Bad news: most regular guys such as yourself have no freaking clue about how getting physical with women is done. So why is this such a huge problem?
Recent research has shown that although men are very good at recognizing negative body language (hostile threats), we SUCK at recognizing positive body language (indicators of interest, smiles, and so on). That’s the area of body language that women can easily recognize.
Do you understand what that means?
It means that by nature, we’re at a disadvantage in the dating game compared to women caus’ it takes us longer to see that a woman is interested in us… and being interested is the requirement for escalating things physically.
Put simply: if I don’t know a woman likes me, I won’t try to get physical with her… unless I would be a rapist off course.
Meanwhile, women decide what’s going to happen at the end of the day, because if they don’t feel comfortable and safe enough around us they won’t make that next step with us.
The result: getting physical with women is far from an A to Z process, it’s much more a two steps forward, one step back kind of …