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Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips & Secrets

Category: Relationship Advice

Most relationship advice sounds like it’s coming straight out of Hollywood. Real fake. Real lame. Are there any good relationship tips out there?

Yes there are. And we’ve collected the best relationship advice for you inside the blog post(s) you’ll find below…

How to please your girlfriend

How To Please Your Girlfriend In Bed – Sex Advice

Today is about how to please your girlfriend in bed. How come? Because it’s more than logical for me to start giving sex advice, because let’s face it:

What happens if my dating tips help you get a successful date? That’s right: porn-like sex! But for that to happen, you need to know how to please your girlfriend in bed first!

But first, let’s get something straight about how to please your girlfriend here…

When I say please your girlfriend in bed, I mean the woman you’re in a relationship with for months or years. But I also mean a girlfriend for 1 night…

If you want to know more about how to please your girlfriend, then start using my tips for pleasing your girlfriend in bed.

Hell, even if you want some advice for all twenty of your girlfriends. It’s fine with me. I don’t judge.

Whether you’re an one night stand man or a relationship man, I don’t care. I’m just the guy giving sex advice.

So, let’s get started with that advice for how to please your girlfriend better then, shall we?

How To Please Your Girlfriend In Bed Tip 1: Don’t Be A Wussy

Maybe this sounds obvious, but it’s not. Here’s why…

1) 90% of the men out there today focus on a woman’s pleasure. They want to …

Relationship Advice

How To Keep A Relationship Interesting

How to keep a relationship interesting? I was recently interviewed about this topic by Debra Berndt (a dating coach for women) during her Love Mind radioshow.

One of the callers asked us how to keep a relationship interesting, we both shared some valuable insights, and I wanted to share them with you.

But first: you’ll find the best tips I can ever give inside my post on how to please your girlfriend.

Anyways, Debra recorded the whole show, so thanks to her I can now share my tips for keeping the attraction going for as long as you want. Check out the video where Debra Berndt and me share our thoughts on the topic below:

Some of the things we discuss in the short video above are:

– Why (over time) most relationships become a routine where both partners lose interest and tend to stop paying attention to each other… and what to do to keep the relationship interesting by grabbing your partner’s interest and never letting it go again…

– Why most conversations in a relationship get boring… and what to do about it in a way that lets you discover things about your partner you didn’t know …

Relationship Advice

My Thoughts On Relationships & Relationship Advice….

I just want to say: I’m pissed off about relationships. To be more specific: I’m pissed about the relationship advice that’s given these days.

Here’s why…

– Most dating experts out there SKIP relationships altogether, saying dating is different from relationships and thus limiting their fans and students to achieving SHORT TERM success. That SUCKS!

– Of the dating experts that DO give relationship advice, most are coming from either a false Hollywood fairytale position of total bullsh*t, or, even worse… the way too old perspective of “a relationship means being married to someone for 10-20 years.”

In short: there’s nothing in the middle. There’s no one….

No one that really talks about how to “keep the girl” after dating her several times.

No one that talks about the early stages of a relationship.

No one that talks about how long to wait before saying those 3 magic words (I… love… you)

I think you get the point.

That’s why I’m happy to announce that I’ve made some cool videos about relationships which contain TONS of top notch relationship advice. Better said, what you’re about to hear is me coaching one of my students (Tom) on the topic of relationships……