How To Win With Women

Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips & Secrets

Author: Carlos

How to meet women in bars

How To Meet Women In Bars: Meeting Women In Bars Is Easy!

This dating article is all about how to meet women in bars, but before I reveal my tips? Take a moment to think about the question I’m about to ask you:

What’s one of the biggest “disadvantages” of meeting women in bars according to almost everyone?

The loud music.

Because of the high volume of the music, you’re going to have a tough time with learning how to meet women in bars because the music makes having a normal conversation difficult.

And that’s when you and a woman can actually hear each other, but sometimes the music in a venue is so loud that you can’t hear anything but the music. Does that mean meeting women in bars will be a guaranteed failure?

Hell no… and we can thank more and more governments of the world for that.

Here’s why: no smoking policies are becoming stricter and stricter around the globe. You used to be able to puff a smoke at the airport, but now smoking in public places is off limits or limited to a specific area. Same thing goes for more and more clubs and bars: no smoking inside, please take your but outside with yoru Marlboro and …

Pick up a female bartender

How To Pick Up A Female Bartender…

I recently wrote a newsletter about how to pick up a female bartender that I’d like to share with you, because picking up a female bartender is easy!

One of the diehard readers of the blog recently sent me an email asking me how to pick up a female bartender and I was like:

“You know what? There’s not much too it, but this isn’t the first email about how to pick up a female bartender. So, let’s write a blog post about it!” And you’re reading the result dude.

Question From A Reader About How To Pick Up A Female Bartender

“Hi D, whenever I go out I come across a LOT of hot women that are working there. You know, bartenders, waitresses..and although I don’t have any approach anxiety whatsoever, or FEAR rejection and just go and talk to them..I always FAIL! I want to know how to pick up a female bartender.

I ask them stuff like how long they’ve been working there, try to get to talking about the drinks they have (and what their favorite is) to get a conversation started. And although I sometimes end up talking to a waitress for half an hour …

What to do on a date

What To Do On A First Date To Have Sex With Her…

This blog’s about what to do on a first date to have sex, but is that even possible? Sex on the first date? Yes it is! Let me tell you something first though.

When it comes to what to do on a first date, you need to know what to say to get a woman to come inside with you. Sounds like common sense, but as I shared in my blog post about what to say on a first date?

The difference between saying the right things and just talking to a chick is like night and day.

This is just one of the many secrets behind what to do on a first date to “get the girl,” so lets keep it moving, shall we?

You know, women have hang ups about sleeping with a guy on the first date, not because they don´t want to but because it´s socially not accepted.

They´ll be seen as SLUTS for doing that, for basically having the same sexual freedom as us men do, and they don´t want to lose their reputation or their self-respect. To some women, even kissing on the first date isn´t socially accepted.

And yet still, most …