Category: Boost attraction

“I just don’t get it, man,” my good friend Steve said while chugging down his third beer, “things were going great and we were already making out.”

He was already three dates into a girl he really liked when he got the “You’re a nice guy but it’s just not working out” speech from her.

“I thought it was turning into something serious, then she dumped me out of the blue…over a text message! I mean seriously, who does that?”

Then he finished it off by saying, “After all that hard work, she just threw it in my face. God, why do I even bother?”

And that right there, is one of the biggest reasons why guys lose out with women.

I’ve seen a lot of other men like Steve utter that line in similar situations, which brings us to the first problem that typically plagues men…

#1: Having an “Entitlement Mentality”

I feel for guys who put in the effort, learn how to pick up women and try their luck. It’s not easy putting your ego on the chopping block, hoping the girl you like doesn’t chop it into a million pieces and flush it down the drain.…

A lot of guys think they’ve got it together when it comes to attracting women. But there’s one behavior that robs them of their masculine power and lessens women’s respect for them.

As men, we’re defined by our opinions. What we think says who we are, and apologizing for our beliefs can make a guy look weak and low-value.

Take matters on dating for instance. Some guys would rather go out with different women at a given time.

To them, they’d rather get to know more than one person to make sure that when they do commit to someone, they’re making the best choice possible.

That seems like a fair enough deal as long as he’s on the level with the women he’s dating. If he made any one of them think that they’ve gone steady while STILL seeing other girls, well, that’s something else.

And the biggest mistake in this situation would be to backpedal – or worse, apologize – just to appease a particular woman. If you tried to convince her desperately that you she should be ok with you dating other women, it makes your words incongruent with your actions.

And that makes you unattractive on every …