Author: Carlos

The biggest dilemma for 99% of the men that want to know how to meet women online is: how do you get them to reply to you, to start talking with you?

Let’s first take a look at how crappy the messages in a woman’s profile inbox usually are. Attractive females receive around 20-50 messages a day, which are almost ALL the same ones (they fall into the three categories I describe below) that annoy the heck out of her. This is a big fat what NOT to do:

– You can tell a woman she’s pretty, an angel or whatever, but doing that will only make her think: how many women did you use this one on already? It’s letting her know you not even took the time to READ her profile! Or she’ll feel that your interest is only shallow (you like her for her looks), and not genuine (you like her for who she is – her personality). Being shallow KILLS attraction.

– You can tell a woman that you’re probably not here type but would love to talk to her sometime, which reads I’m already writing myself off and think I’m WAY out of your league …

Everybody knows that practice makes perfect, so when I started learning how to pick up women online, I knew I needed to write a LOT of friggin´ messages if I wanted to know what type of messages worked and which ones didn´t.

At first, it seemed kinda cool: if this beautiful girl doesn´t reply, I´ll just write another one until someone DOES reply and I can meet and date her. But after a while, I messaged all the women aged 20-24 in my city and still didn´t have much success, maybe some phone numbers but NO dates yet. Then I started messaging women in my age group that lived in another city, got a couple of dates, wanted more, and continued messaging women.

And when I finally knew what I was doing online, I had a MAJOR dilemma: how do I message women if I already messaged ALL the cute ones that won´t take me longer then an hour to travel to them?

I´m talking about the end of the road here: how to make the most of those search results?

SAVE your search criteria every time you search for women to send a message to, and I´ll tell you …