up line. So if you want to meet women on line, then use a subject that’s about them because no one does. If you want proof of this, then create a fake female profile and you’ll see for yourself.

3) Why sign up for a dating site that damn near everyone is on so you can meet women on line, while those women are probably that your type? Why do that when there are also niche dating sites for Latinas, people who love sports, older people, rich people, gothics, and so on. Learning how to meet women online starts with finding the right social networks and dating sites your type of woman would sign up for.

4) Since we’re already talking about your type of woman: why create a random profile for dating that attracts random women, when you can write a dating profile that attracts YOUR type?

5) When it comes to meeting women online, only focusing on writing an awesome dating profile and thinking the women will come… is like building a golden palace on top of Mount Everest.

Sure, you need to cover the basics of a good dating profile, but it isn’t called meeting WOMEN online instead of meeting PROFILES online for nothing.

6) Most guys who send messages to meet women on line screw up the subject of their message (see tip #2), but it gets worse: half the messages women receive are one sentence long and about how hot they look. Or small talk that’s inappropriate (like only asking them how they’re doing and that’s it). Women want guys who have a genuine interest in them, so ask questions about who they are. In short: check out their profile before you send a message.

7) When you try to meet women on line, they first look at your message. If it grabs their attention, they look at your photo(s), then they check out your profile. Improve the way you meet women online in that order: messages, photos, profile.

8 ) Want to start meeting women online by letting them come to you? Then know that women find you through the search results of a dating site. They display people who are online now and recently first, so either stay logged into your profile all day while doing other things or regularly update your profile so you OWN those search results.

9) To meet women on line successfully is to show a genuine interest in them, their lives, what they do, and so on. That doesn’t mean that all women online have unique tastes though. Hell no! You’ll find many similarities: stuff a lot of them like. If you write a message about a certain “like” and a woman responds in a positive way, then why not store that message for later use in Microsoft Word or Notepad? Don’t reinvent the wheel if you don’t have to man

10) ANY reply from women online means you grabbed their interest enough for them to write back, while they receive 30-50 messages a day on average (see tip #2). So, yes, even an angry reply is a good one. After all, there is a thin line between love and hate! Attraction is a feeling based on emotions, so as long as you create emotions? You’re doing fine. Persist!

Congratulations for reading this far, because now you know more about how to meet women online than 85% of the guys on the entire freaking planet.

And if you want to know more than everyone else so you’ll have ZERO competition online and can get dates on ANY site without much effort, then I highly recommend you get the free tips inside my Online Dating Newsletter.

Moving on to more tips for how to meet women online…

More Tips To Meet Women On line: Contacting Them

Believe me when I tell you there are more ways to meet women on line then “just” sending a message to them. Find out more below…

11) On online dating sites you can also use Hearts/Winks/Interests (it has a different name depending on the site) instead of messages. Hearts and what not are only great to meet women online with if you keep sending those things until a woman replies. Week after week. It’ll make her laugh and then respond to your persistence. Trust me.

12) There isn’t any other option on a true dating site and, although the tips below are about social networks for dating? I don’t want to leave you empty-handed if you have a profile on a dating site like Match.com: search for a woman’s name on LinkedIn. No that’s not creepy, it’s resourceful (as long as you don’t send her 1,000 messages per day because that IS creepy)

13) On social networks, this is where the fun meets my tips to meet women on line. Want to stand out and NOT use messages? Then why not leave a comment on her profile, photos or videos?

14) Want to start meeting women online successfully but are you having trouble getting replies? Why not meet women on line through friend requests then? Tease them or disapprove of something in the request itself. Works every time…

15) Sometimes you see women online that you must know. It’s just a feeling: you must get to know her. Well, if she doesn’t reply, not even with the methods mentioned above? Talk to one of her female friends. Have a story ready as to why, but once you do? It’s being introduced to … by another woman. Now THAT is how to meet women on line in a creative way.

16) There are plenty of sites with groups: groups that love poker, groups that love Charlie Sheen, groups that love Spiderman. Whatever. Most of those sites allow you to comment on photos and videos posted by the Group and on the Group “forum” itself. In short: meet women on line by talking to the women in those Groups.

Who would’ve thought that you can meet women on line by contacting them in multiple ways, huh?

But maybe you’re like: wait a minute! I need to know where to find women online before I start meeting women online. No problem dude! Just check out the next section…

Tips To Meet Women On line: Where Do You Find Them?

Want to know the places where you can meet women on line or how to find them? Then keep reading man!

17) There are many sites that allow you to search in certain cities/locations for women before you start to meet women on line. Now, especially with cities and towns and what not, I’m willing to bet you that you only know HALF the towns in a 30 mile radius of where you live. So get a map and type in all those places you’ve never heard of when you’re searching for women online.

18 ) Why stop at dating sites and social networks? Who says there aren’t forums about your interests out there? And believe me: YES, even if you’re only interested in games there are forums women join too. Use Google to find forums related to your interest.

19) Going on vacation? Want to travel? Feel adventurous? Why not sign up for a dating site or social network that’s popular in another country, like Orkut is in Brazil? You can meet women on line before you ever go there or just do your thing because you fall for foreign women.

20) If you want to meet women on line successfully, then don’t search for women online that are a certain age, especially not on social networks. It’s because some women “forget” a few years on purpose and because others don’t want to be bothered and pretend they’re really old (90+) or really young (15 or whatever) so guys leave them alone.

21) Think about what kind of relationship you’re looking for before you start meeting women online: long term? One night stand? Because sure, long term relationships are hard when there’s some distance between you too, but one night stands aren’t. If you just want to meet more women on line, then look beyond your city. Hell, beyond your state or province. I’ve met women from the UK, from Germany, from everywhere… and so can you.

Wow! Look at this looong list of tips to meet women on line I wrote already. But you know what? I have more coming right up!

Meet Women Online With A Little Help From Your Profile

As I mentioned before: your dating profile is the least of your worries, but that doesn’t mean I don’t have some tips for you!

Check out my tips for how to meet women online with your profile:

22) When you know that women are attracted to dominance, humor, playful teasing, men who are picky, confidence, men who are mysterious, men who are hard to get, and so on… think about how you can meet women on line with it. How can you show these personality traits? With text, photos or videos? Use everything you come up with!

23) Like I said before: photos are important if you want to meet women on line without much effort, so what kind of photos would your type of woman be attracted to? Say you like Latinas for example, then I would use… photos of me dancing the salsa, some Latino humor, me eating nachos or tacos or whatever, etc. I think you get the picture (no pun intended).

24) Use a call to action to meet women on line with your profile: tell women who may be interested what they need to do, which is contact you of course! Use humor in your call to action like so: “If you think you can handle my kind of craziness, my love for Latin music, and my coffee addiction? Then go make me some coffee damn it uhh… I mean contact me!”

25) Don’t take yourself too seriously because it shows you’re desperate. Make fun of yourself here and there. It shows a woman you have a sense of humor and that you’re a real person.

26) Since most people tend to try to meet people who live nearby online, make sure you scout your competition. Check out the dating profile of other men in your area. Is yours better or worse? I think you know what to do when it’s worse: improve it! OR… you can also NOT meet women on line successfully. Take your pick!

27) Show a woman you know what you want by saying on your dating profile what you DON’T want in a woman. Be specific with it, alright? Once you do and you start to meet women on line? You’ll know who is interested just because she will mention she’s not what you’re not looking for (HINT)

Now that was a whole bunch of tips on how to meet women online, wasn’t it? You should be glad you’ve read through the entire list, because most men will never know this stuff about online dating. And hey…

Guess what? I’m just getting started with my tips for how to meet women on line!

Because I have dozens and dozens… and dozens of other FREE tips waiting for you inside my Online Dating Newsletter. Free tips that will help you with meeting women online without much effort, so get those tips today okay?

And I put a lot of work in writing this blog post about how to meet women on line, so I really hope you liked it and that you’ll forgive me and my hangover for taking a nap now haha!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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First of all: don’t worry dude. This is not where I teach you how to write a dating profile by letting every sentence rhyme with the previous one.

This is where I teach you how to write a dating profile by using the same reasons why Eminem is a wordsmith not many rappers dare to mess with:

– Endless practice
– No mercy when editing
– Being bold
– Starting strong and finishing stronger
– Experimenting

You know what? You can start writing a dating profile with these elements that easily beats your competition at any time and anywhere.

Want to see how these “furious five” elements of Eminem’s wordsmith skills will help you write a dating profile? Then keep reading…

How To Write A Dating Profile With Eminem: Endless Practice

One of the most common mistakes I see men make when they write a dating profile is that they think it’s a “set it and forget it” thing: write it once… and you are done. So wrong!

That would be like Eminem saying he wanted to be the greatest rapper of all time… by making one song. Eminem has dozens of boxes filled with notebook after notebook after notebook… with rhymes that never made it into a song.

He grew up in a trailer park and took getting the hell out of there very seriously. He practiced endlessly to do it. So ask yourself: when you were serious about getting your driver’s license, did you only take one lesson?

When you were serious about winning a competition of ANY sport, did you only practice for an hour?

No? Yeah I thought so. Same goes for dating: if you are serious about online dating, then know that learning how to write a dating profile that ROCKS requires a lot of practice.

Check out these 7 samples of dating profiles to get some good ideas for your dating profile.

Hey, you can also write a dating profile and then forget all about it… if you like wasting money on a subscription for a dating site while no soul on the entire freaking planet responds to your dating profile because it SUCKS BALLS.

Practice makes perfect, so start to practice and do it often!

How To Write A Dating Profile With Eminem: No Mercy Editing

If you listen closely to Eminem’s songs, then you will find that he manages to cram so many words into so little time. And all of those words make sense and contribute to the message he is trying to get across (which is usually a sarcastic one.)

That requires ruthless editing of every single line of text he writes. And when it comes to how to write a dating profile, you should have the same mindset:

– Cut all the crap that does not help to attract YOUR type of woman
– When writing a dating profile, think twice about everything. Can you say it with less words?
– Which photo or text can be misinterpreted in a negative way? Remove it. Now.

Try to cram as much meaning into the smallest space possible, just like Eminem does.

And with learning how to write a dating profile that means saying everything you can to attract your type of woman, without saying anything twice.

Here’s another juicy secret about how to write a dating profile: people tend to look at the first 2 pages of the search results on a dating site and respond to those if they like what they see. By writing a dating profile (editing it) regularly, you will remain on page 1 or 2 because the search results are usually ordered by the date people were last online!

How To Write A Dating Profile With Eminem’s Help: Be Bold

A wise man once told me: if you don’t stand for something, you fall for anything. Same goes for how to write a dating profile: you can’t attract every woman in the world.

Hell, when you try to write a dating profile that almost every woman will like? It will be mediocre overall, because it doesn’t attract ANY type of woman really well. It just attracts all types of women… a bit.

In comes Eminem. I don’t have to tell you that he paints violent, strong pictures with his words. But often he does it in such an over-the-top way that the song becomes a sarcastic story filled with emotion. Me personally? I like it. His stuff makes me laugh, but some people can’t handle it.

And that’s my point: if you want to attract women like CRAZY when you write a dating profile, then you need to write stuff that certain types of women will LOVE and which other types of women will HATE.

If you remember one thing about how to write a dating profile, I hope it’s what I just told you… because if you don’t that, you’ll just be an average guy with an average life to women. Boooooring!

So, be bold and write what your type of woman loves to hear. For example, I know for a fact that Latinos prefer to be among other Latinos because their culture is VERY different from the dominant Caucasian culture.

Now, writing stuff in Spanish when writing a dating profile and talking about their culture will attract Latinas but completely alienate all other women. Do you see where I’m going with this?

Start being bold.

How To Write A Dating Profile: Start Strong, Finish Stronger

It’s rare that I find a guy who knows how to write a dating profile that makes a good first impression. Here’s how:

– Use your best photo as the main photo of your dating profile
– Start the part where you tell about yourself with a great joke or something exciting
– Start the part where you talk about your interests with something unordinary

But what’s even more important than starting strong is finishing strong. How did Eminem do it? Read and learn…

The best of Eminem’s songs achieve something rare in commercial music: they come to a powerful climax just before they end. Many of his songs are written as arguments, and it’s usually in his third verse when he drives his point home, often with a lyrical hammer that would make Thor look like a pussy (pardon my French).

You want to do something similar if you want to discover how to write a dating profile that works like a chick magnet:

– Finish stronger by telling a story on your profile and ending it with an unexpected outcome
– Finish stronger with an even better joke or something more exciting than how you started
– Finish stronger with a great call to action that invites women to respond to your profile

How To Write A Dating Profile Thanks To Eminem: Persist!

Eminem was a white guy (hell, he was trailer trash) in a music scene that was dominated by African Americans and thus had way more to prove than the average rapper. But you know what? He persisted.

And so should you when learning how to write a dating profile: you need to persist..

Maybe you get ZERO replies from women, even if you worked hard to learn how to write a dating profile…

Maybe you do get messages from women, but they’re not your type or turn out to be psychos…

Hell, maybe learning how to write a dating profile feels like a five year plan of the Soviet Union: it may take shitloads of your time…

And all I have to say is: so? Whether you want to learn how to write a dating profile or learn how to drive a car, it takes effort to become good at it. Really good at it.

So persist man. Maybe you hate it now, but you’ll thank me later

How To Write A Dating Profile Thanks To Eminem: Experiment

Eminem has made songs where he tells stories, rhymed on beats that sound like they come straight out of a circus or mental asylum, emotional rollercoaster songs where he talks about his life, etc.

Not every experiment works, but Eminem is always trying something new. And let me tell you this about how to write a dating profile: you will discover the most amazing things while experimenting!

So, become a mad scientist when writing a dating profile…

Because some of the things I discovered about how to write a dating profile are:

– The more photos you use of you in different situations, the better. Most men have one photo or dozens of photos of them standing in the exact same corner of their living room or something. Lame! By being in different situations you attract women in different ways: an exciting situation, a family situation, a time when you screwed something up, etc.

– If you use an “odd one out” game for the interest section of your dating profile, you won’t end up with a list of things almost anyone likes (like most interest lists)… but one that grabs women’s attention and that they just HAVE to ask you about.

And if you want even more free tips on how to write a dating profile, then I highly recommend you check out my Online Dating newsletter. I mean, it’s just crammed with advice on writing dating profiles, where to sign up for a profile, and more.

Did you think these tips for how to write a dating profile were awesome? Then be sure to come back to the Win With Women blog often, because I’ll give you more tips on writing a dating profile soon!

Check out the rest of the Profile For Dating series.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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I hear you thinking: “But why the hell would I need 7 different ways to date women online?”

And the answer’s simple: because AT LEAST 7 ways to date women online give you ZERO competition from other men. I mean, it’ll be like you’re the only lion in Africa with thousands of gazelles just waiting for you to hunt them down…

So, without further a do, I present to you the 7 ways to date women online.

The #1 Way To Date Women Online: Forums

These days with things like Twitter and Foursquare, it almost seems like forums are relics from an ancient, forgotten past, doesn’t it?

But guess what?

The easiest, thus best, way to date women online is to go to a site where there are lots of women who like the EXACT same thing you like.

Do you know how easy it is to talk to someone about what you love to do most if they like it too?

And there are dozens and dozens of forums out there that are all about one specific interest. There are forums about fishing, movies, psychology, art… and the list goes on and on.

The best thing about using forums like these to date women online is that setting up a date is almost TOO easy. Think about it:

You love to do something, so does she, so you can ask her to join you so you can do it together!

How To Date Women Online: Niche Dating Sites

The vast majority of dudes go to generic dating sites to date women online, just like 80% of the population does. Meanwhile, they’re forgetting that there are theme-based sites out there.

Hell, in most cases there are niche dating sites out there who are designed to introduce you to YOUR type of woman.

For example, you have sites to meet Latina women online, black women online, rich women online, artistic women online, entrepreneurial women online, and so on and so forth.

So, instead of going where everyone else goes (sites like Match, eHarmony, etc.) go to where you’re most likely be able to date women online who are just right for you: niche sites designed for one type of person only.

They make separating the good from the bad and the ugly a whole lot easier, wouldn’t you agree?

The Third Way To Date Women Online: New Sites

Why the hell would you sign up for new sites to date women online? Aren’t there way less women over there? Yep, but there are way less MEN there as well!

That means it’s much easier to stand out, plus, it also means women haven’t gotten tired yet of random and lame messages from other men as much as they would have on older sites.

Do you see now why new sites are great to join and take advantage of if you want to date women online?

Interesting thought: the more women I got to know, the more invitations for new social networks and dating sites I received. Why? Because wherever the women go, the men go, so it’s good marketing on behalf of a dating site to approach women.

And that’s why you need to befriend every woman who you’ll meet online but can’t date: they will let you know about the new places to go and date women online.

Anyways, let’s keep it moving now, because we still have 4 ways to date women online to explore.

Another Way To Date Women Online: Couch Surfing

Believe it or not man, but there are many people all over the world who want to give travellers a place to stay OR who are looking for one. Introducing: couch surfing.

These people connect online on places like (go figure) couchsurfing.org… and that includes women.

So, why not date women online by talking to them on couch surf sites? And if you can’t find any hot chicks, why not befriend some dude in a country you wanted to go to on vacation anyways and then meet his female friends?

Plus, let’s not forget that you can also give women from foreign countries a place to stay

As you can see: even for travellers there’s a way to date women online. Speaking of which, there’s one more way to meet women online on vacation…

Dating Women Online: Use Your Vacation

This is probably THE most obvious tip of my entire list, but still a lot of guys don’t have a freaking clue. In a way, that’s awesome, because it leaves that much more women up for grabs for me and you… my dear reader.

Alright, before you go on vacation you usually check out what’s popping in the country or area you’re going to. Don’t you? You know, what kind of restaurants do they have. What kind of clubs and bars, tourist attractions, etc.

Why not prepare for the women online as well then? How? Let me tell you how to date women online thanks to your vacation buddy!

Every country has it’s own popular social networks:

– Brazil has Orkut
– Holland has Hyves
– Belgium has Netlog

So, wouldn’t it be fair to say that if you want to date women online who are from Brazil for example, that getting a profile on Orkut would be a GREAT idea?

Oh come on dude! You can talk to them before you go there and meet them when you get there. What more could you ask for?

Date Women Online By “Faking It”

And now that’s over with, it’s time for me to show you another secret way to make dating women online a whole lot easier for yourself…

And it’s this: make a fake female profile!

I can hear you think: “Why in the world would I want to make a fake female profile to learn how to date women online?”

Well, when you do you’ll see one or more of the following:

– How many guys per day, on average, send a message to women online
– What the most common and cheesy email subject lines that they use are
– What kind of crap they tell women in their messages (it’s far worse than you’d imagine)

Now the benefits of doing this are obvious to me: you’ll know EXACTLY how the competition tries to date women online so you can do better than they’re doing.

I think that says it all, really. So, let’s continue!

Date Women Online By “Friend Surfing”

This one’s tailor made for social network sites like Facebook, MySpace, and so on, and not really for online dating sites. And I call it friend surfing.

You see, whenever most gentlemen try to date women online they do a search for women online and type in the most obvious things…

For example, they’ll look for women from a well-known city, of a certain age, and maybe even with a certain name. And that’s where they go wrong because:

A) There are plenty of women who live in places you’ve never heard of in your entire life
B) There are tons of ladies who cheat when it comes to age
C) There are women who use “cute” nicknames that most men never think about

In short, there are more women online than you’d think.

The KEY to learning how to date women online is to learn how to find them.

And what I’ve done since day one is send a woman a message and then look at her friends list. Then, I’ll send some friends a message as well so I know that at least SOMEONE in her circle will reply to my message. And that’s when you’ll encounter some strange ass sh*t!

Pardon my French there, but you’ll see stuff like twenty something’s saying they’re 99 so they won’t be bothered by men, women who live in villages with a total of only 9 inhabitants… and more.

Trust me when I say that you would have never found them if you tried to date women online without using a woman’s friends list…

Date Women Online By Voting

Do you know what a hot or not site is? Ever been on one? If not, then you’ll learn how to date women online with them in a sec!

Hot or not sites are sites where you can vote on women’s (or male) photos on a scale from 1-10 or based on if you want to date women online based on their photos or not.

They key here is to look for hot or not sites that allow you to leave comments and/or send messages. Then all you need to do to date women online is rate your type of woman and then create attraction with a comment/message and it’s a done deal!

And believe me when I tell you: a surprising number of chicks who want to get rated… want to get dated!

So do them a favor and date women online that want to get rated and dated, alright?

The Grand Finale Of How To Date Women Online

And there you go: I just showed you how to date women online (more than ever before) by using forums, niche dating sites, new sites, couch surfing, your vacation, a fake female profile, and friend surfing.

But let’s back it up for a sec, because you may be thinking to yourself right now: “Yeah that’s nice and all, but what do I actually do or say on forums? On couch surfing sites?”

If that’s true, then don’t worry my friend. I got your back. Because now that I’ve opened your eyes and shown you that there’s more out there than Facebook or Match.com?

I also want to give you some practical, effective tips for using all of these ways to date women online without much effort. And I’ll be doing so inside my Online Dating Newsletter, so make sure you get those tips today if you want to achieve online dating success.

And I hope you liked my 7 “secret” ways to date women online buddy. Until next time!

Check out the rest of the Profile For Dating series.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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It’s time to separate the online date tips based on facts from those based on fiction.

Because do you really want to risk getting no results with crappy online date tips…

After wasting many hours, days, or weeks… lots of effort… and maybe even hundreds of dollars on dating sites by following a bunch of screwed up online date tips?

No? Yeah I thought so too!

So, allow me to give you a proper dose of online dating reality today.

Online Date Tips On Which Site To Use: Watch Out, Because…

Just because I RULE when it comes to getting girls on Facebook, doesn’t mean you do or will too. Maybe the women there aren’t your age or your type.

So don’t fall for “generic” online date tips that say you need to sign up for certain sites. Hell, the people saying that could easily have been paid by those very same sites to say it.

Look man, what if you have a crush on Latinas? ANY kind of Latinas?

Then why in the hell would you sign up for Match.com or whatever, when there are dating sites dedicated to men interested in Latinas?

Same goes for many other nationalities and even types of women: rich women, goth chicks, models, gamers. You name it and there’s a very real chance that there’s a site for it.

That’s why you need to go to those sites where you will attract your type of woman with your online dating profile.

And one more thing about those “go here! Go here!” online date tips:

Who ever said that you should stick with only one site with your online dating profile? I’ve been meeting women online for 7 years now and I never stuck to one site.

I was on every site over here in the Netherlands: Hyves, Relatieplanet, Netlog, Tagged, CU2.nl, and the list goes on and on. Hell, I can honestly say that it’s one of the reasons (if not THE reason) I’m sitting here and writing these online date tips for you today.

You should sign up for multiple sites, if only because a girl in your city may be signed up for one but NOT the other dating site.

Online Date Tips For Your Profile: Be Careful, Because…

Your online dating profile is only HALF of the online dating game man. One of the biggest myths of online dating out there today is that when you get yourself a profile on a cool site?

Women will flood your online dating profile with response… after response… after response.

Yeah maybe in Fantasyland, but not in real life dude!

Sure online date tips for your profile help, but no matter how good your profile is? It’ll be like a golden palace in the middle of the jungle if you don’t pro-actively respond to women’s online dating profiles: no one will ever see it.

There’s no online dating success without you responding to women’s profiles online. That’s why I give online date tips for your online dating profile here on the blog, but also for how to talk to women online.

You need both.

Online Date Tips For Talking To Women: Beware, Because…

Now you know that only following online date tips for your profile equals certain death of your online dating success, I might as well throw this out there:

Not all tips for talking to women online are created equal. Far from it.

You see, you can respond to a woman’s profile and give her the most flattering compliments, show a genuine interest in her, tease her half to death, and tell her the most amazing stories… but if your response has no subject line?

Sending her a completely EMPTY response will have the exact same effect. Meanwhile, people keep telling you with their online date tips to just send responses.

But attractive women get, on average, 30-50 responses from men a day. And their profile works just like your Hotmail, Gmail or Yahoo: try getting their attention without a subject line THEN!

Online date tips that don’t mention this “small detail” about talking to women online SUCK.

It’s nearly impossible. And I’ve seen the online dating profiles of lots of my hot female friends and 50% of the responses they get have no subject line. Try standing out then!

So, what these online date tips you’ve followed so far failed to mention is this…

It’s not “cool” to also write a subject line. It’s absolutely necessary. What’s more, it’s necessary to write an INTERESTING subject line, because most of the responses that do have a subject line?

They go something like “You’re hot!” or contain other lameness like cheesy pick up lines that ask a woman if she’s a thief because she stole your heart, and what not.

Beware of those online date tips that tell you to “just send a response”, because 1) it needs to have a subject line and 2) that subject line has to be about the woman you want to talk to.

About something she likes for examples: hobbies, sports, TV shows, movies. Pick one!

Online Date Tips That Say You Need To Pay

When it comes to online date tips, don’t believe the hype. Don’t believe you NEED TO get a subscription for some dating site.

Why?

Because I’ve had more success with online dating on social networks… than on online dating sites! And so have many other readers of this blog who contacted me in the past.

So screw online date tips that tell you to subscribe. Hell, I recommend you first learn the tricks of the trade on social networks that are free… and only move on to paid solutions when you know what you’re doing.

More Crappy Online Date Tips About Talking To Women

Look, I don’t know who it was that spread the online date tips, but sending a message is NOT the only way to talk to women online because…

Online dating is more than Match.com or Facebook: there are hobby-related forums with women, couch surfing sites with women from all over the globe, hot or not sites where you can rate people’s photos, niche dating sites for specific kinds of women, etc.

Plus, great online date tips show you other ways to contact women. Ways like commenting on photos, videos, and the profile of a woman, saying what you want in a friend request on Facebook, etc.

As you can see: don’t believe online date tips that say the means to talk to women online are very limited, because they’re not.

Well now, let’s put the cherry on top of my rant on online date tips with the final section, shall we?

And Remember This About All Online Date Tips:

Online dating is NOT the be-all and end-all. After meeting a woman online with a little help of your online dating profile, some awesome online date tips for talking to her online, and so on, there’s still the real deal.

In other words, if you successfully meet a woman online, then you still need to successfully meet her offline. Get her number. Date her. Stuff like that.

Most online date tips completely forget about this. And it’s a damn shame, because it makes online dating so much harder for you.

You need a way to take things offline and get a date with a woman. A date that ends well.

Hell, if I summarize all the things you need to be aware of, then it boils down to this:

– Choose the site that right’s for your type of woman, not the sites that people promote
– Don’t stick to one site, because women in your city may sign up for one but not the other
– Don’t stop after writing an online dating profile, you need to talk to women too
– Don’t start talking and forget all about using a subject line. Use an interesting one!
– It’s not a “mission accomplished” when you get her number online, there’s a date to go on

I can almost hear you think: “Hey thanks for warning me about certain online date tips man! But how do I choose a site that’s right? Multiple sites? Interesting subject lines and all that other stuff you recommend I should do?”

Don’t worry my friend. I can definitely help you out with all of these challenges, because I wouldn’t be writing this if I couldn’t.

You can get online date tips for choosing the right site, your online dating profile, talking to women online, effective subject lines, and so much more inside my Online Dating Newsletter.

I suggest you quit waiting, grab those tips today, and start online dating the right way. And I hope you liked my thoughts on crappy online date tips dude!

Check out the rest of the Profile For Dating series.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

P.S. According to Forrester Research, 97% of the men who try online dating quit within 3 months because of a lack of results. And if you want to belong to the 3% who meet women online without much effort because you know when to do what, then click here now to gain access to the dozens of tips inside my FREE Online Dating Newsletter.

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Before I go ahead and share samples of dating profiles that ROCK, let’s be real for a sec here:

You’re looking for samples of dating profiles because it’s frustrating to get yourself a dating profile on some site, to then invest some time in making it awesome… only to find that it was all for WAY less than expected! Am I right?

But let’s face it: sure, it SUCKS, but where are you supposed to find the freaking time for writing dating profiles that attract women? Hell, for spending hours on looking for samples of dating profiles and writing a profile that attracts YOUR type of woman?

It’s not like you can fill up a jar with small change and then expect to “grow” some time because time is money, right?

And that’s why I wrote this blog post: to give you samples of dating profiles that you can straight up COPY and PASTE into your dating profile to attract women with… AND to save yourself a SH*TLOAD of time.

Let’s get started, shall we?

Samples Of Dating Profiles: Over-The-Top Intro’s

Where to use these samples of dating profiles: the description of your dating profile. So, the part where you can pretty much type as much text as you’d like to.

There are several reasons why you’d want to go “over-the-top” with your description:

1) Women decide if you’re interesting or not in seconds. They literally check out samples of dating profiles! And let me tell you: they’re turned off when they smell you’re wearing “Desperate Dude cologne”, which is when you’re WAY too serious throughout your dating profile. They cringe when they read profiles that say “I’m looking for Miss Right.” Maybe you’re a looker too, but women think about dating in a more casual way. They want to see if there are interesting guys around, but that’s it (for now). Don’t be a looker, show you don’t take yourself too seriously.

2) All a woman has to do to date online is get a profile, and she’ll be approached. The result: she sees dozens of samples of dating profiles every day she’s active on the site. That’s when not getting her attention in seconds means goodbye.

3) 70% of all male online daters uses the description section of their dating profiles to give valueless summaries of their qualities (I’m fun, sweet, intelligent, this, that, etc.)

And if you still don’t believe me when I say you need something in your description to grab a woman’s attention and that you need to use my samples of dating profiles, then let me briefly tell you about myself here:

I don’t want to toot my own horn here, but I’ve been helping guys meet women for years now. Hell, during the last few years I’ve helped 6,270+ guys meet AT LEAST a dozen women a piece in total. You do the math.

And now we got that out of the way, let’s look at some samples of dating profiles with over-the-top intros already!

Samples of dating profiles, sample 1: Who would have thought that a nuclear disaster in Japan made me end up on this site?

That’ll certainly get a woman’s attention (it got YOUR attention didn’t it?), after which you explain that the disaster made you stay inside, you got bored out of your freaking mind, so you signed up for the site. ANY disaster works well to grab attention with by the way.

Just like most other samples of dating profiles you’re about to get, this immediately let’s her know you have a great sense of humor and don’t take yourself too seriously. That’s all you need to attract women online.

Sample of dating profile 2: WANTED: intelligent babe for this mad scientist to experiment on. You must be willing to break into laboratories to “lend” equipment while wearing high heels and to have extra limbs attached AND look hot while having them. You must also be able to handle stress well, because lots of responsibilities go hand in hand with taking over the world with me.

Sample of dating profile 3: You know, when I sat down behind a piano people laugh at first… but when I start playing?

This is (in my opinion) one of the best samples of dating profiles, because this one brilliantly let’s you use the fact that women are attracted to a man’s talent.

You see, you can fill in “when I first tell people about my kung fu they laugh… but when they see me fight during the championship?” or anything else you’re good at for that matter.

Women are attracted to talent because they make you seem like you’re radiating with confidence, without you having to say anything. Attractive women see tons of samples of dating profiles because they get 30-50 messages on average a day and…

They’re all from average guys. Men that all say similar things and who have similar dating profiles. Big difference when compared to your high level of confidence, skill, and your COMPLETE lack of desperation huh?

I explain what attracts women online in much more detail inside my Online Mentorship Program product, but let’s stick to the topic and check out some more samples of dating profiles below.

Samples Of Dating Profiles: Wish List Spoofs

Where to use these samples of dating profiles: I highly recommend you use one of these near the end of the description of your profile. Let’s have a look, shall we?

If you’ve been around the block with online dating like I have, then you’d know that women have wish lists. All they are, are unrealistic lists of things they think they need in a man.

Meanwhile, they’re forgetting that the difference between what you THINK you want (logical reasoning) and what you NEED (emotions) is huge. Attraction is based on emotions, not logical reasoning, but that’s an entirely different story.

The point of the following samples of dating profiles is simple: to mock women’s wish lists…

Sample of dating profile 1:

– I don’t fall for overly horny, pervy chicks cruising the internet looking for innocent men to take advantage off

– If you think you’ll have thoughts of grabbing the scissors and letting them loose on my little head when I’m asleep after our first fight? Let me just say: the mental hospital is not the same thing as my home address!

– When I give you my phone number, it does NOT give you a “license to stalk” in the middle of the night, EVERY night… because it’ll make me think you’re really a MAN, since most really needy guys always do that.

As you can see, you reverse roles with women because THEY usually think all men want when meeting women online is sex with as many women as possible. Plus, you’re making fun of other guys who try to meet women online and of relationships gone wrong.

Samples of dating profiles like this one work best when you announce your wish list spoof with a little “Women seem to have wish lists on their profiles, so here is my completely over-the-top and non-serious wish list…”

Add as many points to your wish list spoof as you’d like, because as long as you keep making fun of the dating game? You’re good. ‘Nuff said. Let’s keep it moving!

Samples Of Dating Profiles: “Compounding Interest”

Don’t worry now. This isn’t where I start promoting financial products and investment advice out of nowhere dude.

Nope.

This is where I used a title to make it painfully obvious that most men (maybe even you) are GOOD at making their lists of hobbies, interests, likes, etc. a complete snore fest.

And this is where I give you samples of dating profiles for the hobbies, interests and/or likes section(s) of your dating profile that ARE worth your while. Here we go…

Sample of dating profile 1: My hobbies are working out in the gym, hanging out with friends, and eating carefully prepared poisonous fish at a Japanese restaurant while hoping I’ll stay alive.

Samples of dating profiles, sample 2: I like watching movies with friends, traveling, and Britney Spears back when she was still bald (bald chicks are hot!)

Sample of dating profile 3: My favourite books are Harry Potter and The Philosopher’s Stone, one of them Tom Clancy joints, and the bible written in the ancient Katabagan language (hey, I like a challenge!)

All I’m doing with all of these samples of dating profiles is showing my sense of humor and that I don’t take myself too seriously. It tells a woman: I’m far from desperate honey! How?

By playing a game of odd one out: two normal things you actually like or do, plus one crazy thing that makes her laugh or curious.

And hey, should you get yourself a dating profile on a site where there is no separate section for hobbies, likes, interests, and so on? Then just use one or more of these examples in the section where you describe yourself man.

Samples Of Dating Profiles: Make It Comfortable

I have to address an important issue in this blog post about samples of dating profiles:

Women only want to take things to the next level with you if you make them feel comfortable and safe. That’s regardless of whether you want to talk to them, get their number or date them by the way… so give them some samples of dating profiles that make them feel comfortable!

How? Here’s how to give them those samples of dating profiles:

– Throw away that description of yourself of 3 sentences long and write something that makes a woman feel she has known you for years. It will make online dating easier, wayyy easier. Trust me!

– Why not create some “samples of dating profiles”… or should I say samples for YOUR dating profile? What I mean is saying you like some things women like, whether it’s a chick flick or two or something else.

– Don’t try to be smooth or cool. Show women you’re a real man. A real man with friends, family, goals, hobbies, and passions. Use photos if you can, otherwise describe all of these things.

Want More Samples Of Dating Profiles?

Sure you do! I mean, why not make meeting women online as easy as possible for yourself, right?

Well, alright! Stop looking at me with those sad puppy eyes man! Here are some more samples of dating profiles:

– Photos are the first impression of the online dating game, so have several photos of different situations. Some photos of you displaying your talent, you visiting a famous place, you and friends, you acting crazy (not drunk, I said crazy!), and so on. This way, you show a woman several sides of yourself and women want a REAL man. One who can both be sweet and tough, classy and straight up goofy, etc.

– If you know the EXACT type of woman you like, live in fantasyland a little. Tell a fictional story that describes what happens when you two go on a vacation to do everything your type of woman does. For Latinas for example, throw in some Spanish, describe the food, the culture, dancing to Latin music with her, etc. and then say at the end “If you’re that girl, why not send me a message?”

– When describing yourself and what you like to do with your life, tell stories. Tell stories using all senses (smell, touch, sound, etc.) and you will have a woman’s attention

Do you want even more free samples of dating profiles? And do you want to discover how to meet women online and get a date without much effort too? Then get the tips inside my Online Dating Newsletter right away. It only takes a minute to become a Member and get more tips, so do it now.

Now if you’ll excuse me, I have to completely dominate Facebook with the profile of a friend now. I owe him one… and no, not because he gave me some samples of dating profiles haha!

Hope you liked these samples of dating profiles my friend. I’m out!

Check out the rest of the Profile For Dating series.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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But before I get into these mistakes that regular guys like you and me make when writing a dating profile, and believe me dude: there are dozens, let’s backtrack a little.

Let me first tell you about what factors you need to take into account when writing a dating profile that works just like a chick magnet:

1) THE single most important part of your online profile is your photo. Did you know that your success online depends on your online dating profile photo? Probably not. It is the first thing women look at. The first impression they get of you will be from your profile pic.

2) But then, then the descriptions come into play…and this is when most guys hit very rocky territory. Cause we’re not all professional writers, right? We don’t know how to create attraction when writing a dating profile.

But here’s the good news, buddy…

You don’t have to be a professional writer, or even a good writer, to start writing a dating profile that kicks ass from here to the moon and back. An online dating profile that will get the ladies to start sending you messages faster than you can answer them all.

All there is to it, is avoiding some costly mistakes and you’ll easily double your chances to meet women online. So, let’s cut to the chase and see who those 7 evil culprits are, shall we?

And by the way: if you suddenly realize as you read this post, that you’re making these very same 7 mistakes when writing a dating profile? Don’t beat yourself up over it.

Capice?

Instead, put the mistakes you’ve made behind you and start using some of my killer tactics. Once you do it’s likely you’ll experience online dating success like you’ve never experienced before.

Let’s get down to business. Let’s see how writing a dating profile is done.

Writing A Dating Profile Mistake # 1: Slang, or Worse…

Example 1: “Yo, honey, I’m DA man 4 u, so don’t b shy and give me a holla so we can git together.”

First off, your name is NOT 50 Cent. Especially not when writing a dating profile.

Secondly, when you write a description, you want to create attraction. If a woman needs Google Translate to understand your message, you’re not creating attraction.

Just think of the kind of woman you want to attract. Does she speak or even write like this? If not, then why would you?

When writing a dating profile, write like you would send your family an email. That’s without being formal or using chat language.

Always remember when you start writing a dating profile: the easier your dating profile is to read, the more it will get read. And guess what more reads mean? More responses from good-looking women dude!

So, do like me…

And avoid long paragraphs of text too. Use 2-3 sentences per paragraph and you keep your online dating profile nice, clean, and attractive to women.

Example 2: “HEY THERE, I’M JOHN FROM L.A AND I’M LOOKING FOR A GIRL WHO…”

There are people out there who still don’t understand that writing in caps is LIKE SHOUTING. Please understand that no one loves an attention whore.

And besides, it’s annoying as hell to read too.

Like I said before: make your dating profile easily readable and it will simply get read more, and isn’t that what you want? That all women who read it will contact you?

How To Write A Dating Profile Tip #2: Skip Lame Descriptions

It’s ok to include as much information as you want about yourself, but try to focus on the juicy details. Avoid writing books. The only site where it’s ok to do that is Amazon.com my friend.

Instead, start writing a dating profile about things that are exciting in your life, interesting things, unusual hobbies, and anything that will make you stand out. Anything that makes her laugh’s good too.

Because you want to create attraction and not put women to sleep, remember? You want to excite them.

Hell, you want to excite them and make ‘em say:

“DAMN, now this is an interesting guy! I wonder what spending a day with him would be like… just as crazy and exciting as his dating profile is? I hope so.”

You can do that by using emotions (how this or that made you feel), or by describing everything with all your senses (it looked, sounded, smelled, tasted, and felt like this).

Check out these samples of dating profiles for more ideas.

Writing A Dating Profile Mistake # 3: Insecurity Everywhere

Example 1: “How should I begin?”
Example 2: “I don’t know why I’m doing this…”
Example 3: “What can I say?”
Example 4: “I’m not sure about this, but I thought I’d give it a try.”

These examples have WUSSY written all over them. Come on man. Grow some balls! Or as I’d like to say: nut up or shut up.

No woman will be attracted to a big, insecure pussy. You gotta show a little confidence man. When writing a dating profile, never start a description with doubts, questions, or any type of insecure comment.

A much better way to go when writing a dating profile, is talking about your passions. About what you love to do. You see, I’ve never met anyone who did NOT sound confident when talking about their favorite things to do.

Women are looking for confidence and if you show it (instead of telling it) you are 1 out of 10 that she actually takes the time for to contact.

Chicks get an average of 30-50 messages a day from women, so by being confident alone you improve your chances tenfold.

Writing A Dating Profile Mistake # 4: Baggage!

Here’s a simple rule to follow: leave your emotional baggage at home.

Example 1: “I just recently got divorced…”
Example 2: “I haven’t been very lucky as far as relationships are concerned…”
Example 3: “I’ve been single for a few weeks and I’ve forgotten what it’s like to date.”

This obvious display of emotional baggage will have the ladies hurrying to click the BACK button to get the hell away from your online dating profile.

And you don’t want that, right? It’s best to keep negative experiences from the past to yourself, and to start out fresh with another woman. Isn’t that why you’re writing a dating profile?

I’m giving you the same tip as I gave you before here: talk about passions, passions, passions. Women need a man who has faith in what’s to come in the future because, in a way, that’s showing them you’re confident as well.

Writing A Dating Profile Mistake # 5: Being Too Technical

Example: “As a pharmaceutical consultant, I spend most of my day helping clients become more FDA compliant, but I also look for ways in which LEAN manufacturing practices may be implemented particularly in the production of recombinant drugs.”

It’s ok if you’re a pharmaceutical consultant, nuclear physicist, or chemical engineer…OR when you’re trying to date one…

But when you’re writing a dating profile, try to leave the job description for your resume, okay? Because women aren’t attracted to money, status, fame, or power. Only groupies are.

The vast majority of women are attracted to a man’s personality. And honestly?

If men wouldn’t have the potential to be attractive to women with their personality, then wouldn’t humankind have become extinct many, many years ago?

It’s just that you haven’t been SHOWN how to use your full potential as a man. You already have it in you to tease, be picky, be mysterious, and be dominant and so on to create attraction… but you just don’t know it yet just like a dog doesn’t realize it’s a dog.

It’s a topic I talk about many times inside my Simple Inner Game System, but for now just remember: whatever you do best in real life AFTER work? Make sure you mention it when writing a dating profile!

– Do you crack jokes when you’re with friends?
– Do you always lead the pack when you’re with other people?
– Do you always love to disapprove whatever the hell other people are doing?

Use it when writing a dating profile too and you’ll get more women. Dude, it’s what I did…

And look at me now:

People call me a dating guru, so there must be some truth to this then, don’t you think?

Writing A Dating Profile Mistake # 6: High Expectations

Example: “I hope to meet the love of my life here, someone I will spend the rest of my life with…”

Question. What would you do if you would meet a woman today and tomorrow she tells you she loves you and wants to introduce you to her parents later that day?

I’m willing to bet that you would run away from her as fast as you could. Guess what women do when you get ahead of yourself? That’s right. The exact same thing. So, that’s NOT how writing a dating profile is done man.

Ask a woman before she goes on a first date with a guy what she hopes will happen and she’ll answer with “we’ll see”, “he’s cute so I think it’s gonna be a lot of fun!” That’s a major clue.

You see, you won’t hear women say they wonder what it’s like to have your babies before the first date. You won’t see them wondering if you are “The One” like Neo was in The Matrix. They’re laidback about dating. They don’t have ANY expectations at first.

Be more laidback when writing a dating profile as well. Relax a little. Live a little.

It shows the ladies you’re not desperate and that you’re out to have fun, because only a VERY desperate chick won’t mind when you tell her you two are on a date because you want to screw her brains out.

Writing A Dating Profile Mistake # 7: No Specifics

Example: “I’d love to date a woman who is independent, funny, honest, etc.”

By not being specific enough when you’re writing a dating profile, it almost like you’re saying “any woman will do”. Why? Because all women say about themselves that they’re honest and funny (even the liars and boring ones do).

If you let women know that you’ll settle for ANY woman, then they know you won’t love them for who they are… but just because they’re female and give you attention.

Women want men who have a genuine interest in them, and saying any woman will do is the EXACT opposite. But there’s an easy way out: telling as much about your type of woman as you can and not thinking twice about it.

And like I mentioned earlier, if you have made any of these mistakes before? Then don’t beat yourself up over it. Wipe your slate clean and start using some good techniques for writing a dating profile instead…

Do you want to know about an easy way to get your hands on powerful techniques to meet women online that hundreds of guys have used before you and were successful with?

Then check out my Online Dating Tips Newsletter today.

And while you’re checking out my Newsletter, this movie junkie will be checking out Paranormal Activity 2. Let’s see if the sequel to a brilliant horror movie is equally awesome.

Hope you liked these tips for writing a dating profile… and I’m out!

Check out the rest of the Profile For Dating series.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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And no. No guy is born with the rules of meeting women online installed in his brain. It’s not like one of those apps that comes with your smartphone dude.

And knowing how to meet women online is NOT an app you can download in 10 seconds either. It’s a skill, and like any other skill, you’re gonna have to practice it to master it.

But here’s the good news amigo: once you master this skill, there’s no turning back. It’s a one-way ticket to online dating success!

The only way you’ll ever have this online dating success though, is if you don’t make some very costly mistakes. By costly I don’t mean they’ll cost you money, no I mean they’ll devour huuuuuuge chunks of your time and self-esteem.

This is why I call the 7 things you’re about to discover deadly mistakes: if you don’t prevent them, they may kill and completely annihilate your chances of successfully meeting women online… like the tidal wave in the Deep Impact movie does to New York.

Meeting Women Online: The 7 Mistakes That Kill Your Chances

Mistake #1: Attaching Your Self-Worth to the Outcome

Probably the biggest mistake you could make when meeting women online is believing that there’s something horribly wrong with you, just because you had no luck during your first few tries.

Dude, the only thing that could possibly be wrong with you is that meeting women online is a skill you have not mastered yet. And there’s nothing wrong with that.

We’re not born with an online dating app or microchip in our brains, remember? See your failures as opportunities for learning, not as a reflection of your worth as a man or a human being.

And always remember: don’t let the exception become the rule. Failing once DOESN’T mean you SUCK BIG TIME.

Meeting Women Online Mistake #2: Wasting Your Time On A Lost Cause

It’s ok to find out why a woman hasn’t answered yet, but it’s NOT ok to spend way too much time on a woman who’s a lost cause.

Lost causes are those women who:

– Have not replied even once, despite several attempts to get her attention

– Have stopped replying to your messages

– Have already become your “friends”… and with that I mean you’ll probably never go on a date with them because you’re their pen pal now!

– Have shown they’re simply not dateable: they’re crazy bitches who overreact, scream, shout, stalk, or who are a couple nuts short of a fruitcake (= they’re insane!)

If you must waste your time on any of these women, then you’re only getting yourself a date with disappointment my friend. Why waste your precious time on a lost cause when you could be meeting women online who WILL pay attention to you?

Meeting Women Online Mistake #3: Hide Behind Your Profile

If you think you’ll try meeting women online just because you feel too shy or too uncomfortable doing it in the real world, then you’re in big trouble.

Meeting women online is just another way of making initial contact with women, but it in no way replaces asking for their phone number and going out on real dates.

If you have all your conversations online, then you might as well be pen pals. But you don’t want that, right? Right!?

Fewww. You had me worried there for a second man.

So, let’s be clear here: You’re gonna have to get your ass off of your chair sooner rather than later if you want to be successful with women in real life. Yes, even when you’re shy!

Don’t hide behind that online dating profile now.

Mistake #4: Not Being Willing to Make An Investment

If you think you’ll start getting numbers and dates online within days, then you’re wrong. You have to be willing to commit to the long term gig, just like playing basketball for three days doesn’t make you a Michael Jordan.

This means investing an hour a day for a few weeks before you start seeing results. Spending time every day on responding to women’s dating profiles and on writing your profile for dating.

And if you can’t take an hour of your time every day to improve the way you talk to women online?

Then at least understand why you’re not winning with women: it’s because you’re lazy.

How To Meet Women Online Mistake #5: Not Having a Plan

Would you run blindly into the battlefield with no idea of where the enemy is, no weapon, NO PLAN? No? Yeah I thought so. The only guy that’s crazy enough to try is named Rambo.

You need to know how you plan to get the girl. Do you prefer calling women over emailing them to ask them out? Or do you like to go from Instant Messaging to a date?

In short, you need to have an idea of how you’ll go from talking to a woman on site XYZ… to a date. And once you go for calling after meeting women online, then asking them out over the phone afterwards?

Have no regrets. No feelings of being insecure and worthless. Stick to the plan till you get what you want. Always remember that meeting women online is a skill you’re trying to master… and practice makes perfect!

Meeting Women Online Mistake #6: Failing to Be Realistic

Do you start talking to a girl online while hoping to make her fall desperately in love with you? Do you want to get her approval, attention, or love? Or are you already fantasizing about what she’s like in bed?

Although skipping to the end might seem tempting, everything has a natural process. And it’s no different with meeting women online. You have to take it one step at a time.

Let things escalate to their natural next level. Focus more on enjoying the moment and creating attraction until she won’t be able to resist.

You’ll know when it’s time to get her phone number and when it’s too late. Trust me. But even when you do get her number, can you do me AND yourself a big favour?

Don’t fantasize about a woman being your girlfriend and getting married with you until you’ve been on AT LEAST 10-20 dates, or until you’re 40 years old…

Whichever comes first!

Meeting Women Online Mistake #7: Not Being Persistent

If you want success when you’re meeting women online, then you need to be willing to go the distance. Willing to check out samples of dating profiles so you can improve your own dating profile.

And guess what?

This involves sticking to your plan, dedicating as many hours as you need, following through, and above all not being a pussy when things aren’t going your way.

And remember the old saying: if at first you don’t succeed, try and try again!

And hey… don’t go all depressed on me after reading this blog post, because the future is NOT a dark and extremely negative place where success is impossible.

Research has shown that 90% of the men who try meeting women online quit within 3 months because of a lack of results… and all I wanted to show you today was where that lack of results comes from:

A lack of persistence, and not serving yourself a king size portion of the freaking truth!

Persist and you win, no matter if you try your luck at meeting women online or become the next Michael Jordan. Why? Because how can you beat someone who never quits? That’s why.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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And then you go: “Huh? Why should I start there when I want to know how to pick up women online? Why start with online dating on social networks and not on online dating sites man?”

Let me tell you why Facebook is the best place to learn how to pick up women online:

1) I would say 80% of men or more think Facebook is meant for talking to your friends, perhaps making some new ones, but that’s it. This means the majority of YOUR competition is sleeping with their eyes open while you can swoop in and date tons of women. Compare that to online dating sites where EVERY guy is trying to get the girl.

2) Compared to online dating sites, Facebook has many more profile options. You simply have more room to show your personality and charisma. I’ve shared some of the things you can do in my blog post about online dating profile examples, but let me say this: women are attracted to personality and charisma. That means the more you can show before she replies, the easier it is to pick up women online because your profile does the work FOR YOU!

3) Attractive women on average receive 30-60 messages per day. So if you want to know how to pick up women online then get this into your head. On an online dating site, the only way to contact hot babes is by sending a message. Every guy sends messages so standing out is so damn hard. But on Facebook? There are several “secret” ways to contact women that make it easy to get them.

And now you know why learning how to pick up women online is easier on Facebook than anywhere else, let’s look at those “secret” ways to contact women I just mentioned.

How To Pick Up Women Online With Friend Requests

Since the rest of the entire freaking planet thinks Facebook is about friends, they invented these little things called “Friend Requests.”

So, once a woman accepts your Friend Request she can see your profile, you can see hers, and you can both see each other’s Facebook status updates.

Status updates are those messages you type in that appear on your Facebook Wall btw.

Whenever you invite someone to be your friend (this is what a Friend Request does) you have the ability to add text. And this is where how to pick up women online gets interesting:

Really popular women may get 10-20 friend requests per day, but most don’t. Compare THAT to the 30-60 messages good-looking chicks receive every single day. It’s safe to say then that standing out with a Friend Request is much easier, wouldn’t you agree?

I can almost hear you think: “Yeah but what am I supposed to say in a Friend Request?” Don’t shit your pants dude. Relax, because here’s what you should say…

“You know what? This is the part where most guys start kissing your ass, but I won’t. You seem to be a person who likes to have fun just like I do, so let’s be friends and make fun of guys who DO kiss your ass and actually think it will work. Lol!”

If you don’t see what’s going on here, then let me guide you towards the light like I’m your guardian angel. That couldn’t be further from the truth hehe, but here’s your guiding light:

Women get 30-60 messages a day from guys they don’t know who give them compliments that aren’t personal at all. Example: “You’re hot!”

And then there’s guys who kiss ass. Example: “Are you a thief because you stole my heart?” This is NOT how to pick up women online. This is how to make a fool of yourself.

In short: women are frustrated and bored by the losers that kiss their ass.

When you send women a message saying that you know what’s going on and like to make fun of the desperate losers together with her? It tells her that…

It tells her you’re a real guy and not an ass kisser, that you know how dating works (this is very attractive to women) and that you’re fun.

And dude? It’s the same thing when you send messages, when you post comments on her profile, and even when you’re on a date:

If you let women know you have a genuine interest and don’t kiss ass? If you let women know that you understand what goes down in the online dating game? You’ll most likely get a date. If not, than you’ll at least have their phone number. That’s how powerful it is.

Let’s look at more awesome insights about how to pick up women online, the Facebook way.

How To Pick Up Women Online With The Help Of Friends

This is where me, the expert on how to pick up women online, would like to give you something to think about:

1) When deciding if they will reply to your message, women don’t look at how many friends you have. Proof: I’ve been picking up women online for years with only 8 friends! Meanwhile, women DO care about their own popularity.

2) Women want to seem popular, so they’ll invite people they don’t know at random. If you send them a message right away though, they won’t respond because all they’re doing is building social status. Yes, learning how to pick up women online can be tricky at times, but…

3) Once you’ve become their friend? You can do stuff most non-friends can’t, like commenting on photos, videos, and so on. Women get less than 5 comments a day, which makes it much easier to grab their attention when you compare it to the 30-60 private messages a day they get!

I’ve always said that the number of friends is not important when you want to know how to pick up women online. The only exception to that rule is Facebook, because…

– The more friends you have, the more you get Friend Requests from women you don’t know. These are all chicks you can pick up online.

– And why not use the Friend Request technique I mentioned earlier to get your foot between the door, so you can easily pick up women online?

It’s so easy to be noticed and to create attraction after a comment on a photo, a video, a note or even a status update on a woman’s Facebook Wall. So, why aren’t you doing this?

Because learning how to pick up women online is so easy when you learn how to use Facebook friends and use them well. Start thinking in terms of social circles man.

On a side note: if you want to know whether there are other good social networks for dating, then check out my “ultimate” social networks for dating review.

One More Thing About How To Pick Up Women Online…

Do you want to know how to make a woman interested in you with your first message, or Friend Request, or comment?

And do you want to know what to do after a hot chick replies so you can get her number?

Then I highly recommend you check out my online dating tips newsletter, because it reveals everything you need to know about how to pick up women online: from getting them to reply…
to asking them out on a date with you.

Having said that, this movie junkie is going to watch himself some Tron: Legacy. I’m a big computer and game nerd sometimes, and this is a movie about both.

Sounds like heaven for a geek, right? I know!

Hope you enjoyed these tips on how to pick up women online man. Feel free to drop a comment below about your experiences with picking up women online.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

P.S. According to Forrester Research, 97% of the men who try online dating quit within 3 months because of a lack of results. And if you want to belong to the 3% who meet women - online or offline - with no effort, because you know when to do what, then get instant access to more tips by getting your FREE Dating Insider.

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And that means that once you use my online dating profile examples, ALL OF THEM, whenever you’re meeting women online?

You will get one date after the other, after the other. That’s how many mistakes are made on online dating profiles!

I can guarantee you that 100% after seeing hundreds of online dating profile examples myself. Why did I go through the trouble of looking at all those profiles?

I’m a dating coach, so I’m supposed to check them out to look for opportunities that help you succeed with women online.

Anyways, some of the mistakes I’ve almost always seen when I was looking for online dating profile examples were:

– Boring profile descriptions that mention all kinds of awesome character traits without proof
– Photos with red eyes, of an awful clothing style, of drunken parties, or worse
– And the list goes on and on

Don’t be one of those losers who shows up in my online dating profile examples as a guy who just doesn’t “get it.”

Don’t be someone who isn’t successful with meeting women online and will probably never be.

I can almost hear you think: “How can I pull that off?!”

Simple: check out and freaking use as many of my 17 online dating profile examples that DO work! Check those online dating profile examples out below because they reveal a lot…

17 Online Dating Profile Examples That Let You Date Women

1) Use at least one photo of you doing what you love to do: Women are suckers for personality and charisma. The great thing about charisma is that you, I, and any other man on earth are charismatic in at least one common situation: when we talk about or do what we love to do most. That’s why it makes perfect sense to start sharing it on your online dating profile if you want to attract women. Talent attracts women.

2) If you were your type of woman, what would you look for? If you want miss right, then you’d better give her some online dating profile examples (like photos) that get her interested. Simple example: if you have a thing for Asians, you talk about Asian movies, music, language, and so on. So, write about the things that your type of woman can relate to. Like artsy chicks? Then start talking art damn it!

3) Humor is the difference between boring and scoring: The first thing on any single girl’s list when you ask her what kind of man she’s looking for, is humor. So, make fun of popular movies, celebrities, music, and so on. Make fun of yourself too. It shows her you’re confident.

4) Use at least one photo of you and your friends or family: women don’t want a smooth talking player. Women don’t want a man who only has imaginary friends. Women want a real man. Someone who cares about his friends and family. Show them some online dating profile examples of it and you’ll use genetics to your advantage. Why? Because women instinctively look for a man who can not only protect them, but be a good father as well so their offspring survives. This is survival of the fittest in human form. Don’t you just love Darwin?

5) Don’t talk about, but prove your personality: Do you really believe that women fall for it? That they believe you when you say “I’m funny, I’m smart, I’m a romantic, I’m this, and I’m that?” They don’t. They don’t want to hear that your Mr. Funny Man, they want you to prove it. Don’t tell you’re funny. Tell the joke. Same goes for any other character trait. Prove it in your online dating profile examples, photos, and everything!

6) Use at least one photo of you and a good-looking chick: When a woman sees you with a hot babe she knows that she has competition and that you’re hard to get. Women crave men who are hard to get, because just like the rest of us humans they consider something they need to work for as more valuable than something they get for free. No one wants to pay for oxygen, right?

7) Show her that dating is not a matter of life and death for you: The ladies go on a date without too many expectations. They always think to themselves “Let’s see what happens!” Men on the other hand, they think in terms of “She may be the one” and “I wonder if she’ll be my future girlfriend.” Meanwhile, the one thing that turns women off like crazy is when you’re desperate… and thinking she may become your future girlfriends on the first date is pretty damn desperate! Chill out. Mention that you’d like to meet new people and then see what happens. That’s it.

8 ) Include a call to action: I have seen the awesomest (yes I made that word up) profiles of your male competition out there that made a fatal mistake. I mean, why go through all the effort of writing an online dating profile and even looking at online dating profile examples from other guys to prevent mistakes, only to screw it up by NOT asking for a message. Simply say something along the lines of “Like what you see? Send me a message already!” I’ve been told this works very well. Asking for the sale is what marketing was invented for.

9) Short but funky: an online dating profile is not a bible, dude. The only thing you want your profile to do is grab her attention and leave her wanting more. Then you get her number and go on a date, so she can get herself some more. So keep your profile pretty short but funky. Interest women enough with it to reply to your message, but don’t overdo it. Writing a book-sized profile is desperate, plus time consuming too! I can unfortunately give you too many bad online dating profile examples of really short and really long profiles. Keep it short but sweet!

10) Show a woman that you understand the online dating game: women are attracted to men that can explain how women and dating work better than they themselves can. Think about it: if you can tell her how she works, she will feel a very strong bond with you. It will be like she has known you for years. So by all means: start talking about how other men screw up their profiles, why women (including her) usually meet the wrong (wussy) men online, and so on. This is the best one of all the online dating profile examples I can ever give you. Trust me. If you want to learn more about the online dating game, then check out my online dating newsletter.

11) Manage women’s expectations: Maybe you want to meet your future wife on Facebook or on Match.com, or maybe you’re just looking to get laid. Either way, you will hurt women’s feelings when you admit later on that you only wanted to have fun and not a relationship. That is why you will want to manage expectations upfront, because you prevent women from getting hurt and meeting women will actually be easier. This is a KEY insight I gained from studying the hundreds of online dating profile examples I studied.

Think about it: if you say you don’t want to get serious right now you will be hard to get for women who do. If you say you want a relationship but don’t settle for less, you’re hard to get as well. Women love hard to get, so tell them what you expect already!

Onward with…

The Other Online Dating Profile Examples You Should See:

12) There is no flawless victory, tough guy: Nobody’s perfect. When you try to come across that way, women will think something fishy is going on. Wouldn’t you think the exact same thing? So reveal a little weakness about yourself: you cry like a baby when you watch Titanic, or you snore a lot, or you have a coffee addiction. A weakness makes you real. Women want a real man.

13) Men fantasize about women who love beer, sports, and cars, but women? Women fantasize about men who love sleezy romance novels, watch Oprah or Sex and the City or Dr. Phil, who eat chocolate, and bla bla bla. Play into that crazy fantasy a little bit by admitting it in some online dating profile examples. The example I always use? I watch Oprah and Dr. Phil and enjoy the crap out of it. True story! It will attract women just like a woman who loves beer and cars makes you kinda curious.

14) Lying is for dumb asses who want to get rejected: Just as some women lie about their age, weight, height, whether they wear glasses or not and other stuff… men do too. Look, I can imagine that you’re insecure about your looks sometimes and that you think a white lie here and there will help you meet hot chicks online. But it won’t. What would you do if you got an email from a drop dead gorgeous babe who wants to meet you, then you meet her and you find out it’s a Nigerian scammer who wants to scam you out of your money with a story about their uncle’s will you and her can’t access unless you pay her 2000 bucks? I rest my case. Lies get you rejected, but not laid.

15) Use a photo of something crazy: I don’t know a single person on earth who does NOT hate the obligations and routines of everyday life. Pay the bills, make dinner, that lame desk job at that stupid company, and so on. An exciting lifestyle or situation gives women an escape. All of us crave that escape, so include something exciting on your profile and women will be attracted to you because you can make them forget all about the everyday life boredom. Start using this in your online dating profile examples, so the stuff they will get to see.

16) Show (and prove) different sides of yourself: Have you ever seen a movie where the story sucked and where even the action scenes felt fake? Congratulations! You’ve seen what this movie junkie has survived many dozens of times: a one dimensional piece of crap movie. Most online dating profiles today are just as bad, or worse. Show multiple sides of yourself (serious/funny, sweet/naughty, etc.) and you will transform your profile into the next blockbuster movie, if you know what I mean…

17) Please don’t try to be smooth: Women want men who have a genuine interest in them and the men that don’t get dumped in no time. Like it or not. That is why it’s important that you don’t come across like a Casanova why is telling a billion romantic stories that could easily be bundled together and sold as one of those sleezy novels women devour. That’s overdoing it in your online dating profile examples. Don’t try to be a Don Juan or Casanova. Try to be yourself for a change. Who knows, women might like it

And that’s that. Using these seventeen examples of dating profiles might mean the difference between getting one date a year… and getting one a week. Big difference, right?

I talked about how much of a difference a better dating profile can make before in a post using 7 samples of dating profiles. Read it if you want some more evidence…

Want More Online Dating Profile Examples?

If you want more online dating profile examples, then I highly recommend you check out my exclusive Online Dating Tips Newsletter. Not only does it give you the techniques you can use to write an attractive dating profile, but it also reveals:

– How you can create attraction online by using a woman’s profile “against” her
– Dozens of other online dating profile examples you can use to meet more women online
– How to ask a woman for her phone number online, and how to actually get it
– And more…

So click here to get more free online dating tips thanks to my Online Dating Newsletter.

And hey, make sure you start using the online dating profile examples I gave you earlier on or you won’t have as much online dating success as you could have…

This movie junkie is going to watch himself some Unstoppable with Denzel Washington. Heard it was an awesome movie… about a train. Interesting, because awesome and train kinda exclude each other don’t you agree?

See ya! And don’t you ever forget these online dating profile examples, capice!?

And check out the rest of the Profile For Dating series.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

P.S. According to Forrester Research, 97% of the men who try online dating quit within 3 months because of a lack of results. And if you want to belong to the 3% who meet women online without much effort because you know when to do what, then click here now to gain access to the dozens of tips inside my FREE Online Dating Newsletter.

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How I did it? I simply applied all of the powerful insights and techniques that you can find inside my Online Mentorship Program to a “real life” MySpace profile of my friend Thomas.

Pay close attention to what happens in this video, as I demonstrate that my online dating tips really work out there in the big, bad online dating world. I can make meeting women online easy for you, just look:

As you can see: I sent 6 messages to gorgeous women in only 10 minutes, and got 4 replies in return..which means that 80% of the women I sent an e-mail to send one back!

THAT’S how fast you could start getting results with women online. That’s how to date women online.

You don’t have to be rejected or fail if you don’t want to anymore and can now, instead, learn how you can write an attractive profile and meet the woman of your dreams online today… right here on this very blog!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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Because I made some new videos with online dating tips for men and this time I covered how writing an attractive profile is done in the real world.

And look, you may not know it right now, but to be honest with you about online dating tips for men?

Half the battle of online dating is lost because the dating profile you’ve made does a poor job of attracting YOUR type of woman. That’s why I started this whole video series with online dating tips for men:

So you’ll know how to write an attractive profile for dating that women are drawn towards. One that makes women want to pick up the phone and call the number on the screen… if they had your number of course!

Needless to say, the videos with online dating tips for men you’re about to see are critical for your success with women online, that is, if you really want to do everything in your power to meet more women online today… just like I wanted to do several years ago when I started learning all of this!

And the video you’re about to see comes in 2 parts and includes (among other things) the following online dating tips for men:

And so much more online dating tips for men…

Online Dating Tips For Men Video Number One

Hey you! Yeah YOU. The first video got thousands of views on Youtube and with good reason too: I break down every single, little thing you can do to “pimp” your profile with my online dating tips for men. They’re worth their weight in gold you know. I cover areas like your photos, the description of yourself, the interest and hobbies section of your profile, what you should do on social networks with videos, and on and on… and on.

And if you want even more online dating tips for men and ideas for what to do with your dating profile, then check out these samples of dating profiles.

Guess what? There’s even more of where that’s coming from dude! Why? Because like I said in the beginning: there are 2 parts to this online dating video. Check out the second one below now…

Online Dating Tips For Men Video II

Did you like the video? I hope you did, because I put a lot of effort into cramming my best online dating tips for men in two short videos and I think I did a pretty good job if I may say so.

Be sure to put everything you’ve learned about online dating today into practice, alright? It’s really important that you do if you want to get more results with women.

And if you want to know more about how to write an online dating profile or a social networking profile that magnetically attracts women and has the vast majority of them replying to your messages..and the most beautiful women contacting YOU first…

Then check out my newsletter to gain access to so much more online dating tips for men that will help you generate huge amounts of attraction online..and get dates instantly, guaranteed!

You can also check out the right side of your screen for the currently most popular dating-related topics that range from approaching women, bad boys, and what attraction is… all the way to how to get a girls number, calling her, how to get a date, and what to do on a date. Just click on the topic of your interest to learn more…

And if you want to find out more about online dating, then you can also click on the Meeting women online topic in the same list to gain access to even more online dating tips for men about things like how to talk to women online, how to get their number on social networks like Facebook, and a whole lot more.

Last but not least: feel free to drop me a comment some time. I’d love to hear your thoughts on these videos with online dating tips for men and about the blog as well. Until next time my friend!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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This video series about sending messages online comes in 2 parts…and includes (among other things):

And many other techniques…

=== part I ===

=== part II ===

And if you want to know more about how to easily meet women online with a hardhitting message that seriously sparks the chemistry..and then how to move from messaging all the the way to a date with a simple system that works every time..

Then check out my newsletter to gain access to so much more online dating tips that will help you generate huge amounts of attraction online..and get dates instantly, guaranteed!

OR… you can also check out my blog post on how to date women online for more tips.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

P.S. According to Forrester Research, 97% of the men who try online dating quit within 3 months because of a lack of results. And if you want to belong to the 3% who meet women online without much effort because you know when to do what, then click here now to gain access to the dozens of tips inside my FREE Online Dating Newsletter.

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This video comes in 2 parts and includes (among other things):

And more…

=== Part I ===

=== Part II ===

By the way: did you know I have dozens of other blog posts with tips for how to date women online waiting for you? Check out the post in which I reveal 7 secrets of how to date women online for example. I just know you’ll LOVE it!

And if you want to know even more about how to meet women online with a simple system that works every time..

Then keep reading to find out how to gain access to so much more online dating tips that will help you generate huge amounts of attraction online..and get dates instantly, guaranteed!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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And many other secrets…

Listen to it below :

Want a little more specific advice about what the advantages of having an online dating profile are compared to for example going to clubs and bars? Then check out my blog post with online dating profile examples.

And if you want to know more about why you can “get the girl” online more easily than anywhere else and why it’s so simple to move things forward and get a date with that special someone compared to other ways of meeting women..and more importantly..HOW you can do all that..

Then sign up for my newsletter to gain access to so much more online dating tips that will help you generate huge amounts of attraction online..and get dates instantly, guaranteed!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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And she turns out be a human version of Free Willy that makes the ground move everytime SHE moves..or someone who’s SO boring that she creates instant narcolepsia because people keep randomly falling asleep around her.

Unfortunately, I’ve been there too buddy..until I invented some simple TOOLS for finding out what’s behind someone’s seemingly slick profile..

So buckle up, because I’m about to explain why you have been making many online dating MISTAKES that end up with you disappointing yourself time after time..after time.

Ready for some online date tips that reveal the brutal truth about online dating? Then here we go!

– Go and check out the photos on a woman’s profile before you even spend a minute on messaging her. Does she only have photos where you see a Super Nintendo in the background, or where she’s given the keys to a “brand new” ’78 Cadillac Eldorado?

Then you can bet your ass that she’s older than she looks on her photos..

– She doesn’t have those? Don’t start cheering just yet bozo, because see from what angle her photos are made or whether or not her photos look like they’ve been made during a
photoshoot or like they’ve been edited with some software like Photoshop..

If all her photos look like they’re edited, made professionally or taken from the same angle..then I can
guarantee you that THAT’S the best she can possibly look..

Meaning that from the other angle, or normally speaking..she’ll most likely NOT look that good because NO ONE looks their best 24 hours per friggin’ day.

Same goes for women with only one photo, it’ll be their BEST one and they can only disappoint from there on out.

– Then quickly browse through her profile to see HOW she says things..

Is she, for example, being cryptic with her descriptions or not? Because you can count on her downplaying her weight when she says things like “a little more weight” or “more cushin’ for the pushing”

And when she says somewhere that she just broke up with her ex, had problems with men in the past and so on..then it’s a sign of how she’s probably not over it YET, which means lots of drama will come your way when you DO decide to start dating her..

It doesn’t take you more then an extra minute or two per profile when you go through this “checklist” so make SURE you do it..

Because think about all the HOURS you’ll waste, let alone the ENORMOUS frustration, caused by talking to women who turn out to be MUCH different from what you expected..

And if you’ve found a cute woman that seems interesting after going through your little checklist and want to learn how to send her a message that will grab her attention by the throat..and that creates HUGE amounts of attraction so you’ll be able to go on a date with her within DAYS of talking to her..

Then go and see what my Online Mentorship Program is all about. It’s your shortcut roadmap for ANNIHILATING the fear of approaching women, and getting rid off rejection..and putting an end to your LONELINESS after being single for longer then you’d like to..all without leaving the comfort of your own home.

Go and see for yourself..

The Online Mentorship Program filled with online dating tips that will help you meet the woman of your dreams today…

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

P.S. According to Forrester Research, 97% of the men who try online dating quit within 3 months because of a lack of results. And if you want to belong to the 3% who meet women online without much effort because you know when to do what, then click here now to gain access to the dozens of tips inside my FREE Online Dating Newsletter.

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And those chatrooms attracted large amounts of peoples in their twenties and thirties from all over the country..and that’s where I did my “thing” when it comes to chatrooms. When I think back to those days, I can still remember how men (and women too) approach meeting women in chatrooms all wrong: they just enter some random room, for fun..

And if you want to make it EXTRA hard for yourself to meet women online, then go ahead and do the same..and don’t be surprised when you end up being this grumpy, old guy who hasn’t gotten laid in years and now he CAN’T anymore.

If you got a set of proper brains there, then there’s a shortcut roadmap to success with meeting women in chatrooms possible: go and Google for the most popular chatrooms in your country..(chances are that you already know which ones there are)..then look at the categories those chatrooms are divided into and choose one of your interest: the Movie room, Baseball room..you know..rooms about interests, passions and hobbies that you have.

Because when you do and you enter them, and start talking to women inside one of those room that are about your interests? Then the women you’re talking to are interested in it too..

Duhh.

But do you know how easy it is to start a conversation about a COMMON INTEREST? The more enthusiastic about it you two are, the easier it gets. And oh yeah..with common interests I mean an interest that women COULD actually be interested in..so you can forget about the Star Wars, Star Trek and Hobbit-like rooms okay? Stick to things like movies, celebrities, most sports, etc.

And it gets even better..why not go to a chatroom that contains dozens and dozens of women that are “your type”? Obvious example here: when you’re into asian women, go to an asian chatroom..dummy.

Also pretty self-explanatory stuff, yet almost NO ONE thinks about it!

Do yourself a favor too..don’t get all excited about any one woman, talking to her for hours, connecting with her and feeling like you’ve met your princess..

And then it turns out she lives in Hong Kong while you’re somewhere in the UK..don’t be a jackass like 99% of the men why try their luck with meeting women in chatrooms..and then FORGET the question..so ask where she comes from early on. Unless you take pleasure in torturing yourself that is..

And then there’s getting to the next level: how do you get those digits, IM or sometimes even instant date when you’re chatting? Is it any different from “normal” messages you send on MySpace and such?

There are easy to learn tactics for sparking loads of chemistry with women in chatrooms that I, and many of my students, have proven to work..and caused women to be all over them until they actually had to click the X (close) button of their Browser..because the women kept on talking, and talking..

In fact, the vast majority of all those insanely effective tactics work DOUBLE as well when you want to increase the attraction when you’re sending messages back and forth with women..and if you want to access to an exclusive course that shows you how to meet your soulmate online step-by-step..

Then I highly recommend you get my Online Mentorship Program right now..

it’s the complete system for meeting women online and getting to talk to the most attractive, intellectual and interesting women for as long as you want..so you can easily get the digits and go for the date

The best thing about it is that I overdelivered with this one..and even share shortcut strategies with you for how to call a woman and send her text messages that leave her wanting more..so you CAN’T possibly screw up by sounding like a nervous little wuss on the phone and get a date in a short afternoon.

And hey, if you only came here to get more free tips on dating women online? Then no worries my friend, because then I know just the thing for you: my blog post with the 7 secret ways to date women online.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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We’re down to episode 4 of my audio/video series crammed with online dating tips for men, that I originally started to educate men about the how to’s, basics and risks of finding that special someone on the net.

I’m preparing something HUGE over here as we speak, but I can’t tell you anything about it just yet..

Anyways..

Go Check Out My 4th Episode Below Now!

Episode IV: “Online Dating Tips For Men – Overlooked Internet Secrets”.

This episode includes the amazing secrets of..

– Why The Internet Is A Walhalla For Meeting Women That Beats Clubs & Bars, Streets, Stores, And Even COLLEGE Every Single Time..
– How It’s Possible To Meet “Miss Right” While You Work, Are At School, Do Your Homework Or Are Just Generally Busy..
– Why There ARE No Borders And Boundaries Anymore Online, Making Your Location Irrelevant
– How The Internet Can Be The BEST “Vacation Planner” Yet When You Want To Date The Locals
– And Many Other Secrets…

Watch The New Vid Below:

I’m preparing some “nasty surprises” in the audio & video department that I’m unleashing into the world soon, so stay stuned! But if you just cannot wait for more, then I have some samples of dating profiles for you that help you create an awesome dating profile. An incredibly awesome one if I may say so.

Enjoy!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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From Day 1, I wanted this audio series to be an ongoing process where I share my thoughts on how to meet women online episode by episode..and who knows..maybe I’ll even answer reader questions in future episodes!

WARNING: there are no fancy pantsy studio’s, slick talk and beating around the bush in MY audio series. No..this is hardcore, raw but realistic online dating advice for men where the content comes first, and the presentation second..that’s what this underground series is all about.

Go check out my third episode below now!

Episode III: “Online Dating Tips For Men – Writing An Attractive Profile”.

It comes in 2 parts and includes (among other things):

– Why The World’s Biggest Waste Disposal Companies Will Have A Hard Time Cleaning Up All The GARBAGE That Clutters Up 99% Of All Profiles…AND 99% Of Each Profile Individually
– Do You Know The Saying “A Picture Paints A Thousand Words?” Well, I’m About To Share With You How To Paint Friggin’ Books..
– How To Easily Turn Your Description, Comments, Interests And More Into A Chick Magnet
– Why You Should Never Underestimate “Social Power”
– And So Much More…

Part I:

Hold up, we’re not through yet…because there’s still a part 2 coming up, so keep on watching below..

Part II:

There are STILL more episodes coming up..until I don’t see ANY lame, predictable, boring, second-class, repulsive male profile out there anymore. That’s right..I’m on a mission.

So while I’m making more episodes, be sure to check out my blog post with online date tips you should never follow to learn even more about what to do and what NOT to do online…

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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