With the introduction of dating apps like WhatsApp and Tinder, the act of actually having to talk to someone has become less necessary. There are, however, times when guys have the opportunity to approach a girl, but they do not.
They can’t really be blamed for this because it can be truly terrifying to approach an attractive girl. There is always the possibility of rejection…
And there isn’t a single person on this planet who actively seeks it out.
While this fear can be completely understandable, it does mean that guys miss out on countless opportunities.
Never underestimate the value of new interactions
Forget about anything romantic – when you don’t go up to that girl at the bar , you are missing the opportunity to meet someone new. New people offer up new experiences, new insights, new stories and generally broaden one’s outlook on life.
These interactions are invaluable, and they should not be passed up simply out of fear. This is obviously easier said than done, and it is at this point where it would be useful to discuss how to actually go about starting a conversation with this fabled girl.
Saying that you only have one chance …