How To Win With Women

Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips & Secrets

Author: Carlos

Inner game

How YOU Can Live The Game…And NOT Think The Game

Change Or Die?

If you HAD to change, would you? Most people, even when faced with DEATH (with an illness that’s going to cause death), WON’T change. This is because we get stuck in habit patterns: stuck in ways of thinking, stuck in our environment, stuck because of our friends and associates, stuck because of the influences around us. So break out of that comfort zone, get yourself to a new level of thinking. I want to pull your mind up out of its ways of thinking, but you have to ask yourself… Am I willing to change? Am I willing to grow? Am I willing to commit to it, commit to myself? If you are…then this part of the session maybe the MOST important thing you’ll EVER learn.

Getting Our Power BACK…

The most important question to answer in life is this one: is the universe a friendly place? People who don’t believe that the universe is a friendly place, don’t have success. They think they’re unlucky, they think that they’re poor, they think that they’re going to fail, that the universe is NOT friendly. Do YOU feel this way? That something is working against you? If that’s the …

Limiting beliefs

Limiting Beliefs: The Outcome

Ever thought of how in the HELL you would pass that difficult exam during college? I know I did.
Were you ever stressed to the LIMIT about how to make a good impression during a jobinterview for the…‘job of a lifetime’?

Off course, we’ve ALL been through these kind of situations. In fact I know a lot of men, BOTH those succesfull with women and those that are unsuccesfull with them, that just CAN’T seem to get to that next level. They FAIL to make that one little step up on their way to bigger game. The reason for why many people fail to go to the next level with certain aspects of their life is by getting too bothered about the OUTCOME : limited believing the end result and attaching ALL of their self-worh to it.
I’ll give you an example of what I mean by this right now:

Say your name is Kobe Bryant, and you and your Lakers really want to win from the Celtics this year. YOUR team wants to claim that prize. In fact, they haven’t claimed that prize for so long that the Lakers actually NEED it, crave it, and they absolutely MUST make …

Inner game

Societal Views On Your Lovelife…

You already know them, have seen them around you: the naturals. Ever since you’ve been a little boy, you’ve seen those guys with ‘mystical powers’ getting ALL the girls they wanted, seemingly without effort. You secretly envied them and yet, when playing Dr. Phil for your dumped ladyfriends from out of the friend zone, you disapproved of them. Meanwhile, THEY’RE getting all the action and you still can’t figure out why the ladies see THEM as men, and you as a…friend. WHY is it…that when a man has MANY options in his lovelife so that he can CHOOSE who he dates, that he is suddenly a ‘playboy’, a ‘ladiesman’, a ‘skirt chaser’? And WHY is it that a woman who’s doing the same is not a ‘playgirl’, but labeled as a whore or a slut?

It’s because of societal views on which roles men and women should play. It all starts with the modern day role of men, or rather: the lack of it. Because…

When Are Boys Being Men, And Men Being Boys?

For thousands of year humanity has had initiation rituals to mark the change from boy into MANhood and girl into WOMANhood, different ones for different cultures. …