How To Win With Women

Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips & Secrets

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What to do on a date

What To Do On A Date: Great Things To Do On A Date

Most guys don’t have a clue about what to do on a date. They’re happy as can be when they get a woman’s number, ask her out and she says yes. But then what?

Because now it’s face to face, you don’t have much longer than a few seconds to think about what you’re going to say, there’s sounds, lights, other people all around you that distract your thinking (and her attention)… so it really gets down to business then. You have to have a plan for what to do on a date.

Don’t worry though, as I’ll you exactly what to do on a date: the where, the how, the what to say on a date, the what to do… everything!

What To Do On A Date:
Where To Go On A Date

 

Some people are more nervous than others, ESPECIALLY when they haven’t had a date in months, maybe even years…now, by getting in the mood you already prevent a lot of that. But there are other ways too though: what makes a man more nervous than looking her directly in the eyes when you first see her?

Allow yourself to get comfortable around her first and save …

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How To Prepare For A Date With Her And Make Her Fall For You

Learning how to prepare for a date is one thing, another is preparing for a date with her that gives you a happy ending 9 out of 10. Learn how now!

I found out what knowing how to prepare for a date REALLY means because of all the little flaws I had, mistakes I made and just plain BLUNDERS of mine: finding out you have no razors left and that you forgot to buy ‘em on the day of the date for example, or being so NOT in the mood that you just sat there being quiet, that one fancy shirt you wanted to put on just so happened to be still in the washing machine… and the list goes on and on.

Yeah, I think there must have been a THOUSAND mistakes I made even BEFORE the date. Sometimes I found a solution and at other times it simply RUINED my chances with a woman. I see the humor in it now, but I know all too well that it was everything BUT funny when I was still a rookie when it came to winning with women. Now you know how much I sucked at preparing for a date …

Approach anxiety

Overcoming Approach Anxiety Made Easy

Guys often have trouble overcoming approach anxiety because they don’t even know what approach anxiety is, let alone overcoming it! It’s time to change that.

The first step to overcoming approach anxiety is realizing that focusing on the wrong outcome makes you even more afraid.

To be more specific: the solution to approach anxiety is NOT getting a woman’s phone number. This is actually the least important part of your conversation with her.

Why?

Because learning how to meet and date a woman is NOT about getting a phone number, that’s just a tiny little part of it.

So What IS Approach Anxiety All About?

Overcoming approach anxiety and learning how to meet women have nothing to do with getting the phone number or getting the date.

It’s about the learning itself, the path, because it’s not WHAT makes you get to the end of the road – that’s UNIMPORTANT… it’s about getting there with whatever tool you pick up along the way. If you look at a single interaction from that perspective, every single conversation with a woman – ANY woman – becomes feedback…

– It can teach you things about what you should improve in the body language …