Posted by Carlos | Posted on 14-05-2010
The fact is not only are there obvious signs she likes you but there are little known secrets about how a woman’s brain works that you can use to your advantage.
There is nothing wrong with taking the direct approach: you see a hot chick at a bar and you walk right up to her and give her your best shot, then say something without having a clue if she’s interested in you, or not.
The problem is that you’ll look like a total nerd if you don’t know the signs a woman is interested in you.
Yes, knowing if she likes you isn’t as easy as in the image below…
But no, it isn’t difficult to understand body language either! You just have to know what to look for…
And once you know? You can relax, sit back, and enjoy a woman’s interest…
After all, why go through more trouble if you know she already wants you? That’s like shooting an irritating bug with a tank!
Or, why try to get her number when you clearly see she likes you not quite enough (yet)? That’s like bringing a piece of wood to a gun fight!
That’s why it’s important to know how to tell if a woman likes you. So, here’s my top 20 signs a woman is interested in you to make things real easy for you…
Top 20 Signs A Woman Is Interested In You
When is she attracted? Does she like you?
1) She is attracted when… she makes or tries to make direct eye contact
2) She repeats words you always use. Example: I always say “lame!” when I dislike something. I know I’m a big influence in her life if she starts saying “lame!” more than usual as well.
3) She is licking her lips when she looks at you
4) If you talk to her for the first time and she talks to you longer than she has to. Example: you get her number and she keeps talking or asks you questions after you get the number.
5) She is attracted when… she starts playing with her hair when talking to you or when she’s near you
6) If she calls you for no apparent reason. Women make a habit of calling the guy they’re most interested in when they’re bored. This is even more true when they are at a party, birthday, or other social event they don’t enjoy or didn’t want to go to.
7) She is attracted when… she moves her body towards you when she’s talking to you or when she’s near you
8 ) She agrees with you while she didn’t agree before. Example: she herself may say she hates gangster movies, but when you later tell her you love gangster movies? She suddenly agrees that gangster movies are good. She’s trying to impress you! This is one of the most important signs she likes you.
9) Every time you look at her she is smiling at ya
Other Signs She Is Interested In You Are…
10) When going on a (first) date, she dresses up for it in a way you normally don’t see her do or women in general do. Example: when you met her she was wearing casual clothing. Jeans, a sport jacket for chicks, and so on… nothing fancy. But on the date? It’s make up, her nails and hair are done, lipgloss/lipstick on, sexy dresses or clothing that’s more revealing than usual.
Tip: if she also looked that way when you met her the first time? It’s not a big deal that she’s dressed classy and sexy. If she didn’t look like that before, she’s interested!
11) She finds a way to touch you when you’re talking to her
12) When going on a (first) date, she “suddenly” gets a call from someone while you were in the bathroom taking a piss. Or, when you’re with her? She walks away from you a little bit. Women make a habit of asking their best friend to call them after 1 to 2 hours so they have an easy excuse to leave if they think the date sucks.
Tip: if she asks a friend to call her and you’re not sure if she likes you? You’ll know she sees your get together as a date. That means she’s interested!
13) She is attracted when… when she looks at you and slightly tilts her head
14) If she’s talking to you and she quickly stops talking when you’re quiet and just looking at her. It’s an easy sign that you’re making her shy, which means it’s the PERFECT time to either tease her about her shyness or to give her a great compliment. This is another one of those easy to see signs she likes you!
Hint: see that little twinkle in her eyes? That little sprakle during the moment you two are both quiet? That’s the best sign a woman is interested in you. Best sign ever!
15) She sends a drink over to you
16) If you meet her for the first time, she’s with friends, and she and her lady friends whisper to each other and/or giggle while you don’t know what they’re talking or giggling about.
Hint: she and her friend(s) are discussing how hot you are and how far she’ll go with you tonight. No, I’m not kidding! Women talk about everything, even that.
17) She is attracted to you when… she crosses her legs with one leg pointed right at you
18) When making eye contact with her, she looks away first. It means she’s impressed by you or she wouldn’t look at all AND wouldn’t look away.
19) When trying to make eye contact with her after she looked away, she tries to keep looking away. It means she wants to look, but either there is someone else with her who doesn’t want her to look (example: her mother).
Hint: it can also mean she was already impressed when she first saw you and she is trying hard not to be desperate. Women that do this will get really, really shy when you talk to them because they’re desperate but don’t want you to know…
20) She lets someone say “hi” to you for her. Example: her best friend Amanda says “Cindy asked me to say hi!”. It can also be something like “Cindy says hello” or “Cindy sends her regards” or “Cindy asked how you were doing.”
Hint: Women usually ask their friends to say “hi” for them when they met you at a birthday or party and want to get to know you better, but don’t know how to contact you. It means they’re interested… AND a little desperate!
As you can see dude:
There are a lot of subtle and not so subtle signs a woman is interested in you. Just remember that her body will always tell you more about if she likes you than her words can.
Because studies have proven that 93% of human communication is done with the bosy and only 7% with the voice.
Unfortunately, the brutal truth is that most men SUCK at reading body language. A lot of men keep asking and asking… and asking me about the signs a woman is interested in you.
They just don’t know if the women they’re talking to likes them. If she is attracted to them or not, they just don’t know
So, when in doubt? When not sure if she likes you?
Assume she likes you.
There’s a 93% chance your doubts are WRONG because men suck at understanding 93% of human communication well.
Although you probably know you should be smiling when you make contact, did you know that women respond to a warm smile even if you do not have perfect teeth?
Your warm smile indicates that you are fun to be around, that you are confident and that you’re open to talk and in the mood to make something good happen.
Women are very much attracted to that…
So, also ask yourself: “what does my own body language tell her?”
You should be relaxed but that does not mean you should look like you just woke up. It’ll make a woman assume bad things about you because the #1 secret to understanding women is…
Women assume good or bad things about you based on every detail they can find. So, pay attention to details. Do that and you will know that, this woman over there for example? That she’s interested in you!
Do you want to know more signs that a woman is interested in you OR learn how to get women more interested in you? Then you’re in luck, because I have a whole lot more free tips waiting for you! Gain access to more tips by signing up for my Inner Game Newsletter right away…
And be sure to leave a comment to tell me:
1) Can you remember the last time a woman did any one of the top 20 signs a woman is interested in you? What did she do?
2) Which of the signs she likes you have you never heard of or thought about? Will you start paying more attention to the signs if a woman is interested in you?
Where nearing the end of my thoughts for the day… and of me resisting the urge to eat Pringles chips. I’m insanely addicted to those cans with chips in them, damn…
Anyways, me and my good friend Ashok wrote this blog post together so if you want to know more about him after reading the top 20 signs a woman is interested in you? Here’s what he has to say:
“For more helpful dating tips, check out Carlos’s newsletter! And thanks for reading the blog post, there’s more on the way!”
I hope you’ve learned more about the signs a woman is interested in you… and that you will now immediately know the signs she likes you only seconds after you meet her…
I’m out… on my way to get some Pringles…
To More Dating Success,
Win With Women
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