How To Win With Women

Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips & Secrets

Author: Carlos

Interviews with dating gurus

Carlos Xuma Interview – May 2010

Hey it’s Carlos Xuma and earlier this month I had the chance to do a video interview. A chance to share my thoughts on several dating-related topics.

Want to know which topics I discussed during the interview? Then keep on reading below…

A self help coach from Belgium was supposed to interview me, she couldn’t make it for some reason, so I got my girlfriend to do the video interview with me because that self help coach had some tough questions for me. And you know what? I wanted to answer every single question that coach had for me to prove a point!

I wanted to prove that I am not who she thought me to be and that I’m not what she thought me to be.

Here are some of the topics she wanted to ask me questions about:

– The situation with Joseph Matthews (also known as Thundercat) and why I hate him and think he’s a liar

– Why I am a controversial dating coach in the Netherlands

– My thoughts on why mainstream media and “regular” dating coaches make fun of pick up artists and vice versa. And why both sides are DEAD WRONG.

– What …

Signs a woman is interested in you

The Top 20 Signs A Woman Is Interested In You

Do you know the signs she likes you? If you don’t know the signs a woman is interested in you, then you’re missing out big time! You’d better learn the signs…

The fact is not only are there obvious signs she likes you but there are little known secrets about how a woman’s brain works that you can use to your advantage.

There is nothing wrong with taking the direct approach: you see a hot chick at a bar and you walk right up to her and give her your best shot, then say something without having a clue if she’s interested in you, or not.

The problem is that you’ll look like a total nerd if you don’t know the signs a woman is interested in you.

Yes, knowing if she likes you isn’t as easy as in the image below…

the signs she likes you aren't as easy as these, but still easy to see!

But no, it isn’t difficult to understand body language either! You just have to know what to look for…

And once you know? You can relax, sit back, and enjoy a woman’s interest…

After all, why go through more trouble if you know she already wants you? That’s like shooting an irritating bug with a tank!

Or, why …

Approaching women

Women And Compliments – Do Compliments Work?

Romantic types always say this about women and compliments: compliments work, but is that really the case? Let’s find out the truth about compliments!

Single men all over the planet have been disagreeing about it for dozens of years: women and compliments, they go hand in hand. No they don’t, etc. It’s about time we end the debate, wouldn’t you agree?

NO… this won’t be a let love in, gayish speech. This blog post about women and compliments right here will give you no-nonsense advice on when to use compliments.

So, do women and compliments go hand in hand? Or do compliments make women run away from you as fast as they freaking can?

First things first: let’s talk about the mistakes most single men make when they want to know how to get that girl they’re after… and throw billions of compliments at her!

This is familiar stuff for the critics, but keep on reading if you’re one of them because I do present new stuff…

Women And Compliments Mistake #1: You’re Not A Cannon…

You don't have to be a cannon for women and compliments

A lot of men ask me why a woman just want to be friends with them after they were open to her about …