How To Win With Women

Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips & Secrets

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How To Meet Women No Matter WHERE You Live

You know what’s funny? That 9 out of 10 men ONLY look for women to meet and date in the area where they themselves live because otherwise “she lives too far away.” This means this could get ugly for 90% of the people who read this…because they’re CUTTING the success with women they COULD have..in HALF, or more.

Because distance is relative..and I can assure you: you will double, no triple the number of women you’ll meet when you realize what kind of opportunities the world REALLY offers you, how relative distance REALLY is! If you live in Chicago and think you can only meet women from Chicago for example, then you’re living inside a comfort zone of distance…meaning you don’t BELIEVE anything beyond your city to work. Allow me to slap some sense into you…

The Relative Value Of Your Game – Why Small Cities, Towns And Rural Areas DON’T Suck

First of all: we all have our obligations and daily routines to do: brushing our teeth, taking a shower, going to work or school, eating, making homework, dressing up, doing our hair, paying our bills, washing our clothes, etc. Week in week out they haunt us…and these kinds …

Body language

Female Body Language: How To Know When They’re Interested

Most men have no clue of what female body language means. They really DON’T know when a woman’s interested in them. Let’s just face it:

The vast majority of men are unfortunately BLIND for all the opportunities presenting themselves all around them when we’re talking about female body language. They probably think body language works just like the image below:

Male and female body language at the beach

But female body language doesn’t work like that, which is why we as men are so bad at recognizing signs of interest. We think A, while it actually means B.

I already talked about this in my other blog post about the signs a woman is interested in you, but…

But it never hurts to see some more examples of how we miss out on important female body language signals, right? Here we go:

– We think she was just looking because she had to mind her step
– We think that she moves around while sitting over there because she’s an active, spontaneous kinda girl
– We think that she’s just doing her hair or playing with her hair because she wants to make sure it looks pretty…

But these are all signs she likes you! Hell, if …

Bad boys

The Real Deal Behind Having A Reputation…

Being known for meeting and dating several women: the vast majority of men FEAR it. They’ll think it will prevent their success once girls know he has had many women..because his “rep” will make them see through him before he has even started to talk.

Guys think women will HATE their guts for it; for having dated several women…but that’s typical surface level psychology, and what a MALE would think.

Frankly, I’ve never regretted who I’ve met and dated, not a single friggin’ time – neither have the naturals I learned my game from. And I think it’s time to do something controversial and reveal the ruthless reality behind having a reputation.

Here are 3 hidden truths of female psychology for why having a reputation is a GOOD thing:

– If you had so many women in your past, other females will think there most be something about you that makes you so desirable..because why would all those women otherwise want you? This will feed her curiosity, a girl will want to find out exactly WHAT is it about you that makes you such a big sexual threat. Next to this, being a notorious seducer will also make you come …