Inner Game 101: Build Your Confidence Now, Not Later

If you want to build your confidence it won’t be easy, but inner game sure pays off in droves! Take me for example: I transformed from a mud into a stud…

How I did improve my inner game? I started building my confidence day by day, that’s how. But first let me ask you a question the Joey (from Friends) way: how YOU doing?

And with that I mean: how are you doing with women & dating? Are you REALLY getting the results with women you want? Most men hardly come close to achieving MASSIVE and CONSISTENT success with women, not because they don’t know any techniques though.

Maybe you feel like you’re not getting the results with women you’re supposed to get. But do you know why? It’s your inner game…

Because if you know a 1000-and-1 techniques for meeting women but still fear REJECTION and FAILURE, then all those fancy techniques aren’t worth jack. Zero. Nothing. Nada. All of those techniques will be based on FEAR and the insecurities you have will stop you from ever taking action dude.

What’s more, thinking you need techniques to meet women is a flawed mindset in the first place. Why? Because you’re indirectly saying to yourself “you are so bad that you need a “trick” to get what everyone else can get the normal way.” It almost insinuates that there’s something very wrong with you, but there’s not.

You just worry too much. You think instead of taking action, mostly because you have been trained by society, yourself, and your friends that you need cars, clothes, money, and fame to “get the girl.” But all you really need is your personality. Women fall for a man’s personality first, and (maybe) for the rest later.

And let’s be real about inner game here: if you know that meeting women is a “game” you play with your personality, then why the hell would you try to use all kinds of crappy techniques!? You just forgot how to use what Mother Nature gave every man on earth: the ability to attract a mate to reproduce, so it’s all in your head.

The moment you help yourself by improving your inner game, by building your confidence? Is the moment you win with women. Get rid of the limiting beliefs you started believing in over time and you can do anything, literally.

I took me almost 5 years to figure my own inner game out and up until today I’ve helped hundreds of men get rid of their limiting beliefs and insecurities as well. If I can do it and they can do it… why can’t you?

I helped them step-by-step to create a life where there are no insecurities anymore, where limiting beliefs are a thing of the past. The results speak for themselves: almost all of them went from scared little chickens that couldn’t get a date to save their lives… to guys who regularly date beautiful women, and who in some cases went from zero to hero. How so? Because they now have at least 1 date for every day of the week dude!

Imagine you would be able to pull that off too… or only half it it, how would your life be different from today? How you’ll be able to pull this off you ask? Let me put it this way my friend:

You first need to conquer your inner game, before you can “conquer” women. And my Inner Game newsletter will help you do that. It gives you tips for building your confidence so you, too, can transform from zero dates into a hero who gets laid!

One more thing: if you want even more tips about confidence, then check out my blog post about how to improve confidence (click the link.)

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

P.S. What you\'ve learned today is only the tip of the iceberg of what most men will never know about women and dating. And if you want to know more about how to meet women without much effort, then get instant access to more tips by signing up for our FREE Inner Game Insider.

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