Texting women these days can be tricky…

You just don’t know what kind of response she will throw at you, and you need to know how to handle her testing. She’s always looking for a reason to poke and prod your act to see if you’re a real man with the ability to drive up her attraction – or destroy it.

In case you didn’t know, texting is a great way to drive up interest from a woman, but it’s also where most guys screw it up.

Here’s how:

• You text too frequently: Women know that a guy who’s texting them a lot in the first few days of meeting her is probably either needy, or just doesn’t have anything else going on. This communicates your social value…
• You text too long: Most guys write texts that are WAYYYY too many words. If you text anything that exceeds the 160 character limit, you’re looking like a try-hard…
• You text too much of the same jokey crap: Stop being a comedian all the time and vary it up. Send her a tease, followed by an insight, followed by your lunch choice… keep her guessing!

Let’s talk about 7 situations where you will need to text her, and how to handle each one. These 7 stealth texts will show you by example what to text a girl…

Starting with:

Stealth Text 2 – What To Text Her: The After-Text

After you meet a girl – in a bar, at a party, whatever – you need to cement yourself into her mind. Chances are, if she was attractive to you, she was attractive to other guys who talked to her that night.

No, huckleberry, you ain’t the only game in town…

You need to make sure you stand out in her mind so that she won’t wonder: “340-334-4145… Who the hell is this?”

In fact, if you’ve ever gotten a text from a girl that said “Who is this?” you know how far behind you are already. That’s one of the worst texts you can get from a girl. Period.

To stand out, you remind her with your name, something she laughed at that night, followed by a sign-off.

Here’s a great one:

“Hey, it’s Carlos – was great meeting you ‘Kittty kicker’ – Let’s reconnect this week…”

In this case, you two were joking about the story she told you about the time she accidentally kicked her sister’s cat. It’s a tease, and it’s perfect to use. Then you hint that you’ll be in touch.

Now she knows who you are, you reminded her of your confidence, and you’re perfectly setup for:

Stealth Text 2 – Text Her THIS: The Warmup Text

You gotta follow up and reconnect with her, ideally within 24-48 hours. There’s a lot of debate on this on the Internet, but take it from Uncle Carlos – you don’t want her to forget you, so act quicker. Just do it with confidence.

You want to remind her again about your connection, and get her warmed up with this:

“Hey, Kitty… How’s your week going? I know you’re missing those laughs from Saturday…”

BOOM! She’s reminded, and you even managed to squeeze in a little callback to that tease about kicking the cat. Without being obnoxious, by the way.

Be careful you don’t overdo any particular tease too many times. It’s douchey.

Right after she responds to this, you hit her with:

Stealth Text 3 – What To Text Her: The Meetup Text

Yeah, baby – it’s time to slap this one on the ass and get it moving…

After her warmup response, you’re going to go for the meetup request. You have to see if this is going to go somewhere.

This step is HUGE – because if there’s anywhere it goes weird, it’s in this call to action step.

• If she’s into it, she’ll jump on it…
• If she’s hesitant, you’ll sense it…
• If she’s reluctant, you’ll KNOW it…

So send her this next:

“Going to the (name of brewery, restaurant, coffee shop, etc) tomorrow night – let’s get together!”

Then listen to her response, because it’s highly likely that she will throw out some random nonsense for you.

Just a note here: The best thing to do is to resist the urge to do too much convincing… Just plow forward with the assumption that she’s a LUNATIC if she doesn’t meet up with you.

By the way, if you believe too deeply that YOU are the one who would be lucky if SHE agrees, you gotta do some inner game work, my friend.

Stealth Text 4 – Send This Text: The Plow Forward Text

When a girl tests you by resisting, what she wants to see is sincerity in your efforts to woo her. Women don’t believe your words, they believe the meaning they get from the ATTITUDE behind the words… and your actions, of course.

Women are INTERPRETIVE creatures, which means they read into you based on the vibe you give off.

The words of this text are less important than the attitude.

So here’s a really good attitude text to plow her forward:

“Are you crazy? We’re gonna have such a great conversation & you’re stalling? You’re so cute…! What time can you meet me?”

If she insists on pushing you back and not committing (which is still highly likely), you should pick up the phone and TALK to her. Never let a girl get away with pushback. Hearing your voice will make it real. Right now you’re just words on a screen.

Don’t be a chicken-sh*t and avoid talking to her because you’re afraid to confront these things and deal with them, you dig?

Chances are high that she will give in and agree when she hears a real voice.

Next up:

Stealth Text 5 – What To Text Her: The Reminder Text

The younger the girl, the more likely she will no-show you. It’s nothing personal, she’s just playing out her mindless automatic program.

So you want to make sure she feels like complete crap if she does flake on you.

This one is a little edgy, but you can pull it off:

“Hey, I promised the sick kids at the hospital we’d be there at 7:30 to cheer them up, so you better be on time! ;-)”

If you don’t get a response to your text – no matter what you send – you still want to show up at the place you agreed.

However, you need to get a friend to be there with you in case she does flake. This way you won’t feel dumb, and you’ll be able to let it go quicker.

And if she shows, you look more socially desirable. Just introduce your friend, then bid him farewell.

You can also send a more gentle reminder like this:

“Hey girl… no flake-outs, I’ll see you tonight at 7:30… ;-)”

If she texts anything but an enthusiastic “I’ll be there” – you should call her again and go voice.

Stealth Text 6 – How To Text Her: The Running Late Text

This one is a great way to demonstrate value AND remind her of her obligation. If you think you have this girl pretty well locked in, send her this… it will drive up your value and her investment in you:

“Hey, girl… wanted to be a little early, but running a few minutes behind… See you there”

This is great for a reminder text because it shows you’re not too needy.. and if she’s got any BS to throw at you about flaking, now is when she’ll tell you.

Stealth Text 7 – What To Text A Girl: The Finisher Text

When your date is over, you want to finish up right where we started this whole thing – with a text that will cement you in her head as the man she wants.

Of course, this is assuming that you aren’t already in a position to just roll over and talk to her at the end of the night…

By the end of this one-on-one date, you better have impressed her enough to be memorable.

If you don’t know how to do it, you need to learn about Sexual Sparks – and how to push her brain into attraction for you.

With this finisher text, you’re going to be a little bit more cocky, with the purpose of making her value YOU as the prize.

Don’t be arrogant! Just be cocky & funny…

Try this 2-part text:

Part A: “OK that was probably THE best time you’ve had all year…”

Part B: “You’re kinda fun, too! Just don’t start stalking me yet…”

Let her say whatever she’s going to say, just don’t read into it too deeply. Let these texts sit with her for a good 15-20 minutes before you even THINK of replying.

Another mistake guys make is, in their eagerness to get a girl to text them back or like them, they text her back WAY too soon.

Wait at least a few minutes before responding to a girl. If you have any questions why, just remember the last time YOU texted a girl and had to wait for what seemed like an eternity for her response. That time she’s waiting, she’s thinking about you.

Driving up her attraction and desire in the process.

There you go, my friend. You’re now in a position of high value if you followed this chain to the end.

But there’s so much more you need to know to make sure you can handle any of the curve balls she throws you…

Go watch this quick video presentation –

And discover the secret to uncontrollable sexual desire…

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Texting has become one of the most important ways to communicate – probably as much as sending an email or posting on Facebook. It’s fast, easy, and immediate.

And it’s also one of the most common questions I get from guys:

“Carlos, how can I text a girl and flirt with her? I want to get her interested and out on a date with me…”

Fair enough. I’ll do my best to give you some high quality examples of texts that I use to spike a woman’s interest in me.

But first…

We have to clear something up right away: Your goal for texting girls is not to get her on a date with you.

Well, not directly anyway.

Your only goal for texting her is to keep you in her mind, and give her a little jellybean of “feel good” each time you do.

The biggest mistake guys make is to text a woman thinking that he’s going to be able to start a whole relationship using nothing but texts.

It just doesn’t work that way. And women get impatient with guys who over-use messages this way.

If the girl likes you already, then you can text her almost anything. But if she’s wondering why the hell she gave you her number, then almost nothing will work.

Good texting is simply a continuation of a good conversation between two people who like each other.

It’s not a means to make a girl like you in the first place.

So with that in mind, let’s dive into 10 text messages you can send to a woman to get her thinking about you…

Flirt Text 1: Her: The Deliberate Misunderstanding

This is one of my favorites, because it’s a great tool for getting her to scramble for a recovery – when she really hasn’t even done anything wrong.

You just playfully misinterpret something she said in a way that makes her look silly, or even like the aggressor.

EXAMPLE:

HER: Are you free to meet up on Wednesday?
YOU: Let’s do it… get together, I mean… not sex

You see what I did there? I playfully misinterpreted her proposal in a way that made her look like she’s being forward with me.

AND I also get to turn her down in a way – being the one to say “no” to sex.

Even though she never proposed it!

Man, I love this stuff…

Moving on to:

Next Flirtatious message #2: The Dirty Dream

Women live to be desired. If there’s anything you learn from me, let it be that one vital fact.

And let it steer all your decisions with girls. If you focus on making her feel that, you’ll be surprised at how responsive she can be.

So the dirty dream is a way to get her curious.

YOU: BTW I had the dirtiest dream about you last night… crazy

She will ask you about it of course, and you can just leave her hanging on it. When she presses you for an answer – and she will – you can just make up something about you two sitting on the beach in the rain, getting covered in wet sand and seaweed.

(Dirty, get it?)

Or that you had to stop her from cursing someone out in a parking lot. “What a filthy dream mouth you have!”

You’re breaking the barrier of sex in your conversation, which is an important step to take as early as you can.

And another good text message #3: Brighten her day

Here’s another goal for you: Be the first thought on her mind for the day.

The best way to do that is to send her a little ray of sunshine – in the form of a text, of course.

Here are a few you can steal from me:

YOU: Do you have a to-do list? If so, put me on it…

YOU: Hey, hot stuff… wear a smile for me today…

YOU: You looked great today
HER: When did you see me?
YOU: I didn’t. but I bet you look great every day.

And if you were wincing on that last one because you believe that advice that says you shouldn’t compliment a woman, you’re in for a rude awakening.

If you don’t send her something to at least flatter her a little, she’s going to lose interest. Playful teases only get you so far, man.

Use this one, and you will score major points:

YOU: Hey, I just realized who you look like…
HER: Who?
YOU: Not sure I should tell you this…
HER: C’mon! Tell me!
YOU: You look like Emma Stone… only cuter

Or just pick any actress that’s popular with women.

Yeah, it really does work.

The next text you should send #4: The Good Night Kiss

Yes, on the other end of the day, you should send her a text that finishes her day with a smile. If you’re the first AND last thing she thinks about, you’re well ahead of all the other guys in her life.

Here’s one you can use:

YOU: Sweet dreams… Maybe I’ll be in them.

Close it right – Message #5: Use the conversation ender

A big problem when texting is knowing when to stop. Most guys go way too far and too long.

You want your texts to be short, each of them, of course. But you also don’t want to keep a long conversation going without a lot of emotional back and forth.

So when in doubt, cut if off early. And do it in a way that says, “I’m getting the last word in here.”

You want that so that you control the conversation. If you let her do it, you’re losing a huge amount of dominance in the conversation, which makes you look weak.

Here’s what I will usually send her:

“Going to bed… be thinking about you…”

Or try this one, if you’ve got the balls: “Going to bed… Think about me later…”

The key here is that even if she texts you back, and even if she asks a question, you don’t respond to her. Let it go until the next day.

The longer you can leave her hanging, the better – because it will crystallize you in her thoughts. She’ll have a background program in her brain that wants the answer.

And that keeps her thinking about you.

Great way to text her #6: The Inside Joke

Some people call this “callback humor.” Meaning that you’re recalling a moment you two shared that she will remember.

When you do this enough, she’ll constantly find herself thinking about you.

Here’s an example:

YOU: Had a great time last night. Can’t get the image of you doing that funky dance move out of my mind…

Mention some detail about the date that she can remember easily. Things she was wearing are good, or just some joke you two shared that you can make your private catch phrase.

And finally – the best kind of text to send a girl – #7: The Setup

You want to give a girl an excuse to think dirty, and to misinterpret YOU as dirty. This is like a variation of the Dirty Dream technique – except it puts it completely in her court.

Here’s an example:

YOU: I just got done with an intense workout, it was so long and hard. How’s your day going?

Now you see what I did there, right? I basically left myself wide open to being misinterpreted.

You’re trying to create a fun and playful vibe.

Here’s another one:

YOU: Can’t wait to get off work and go to the beach. What time do you get off?

A woman wants the opportunity to break her image of being the “innocent angel.” Let her take your words out of context and flirt with you back.

Then you get to accuse her of being a “naughty girl.” Give her the license to misbehave that she wants so badly.

BONUS TEXT: Award her points

One of my most copied tactics is the point system. This is where you award a woman points based on her performing to your satisfaction.

It’s like a fish you throw a seal when they do the trick right.

YOU: “So what’s your favorite kind of movie?”
HER: “I used to like comedies, but lately it’s been superhero movies…”
YOU: “Whoah… nice! I like that… you scored 10 points.”

If she feeds you grief:

HER: “UH, points? Who said I was playing…”

You say:

YOU: “Whoops, you lost 5 for getting all serious…”

The idea here is that YOU are the one with the points to give out, and SHE has to earn them. You let her know when she does, playfully.

Not too serious or she can get offended.

The idea is to communicate that you’re the one who holds the power. Not directly, and not being a dick about it.

But in your world, you hand out the approval. Not run around looking for it.

And if you’d like to discover my stealth text messages that make a woman respond to you – even if she’s ignoring you right now – go check out my new program on texting her the RIGHT way.

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He’s been eyeing her for months, and he finally got the courage to get her phone number.

He called me up last night wanting to know what to text her. Which is interesting because that seems to be the most common question I get from guys these days.

They want to know what to say to her, some funny things to text a girl, how to seduce a girl through texts…

And especially that all-important first text to send a girl.

The easiest place to start is to tell you what NOT to text a girl…

You want to avoid any kind of text that shows that you’re a Text Slacker.

What is a Text Slacker? He’s the guy who barely puts any effort into his texts to women.

He usually sends a text like:

“‘sup?”

or

“Hey…”

or

“Yo”

Hoping that he’s SO cool that the other person will just gush a response back to him just because he initiated contact. Which is not only narcissistic and arrogant, it’s just douchey.

So don’t send one-word “prompter” texts to women. They won’t get it, and they’ll probably ignore you.

Another thing the Text Slacker does is sends too many texts with abbreviations in them.

Like: “C U L8R”

As a general rule, spell everything out in your texts. It shows that you care enough to move your thumb another 1/2 inch to the left for her.

I know, it’s tempting to take a shortcut. But it’s also terminally lazy, and it will get you blacklisted with women faster than sending an unsolicited d*ck picture.

Oh, which reminds me…

DON’T SEND UNSOLICITED PICTURES OF YOUR WILLIE…

Bad opening move, and bad move in general. Unless your Johnson made the cover of Time Magazine for “D*ck of the Year,” it’s never a good idea to send an image of your junk.

And even then, I’d let Time Magazine’s cover do the work for you, yeah?

(For you guys that will ignore me on this point, never send an image of your boy when he’s soft, either. Women find that particularly pitiful and pointless. Forgive the pun…)

The Text Slacker makes mistakes because his moves all show that he lacks imagination and effort.

He’s a slacker, after all.

And that tells a woman that you haven’t got the get up and go to give her what she needs most: Attention and adoration.

Okay, enough of the “what shouldn’t you text a girl.” Let’s talk about what you should be texting her…

First off, you need to engage her and get her emotionally involved in the first text, or you’re going to really struggle.

The best way to explain this is a comparison.

Here’s a guy’s probable current state:

– He’s been out a few nights, maybe got a number. Or two.

– He hasn’t gotten laid in a while

– The numbers he does get are iffy at best. He’s gotten some friendly responses, but not flirty or sexual the way he wants. The girls could have been interested and flirty when he met them, but they cooled off literally overnight.

– So each phone number he manages to get is like a small flake of gold he managed to pan out of a stream. He wants to make it turn into a nugget – or even a nice juicy vein of precious sex with this girl.

– In short – his attitude is one of SCARCITY. Which makes him very edgy and insecure about texting.

Now your position may be better – or worse – than this, but it’s significantly different than HER mental state.

Here’s her state:

– She goes out (sometimes – but it’s not necessary for her anymore, as I’ll reveal shortly) and she gets hit on by 20 guys

– Those same 20 guys ask for her her number, and she’ll give it out because she’s not risking anything (her phone is her bodyguard – and I’ll also explain why in a bit)

– She goes home and gets 150 texts from those 20 guys – each one of them wondering if she’ll ever get back to him

– She can “cherry pick” the ones she wants to see again… or she can just go out again and let another 20 guys hit on her tonight

Basically women have an endless stream of boners running through their life. It’s like a sausage festival, and she doesn’t have to do anything but choose.

So you can imagine what her attitude is, right?

It’s one of ABUNDANCE.

She’s not scared of “running out” of guys to get with. So her attitude is like my attitude when it comes to books.

I got plenty of ’em, so I’m never in a scared, insecure state that I won’t have something to read tonight.

Think about that difference in your own life for a minute…

Think of something you have PLENTY of right now, whether it’s clothes or food or even friendships. Think about how that feels to you to know that it’s always there, and it’s easy to get.

Then take that same attitude and compare it to something you’re not as sure about. Like girls, or money, or possessions. (Not that possessions really matter.)

You’ll quickly see how your attitude is significantly different. Especially if you were asked to give one of what you have few of away.

So remember that when texting a girl – she has plenty of YOU around her all the time. Yeah, I know, you’re special and different – but that doesn’t matter to her if she never gets to discover it.

So let’s work on getting you past her defensive shielding, shall we?

Back to getting her emotionally involved…

You have to kick start her engine with a message that is going to spike her curiosity, and her feelings.

I prefer questions, because it’s hard to leave a question hanging out there. She’ll feel compelled to answer it – especially if it’s a good one.

Here’s one I like to use:

“Wanted: Nerdy girl for quick video game challenge – you think you got what it takes?”

What I’m doing there is a bunch of things. Let’s break it down…

1) I’m saying I want a Nerdy girl.

Which is a way of letting her be less than a glamour kitty for me. It says I appreciate a dork, which every woman kinda suspects she is.

2) Video game challenge

– I’m putting something fun and different out there for her to respond to.

3) You think you got what it takes?

Again, another good-natured challenge to her. She’ll have a tough time refusing that one.

So to really have an impact, you want to embrace three elements in your texts:

– Humor

– Uniqueness

– Challenge

Each of these brought together will virtually guarantee that she will respond.

Let’s take another look at humor…

Most guys screw this one up because they don’t understand how humor translates in texts. Case in point, it doesn’t. At least, not very well.

But it can – and should be used – whenever you can.

How do you do it?

The best way is to do it through weirdness and absurdity.

Just put something in where it doesn’t belong and you have wacky humor that most girls will find cute.

Here’s a quick example:

“My dog has been asking for your number… Saw your pic on my phone. I don’t think you should see him, though. Bit of a player.”

Right there you’ve got an absurd – and yet cute and flattering – situation. Your dog wants to hit on her. She’ll find this funny.

It’s also a kind of a subtle suggestion that this interaction with her is also on the romantic side – not on friendship. In case she was thinking that.

So just inject a randomly weird element in and you’ve got the easy makings of a funny text with her that she will really enjoy.

Now you can take what I’ve shown you here and use it to amp up your texting game.

But if you’re like me, you probably would like to just have some cut & paste texts to use, and a walkthrough of my complete Ignition System of getting women to feel horny for you using only your cell phone.

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Over half of UK nightclubs have closed since 2005… and that trend is spreading like wildfire in America.

“Tinder has destroyed the live music and pub scene” – The Independent

No one is going out to clubs and bars anymore to meet.

Why?

The invention of the smartphone, my friend.

There is a fundamental shift in the way men are meeting girls, and it could hit you like a tidal wave if you’re not ready for it.

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Do it wrong and you’ll be turned into hamburger.

Okay, that may not be the most effective metaphor I’ve ever used, but it’s not too far from the truth. One wrong move and you’re just another deleted contact in her bit-bucket.

Recovery is a bit of a nightmare. Women aren’t likely to give you a second chance these days. It’s too easy for her to just move on to some other guy who gets it.

And these days, it’s next to impossible to get a woman’s attention away from her cell phone.

Have you ever walked into a crowded Starbucks, only to see 30 people in line, and every one of them is in a trance-like stupor – eyes glued to their smartphone?

I see it all the time, and it’s kinda sobering to see that all the time.

But the good news is that you can use texting to reach women that were previously out of your reach.

I’ve got a few of the worst errors you can make texting, AND some tips for what you SHOULD be doing to get her interest…

1 – Don’t Text Her This: Anything with an abbreviation in it…

Look, there was a time (in middle or high school) where you could get away with shortening your texts down to just “Wht r u gonna do l8r?”

But now that you can basically talk into your phone and have it type for you, these days of abbreviations are over and done. You need to be verbose with all your texts…

Which will also make you think a little more about what you’re saying before you text a girl. You gotta keep them short and sweet, and this will help you when you’ve got a hottie to text in 160 characters or less.

When you spell at the level of a 6th grader, this won’t charm her one bit — unless you send, “Sup, u out?”

2 – Don’t Text Her This: Don’t text just one woman…

Okay, technically this is not a specific thing to NOT text her, but it’s very relevant to you and how you text girls.

When a guy is just texting only one girl, it’s very easy for him to get caught up in a “scarcity” mentality. If you want to get out of this mindset and become a master of texting girls, then you should be texting as many women as you can.

Here’s why: Texting a bunch of women keeps you in an abundance mentality. And this allows you to develop that kind of prosperous thinking naturally.

Once you have that taken care of, you’ll bring a whole new fun attitude to your texts and messages with women – which is going to make you that much more appealing and attractive to her.

Also, with all the practice you’ll be getting, you’ll have an intuitive knowledge of what you should and shouldn’t text a girl.

3 – Don’t Text Her This: Don’t mass text

Mass texting a bunch of girls at once is a HUGE no-no. Especially now when you can bet her phone will report it if someone responds.

It’s a “duh,” but worth mentioning.

I suggest you make sure you’re using my texting rules (LINK TO: https://www.win-with-women.com/calling-women/ )

4 – Don’t Text Her This: Last minute invites

Asking a girl out over text is acceptable, but definitely not preferred. Just leave a grace period between when you press send on your cool invitation and the actual night it’s going down.

Now, on the if-chance that you actually do have something coming up at the last minute, it’s not necessarily bad for you to put it out there. Especially if you think she won’t be able to make it.

Why?

Because her “Sorry, I can’t” will inevitably make her feel a bit more obligated to follow through on your next serious suggestion.

Evil? Maybe.

But if it works, sometimes the results are all that matters.

5 – Don’t Text Her This: Your Feelings!

I’m always amazed at how many guys break this rule. You can NEVER reveal feelings for a girl in a text.

First of all, texting is not an emotional medium. She knows this, and it will only start her giggling when you tell her your feelings over the Network.

If you have feelings you want to share with her, wait until the time is right when you see her. But even better is to not even do it then (find out why by clicking HERE).

Otherwise, you run the risk of sounding really sad and pathetic.

Okay, so let’s talk about a few things you should be doing when it comes to texting women the right way.

After you avoid the mistakes, it’s time to make sure you’re doing the right things, too…

DO THIS – Texting Tip 1: Don’t text her too much

Nothing can ruin attraction and destroy your chances of seeing her again quite like texting a girl too much. It makes you look needy and insecure.

And it gives no challenge for the girl (which means she’ll just get bored and move on).

Here are a few simple tips for texting girls that will help you text a girl just the right measure:

When texting a girl, keep the text ratio as close to 1:1 as you can. Even better is if you can let her text you two times for every one of yours.

You want to send her about as many texts as she sends you – or fewer. And try to keep each text roughly the same length in words and characters.

Avoid needless texts. Don’t text a girl in situations where she doesn’t need to respond to you.

For example, you don’t need to reply to her “have a good night!” text if you’re just going to text back “you too!” or “g’night!” It feels weird and weak.

At this point the conversation is pretty much over. Let it end with her.

Which leads me to…

DO THIS – Texting Tip 2: Let her be the last one to text for long stretches.

Ideal is texting her that good night, she responds, and you’re done. She is now left with wondering when she can talk to you again.

If she’s the last one to text this means that she’s already stopped because she’s had enough, which means you probably pushed it into “Enough already!” space.

Just let her end it.

You get bonus points for leaving her hanging on a question she’s asked you. They typical wuss move is to answer a woman back as soon as she texts a question.

When she senses that kind of responsiveness in you, her attraction goes WAY down.

DO THIS – Texting Tip 3: Keep your head on straight when texting girls

To win at the texting game, you have to keep an abundance mentality at all times. It’s related to some of the other mistakes and issues I mentioned before.

Over-texting a girl is usually the result of neediness and insecurity. What I’m saying is, guys feel they need everything to go well with her because he’s secretly afraid it’s the only shot he’ll have with a girl for a very long time.

To avoid this scarcity mindset, you want to have a total abundance mentality when you’re texting women. Just imagine that you have a hundred other incredibly hot girls that are already interested in you.

This will help you from getting too stuck on that One Girl and prevents you from texting her too much.

Or from being too needy in your text messages.

And lastly:

DO THIS – Texting Tip 4: Make sure you’re challenging her by teasing her

Don’t be afraid to poke a little fun at the girl you’re texting. It’s the single most effective thing you can do to get her attraction up and her sexual interest going.

Of course you should do it in a playful, good-natured way. Not only does teasing a girl make her laugh, it shows that you’re not a just a kiss-ass.

Teasing demonstrates that you have confidence with women, because you’re not afraid of her disapproval.

Which will then help build attraction with more women – it’s an upward spiral.

Here’s an example of a fun text to send to a girl that shows confident, cocky teasing: “You’re a closet geek aren’t you…? except without a closet :)”

So there you go… a few tips of what to text girls, and a few things you shouldn’t text girls if you can avoid it.

Always keep in mind the big picture when you’re texting – you’re aiming for a goal: to get her to meet up with you in person. Because that’s where everything good will happen with her.

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And before I give you this incredibly long and pretty awesome list of what to text a girl in specific situations, I just want to say that these are guidelines. These aren’t rules you MUST follow dude…

Because you don’t have to use ALL my examples of what to text a girl to GET the girl. Just experiment, see what works best for you, and keep doing what works.

And secretly?

I want to show you WHY all of these examples work so well, so you can invent many more yourself and become a rock star of texting girls. But more on that later…

Let’s check out some examples of what to text a girl already!

What To Text A Girl When You’ve Just Met Her

When you’ve just met her it’s important to keep the attraction going. To keep her interested.

What does that mean when it comes to what to text a girl?

It means challenging her, teasing her, being picky, being mysterious, being hard to get, being dominant… and the list of things you can do via text to keep her interested goes on and on.

Let’s see what to text a girl to keep her interested is all about…

1. “Hey you. Yeah YOU! Can you keep a secret?”

Of course when you text a girl like this she’ll be curious and say “YES” and ask why, after which you’ll say:

“Don’t tell anyone, but I met this insanely cute girl the other day. Her name is NAME OF THE GIRL YOU’RE TEXTING. It was a shame she didn’t have bigger boobs though.”

Now THAT is a great example of what to text a girl if you want to tease her. Don’t look at me that way man. This works because you’ll be one of the few guys who’s not impressed with an attractive girl’s looks and kissing her ass. That means you’re hard to get. Girls want that.

And if you still don’t believe me, then I’ll just go ahead and say: bad boys are attractive to girls. And making a comment like that? That’s definitely being a bad ass!

So remember this when it comes to what to text a girl: it may not feel right to text her that at first, but it will once you see the level of success you’ll achieve with these samples.

2. “Uhm heyyyy… you? Who is this again? I have this new number in my phone but I don’t know who it belongs to!”

This works well for the same reasons I gave you for example of what to text a girl #1.

3. “You know what? You’re actually the first girl I’ve met in ages that isn’t stalking me with texts after one day already. Then again, this super saintly saint always falls for bad girls because I am sooo sweet and saintly and innocent…”

Instead of directly letting a girl know you’re a bad boy by making a crude comment, you’re indirectly letting her know by over-emphasizing that you’re Mr. Right so much so, it’s unbelievable.

It’s what to text a girl if you like to use a more… subtle approach for coming across as a bad ass.

4. “Can I ask you something? Are you a thief, because you stole my heart…”

Stop right there! DON’T think I’m telling you to use a real cheesy pick up line when you text a girl. I’m telling you to use it… and then immediately afterwards say:

“Would it work? Would a cheesy pick up line like that work on you? Oh come on! Be honest!”

As you can see: I’m mocking other guys in the dating game. And let me tell you: chicks LOVE that! It shows them you’re above and beyond slime balls who use stuff like that.

Don’t ask me why girls think that’s hot. They just do. That’s why I use it as an example of what to text a girl.

5. “Ok, let’s pretend for a sec that you’re a guy and I’m a hot girl like you. What would you do to try and pick me up?”

This example of what to text a girl works in a similar way as the previous one, the difference being that after she admits what she would use on you? You tease her by then using it on her and asking if it worked.

6. “Quick, quick! Wine or cocktail! Wine or cocktaillll!”

When you text a girl that, she’ll be like: “What the f*ck?”

And then she’ll play along.

Then, depending on her answer, you ask her a follow-up question the same way: “Red or white wine! Red or whiteeeee.” I think you get the picture.

Then you ask her to pick one of two foods and afterwards you say: “Thanks!” and you’re quiet. Now THAT is what to text a girl if you want to create attraction by being unpredictable.

And… it’s a very good way to ask a girl out too, but more on that later…

7. “You know, I just saw this smelly homeless guy with yellow teeth, these crazy looking eyes, and the most raggedy pair of jeans I’ve ever seen. He reminded me of you!”

Don’t force me to explain why this is a good example of what to text a girl if you want to tease her…

8. “I’m telling you a story right now and in the middle of the story, just before the moral of the story rears it’s ugly head I just…”

Stop telling you. Whenever she asks for the whole story, the whole story of ANYTHING, stop halfway through.

She’ll tell you she only got half your message. She’ll beg you to tell her more… and you’ll tell her she only gets to hear the rest if she gives you a… little kiss, a drink. You decide!

The basic principle behind all these examples of what to text a girl is simple: create more tension. Sexual tension. And to do that long enough for her to want to go out with you.

I’d say sending 3-4 of these awesome texts to a girl is more than enough.

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What To Text A Girl Who Likes You

These examples of what to text a girl are just to make a point, the point being that you need to grow balls and cut to the chase if you know OR if you can say with 90% certainty that a girl likes you.

9. “Let’s be honest. I know you like me and I know I like you. What are we going to do about it?”

This one is direct, and confident. It will likely get her “off the fence” if she’s been playing games, too.

10. “Honestly? I like you. You’re a lot of fun to be around and you’re pretty hot too, so let’s go somewhere together already!”

Trust me when I say that girls LOVE it when you’re direct, almost too direct, with them.

Why is it great to learn how to be direct when you want to learn what to text a girl?

Well, compare it with a girl’s male best friend who tells her that “No! I’m absolutely not in love with you. We’re just friends…” and who later admits that he does love her.

Other men beat around the bush, you don’t. You get what you want, when you want it. That’s what to text a girl who already likes you.

Let’s keep going!

What To Text A Girl Who Stopped Responding

These samples of what to text a girl are for when, for whatever reason, she stops responding to your text messages or calls. There’s a way around it that STILL gets you the girl you know.

How? Just watch me text a girl:

11. “You seem to be busy right now, so I’ll leave you alone so you can do your thing!”

This lets a girl know you won’t waste time waiting on her, but also that you’re not desperate for her to get back to you.

And hey, it’s also a good way to know if she’s really busy or just didn’t bother to reply to you earlier on… because if a girl isn’t busy and reads this text? She’ll reply because she doesn’t want to insult you by making you think you’re bothering her.

Pretty awesome trick if you want to learn what to text a girl, right? I know!

12. “Wow! You’re playing hard to get already? Aren’t we moving a little too fast lady? We haven’t even dated yet!”

13. “I have to tell you a little secret: even my grandmother types a text message faster than YOU do. Damn girl!”

14. “Awhhh. She’s giving me the silent treatment. How cute! Love you too honey!”

15. “What is the epitome of boredom? Being so bored by yourself that you fall asleep while watching yourself type a text message. Hint hint!”

16. “You’re not sending text messages via snail mail are you? Because even sleepwalkers can move their fingers faster than you type text messages woman!”

Here are my final thoughts on what to text a girl that stopped responding: what makes you think it was because of YOU?

Maybe she’s at work, sick, having a bad hair day, having her period, having a shitty day, and so on. Girls are emotional creatures, so frankly?

There are six million ways to make her lose interest in talking to ANYONE. That can include you, the guy she likes.

What To Text A Girl To Get A Date

I can give you so damn many examples of how to text a girl and get her out on a date. So you know what? I will, damn it!

17. “You know what? We’ve been texting back and forth for a while now. But let’s do what normal people do and grab a drink somewhere to talk some more.”

18. “Hey, I know this great places where they have XYZ. Let’s go there tomorrow!”

That’s what to text a girl if you want to ask her out but don’t want to be too obvious about it.

19. “You seem to be a person who has an opinion and likes to have fun, just like me. So, let’s have fun together by going to XYZ tomorrow!”

20. “You know what? If you promise you’ll be my tour guide tomorrow when I’m in XYZ, I’ll give you some lessons in XYZ in return.”

Here, you ask her to be your tour guide in her city or neighbourhood, in exchange for some lessons in whatever you do best… like playing the guitar.

21. “You’re bored? Well, if you play your cards right, I might take you to this awesome place where they have XYZ later today!”

This is what to text a girl when mentions she’s bored.

22. “You’re not doing anything right now? Then allow me to take you to XYZ, where they have the best XYZ ever!”

Use this one if a girl mentions she doesn’t have much to do or ASK if she has anything to do and then tell her this.

23. “Hey, me and my friends are about to hang out at a buddy’s place. If you can make it, you’re invited.”

Probably the most casual of all examples of what to text a girl, but it still works because she’ll get to see how awesome you are when among friends. Girl are attracted to such “social proof”

24. “Party at my place at XYZ PM! Be sure to bring me my favorite liquor or you won’t get in!”

Another widely used example. But widely used doesn’t mean it sucks. It means it probably works!

25. “It was fun meeting you earlier today. You seemed to be a party girl so I just HAVE TO ask: what are your plans for the evening you party animal you?”

Just because you got her number earlier today doesn’t mean you can’t text her TODAY. It depends on a girl-by-girl basis, so try your luck with this one and see what happens.

26. “Tell me: do you have plans for the weekend? Or are you just going to sit around like a true couch potatoe?”

This is what to text a girl in a non-desperate way if you want to know if you can ask her out or not.

27. “Thank you for telling me what you would like to do on our date tomorrow. I’ll pick you up around, say, eight-ish?”

Remember example #6 where you asked a girl to quickly choose one of two options several times? Well, you can go out and buy the things she chose so she’ll drink and eat what she prefers on a date with you.

And in case you were wondering: I’ve used XYZ in several examples of what to text a girl, but don’t actually text a girl that dude! Fill in what you think is best there, for example a movie theatre when telling her you want to take her to some place nice.

One more thing: if you’re unsure not about what to text a girl after reading so far, but about WHEN to text a girl, and after how many times to ask her out?

Then don’t worry bro! I got you covered! I’ll give you all the tips you’ll ever need to successfully text girls (and date them too) inside my Ultimate Texting and Calling System called “Remote Control”.

Moving on… on towards more examples of what to text girl that is!

What To Text A Girl When In Doubt

I can almost hear you think: “What do you mean… what to text a girl when in doubt Carlos? In doubt about WHAT exactly?”

It’s simple, really. What follows are examples of things to text a girl if she’s not sure she can hang out with you or gives you ANY other kind of excuse about going on a date with you.

28. “You’re going to PLACE XYZ tomorrow? Wow! That sounds incredibly… lame. Come with me. You know I’m much more fun than that place.”

29. “Great! When are WE going?”

This is what to text a girl when she mentions she’s going somewhere. To a party for example.

30. “Oh come on! Play nice. I promise I won’t get drunk and embarrass you in public (yet!)”

31. “Oh come on! You’re so boring! Ok, ok. You can pick the place we’ll go to, but you have to promise me you’ll by me a drink when we’re there.”

32. “Ahh don’t worry about it. No is a good answer too. Just don’t be surprised when you find out that I’m not the kind of guy who gives up when he’s genuinely interested in a girl!”

Now that’s what to text a girl if all else fails. It’s playing the honesty card: straight up telling her how you feel and that you won’t stop trying to get what you want.

And you want her.

33. “Ok, you know what? Have you ever heard of the Lemon Law? It works like this: we go somewhere to get a drink. If we don’t like each other’s company after five minutes, we’re both free to leave. That way we don’t hurt each other’s feelings and we also don’t have to stick it out until the end of the night if we hate each other.”

You have to thank fictional womanizer Barney Stinson for that last one.

Guess what? It works!

And just when you thought you saw enough examples of what to text a girl? I’m giving you some more…

What To Text A Girl After A Date

If you think you’re done finding out what to text a girl, and with creating attraction in general, after you’ve been on a date with a girl? Guess again!

I seriously thank GOD that you’re not a general if you think that way, because it would mean you would have thought we’ve won a war after winning the first battle.

THE way to guarantee yourself a second date, and possibly more, is knowing what to text a girl AFTER the first date. And it’s this…

34. “I had so much fun today! We should do this again some time!”

Another example of what to text a girl after a date:

35. “I have to be honest with you. Today was one of the most boring, nightmarish, and sleep inducing experiences I’ve ever been through. Just kidding! It was great!”

Decide for yourself if you have the guts to say example of what to text a girl #35, or not.

36. “You’re lots of fun to hang out with. I just know we’re going to be the best friends ever!”

This works if you want to let her know you only want to be friends with her, but it’s also what to text a girl if you want to make yourself hard to get. Because if she likes you?

She’ll try even harder to make sure you’ll NOT be her friend, but her lover. Girls like a challenge.

Neeext!

What To Text A Girl You Like If You Think You’re Losing Her

Look, sometimes you do everything in your power to get the girl but you still feel like she’s out of reach. Out of your league.

And sometimes, you wonder what to text a girl you like because you feel like she’s losing interest in you. Here’s what to use then:

37. “Hi, this is me taking much longer than usual to respond to your text messages.”

Of course this isn’t what to text a girl word-for-word, but it is what you need to do: when you feel a girl is losing interest, the worst possibly thing you could EVER do is chase her more and harder than before.

Why?

Because it only makes you look desperate, so worse, than before. No good will come of this.

Instead, what you should do is make yourself scarce. Make yourself harder to get than you were. More difficult to understand. More difficult to keep.

Do that and a girl will realize she has to fight for your attention. That’s all it takes to get her to work her ass off for you if she ever liked you, even if she only liked you a little bit.

So, the above example and the following 4 examples of what to text a girl are all about how to make yourself harder to get (and keep):

38. “Hi, this is me acting way more distant than usual when I respond to your text messages.”

Again, when you think you’re losing her interest it’s all about making yourself hard to get, so you can repair any damage you may have done.

And again, it’s advice for what to text a girl, not something you should literally text a girl

39. “Hi, this is me texting you less often than I used to do.”

40. “Hi, this is me avoiding your questions with indirect answers for a while.”

41. “This is me texting you how much fun I’m having without you.”

Enough with the examples of how to turn things around when you THINK you screwed things up already! Let’s look at some examples of what to text a girl that will, 100% guaranteed, screw things up for you.

In other words: check out what NOT to do when you text a girl below…

What To Text A Girl If You Pray For A “Fatality”

Sorry. Got a little carried away there with my addiction to Mortal Kombat games. I’ve been a Scorpion fan for years! I know it’s wrong. I know those games are pretty violent. I say: f*ck it. Who’s with me!?

But what I mean is that you should NOT text a girl the following if you don’t want to do a fatality on attraction: if you don’t want to KILL the attraction.

42. “Are you a thief? Because you stole my heart!”

Cheesy pick up lines don’t work if you’re dead serious when using them.

43. “Do you believe in love at first sight? OR should I walk by again?”

This was an example just to stress the fact that NO, cheesy pick up lines don’t work. Ever. Unless you make fun of them. Which is the pinnacle of awesomeness.

Please, please, pleeeease remember that cheesy pick up lines are NOT what to text a girl.

44. “I don’t know if I’m your type, but…”

Don’t you EVER say this if you DON’T want to be seen as an insecure wussbag with a capital S painted on it. That S stands for SUPER by the way. Super wuss.

45. “Would you like to go out with me some time?”

Could you make it even more obvious that you’re insecure about yourself and/or her liking you? Man up for a change and don’t ASK her to go out with you. Tell her you want to go out with her. Now that is what to text a girl to get her on a date with you.

46. “Why aren’t you responding to my text messages? Are you ignoring me?”

Getting angry doesn’t solve a damn thing. Getting angry only scares a girl away from you, even if she was attracted to you before. Anger stuff is not what to text a girl man. Definitely not.

Trust me, I’m a hot tempered guy so I had to learn this the hard way.

47. “Hi! This is me sending you my 27th text message today!”

Don’t come across like you have no life of your own AT ALL. That’s a major turnoff. Have fun while you text a girl and with what to text a girl, but always leave her wanting more.

48. “Hi! This is me responding to your text in less than 4 seconds!”

Responding within a minute after getting a text from her says a lot about you. It could tell her you’re really interested, but mostly? Mostly, it says that you were waiting for her to text you and that you have nothing better to do than just that: waiting for her.

That gives her one thing: a major desperation alert!

49. “Hi, this is me responding to your message in a way that leaves nothing for you to say.”

One of the most fatal yet common mistakes when it comes to what to text a girl, is to respond to questions she asks or to tell her stuff… and then leave nothing for her to say.

If you said everything there was to say, then why continue? So, if you want to get enough time to get a date with her, then ask questions and ask them often.

Keep her talking, so you give yourself a better chance of getting a date with her with one of the examples of what to text a girl to date her I just showed you!

50. “Hi, I’m a guy who gives up at the first attempt to get the girl!”

Of course, several of these last few examples aren’t things you’ll text to girls. That doesn’t mean I don’t want to bring them up though, because here’s the thing about giving up on what to text a girl and when:

Just because girls, and people in general, take their smartphone with them wherever they go doesn’t mean they’ll actually HEAR every text message they’ll ever get.

Hell, I know I don’t when I’m driving with insanely loud music on, you know? Don’t take it personal when you don’t get a reply from her.

That’s a long list with examples of what to text a girl, isn’t it? Yet still, there are many more moments when you’ll want to know something to freaking say. Moments like…

Birthdays, shitty days, holidays, when she just broke up with her ex. You name it!

If you’re ready…

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Because today I’ve got some tips for texting girls for you that guys who are incredibly successful with texting (guys like players and dating gurus) would hate to share with you because they make the dating game a hell of a lot easier.

I had to stalk some of those womanizers to get these tips for texting for you…

But it was worth it because don’t you, too, want to make the dating game a hell of a lot easier for yourself by making texting girls so easy a baby could do it?

In short: move over amateurish tips for texting that you can easily come up with yourself. Make room for pro tips from insiders that you won’t find anywhere else…

Tips For Texting: Right Click, Save As…

Most people who want tips for texting don’t realize that what they say makes texting “difficult” is also it’s greatest advantage:

It’s text-based.

Sure, you only have text to attract girls with… where you have your body language, eye contact, your voice tone, clothing style, and more in person. But you know what?

You CAN’T store every conversation you have with girls face-to-face, but you CAN store every conversation you have via text.

I can almost hear you think: “Why is this one of the best tips for texting?”

Think about it man: the more girls you meet, the more it becomes clear to you that you often find yourself in similar situations with them:

– Girls are shopping and you’re texting them about it

– You’re texting girls about exes, how guys and girls think about each other and other dating-related topics

– Girls are going out or in a club right now and you’re texting them about it

Not all girls are made equal, but they often like to do similar stuff. Shopping, talking about dating, gossiping, partying, drinking, fashion, sunbathing, and so on and so forth.

And this is where my tips for texting come in…

Because since you can’t avoid texting girls about similar stuff, why not take note of which replies you sent got the best reaction? If you tease a girl about sunbathing in a certain way and you notice she’s laughing her ass off, then save that text message somewhere or write it down.

I don’t care how you store a text message for later use, as long as you do it you’ll be a master of attracting girls through text thanks to these tips for texting in no time…

Because next time a different girl starts talking about sunbathing as well?

You re-use what you’ve already said before instead of forcing yourself to figure out what to text a girl over and over. Plus, it won’t be long before you figure out what the majority of girls respond extremely well too because you’ll see patterns.

The result: over time you will end up with several great things to say to girls via text that always attract them.

So, if you only remember one of the tips for texting I’ll give you today, make sure it’s this one because it’s the most powerful of the bunch.

Secret Tips For Texting: The Weekend Hook Up

Forget about those tips for texting that tell you to only text a hot chick after several days or that you should text her the next day…

Because the weekend (Friday, Saturday, and Sunday) is a MAJOR exception to the rule. Keep using tips for texting, and tips for getting girls in general, and you’ll find that every rule has awesome exceptions, but that’s an entirely different story…

Why is the weekend different you ask?

Because texting is a means to an end. Texting gets you the date, but not the girl. That’s why you should see texting girls as the step before victory, not as victory itself… unless you don’t mind becoming pen pals with every single girl you meet

Whether you like it or not, the weekend is party time. Most girls who have a life love to go to the clubs and bars Friday through Sunday, hell, on Thursday too if they’re college chicks…

So why not use that to your advantage? Here are some tips for texting to use it to your advantage…

Okay, say you get a girls number on Monday. Not many people go out on Monday, so stick to whatever rule it is that you’re following about how long you should wait with contacting her.

Now let’s say it’s one of the days in the weekend. If you get a girls number during the day, then why not text her later that night and tell her to meet you in club XYZ?

Hell, if you get a number in club XYZ on night 1, then why not text that girl on day 2 and tell her to meet you at the same place, same time on night 2?

The result of using these tips for texting in a club/bar situation:

– It will feel like a date to her whether other people (her friends or yours) are there or not

– It’s much easier to kiss and go crazy in a club where people lose their inhibitions with alcohol or without it, then for example in the middle of the street

– If there is alcohol involved, it could make it easier. I’m not saying you should make girls drunk and act like a rapist. All I’m saying is alcohol CAN help you out a little.

Secret Tips For Texting Girls: The Mass Appeal

This is one of the most forgotten but easiest tips for texting girls. Because all it means, in a way, is not wasting your own freaking time!

Why?

Because chances are you’re texting multiple girls at the same time. I mean, why wouldn’t you be because not every girl you text will end up dating you…

So you need to spread your eggs across multiple baskets instead of putting them in one.

Anyways, if you’re texting girls (multiple of them), then why not text them at the same time? Did you forget that you can send one text message to more than 1 person?

I’m talking about a mass text here. Sending the same thing to a few girls at once. In case you wonder when you would use tips for texting such as mass texts, then here are some examples:

1) It’s the weekend and you want to see who is ready to “date” you in a local club or bar, then why not text several girls? If one cancels, you’ll have others. If they can all make it, then you’ll have the time of your life if you meet them in different clubs!

2) You want to organize a party at your place. You know several girls that like you and invite them all. Some cancel but some will come. Because they like you and see you flirting with one of the others, they get jealous. Making girls jealous can get you dates VERY fast.

3) You want to go on a date, but not get cancelled on. Then mass text girls so there will always be one who can make it, cancel the others, and you’ll seem hard to get for them = you become more attractive to them!

Now THAT is what I call one of the best tips for texting: something you can always use but which not many guys actually use.

Secret Tips For Texting: I’m Standing Right Here You Know

I hate to give bad news to people, but when a girl’s single you’re not the only one she gives her number to 9 out of 10 times. So, you need to stand out.

That’s where the next two tips for texting girls come in: they easily make you stand out so women will remember you and be more attracted to you than to other, boring dudes.

Okay, let’s say you just got a cute girl’s number. Instead of walking away, stand next to her after you get the number, and text her pretending she’s someone else.

How? By saying something along the lines of:

“Wow! I just met this cute looking girl and it seems like she has a fantastic personality! I would love to take her out some time…”

Of course, she will read your text, be surprised and shy, and then you pretend to get shy and tell her you were supposed to send that to your best friend instead of her.

Then you can immediately ask her out now she already knows you want to!

Tips For Texting: You’re Standing Right There You Know

This texting tips builds on previous tips for texting girls, because you use it when you’re about to meet a chick somewhere.

Here’s the deal:

– Carefully approach the place where you two are supposed to meet and wait until you see her (make sure she doesn’t see you). She’ll probably wonder where you are…

– Text her and tell her you’re waiting for her and just saw the most beautiful girl and she was wearing … (describe exactly what she’s wearing: colors, clothing style, etc.)

– Then walk up to her and tell her you saw her

Now THAT is how you show a genuine interest in a woman and make her shy and attracted to you!

Tips For Texting: Cocky And Texting

Let’s take a step back for a sec and look at tips for texting BEFORE you actually get a girl’s number. Is that even possible? Yes it is!

Because when you have the balls to do this, it’s very, very… very unlikely that a girl will NOT give you her number.

That’s because you’ll be showing a loooot of confidence with this move.

Here’s the deal:

The moment you want to get her number, don’t ask for it. Tell her to wait a second because you think you just got a text message. And while you’re checking your phone, she’s thinking to yourself that you’re incredibly rude…

So guess how surprised she’ll be when you say you just got a text from her but don’t know how to reply because you don’t have her number?

Then tell her to give you her number so you can text back (and if you really want to be smooth, then “text her back” and say that yes you’re not, but she’s hotter).

It’s a bold move, it’s cocky…

But I’ve seen it work. I’ve seen all the tips for texting I’ve given you today work in my own life AND in other people’s lives, even when they weren’t players or dating gurus…

These techniques have given a lot of people some amazing results with women…

So, what are you waiting for? Start using these tips for texting already man!

And if you want even more highly effective texting tips that attract girls like crazy and get you dates, I highly recommend you get the FREE tips inside my Calling Girls and Texting Girls Newsletter.

Don’t wait… get those free tips right away, okay?

I hope you liked these secret tips for texting, as I put a lot of time in getting them from some of the best players and dating gurus I know!

Check out the rest of the How To Text A Girl series.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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Look, I can sit here all day and give you examples of flirtatious text messages you can send to women, but what’s the use if you don’t know the basics of sending text messages that attract?

In other words: why learn WHAT to send as flirtatious text messages when you don’t know HOW to send them, WHY, and WHEN?

I mean, do you want to send some text messages to a hot chick, make her want you, and then ask her out on a date and have a great time?

If so, then keep reading below to find out more about the how, why, and when of sending flirtatious text messages.

How To Send Flirtatious Text Messages

If you’ve been reading my blog posts for a long time now and are thinking to yourself: “will he repeat techniques he mentioned before in this blog on flirtatious text messages?”

Then the answer is NO. I promise you you’ll learn a bunch of new stuff!

And if you never been here before then ever better: you’ll learn a whole freaking lot about attraction and sending flirtatious text messages.

So, let’s talk about how to send flirtatious text messages already:

1) Attraction is sexual tension. Thinking along those lines, you have to ask yourself how you can increase tension with flirtatious text messages. The answer: sending flirtatious text messages at unexpected times, saying unexpected stuff in a text message, waiting a couple minutes before you reply or not replying at all… OR… not telling a woman what she wants to hear by avoiding questions, asking questions in return, etc. These all let a woman wonder about what comes next.

2) Attraction is a feeling based on emotions. Learning how to text a girl is thus a matter of learning how to create emotions inside text messages. You can do that with emoticons (like this one: :P) and with laughter (haha and lol). Just remember when sending flirtatious text messages that the longer a text message is, the more emotional tends to be. Don’t believe me? Try showing emotion in a text in 3 words without using emoticons or laughter. I rest my case!

3) Men are attracted to physique, beauty, youth. Materialistic things. Because you fall for that, you assume women do too. WRONG! Women fall for a man’s personality, so bragging about income, cars, homes, jobs, and other “shiny objects” doesn’t work. Never do that in your text messages.

4) Women are attracted to a man’s personality. Certain personality traits. Dominance is one of the most important traits to attract women with AND the easiest to use when sending flirtatious text messages. Want to show dominance in text messages? Disagree with what she says, tell her you’ll only answer a question when she gives you something in return (like a kiss via text), etc.

5) The more intimately a woman knows you and the more you know her, the closer she’ll feel to you. A woman needs to feel a connection with you before she’ll even consider dating you. In essence, that means that EVERY text message you use to find out more about her or to let her find out more about you? Every one of those messages are flirtatious text messages!

6) Attraction is filling the gap’s a woman can’t fill in herself. For example, if she mentions her ex or guys in general never did something truly romantic for her? See it as a hint. If she mentions she’s been bossed around all her life, then see it as a hint and give her freedom and excitement. Give her options and risky challenges so she’ll feel free. And so on. Look for what she doesn’t have and give it to her in your flirtatious text messages or tell her you’ll give it as soon as you see her again.

As you can see: there’s all kinds of stuff you can do if you want to attract women via flirtatious text messages!

Onward…

Why Send Flirtatious Text Messages?

I know this is going to sound corny, but I need to make a point about why sending flirtatious text messages is good here:

Let’s say attraction is like fire. It’s having a passion for someone, a burning flame. If that would be true, then don’t you want to throw some freaking OIL on the fire so the woman you want almost can’t wait to go on a date with you?

Don’t you want to strike while the iron is still hot? You can do that with flirtatious text messages.

Why?

Because I’m willing to bet you for 10 bucks right now that, whenever you meet and date women, it usually goes a little something like this: you two talk, you exchange numbers, you call and text a couple times, then you see each other again on the date.

In other words: flirtatious text messages are the bridge between seeing her the first time and seeing her another time (on a date). Do you realize what this means?

It means that the better the flirtatious text messages you send are, the faster you’ll go on a date and the easier you’ll “get the girl” on that date!

The opposite is also true: screw up the text message part (or the phone calls) and it will take longer to get a date and the date itself will be rocky, difficult, instead of in the pocket easy.

That makes ANY text message you send a tool to use and make the dating game easier for yourself (or harder).

I promise you that when you start thinking along these lines, you’ll put some thought into all flirtatious text messages you’ll ever send.

And rightfully so, because I can tell you from experience that the difference between getting a date after good text message conversations and getting it after bad ones… can be weeks or months!

When To Send Flirtatious Text Messages

After the how and the why comes the WHEN of sending flirtatious text messages. And there are several things you’d want to pay attention to:

– Women want a man who’s genuinely interested in them and waiting for days or weeks after you get their number does NOT show them you’re interested. On the other hand, you also don’t want to come across like a desperate pussy by sending a text message after an hour. So, text the next day to play it safe.

– Since most women are in college or at work except for in the weekend, you’re most likely to get a reply to your flirtatious text messages in the evening from 7 PM onwards (except for in the weekend)

– Whenever women send you a text message and say they’re at a party, event, birthday or other social event and it’s boring? That is a MAJOR sign of interest in you. Pay attention to the women next time you’re at a social event and ask them who they texted. It’s usually their boyfriend, ex or a guy they like! It would be foolish, then, to not reply to a text message from a girl who’s at a social event, wouldn’t you agree?

– Use your memory when sending her flirtatious text messages, because guess how you come across when you remembered it was her or her relative’s/friend’s birthday and you congratulate her? You come across like you’re genuinely interested, duhhh!

And if you want to attract one woman after the other… after the other with flirtatious text messages because you know everything there is to know about HOW and WHEN to send text messages?

Then make sure you grab the dozens and dozens of FREE tips inside my Calling Women and Texting Women Newsletter.

Why? Because they reveal everything a man needs to know about how and when to send text messages to “get the girl” and … if you DO want those… specific examples of what to text a girl! It will be your guide to getting girls via text. Trust me.

And to quote that pig from Looney Tunes here: “Th… tha… that’s all folks!” That’s all I have to say about sending flirtatious text messages, for now…

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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Because you know what? Learning how to text girls and getting dates over and over again with it is super simple when you know WHAT creates attraction in general and WHY.

That’s why I’ll reveal many specific examples how to text girls using different personality traits today. Why personality traits you say?

Because here’s an overlooked secret of how to text girls (and of getting girls in general):

While men are attracted to youth, beauty, physique, and materialistic things… girls are attracted to a man’s personality.

Sure, looks count too for girls, but only for 10-20% of the big picture just like guys only take a girl’s personality into account for 10-20%. Meanwhile, both guys and girls assume that because THEY like certain things, the opposite sex must fall for them as well.

That’s why most guys are obsessed with getting good jobs, money, working out, shiny cars… without knowing that’s actually NOT how to get girls and NOT how to text girls!

And now you know why your personality is important if you want to learn how to text girls and get one date after the other, after the other… after the other? It’s time to look at several personality traits, why they create attraction, and some examples of how to text girls for each trait. Here we go! Are you ready?

How To Text Girls With Dominance

Dominance is one of the most effective personality traits to use if you want to learn how to text girls (or get girls in general), because for hundreds of thousands of years men have been in charge.

Hey, emancipation is great and I think girls deserve positions high up the corporate ladder, but on a genetic timescale of hundreds of thousands of years? Emancipation is a tiny dot, as it’s only been around for 100 years. Girls are still genetically hotwired for wanting a man to lead them, to show them the way.

That’s why dominance works. These insights might come in handy if you want to know how to text girls, right?

Anyways, when it comes to how to text a girl, there are plenty ways to be dominant:

– She tells you she wants to go there and there on a date…

You: “No problem! We’ll go there, right AFTER we go to –fill in your favorite place here-”

– She needs help with something:

You: “Sure, I’ll help you. Let’s meet up at … ! Be sure to bring a reward for me woman!”

Here you’re telling her where to go and what to bring. Sounds dominant to me!

– She mentions she did this and that (when her computer crashed for example)…

You: “No don’t do that! You should do … instead”

Sorry for the vague example. Just wanted to show you what to say no matter what she does

I’m sure you can come up with many more ways of how to text girls with dominance yourself now I’ve shown you the way. So let’s keep it moving!

How To Text Girls With Playful Teasing

One of the most fun ways to learn how to text girls is by playfully teasing them. Why does it work you ask?

It creates attraction when you text girls because it shows a girl that A) you’re not impressed with her looks so she’d better bring something else to the table and B) you’re harder to get than the losers who always kiss her ass (because they’re impressed with her looks).

And now for some examples of how to text girls by playfully teasing them:

– She tells you she was really annoyed by someone today and her day sucked and bla bla…

You: “Omg, that person is like soooo annoying. It’s, like, a total freak of nature. Whateverrrr”

In case you didn’t notice: this is making fun of how girls talk used as an example for how to text girls. Using what girls do “against” girls always seem to works. Funny huh?

– She mentions she’s going to the gym, work out, or do any other kind of sportsy thing…

You: “Hey, do your thing girl! But you have to promise me something: if you start looking like a female Arnold Schwarzenegger, promise me you won’t get mad if I don’t want to date you anymore!”

Let’s check out some more examples of how to text girls with playful teasing:

– She’s into martial arts, tae bo or any other kind of workout where she throws punches and what not:

You: “You know, normally I know how to text girls but you? You and your love for kicks and punches must be single because you beat up your ex! Will you abuse me too? Be honest!”

– She says she’s tired:

You: “Photo, photo, photo! I want to see a photo of your zombie face so I know what you REALLY look like without make up!”

– Women are very fashion conscious, so use that to your advantage when you’re learning how to text girls:

You: “You like to wear silver huh? Well, it’s fine with me as long as you don’t look like one of those classic garbage cans (which you probably do).”

– She tells you she’s a little hung over from yesterday…

You: “Oh you big baby! You should be happy you didn’t have a hangover, woke up and couldn’t remember the monkey or the guy in the trunk of the car like in the Hangover movies”

– She tells you you’re cute/funny/mean:

You: “Well you’re disgusting/boring as hell/Satan’s little angel… just kidding! Or am I? :P”

Now THAT is being rude when learning how to text girls… and getting away with it!

I’ve already given 50 examples of what to text a girl if you want to tease in another blog post, but I still had some ammo left for my arsenal and now you got it. Hehe.

How To Text Girls By Being Picky

When it comes to how to text girls, I like to see playful teasing as busting a girl’s balls in a non-serious, playful way… but being picky?

Being picky is busting balls when you text girls in a completely serious way! It’s showing your disapproval so they’ll fight hard to gain your approval again. Plus, just like teasing it’s also showing you’re not impressed with their looks and that you’re hard to get because you don’t kiss ass.

Check out some awesome samples of how to text girls by being picky:

– She tells you she’ll wear something red tonight (or any type of clothing for that matter)

You: “Ah that’s boring! I expect a little more from you… so why don’t you wear something –fill in your favorite color here- made out of –fill in any fabric you think looks cool here-”

Fill in your favorite color and the fabric (leather, stretch, whatever) and you’re good to go.

– She tells you she didn’t do much last weekend because…

You: “Two words: booo…riiiing! You’re not a lazy couch potato are you?”

– She tells you she has other plans and can’t text/call/date you

You: “You know I’m way more fun than whatever you’re about to do, so come have fun with me around … !”

It doesn’t matter if she says no here. It’s just to make a statement. You’re lame, I’m cool. That kind of thing.

As you can see: learning how to text girls with this takes guts, because you have to be absolutely sure that you don’t come across like you’re teasing her.

So say it like you mean it dude!

How To Text Girls By Being Challenging

Learning how to text girls by being challenging is insanely easy, once you know the basic principles behind why it works so well.

Here’s the deal:

The more attraction you create, the more a girl hopes you’ll say what she wants you to say. And that goes beyond her hoping you’ll ask her out. She wants you to respond in a positive way when she texts you, but you don’t. This is where learning how to text girls gets interesting…

You don’t because it makes you UNPREDICTABLE. It makes girls want to figure you out, learn to get to know you better so they can keep you all to themselves and so you WILL respond in a positive way in the future.

Here’s how to text girls by being challenging:

– She always ends her texts to you with a kiss…

You: “Only one kiss? Oh come on! You know I deserve two today…”

And if she says no or doesn’t do it, you don’t give her ANY kisses back and tell her that as well. That’s how to be challenging while learning how to text girls.

– She asks you if you know a great place where they … or any other question…

You: “I can definitely help you out with this! But it will cost you two kisses.” And remember man: no kisses from her? No help!

– You’re both partying tonight and agree to meet up somewhere. She says she’ll be there at …

You: “No be there at …” (an hour earlier or later)

The possibilities for how to text girls with this are endless!

Just remember that the whole idea here is to up the ante. To NOT give her what she wants or make it tougher for her to get it.

How To Text Girls By Being A Protector Of Loved Ones

This is one of the most overlooked ways of how to text girls and get girls in general. It has something to do with the effects of being dominant…

You see, when you’re learning how to text girls and you’re being dominant, she must be submissive. You’re the leader, she’s the follower. And what do leaders normally do?

That’s right: they protect their followers. By “protecting” a girl’s interests, money, job, education, or even physically protecting her? You create attraction. You’ll make a girl feel safe. It’s a very cool way for learning how to text girls because…

The examples of how to text girls with this are so simple you’ll wonder why you haven’t thought of it before yourself!

– She tells you her teacher/boss/ex/friend was being a total jerk yesterday…

You: “Do you want me to go talk to the bastard? Because no one should talk to you like that! It really pisses me off! You deserve to be treated with some respect, so let me teach him some respect.”

I know what you’re thinking: “Does this really help for learning how to text girls dude?”

YES. Trust me. Once you try it, you’ll LOVE how a girl responds to it. Who would have thought you could get the girl by acting like a total mobster huh?

– She tells you she saw something she would really like to have had but it was too expensive.

You: “Where did you see it again? Let me go there and make their “tough guy” salesman an offer he can’t refuse. I’m sure he’ll give you a discount afterwards…”

Fun fact about how to text girls with this:

I never actually had to go anywhere for a girl after offering her to go there. Yet still, they really, really like it when I do this.

And I’m sure you can come up with many more examples of how to text girls yourself, but if you want to get your hands on more examples right now for FREE? Then I highly recommend you get the tips inside my Calling Girls and Texting Girls Newsletter. Do it. Get them.

And that’s all I have to say about how to text girls for now. Hope you liked my tips!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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First off, I would like to say that there is no need to worry if you don’t know how to flirt with a girl over text in the right way. You are not alone. We have all been there. But…

Once you are done reading about the 7 deadly sins of how to flirt with a girl over text and you do NOTHING with what you have learned? Then it IS time to worry and ask yourself why you are making flirting with a girl over text so hard for yourself.

So, please take action with what you are about to learn… and let the learning begin already!

Sin #1 of How to Flirt With a Girl Over Text: The Answer to What to Do if She Doesn’t Text Back is… DON’T Get Mad!

Most people tend to text with each other during the evening because everyone is at home from work or college.

What amazes me though is that when you’re flirting with a girl over text and it’s getting later and later and she doesn’t text back… why do you get upset? Did you ever stop to think that maybe she is trying to sleep?

Don’t laugh now dude, because I know tons of guys that text with a girl in the evening and then get angry if she doesn’t text back. Don’t be one of them… and realize that by getting angry when she doesn’t text back, the only thing you’ll let her know is that you’re insecure.

That you have nothing better to do than to wait for her to reply.

That is NOT how to flirt with a girl over text.

So wait until the next day with texting her if you don’t hear from her. Yes, even if you two were texting during the day and she didn’t text back. Don’t show your insecurities. Just wait it out.

And if you want to get your hands on some specific things to text a girl no matter what situation you’re in, then check out my blog post with 50 examples of what to text a girl.

Sin #2 of How to Flirt With a Girl Over Text: Means To An End

I have said it a thousand times already here on the Win With Women blog, but when you want to learn how to flirt with a girl over text, then remember that texting girls is a means to an end.

You may kick ass when texting chicks, but if you cannot get a date out of it, then what good will it do you? Texting only serves as a way to attract girls so you can get a date.

Nothing more. Nothing less.

So if you find yourself flirting with a girl over text for one or more weeks without asking for a date? Tell yourself to shut up for a second. Then tell yourself texting is not the destination. Dating is.

Sin #3 of Flirting With a Girl Over Text: Cheapskating

I can almost hear you think like The Joker does: “Why so serious?”

“Why get all preachy on me about how to flirt with a girl over text and warn me for thousands of mistakes?” Here’s an honest answer:

If you never know what you’re doing wrong, you will never know what is right. Why? Because there is no wrong without a right, no right without a wrong, no dark without the light…

And I can give you a million other quotes that sound like they’re coming straight out of the Bible, but that’s besides the point… because I want to address you if you’re a cheapskate right now.

It’s one thing to not want a phone bill that is in the $100+ range, but it’s an entirely different thing to stick to 160 characters max every time you flirt with a girl over text so you use 1 text for one message you want to get across.

Here’s why: since attraction is a feeling based on emotions, you need to let a girl feel emotions when you are texting her to attract her and get a date. You CANNOT do that when you are cutting all your stories in half because the 160 character limit is holy for you!

Remember that when it comes to how to flirt with a girl over text, the emphasis is on TEXT. You can use nothing else to attract her, so a good rule to follow is “more is more”: more text in one message is better, as long as emotions are involved.

Happy, sad, proud, angry, ashamed, curious. You know. The whole nine yards.

Sin #4 of How to Flirt With a Girl Over Text: Dry Hard

As a movie junkie I just had to throw a reference to Die Hard in here. I’m sorry, but it was oh so appropiate. So deal with it!

What do I mean with dry hard with a vengeance when it comes to how to flirt with a girl over text?

It’s sending text messages that do not seem to have ANY emotion in them. No emoticons, no haha, no whatever!

In short: knowing how to flirt with a girl over text starts with using as much emotion as you can, because attraction is a FEELING based on EMOTIONS. So don’t be dry.

Here’s how you prevent becoming as dry as a freaking desert when you flirt with a girl over text:

When you’re teasing a girl, don’t just say something and expect her to “get it.” That works when you’re face-to-face and can use your body language to give meaning to things, but not when you only have text to show what you mean.

When you flirt with a girl over text, use emoticons to get your point across. Emoticons like a after every tease. That way she knows you’re being playful instead of serious.

Why do this?

Because trust me: you do NOT want a girl to think you were serious with your extremely rude joke!

And if you want to get more FREE tips on how to use emoticons to attract girls with texts, then check out my Calling Girls and Texting Girls Newsletter today.

Sin #5 of How to Flirt With a Girl Over Text: Talking to… Instead of With Her

It amazes me how you can easily forget that you’re talking WITH a girl when you want to attract her. Most men think that attracting girls is about “getting something from them” instead of “having fun with them.”

The WITH mindset is always better than the FROM mindset, because it is the only one which will lead to long term dating success. I’m the living, breathing example of it.

What does this have to do with how to flirt with a girl over text? Well, always remember that when you’re teasing her or challenging her or being picky to create attraction… she’s not a target. Allow me to explain…

When you text her and comment on her behavior, there’s no invitation for her to reply.

Think about it: when you tease a girl with a remark and do nothing else, then she can either laugh OR deny what you accused her of OR tease you in return.

But what makes you say girls can come up with a good reply every single time? I have had so many times where I teased a girl so well that she actually did not know a good comeback, so she ended up not replying at all.

So “doing well” when teasing, challenging or being picky around girls can actually HURT your success! But when you ask a question you stop that from happening. That way a girl always has an easy way out if she doesn’t have a good comeback.

This is something you only learn about how to flirt with a girl over text from experience.

Sin #6 of How to Flirt With a Girl Over Text: The Wheel

If you find that girls respond in similar ways when you tease them, challenge them or create attraction in any other way… then why reinvent the wheel?

Why not remember or write down a good reply for those similar responses, so you can use it whenever you hear one of them again? It saves you a lot of time, energy, and effort.

Sin #7 of How to Flirt With a Girl Over Text: K.I.S.S.

And now… one of the most common sins of how to flirt with a girl over text. It’s a “problem” you will always face when you are a single guy. It’s talking to multiple girls at the same time.

Talking to multiple girls is good for you if you’re single. It means not putting all your eggs in one basket. But WATCH OUT when flirting with a girl over text.

Why? Because girls have a unique timing. Trust me: girl A will text you back when you’re on a date with girl B, girl C will text when you’re taking a leak and girl D is sitting right next to your phone…

Shit happens.

The solution is simple though: get a freaking password! I am NOT talking about one for your simcard. Everyone has one of those. I’m talking about one for your phone so no one but you can use it, even when it’s on.

And now you know what NOT to do when it comes to how to flirt with a girl over text, why not learn what you SHOULD do?

Why not learn how to flirt over text with girls and get dates without much effort?

How? By getting the tips inside my Calling Girls and Texting Girls Newsletter off course! Did I mention they were FREE already?

And hey, do you think these tips on how to flirt with a girl over text are awesome? Then you are in for a treat my friend, because more is coming soon…

Check out the rest of the How To Text A Girl series.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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And let’s be honest here: you want, no, NEED to know how to text flirt with women because it’s simply the easiest way to attract them. You can text ANY woman (even multiple women). ANY time. ANY place. All thanks to texting… and try saying that about email or making a phone call.

Anyways, without further ado I present to you my thoughts on how to text flirt and attract women, even if you’re low on confidence or have ZERO experience with texting women:

The Rules Of How To Text Flirt

Before I share the techniques of how to text flirt with you, I want to cover the basics of creating attraction with text messages here. Because without them? Your plan of text flirting will be dead in the water, so pay close attention as I cover the basics…

Contrary to popular belief, attraction has absolutely NOTHING to do with logical reasoning. Attraction is a feeling based on EMOTIONS. That’s why women fall in love with bad boys: it makes no logical sense, but then again, attraction isn’t based on logic my friend.

And, thinking along those lines? When you want to know how to text flirt, you have to evoke certain emotions in a woman with text messages. The emphasis is on TEXT here: you only have text to create emotions with, which may seem insanely freaking difficult right now.

But it’s not. Text flirting will almost be too easy for you once you’re done reading this blog post. So keep reading will ya?

The second thing to remember is that attraction isn’t a choice: if you make a woman feel good about you, even if she disliked you at first or if you’re “not her type”, she can’t reason her way out of it. Why is that again dude? Yep: attraction doesn’t work on logic, but emotions.

Now, learning how to text flirt starts with understanding that you have to create emotion through text. The easiest way of doing that is by emphasizing words to give them more impact.

Awesome Examples Of How To Text Flirt

Compare these two examples of how to text flirt and ask yourself which one’s better:

Example 1: “You’re having sausages and potatoes for dinner? Interesting combination.”

Example 2: “You’re having SAUSAGES and potatoes for dinner? Interesting combination.”

Do you see the difference here? One SUCKS. The other is text flirting.

The first example is just a plain question. Nothing more. The second one though, it has sexual innuendo written all over it because of one little emphasized word! You’re implying with it that she’s naughty because those sausages aren’t edible, if you know what I mean…

And that’s teasing a woman. It’s letting her know you’re not impressed by her looks, unlike probably every douchebag she knows who tries to kiss her ass into liking him.

(Pardon my French there buddy.)

When text flirting, start using emphasized words whenever you can so the whole conversation becomes more emotional. Stick with the sexual innuendo here. You know, balls, sausages, poles, holes, bushes, hills, sticks, and any other words that can be misunderstood for her giving you sexual hints.

Let’s check out some more examples of how to text flirt…

Her (first time she texts you that day): “Bla bla bla”
You: “Hey… you. Who are you again? Are you that chick from last night or one of the triplet from earlier this morning?”
Her: “Oh my God I can’t believe you just said that. You pervert and bla bla bla…”

When you two have been texting for a couple days it’s hilarious to pretend like you lost her number and don’t remember who she is. She’ll think you rude, a pervert, and so on, and then she’ll say you’re mean when you tell her your kidding. And remember: teasing = attraction!

You: “Hey… can I tell you a little secret?”
Her: “What’s that?”
You: “When I first saw you I was like… WOW! She has the most amazing brown eyes. The kind that sparkle and tell vivid stories like they have a voice of their own.”

If you thought you can only create attraction by “offending” women, guess again! Giving a sincere compliment still works really well, IF she’s already attracted to you at that point. Just make sure it’s specific enough and not something you could say to every woman on earth.

Did you notice btw, that I’m using a lot of dot dot dot’s (…) in my texts? I use them like a cliffhanger. To add more tension, and thus emotion, to a text messages. Start doing the same.

And there are many other ways of how to text flirt and attract women easily, so let’s keep it moving shall we?

For starters, check out my blog post with 50 examples of what to text a girl. If you still want to know more about what to text a girl afterwards, then keep reading…

How To Text Flirt And Attract Women By Being Dominant

Listen man. Since the beginning of time women have been attracted to dominant men. To men in positions of power. To men who are physically dominant. To men who are mentally dominant.

Because this blog post is about how to text flirt I won’t go into detail about why dominance creates attraction, so let me briefly summarize it as:

It’s good for the species. When humans still lived in tribes, a dominant male gave a female AND her offspring a higher chance of survival because he could claim more resources as his own. That’s why it’s attractive.

Now let’s look at some examples of how to text flirt by being dominant already:

You: “Have any plans for the night?”
Her: “I was supposed to go to club ABC with my friends but don’t really feel like going.”
You: “Ah that’s BORING! No wonder you don’t feel like going. Come with me to club XYZ instead. It’ll be awesome. I’ll pick you up at 8.”

Instead of asking why she doesn’t feel like going and then asking if she, maybe, wants to join you on your way to club XYZ (a random club) like most men would?

You’re not asking her to come, you’re telling her it’s a good idea to come with you. Not only that, you come across like you’re assuming she wants to see you.

And THAT, my friend, is how to text flirt by being dominant. Use this example for whenever she’s going to do something while you want to do something with her.

Here’s another example of how to text flirt that speaks for itself:

Her: “When will you be there?”
You: “9 PM. And hey, don’t forget to wear some sexy … (pick a clothing item or color you think would look hot on her), because that would look so good on you!”

Here you’re telling her what to wear if she wants to impress her. The upside of this technique is that you’ll know she’s into you if she shows up wearing what you suggested.

Let’s look at some more techniques for text flirting in the following paragraphs. Did I mention already that I have a HUGE pile of tips for how to text flirt and call women waiting for you inside my free Calling & Texting Newsletter by the way?

If not, then now you know. But more on that later. Let’s move on…

How To Text Flirt And Attract Ladies With A Simple “NO”

Sometimes it seems the dating game is rigged in favor of women, doesn’t it? We as men have to do the chasing, while they get to pick their favorite guy to go on a date with. We chase. They choose.

But did you know that this can be a BIG advantage when you want to know how text flirting is done? How come? Well…

Women have gotten used to chasing men around. To getting what they want from men when they need it. In a way, us dudes are all a bunch of ass kissers. I’m only half joking here! But can you imagine the power of the word “NO” when you, as a guy, use it “against” women?

I can almost hear you think: “Awesome! But how do I use a no then?”

Simple: when a woman texts you with a yes or no question, you say no whenever you feel like it. No, that doesn’t mean you should artificially start saying no just because you want to know how to text flirt dude. It means that you say no for example when she says:

“Can we please go to XYZ? That would be so much fun!” If you hate going to XYZ (a random place), you tell her no. And if she says something you disagree with? Disagree, by all means man.

And if she asks questions about you, your life? If you feel uncomfortable talking about it, then by all means: tell her that nope, you won’t tell her right now.

The result: coming across like you’re everything BUT desperate. Like you’re independent, dominant. You say stuff because you mean it, not because she wants to hear it.

Plus, you’ll always leave her wanting more. To know more about you. To spend more time with you to do it. To text you some more. It’s being mysterious and women like that. It attracts them to you because it makes them feel like there’s more to you than meets the eye.

That’s what creating attraction and learning how to text flirt is all about.

And if you want to discover more ways to attract women with your phone that make getting a date almost too easy, then gain instant access to more free tips right now by signing up for my Calling and Texting Newsletter.

Now if you’ll excuse me, I’m going to watch some more True Blood (I’m suddenly addicted) and this coffee junkie is going to make himself a gigantic cup of coffee. A better term instead of cup would be bucket caus’ my mug is HUGE. Hehe.

Hope you liked my tips on how to text flirt buddy. Stay tuned to the Win With Women blog!

Check out the rest of the How To Text A Girl series.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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So, are you ready to learn how to text a girl you like and get a date out of it? Yes? Then let’s get started already damn it!

First things first though: I want you to know something before I explain how to text a girl you like…

If you’re one of those guys out there who thinks you won’t get anywhere with texting, then buddy you are DEAD WRONG! Want proof?

Then here’s a good question for ya: How do you know if a girl is available to talk on the phone? I’ve got news for you, man. You don’t! You can’t possibly know that! You can only guess. But, why guess when you can text?

Texting is perfect for testing to see if a girl you like is too busy to talk on the phone. Why? Because if she’s available to text you back, then she’s available to talk. It’s one of the many advantages of knowing how to text a girl you like.

You may already knew this and that texting is another great way to create attraction as well, but…

But do you know how to text a girl you like and create enough attraction to have her praying you’ll call her and ask her out on a date? Because it goes beyond “just” creating attraction.

If you don’t know how to text a girl you like and almost have her begging for sex because of all the attraction you’re creating, then check out my 6 simple tips below.

Feel free to try one or several and see which one works best for you.

How To Text A Girl You Like Tip #1: Is She Hard To Reach?

Maybe she didn’t answer the phone the first time you called. Or she hasn’t texted you back. Then guess what? Two can play that game!

So when she’s playing hard to get, text something along the lines of:

– “Honey, don’t you know you can’t play hard to get with a man who’s hard to get? :D”

– “Playing hard to get? I LOVE that in a girl! :P”

– “OMG! You’ve been kidnapped! Of course, I’ll pay the ransom. You’re worth every penny! But you’re gonna have to find a way to pay me back…”

I can almost hear you think: “why would stuff like this work man? Is THIS how to text a girl you like?”

Listen man, playful teasing works so well because it creates muchos amounts of attraction when a girl is used to guys kissing her ass so she will date them, while you’re demanding more from her than just a pretty face!

How To Text A Girl You Like Tip #2: Leave Her In Suspense

Before you learn how to text a girl you like, you have to understand the power of creating suspense, intrigue, a cliffhanger or whatever you want to call it.

Cliffhangers are hated by everyone who watches television, but they DO work. Here’s a classic example of one:

Suppose she texts you with a question that requires a “story”. With something more than a yes/no answer.

Example: what you did last weekend.

Or say she asks how you are, and you reply “exhausted!”, to which she asks, “Why?”

This is a golden opportunity to throw out a line, watch as she takes the bait, then SNAP…reel her in for a fine catch. Funny how learning how to text a girl you like is a bit like being a fisherman, isn’t it?

Here’s how creating suspense goes. Pay attention if you want to know how to text a girl you like…

1) You start typing out your answer, then just before you give away too much, you end the message halfway through a sentence. The idea is to make it look like there was some sort of reception error and that your message was cut off. Try to make it intriguing…

2) She should text back telling you that the message was incomplete, and that she wants to know the rest (she took the bait!).

3) Time to reel her in, man! This is when you text back saying something like: “I’d love to tell you what happened next, but you’re gonna have to give me something in return…(A).” Now that’s how to text a girl you like my friend.

4) She might tell you to fuck off, but she’ll probably ask you what it is that you want because women (and humans in general) are just so damn curious

5) Ask for something like 3 kisses, which means that you’ll have to see her for her to be able to deliver the goods (in other words: a date!)

I suggest you check out 50 other great examples of what to text a girl if you liked the examples of texting girls I’ve given you so far.

Want to get your hands on even more info on how to text a girl you like? Then let’s keep it going…

How To Text A Girl You Like Tip #3: Who’s This?

If she texts you first, try asking her: “Who’s this?”

Then after she replies you answer with a playful remark like:

“What a relief! I thought you were this scary paranoia chick who’s been texting me from different numbers to stalk me! I think she’s planning to kidnap me :P”

First she thought you were rude, mean, and what not because you seemed to have forgotten her name. She got kinda upset about it, only to discover that you were kidding around which made her feel guilty for being offended.

Now if THAT is not teasing a woman and letting her know you’re not desperate? Then I don’t know what is!

Works every time…

How To Text A Girl You Like Tip #4: Do A Spell Check!

Sure, everybody makes spelling mistakes when texting, either because you type too fast, or you try a new funky abbreviation of a long word.

Either way, you can always use spelling errors to your advantage and playfully tease a girl you like. How you should do this? Let’s find out!

– Copy the mistake and send it back to her. Add a playful comment like, “What’s wrong with this picture?” Or play around with the mistake. Suppose she typed “brr” instead of “brb”. Tell her: “Brr? Maybe you should put a sweater on, kid. I don’t want you to catch a cold and miss our next date.” If you wanted to know how to text a girl you like, then you would have written that one down… and there’s more of where that came from dude! Just watch me:

– Use the mistake and act like you don’t understand: “You said to waht for you at the corner? What the hell is “wahting”? Please clear this up ASAP cause I don’t want to make a fool out of myself in the middle of the street…”

How To Text A Girl You Like Tip #5: Just Following Up

Sometimes you want to text a girl, just to follow up on your last conversation. That’s ok.

But dude, do it in style. Don’t ask her what she’s doing. Women see right through that and see you as a desperate dude because of it. That’s not how to text a girl you like man.

Try this instead: “Hi (insert nickname)! Name 5 European football teams! You have 5 seconds! And the clock starts ticking now…”

When she replies with her answers you can tease her if she’s wrong. Don’t forget to tell her what she’s won (even if she’s wrong she’s entitled to a “consolation” prize):

“Congratulations! You have won permission to call me. But be warned that if you stalk me, I’ll have to call the authorities on YOU lady!”

How To Text A Girl You Like Tip #6: Hey… You Remind Me Of

Pull this one off right, and you’ll not only get her to laugh but a date out of it as well. Text her and say you saw a movie last night and that it reminded you of her.

She’ll be dying to find out what it was exactly. And that’s when you throw in the punch line about what reminded you of her:

“I believe it was the dog. It kept following this guy around everywhere he went, and it was annoying as hell!”

Try these techniques and let me know which worked best. And feel free to share some of your own texting techniques in a comment! As long as it works, it’s all good.

And hey, if you want to know more about how to text a girl, attract her, and easily get a date with her… then you’re in luck! Because I’ve got a HUGE pile of other free tips waiting for you inside my calling women and texting women newsletter. So, what are you waiting for? Get those tips now.

THE END… hope you liked these tips for how to text a girl you like!

Check out the rest of the How To Text A Girl series.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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They ask me about how to text women because they don’t want to miss going on a great date because they make a mistake. Do you want to miss a date because you didn’t text women in the right way?

No?

Yeah… I thought so! And the first thing I’ll tell you about how to text women is…

DON’T text women INSTEAD OF calling them after you got their phone number.

Why? Don’t worry by the way: this rant about the wrong way to learn how to text women has a point…

And it’s that texting women the first time after getting their number instead of calling them makes you look insecure as hell!

Sure, texting someone is WAY easier than calling them. Although texting usually takes longer than a quick phonecall? It requires less energy. Thinking along those lines? Texting seems to be the smart thing to do after you get a woman’s number…

But a woman will think: “Why doesn’t he have the guts to call me? Is there something wrong with him? Or was he not that interested in me?”

In short: if you text women the first time instead of calling them? You’re seen as an insecure wussy or an asshole who’s not genuinely interested in them. That’s not how to text women

And can you guess what that means?

It means that if you text women the first time without giving them a good reason, you will ruin your chances with them.

Even if you stutter, get nervous or feel uncomfortable as soon as you try to call women? Calling the first time is always better than texting women.

Calling a woman to ask her out on a date always beats texting women because:

1) It’s more personal (you hear each other’s voices)

2) It’s faster (sending 10 text messages takes half an hour to an hour, but talking for 10 minutes over the phone… takes 10 minutes!)

3) You can hear when it’s a good time to ask her out and when it’s not (and with text messages you have no idea of what’s happening around her)

How To Text Women: What IS A Good Time For It Then?

The best time I know to text women is when they don’t pick up the phone when you call them.

This is especially true for the first time you contact a woman after getting her number: no one answered the phone? Then start sending text messages!

Why is this the best time? Pay attention to my answer if you really want to know how to text women:

If you text a woman a day or several days after calling her and she texts you back, guess what that tells you?

The moment she texts you back is the moment she’s available. That means you can CALL HER. So, wait for 1 minute and call her. It’s more personal, faster, and it makes getting dates easier.

Do you see what’s happening here?

Instead of having to guess when a woman is available to talk to you over the phone, you will KNOW when she is available.

That means you can use text messages as a TEST to see if you can call a woman to ask her out on a date. How awesome is that?! This is such an important thing to know about how to text women.

This technique has never failed me yet, simply because if a woman is NOT available she doesn’t text back.

The advantages of using text messages as a test to know if you can call:

– You won’t feel insecure anymore by calling women several times without knowing if they’re not available or not interested when they don’t answer the phone

– You won’t feel frustrated anymore because you have no idea when it’s a good time to call women. You’ll know exactly what time is best: as soon as they text you back.

As you can see: knowing how to call women and how to text women go hand in hand, because they both help you achieve the same goal. Getting a date!

How To Text Women: Another GREAT Time To Text…

Women sometimes have strange habits. This is where you start noticing how different women REALLY are.

This is the MOST IMPORTANT secret about when women text men… and thus about how to text women.

Whenever women are at a social ocassion (a birthday, a party, a wedding, etc.) they always end up texting the person they like the the most. This is especially true if they’re bored or NOT enjoying themselves.

They also do this when they’re at work or school by the way. Whenever they’re bored or somewhere they don’t want to be? They text the people they think about first.

So if a woman texts you and says she’s at some social ocassion, can you guess what that means?

It means she’s interested in you and wishes you were there with her!

Would it be a good idea to text women just after they indirectly let you know they’re interested in you?

Do I even need to answer that question for you? Forgot everything I told you about how to text women?

Text her back RIGHT AWAY. Doesn’t even matter what you text back either, because you’ll create attraction just by responding to her interest in you.

And now on a lighter note: there is one more moment in time that’s EXCELLENT for texting women… want to know when? Then the photo below will tell you exactly when…

When to text: when people force you to turn off your f*cking phone, that’s when!

And now I want to ask you some questions about how to text women. Please answer these by posting a comment below: I love to hear your opinion and experiences!

1) Have you ever texted a woman the first time you contacted her after getting her number?
2) What do you do to find out if a woman can talk to you over the phone? Will you try my technique of using a text message as a test?

And now it’s time for this movie maniac to go and see Ip Man one more time. Ip man was the man who taught Bruce Lee what he knew. He was Bruce’s master.

The movie tells the story of how Ip Man survived the Japanese occupation of China and how he started his kung fu school which eventually attracted Bruce Lee…

Martial arts movies rule, especially if they have a story based on history or legends!

Enjoy trying out these tips for how to text women (and when to text) and if you want some more tips, then check out my blog post about how to text a girl you like.

I’m out of here…

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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Sending flirty text messages has some MAJOR advantages over calling women too!

Think about it… is a flirt through text messages the only way to meet & date women with words? Or is there more to learning to send flirty text messages?

Yes there is!

See, there are these little things called online dating and Instant Messengers (IM) like MSN Messenger or Yahoo Messenger as well. Getting better at creating attraction with words works three ways: you´ll get better at texting, online dating AND using IM to get numbers and to get dates.

Online dating is the one to look out for, because it allows you to meet women whenever you can´t go outside (example: you´re at work, at school, or sick or it´s too cold outside) and get their phone numbers. You can them call and text them to set up a date, so by learning how to flirt through text messages, you get more numbers AND more dates on a regular basis thanks to the internet!

Anyways, let’s take a look at how to send flirty text messages already, before I go on and on… and on about online dating! Text messages are so easy to write and make women think about you the whooole day, especially when you use emoticons…

How To Flirt Through Text Messages By Using Emoticons

Normally, when you talk to someone they understand the meaning of what you’re saying thanks to your body language. On the phone, it’s all about voice tone. With text messages though, you don’t have that much to convey meaning with: no voice, no body, just letters…

And that has consequences when you want to flirt through text messages:

– If you try to flirt through text messages without being clear about the meaning, a woman might misunderstand and think you’re insulting her, being rude, being way too serious, etc. and that’s NOT good.

– If you text anyone, you only have a limited amount of space. More on that later, but what it means is that you have to put more meaning in a smaller space which can be tricky to do.

The best way to prevent both problems and to give extra meaning to everything you say is… drumroll please… using emoticons.

Didn’t see that one coming huh? But emoticons are great to use to flirt through text messages.

Enough kidding around. If you don’t know what emoticons are then I seriously wonder where you’ve been for the last 20 years or so, but just in case: they’re small smilie faces that you can insert into your text message.

So what meaning can you give your flirty text messages with emotions? How do you create attraction with these emoticons I talk about?

The easiest thing I can come up if you want to flirt through text messages, is letting a woman know you’re not being serious but are teasing her, but there are many other things you can do with emoticons so let’s look at the best emoticons and how you can use ‘em:

– a smilie face with it’s tongue sticking out. It shows you’re definitely not serious but in a playful mood, ready to tease her with something. The great thing about this emoticon is that you can get away with saying pretty much everything when you put it behind your sentence.

Example of talking to a woman who isn’t as tall as you are: “so how tall are you? Are you even allowed entry to any rollercoaster because of your height? :P”

Another one: “Hey midget :P, how are you today?”

I think I rest my case: using as a tool for adding more meaning to your playful teases will give you more success with text messages. Hell, the emoticon is THE best thing to use to send flirty text messages that create attraction…

– a smilie face that’s carrying a big smile around. Although most people use it whenever you’re excited or happy about something, I use it in an entirely different way. I use to playfully make fun of a woman who is being a bit too hateful towards me and to show her that I don’t take her comment seriously AT ALL. Now THAT is how you flirt through text messages!

Say a woman teases you back, makes a sort of rude remark about you or whatever, then I’ll send her some flirty text messages saying stuff like “and I love you too honey! :D”. This makes a complete fool out of her and her teasing… works every time!

More Emoticons To Use In Your Flirty Text Messages

(A) – a smilie face with a little halo above it: an angel. On most phones you won’t see the actual smilie being displayed, but the vast majority of people knows what (A) stands for. I use it to pretend like I’m being sweet and innocent while I’m far from it with what I just said.

Say a woman accuses me of being mean or evil, something like that… then I’ll text “evil? ME? But… I’m innocent! I’m my mommy’s little angel! (A)”

Or even better: using (A) when I ask something in return for doing something for her or giving her something. When she asks me what I want in return I’ll text “ohhh… 3 kisses will do just fine (A)” and over time I want more and more outrageous stuff in return. One time I asked a girl to give ma a striptease, lapdance, and a kiss or ten if I would help her download this movie she wanted… and she did it. Thanks to (A).

You shouldn’t bombard a woman with emoticons though by using one every half of a sentence because it pretty much takes away all the impact. Only use it like 3-4 times in one text message, which will be more than enough.

That’s how to flirt through text messages dude!

Want To Know More About How To Send Flirty Text Messages?

So now you know how to create attraction with flirty text messages, don’t you want to know how to get a date once women are attracted to you?

If so, then you can gain instant access to tons more tips by signing up for my FREE Calling and Texting Newsletter. Inside, you’ll find tip after tip… after tip about how to get women with your phone whenever you want.

You can also check out another post of mine with many examples of what to text a girl. It will reveal all the insights you need to know if you want to learn how to flirt through text messages.

Check out the rest of the How To Text A Girl series.

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Just like my techniques for how to call women though, you should try each technique several times and see which feels and works best for you… and stick with that one. You don’t have to use ALL these techniques to succeed and seduce women with text messages, just those that give you personally the most success.

Do that and you’ll know how to text women, how to seduce women with text messages in minutes!

Let’s take a look at the techniques you can use to seduce women with text messages I mentioned before, shall we?

How To Seduce Women With Text Messages: The Blank Text

I got the idea for sending blank text messages from a friend of mine who´s phone couldn’t be key locked anymore and so the damn thing sometimes sent texts to random people by accident if he was sitting down or whatever. Blank text messages are texts that actually don´t contain ANY text, they´re messages that are empty.

Don’t worry, this story has a point if you want to learn how to text women…

Why do blank text messages work so well when you want to seduce women with text messages?

First of all, whenever you send a woman a blank text she´ll definitely send you one back because she´s curious about what you were trying to say. She thinks you did it by accident or there was some kind of disturbance or bad reception on your or her end.

And you know what bad reception means right? Exactly! Using the same techniques as when you´re calling women when you want to seduce women with text messages:

– She just gave you a kiss goodnight but wants one back? You send her a blank text and when she comments about it you accuse her of lying, being a cheapskate who wants 2 kisses for the price of 1… and so forth.

– If she teases you back but don´t have anything witty to text back, you can just send a blank text and when she makes remarks about it… you tell her you just gave her the silent treatment.

– If she gives you something in return, anything, you can send her a blank text and when she asks you about it you reply with ¨hello? Are you still there? I can´t see anything you´re saying! Can you repeat what you said please?¨ and afterwards you, again, admit that you tricked her.

Blank texts used to be an accident, but from here on out they´ll be your playful teasing tools!

How To Seduce Women With Text Messages: Her Spelling

Remember how I said that text messages are always way shorter than emails, messages on Facebook, and so on? Well, guess what the consequences are: text language. Wait becomes w8, be right back becomes brb, kiss becomes x, your becomes ur, night becomes nite, too becomes 2, love becomes luv, you becomes u… and the list goes on and on.

Text language is accepted among everybody who sends text messages because they want to say as much as possible in the smallest space possible to save some money, but not you… oh no. This is NOT how YOU are going to text women…

You see, YOU are going to bust a woman´s balls for throwing around so much spelling errors. This works particularly well if you DO use your instead of ur, late instead of l8, and so on…

Plus, most phones don´t have a normal keyboard. Most phones have abc on key 1, def on key 2, ghi on key 3 and so on, which means you need to press the first key two times to type a ¨b¨. And do you know what that means? A VERY high chance of spelling errors!

So how to text women in a way that playfully teases them with their spelling errors?

1) Send it back – simply grab her spelling error she made, put it in between brackets and send it back to her + the words “what´s wrong with this picture? Do YOU know? :P”. Example: “I´m going downstairs ´brb´? Excuse you? Did you just burp in my face misy? You better apologize :P”

Now that is an AWESOME way to seduce women with text messages.

2) Start using her error to make a fool out of her – most spelling errors are made because she didn´t pretty a key often enough… so she says “rtop” instead of stop, “stnp” instead of stop. Quite often she was trying to type the second or the third letter on the key, didn´t, but didn´t see it… excellent opportunities for playful teasing if you ask me. Some examples:

– “So you want me to ´waht´ for you in the library? what´s ´wahting´ honey? I don´t understand, I don´t speak mongoloid :P”

– “I should ´rtop´ teasing you? Come again? :P”

Some other things women (and people in general) say in text messages are not correct as well, but they mostly make these “mistakes” to save space in a text. It’s mostly abbreviations here, but still fun to tease women with!

Take a look at some examples of how to seduce women with text messages by using abbreviations in the image below…

The quickest teasing in the book is by telling her that you´re sorry that you don´t speak mongoloid, or Russian, robot language or Chinese (all difficult languages) as soon as she´s made a spelling error.

As you can see, once you understand the basics of creating attraction, learning how to text women… and learning how to seduce women with text messages is easy!

Here’s a juicy secret for you: there are about a 1000-and-1 other ways to seduce women with text messages that are based on character traits that have attracted women for ages.

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Want to know even more about texting girls? Then I suggest you check out my blog post with examples of what to text a girl.

I hope you liked my thoughts on seducing women via text so far dude, because I’m out!

To More Dating Success, 

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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