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Carlos Xuma About Inner Game & Confidence – Video #4

My friend… I’m back again with yet another Inner Game & Confidence video to complete my video series!

In this video series about inner game and confidence, I discussed things like why it’s so important to get your insecurities and other inner issues handled, HOW you can tell if you even HAVE inner issues, how to deal with rejection, and failure… and much, much more.

The previous videos (video 1, 2, and 3) contain the basics of why you are limited in your success with women, dating, and even life… by the way you think. I share what the first steps are on your way to fixing your inner issues for good. If you haven’t seen these videos, then scroll down right away and watch both Video #1, Video #2 and Video #3 by clicking their links below.

As for Video #4: in it, I share more world-class inner game insights, but a BIG ANNOUNCEMENT as well, one that is crucial for you if you want to start improving the way you think and feel about yourself, the world, and women… so that you can ultimately achieve the success with women you want. What I’ll have to say? You’ll just …

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The Win With Women Community: New Stuff In The Community!

In case you didn’t know: the Win With Women Community is not just another pick up artist forum or attraction forum. It’s a community of guys (and girls) interested in dating techniques and dating insights, but also self help books, building confidence and more. In short: it’s a place where anyone who wants to have more social success, more dating success and more value in his or her life belongs.

“But Carlos… other pick up artist forums and attraction forums also have all kinds of topics on dating, women, and confidence, so what makes your forums different?”

Glad you asked!

The Daters Lounge Forum

First of all, we have an entire section inside the Win With Women Community where everyone discusses their blood, sweat and tears of every day life: The Daters Lounge. Examples of what the Lounge forum gives you:

– The boo of the week topic… is a place where you can spill your guts, let your anger be known and just shout a big fat “boooo!” to anyone or anything that sucks right now in your opinion. Whether it’s the next door neighbor, little children, Michael Jackson… anything goes. Let the bashing begin!

– The celebrity death …

Inner game

Inner Game 101: You Alone Own Your Confidence

Inner game is a funny thing. Self-confidence is the confidence you have in yourself, but meanwhile you let other people dictate how confident you feel. Stop it!

Reality is based on perception, so if some jackass or biatch makes you feel bad about yourself they’re giving you their opinion. Just because they say somethign doesn’t make it so. Hell, there are no facts because everything is told from a certain perspective and perspectives ARE opinions. Why let your confidence be ruined by opinion?

Question:

What do most men feel whenever they approach a woman and try to create attraction, but end op getting rejected? They feel like they did something wrong: she didn’t like something you did, said or the way you talked or looked was the cause… and after just a few more situations during which they were rejected?

You start to believe that you yourself are the problem: you aren’t attractive enough, women are repulsed by you because you are (insert random insecurity here… like being bald, being too short, etc.)…

You start to believe that there’s no answer to the question: how do you get girls to like you? Because no girl seems to like you. …