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How Can I Help You With Calling Women?

Yesterday I was SHOCKED to discover that I have received a total of 76 emails from guys who want to share their biggest problems with calling women with me.

Now THAT is a lot of feedback… wow! And it’s not too late… you can still tell me about YOUR biggest challenges in the area of getting phone numbers, phones, calling women, texting women, voicemails… the list goes on and on.

How to tell me? Send your email to [email protected], share with me how I can help you with calling women, and then? Then I’ll use your feedback to give you as much tips as possible for it very soon…

Here’s some of the feedback I have received:

“I’m becoming desperate over here!! Sometimes I call a woman, talk to her for hours and hours, but I just can’t get a date out of it. I don’t know if I’m being too nice to women, if they’re trying to avoid dating me, or if there’s something I’m not doing?? All I know is that I’m getting pissed off because I get plenty women’s phone numbers at the moment, but no damn dates!!”
— Alex from Houston, USA

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Relationship Advice

How To Keep A Relationship Interesting

How to keep a relationship interesting? I was recently interviewed about this topic by Debra Berndt (a dating coach for women) during her Love Mind radioshow.

One of the callers asked us how to keep a relationship interesting, we both shared some valuable insights, and I wanted to share them with you.

But first: you’ll find the best tips I can ever give inside my post on how to please your girlfriend.

Anyways, Debra recorded the whole show, so thanks to her I can now share my tips for keeping the attraction going for as long as you want. Check out the video where Debra Berndt and me share our thoughts on the topic below:

Some of the things we discuss in the short video above are:

– Why (over time) most relationships become a routine where both partners lose interest and tend to stop paying attention to each other… and what to do to keep the relationship interesting by grabbing your partner’s interest and never letting it go again…

– Why most conversations in a relationship get boring… and what to do about it in a way that lets you discover things about your partner you didn’t know …

News & events

The feedback I got about calling women is AWESOME!

I noticed that a lot of men are asking me questions about calling women, texting women, and all kinds of other phone-related issues. So I wanted to find out:

What are YOUR biggest problems with calling women and texting women?

And I’ve gotten some GREAT feedback!

Here are some of the replies I got:

“ I hope you can help me with my problems with dating women. I’m getting better at approaching girls, but it’s very difficult for me to get a girl’s phone number. I don’t know what to do when she says she doesn’t have a phone! I also don’t know how to react when she says no. I don’t know what to do when a girl says she doesn’t give her number to guys she doesn’t know. Help!”
— Eric from the Netherlands

“Hello Carlos. I like that you want to help me. Here is my question: do women get bored when you talk to them on the phone too long? I don’t know how to make a woman like me when I call her. So I think she does not want me and feel like we have talked about nothing even when I called her more …