How To Win With Women

Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips & Secrets

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The Win With Women Community – Pua Forum Update

Wow… the win with women pua forums have not even been online for 3 weeks yet and already we’re packing a HUGE amount of topics on meeting women, how to approach a woman, meeting girls online, attraction and so much more!

In fact, there are so much goodies on our very own pua forum, dating forum or whatever you wanna call it that I want to share a handpicked “best of the best” selection that the Win With Women Community has seen so far with you.

But WAIT a second right there…

Because before I go ahead and share with you all the fun stuff of our old pua forum, I just want to say: there’s a new and improved Win With Women Community available for you today which you can find HERE.

The new Community has more features, you can follow and share topics on your favorite social networks like Twitter and Facebook, and way more others ways to have fun and learn!

And if you still want to check out all the dating tips inside the topics of the old forum? Then keep reading!

There’s so much going on that you’ll miss out on the fun on …

Interviews with dating gurus

Carlos Xuma Interview – Carlos Xuma’s Interviews With Dating Gurus

Interviewing Carlos Xuma has been an honor, and so much fun! In case you’re wondering who he is: Carlos Xuma was named in 2007’s Top 10 Dating Gurus and…

Here’s some backstory: years ago he saw his friends being broke but still getting the girl, but he? Oh no, Carlos Xuma could NOT get the girl.

That’s when he made it his mission to start figuring out how attraction worked, even though he first believed it was impossible: “People don’t choose who they be with so you can’t control it…” he thought.

He has come a long way obviously and these days? Carlos DOES know how to control it…

So what did we talk about? A whole bunch of things really! We managed to cover a lot of ground in a short amount of time, so allow me to try and give you a brief overview of the interview with Carlos Xuma below…

What This Carlos Xuma Interview Was All About

– Approaching women: the biggest mistakes men make when they want to approach a woman, and why it’s not about knowing what to say first but knowing what to say second. This is such an easily prevented mistake that …

Dennis Miedema column

Carlos Xuma Column – Why I Give Dating Advice

Most men are totally unprepared for having the success with women they want, in fact, for having any success with women at all… while men are the pursuers by nature. That’s the way the world currently works whether we like it or not: it’s socially not accepted for women to chase men around, so we are more or less FORCED to approach them first…

The education that we have had when it comes to women is entirely wrong though: your upbringing, Hollywood and religion somehow made you as a man think that women fall for the nice, predictable guy who does everything for them and showers them with gifts, dinners, flowers and compliments… but nothing could be further from the truth…

And without proper education? The proper dating advice?

The levels of frustration, unhappiness and loneliness that you will experience will skyrocket while your overall chances of success with women hits rock bottom! You will end up chasing your own tail: feeling miserable and thus trying hard to “get the girl”(but by doing the wrong things you were told would work), and feeling even more miserable because of it when you see they don’t work. You start thinking it’s you …