It’s hard to compete.

So I say DON’T even try… Instead, you only need to know how to navigate and negotiate with her Digital Bouncer.

It’s true – her little smartphone is now her personal electronic bodyguard. And unless you know how to get past her gatekeeper, you could find yourself struggling to connect with every woman you meet.

So let’s dig into these 5 tricks you can use to get past her Bouncer and into her life. (And maybe – shhh…. into her bed.)

First – Do you call her right away?

TRICK 1: Use the “reconnection text”

Let’s say you got her number using my tips and tricks. You used my sure-fire number closer and now you’ve got the digits.

What now?

Well, the first thing you should do is to text her a quick message, preferably near the end of the evening. If you met her in a social situation of some kind, you want to make sure you’re on the top of her mind.

Who knows how many goobers and goons have tried to hook up with her…?

Well, pretty much all of them.

Which is why you need to refresh her memory with a quick text:

“Hey, Tina – it’s Carlos – making sure you remember who made you laugh your drink out your nose… TTYL”

It helps here to use some callback to your previous conversation – meaning you bring up something from your conversation that will make her instantly remember you.

Did you come up with a cool nickname for her? Use it in your text.

If you two talked about her working as a 24 Hour Fitness coach, you could joke about how she should make sure you have a towel waiting for you when you work out the next day.

The point of the text is to do 3 things:

– Remind her who you are – because a girl’s memory is short. And you want her knowing which number you’ll be contacting her from.

– Remind her of the fun she had with you

– Set her up for a future conversation with you.

Boom.

If you can do that, you’re out-performing 95% of the other men out there.

NEXT: After you text her, when do you call her?

TRICK #2: Know how to time the call.

My advice is that if you’ve sent the reminder text, and you had at least a 15 minute conversation – you can wait until the END of the following day to call her.

Calling her that day is too soon, and calling her the next day will let the other goobers and dorks get a foot in the door.

If you met her on Friday, wait until Sunday afternoon. You don’t have any business being available on a Saturday night, after all.

But if you met her on Saturday, wait until Sunday night. And the same for the rest of the week.

But now your question is… HOW do you call a girl?

TRICK #3: Make sure you don’t scare her off on the first call

You don’t want to be calling her up, getting her voicemail, losing your nerve, calling her back again… only to leave an awkward message that sounds like you just woke up.

Yeah, I know you might read that and think: “Hell, I’d never do that…” but most guys do. They screw it up royally on the first phone call, leaving her with a completely justified opinion that he’s a complete loser.

So first of all, don’t leave her a message on your first call. Just let it ring through to voicemail and then hang up.

If you did your pre-work, she has your phone number, and can also look up any texts she’s had from your number. She doesn’t have to be Sherlock Holmes to get that.

The next time you call, if she still doesn’t answer, you need to leave a short message busting her on her inability to answer calls.

A small tease right here will do the trick. Don’t be mean, just act as if she’s your annoying little sister.

“Hey, you… I guess you couldn’t find your phone at the bottom of your purse… again. Anyway, ring me back.”

Or just leave a curiosity comment that she will HAVE to call you back about:

“Hey, I was just out at the store, and there’s a girl here that is your double. Do you have a twin sister? Ring me back.”

Keep it short and sweet, because the more you keep talking, the more likely you are to say something stupid that ruins it.

I can hear your next question: “But, Carlos… what if she doesn’t call me back?”

That’s when you move on to my next bit of advice:

TRICK #4: Get Her To Call You Back With Disinterest

First of all, make sure you’re not calling her at dumb times, like dinner or when she’s probably at the gym.

This goes without saying.

When you leave that message, you have to have a certain level of disinterest in your blood.

Here’s why: If you’re too concerned about this one girl, it means that you probably don’t have a lot of other prospects. Which means you’re probably too focused on this one.

Which means eventually you’ll act a little too needy and scare her off.

Your calls and messages will scream one thing to her loud and clear: “I tolerate and even pursue women who ignore me and don’t call me back.”

If you were out talking to girls every day, and getting numbers frequently, would you care all that much if this girl calls you back?

Nope.

You’d have called her, told her to call you back, and then probably forgotten about her. Because you got busy seeing OTHER girls who were interested.

Ya feel me?

If she doesn’t call you back after a text and a phone call, just text her this:

“What? Playing hard to get already? Nice… call me.”

And when she finally picks up and says that she is busy, she’ll probably say something like “Oh hey, I’m busy, can I call you back?”

You need to show her that you’re not desperate to talk to her.

When she asks you if she can call back, just say “No, don’t worry about it – I’ll try to call you later… if I remember.” She’ll be surprised that you’re not going to make a big deal about talking to her.

NOTE: Losers and chumps make a big deal out of EVERY call they get with a woman, which is why you’re communicating the opposite. That she’s no big deal.

I’ll bet you she calls back before you can…

And when she does finally call you back, let it ring a few times. Don’t pounce on her call like you’ve been staring at your phone screen all day.

Let her experience the joy of uncertainty.

TRICK #5: Make sure you’ve got a full plan

Most guys are running around out there without any idea of how to handle women through their phone. Most don’t even know that you can use her phone as a “black ops” stealth tool – like a remote control for women.

If you wing it, if you just try any old thing that pops into your head…

Or even worse, if you listen to the advice of your friends who likely have almost no game with women – you’ll crash and burn almost every time.

You need a plan to call girls on the phone.

You see, most of the time, I get emails from guys that say: “Dude, it sounds like you’re telling me to act like a jerk to attract girls.”

Well, first of all, how good is the Nice Guy thing working for you?

Not so much, huh?

And the battle cry of the Nice Guy (AKA – dude who isn’t getting any), is that anything you do to challenge or not immediately kissing the ass of a beautiful woman is somehow abusing her.

Women are complimented, fawned over, and ogled all day long. They’re looking for the one man who shows them the secret signal of confidence: Indifference.

If you want to know the attitude of the guys that win with women – and how you can have it…

AND how to dominate the phone using a few simple texts that I’ll show you (for free) – then click here to get started TODAY.

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Let’s cut what happens when you call her into little pieces, see what goes where and why, and put it all back together again so you know how to call her and get what you want.

It’s not often that I do this, but since most regular guys like you and me ask a girl for her number and then want to know everything there is to know about how to call her so we can’t screw up?

I thought I’d give it a try. Here we go!

How To Call Her: Initial Anxiety

The first stage of figuring out how to call her is all about getting past the initial anxiety.

It’s when you get nervous and start sweating the moment the phone starts dialing… duuuu… duuuu… and then she answers the phone (or not).

Let’s assume she answers the phone so I can show you how to call her by overcoming your stage fright.

Do you start to ask yourself if you have something witty to say at this point? And/Or are you having trouble speaking in the first place because it feels like there’s an enormous potato stuck in your throat that prevents you from talking?

Then relax dude. You’re making too much of an issue out of a silly phone call. There’s nothing to be afraid about, because women are far from scary:

– They have insecurities, just like you do. They just worry about different stuff you haven’t thought of yourself (example: fat ankles, big thighs, and other silly stuff)

– Women poop. And it smells too.

– Although you’re afraid of rejection, women have a heart too. Hell, they’re way more emotional than you’ll ever be. Do you think they LIKE rejecting guys? No they don’t.

In short: when it comes to learning how to call her, the first thing you should remember is that it’s no big deal. It’s nothing scary.

And if you’re still afraid of rejection, then know this: it’s nothing more than a childhood trauma, but you’re not a child anymore.

You see, when you were young and growing up? You were impressionable, meaning that it was easy for lots of things to have a big impact on you and to influence the way you think.

Now, this is where conditional love comes in: your parents would reward you (love you) for doing what they wanted, but punish you (withdraw your love) when you did not do it.

In other words: you got the idea that if you don’t do what people like, you will be rejected. That if you don’t get someone’s approval, they will not love you. This is a major clue!

Because you’re ASSUMING now that women don’t like to be approached by men such as yourself who have sexual intentions, so you assume you will be rejected.

You can’t see how a woman would approve of you wanting to have sex with her, so you assume she won’t like you… while women want to date guys as much as guys want to date women.

Doesn’t knowing this make learning how to call her WAY easier?

How To Call Her Step 2: Conversation Starters

Now that you’re not scared anymore, let’s look at the beginning of how to call her: conversation starters.

First off, reminding her of who you are as soon as she answers the phone is desperate. Think about it: you assume you’re not important enough to be remembered, so you try to make her remember.

Doing the opposite (not reminding her) makes you come across much more confident, because you’re indirectly telling her that you ARE important.

So don’t you dare ask if she knows who you are. That’s NOT how to call her!

Use one of the conversation starters you’ll find below instead.

If you’ve never been to the Win With Women blog before, then don’t discard my tips as “I can’t say that, it’s rude” because there IS a method to the madness. I explain things below an example so you’ll understand…

You: “Yes, hello, is this XYZ (replace XYZ with her name)?”
Her: “Yes”
You: “Are you sure? Because you sound like a man and XYZ (her name) is this cute girl I met the other day…”

This is how to call her and create attraction with playful teasing. It works because while most are quiet or start stuttering because they’re impressed by a woman’s looks, you’re not impressed. You let a woman know you expect more than a pretty face before you can like her, which makes you hard to get…

And no one really wants something they can easily get. Therefore, by being hard to get you’re more attractive to her than other guys who are not.

As I explain inside my Calling Women and Texting Women Program, there are many other ways of creating attraction besides teasing, but let’s continue with more examples of how to call her for now…

You: “Hey Sandra! How are you?”
Her: “What? Who’s Sandra?”
You: “Oh sorry, I mix up people’s names all the time. Hey uhh… you!”

Not only is this being hard to get by playfully teasing her, it’s also being hard to get by letting her know she needs to fight for you because she has competition.

You: “Hey, how are you! Did you manage to … (replace … with whatever she was trying to do when you met her)?”
Her: “Bla bla bla”
You: “Sorry, you were saying? I was distracted by the memory of your curves shaking away from me after we met.”

This is being direct with a woman: showing her you’re sexually interested without beating around the bush. It can be extremely attractive to women because it shows you have more confidence than most guys she’s met (because almost no one dares to say this)…

And confidence is what to women? That’s right, attractive.

How To Call Her Step 3: Connect & Attract

So we started the conversation in a great way, but when it comes to how to call her? Most men screw up what follows next…

It’s the middle of the conversation. The part where you need to figure out how to call her and create enough attraction AND connection for her to want to get to know you better.

By now, you should already had the feeling that attraction is sexual interest, sexual tension or whatever you want to call it. But what about connection?

Creating a connection is all about making her feel comfortable and safe. About making her see you as trustworthy enough. Don’t create it and you will NEVER get a date.

You simply must create an emotional/mental connection before you can proceed with the next steps of how to call her.

And most average guys like you and me get it all wrong. We try to come up with conversation topics and witty things to say and bla bla bla… and sooner or later, there are awkward silences. That’s what happens when you start with attraction.

You need to start with connection: let HER do the talking. Let HER explain.

Why?

Because the more she tells you, the more you can use “against” her to create attraction with. You can’t tease her about her grandmother who’s obsessed with donuts if she never tells you, know what I mean?

So first connect, then attract.

Put differently: get something from her (information), give something to her (reaction which creates attraction).

That’s the easiest way for how to call her.

And in case you’re wondering: “how do you create a connection when you call her?”

Ask open-ended questions (questions that require more than a yes/no) like these…

– What’s the …-est (scariest, happiest, weirdest, dumbest, etc.) thing that’s ever happened to you?
– If you could be someone else for a day, who would you be and why?
– Where do you see yourself 5 years from now?
– Be honest: what’s the one thing you never understood about guys?
– What’s the hone thing someone can wake you up for in the middle of the night?

Some of these questions lead to deep answers, others are the perfect set up for teasing her, and still others invite her to use her fantasy.

NOTE: you may need to go ahead and answer these questions first to lure her out of her safe house or so to speak and make her feel comfortable enough to give you some answers.

How To Call Her Step 4: Changing Topics

When learning how to call her, it’s rare to have a need to change topics when you first create a connection and then boost the attraction…

But still, it may happen, so I want to prepare you for it.

You can tell when it’s time to change topics when you’re, for example, teasing her and she goes from responding with laughs and giggles to being pretty quiet. That’s when the teasing stops being funny to her, so you need to move on.

So here are some tips for how to call her and change topics…

– Regression therapy: go back… to the first moment you two met. What was she wearing? What was she doing? Start asking questions and comment on that.

– Obi Yawn Kenobi: I know, I’m using weird creative names right now. But you know what? They make it easier for you to remember. This is where she says something and you say “Booooooring” and change the topic to something exciting, like questions about how adventurous she is (has she ever gone skydiving, stuff like that) that you can tease her with (most people don’t do risky stuff, so call her a chicken for not dating it)

– Debate club: whenever she asks you something you don’t want to tell (or you’ve gone a little too far with the teasing), the best thing you can do is talk about what interests women most: men, dating, other women. Start the “debate” about why women give fake phone numbers instead of straight up rejecting guys, if women who dress sex should be taken seriously in a work situation, etc. Typical boy versus girl stuff will do the trick.

That’s how to call her and change topics, should you ever need to do it.

How To Call Her Step 5: Asking Her Out

The previous 4 steps of how to call her can take place in a matter of minutes or in a matter of hours. It depends…

What does it depend on? On how quick you are to cut to the chase dude! Remember that calling her is a means to an end: you want to end up dating her, not end up calling her some more.

That means that after you get past the initial anxiety, starting the conversation well when you call her, connecting and attracting, and changing topics (if you needed to)? You have to ask her out if you want the conversation to go anywhere.

And when it comes to how to call her, you don’t need hours for the middle part of the conversation. Create some connection, create some attraction, but that’s it. Time to cash in, you know?

The easiest way to cash in on the phone call is to let it progress naturally like so:

“You know what? I have to go now, but let’s continue this conversation later over coffee.”

It doesn’t have to be coffee by the way, I’m just saying that because I’m a coffee junkie. It can also be over drinks, over cherry pie, over some French fries. Doesn’t matter.

What DOES matter is that you didn’t ask her to date you. You told her so. The first is desperate and let’s her lead you, the latter is confident and lets you lead her. The latter always gets the girl, the first one rarely does.

Don’t ask her for a time either. Tell her the best time for you would be on … at such and such time. The only time you ask her when it comes to getting a date is if she says she can’t make it then. Then you ask which days she’s available and then tell her a time.

Now THAT’S how to call her and “ask” her out properly.

How To Call Her Step 6: Dealing With Objections

I can almost hear you think: “But how to call her and get a date when she says no?”

Don’t worry, because here’s your how to call her and deal with objections lesson (wew, that was quite a mouthful):

– “I’m busy” => If she says it once, fine, but twice or more? She’s avoiding you! This objection simply means she’s not interested… and the only way to deal with it is to move on

– “I don’t know you that well yet” => Don’t think this is a definite no. It’s a no, not yet. This means you need to connect more, attract more, and try again. If unsuccessful, call her some other time and try again. Still no luck? Move on dude.

– “I don’t feel comfortable going out with you alone” => Again, this is a not yet instead of a definite no. This is where you need to find a wingman, tell her to bring a friend, and go on a double date.

How To Call Her Step 7: The X-Factor

If you managed to read this far, then congratulations! You’ve almost mastered learning how to call her…

I said almost, because there’s always an X-factor… other things you need to know but didn’t expect, like if the woman you’re calling doesn’t like being teased AT ALL. In those cases it’s best to create attraction by being mysterious, dominant or by being picky.

Plus, I haven’t even discussed things like what to say to get a second date and when to say it.

But don’t worry my friend, because I reveal all of this, and more, inside my Calling Women and Texting Women Program.

It shows you how to get a first date, second, third, etc. when you call her 9 out of 10 times… and all without much effort… so check it out now:

The Calling Women and Texting Women Program

I hope you liked this step-by-step explanation of how to call her and get a date. Now start using it already and be sure to check out the Program for even more awesome tips!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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First, we have to bust a myth about when to call her that has existed for ages which will actually DESTROY your chances of getting her… and we don’t want that now, do we?

Then, we’ll look at when to call her so she answers the phone and dates you in multiple situations. Because let’s face it: no hot chick is the same.

And giving you 1 technique that works in every single situation would be foolish because there is NO technique like that (although other dating coaches try to make you believe there is)…

So I want to be 100% sure that you can get a date when you call her no matter what the f*ck was happening when you met her… and no matter what the f*ck is happening in her life right now.

That’s right, I’ll be throwing some foul language at you, but it’s for your own good. Someone has to give you the brutal truth about when to call her and I’m that guy. Love me or hate me for it, I don’t care, because you need to hear this:

When To Call Her: It’s NOT After 3 Days!

Hollywood did it’s best to teach you when to call her with it’s “Three Day Rule”, but you know what? It failed.

Hell, it crashed and burned! Because it’s little Three Day Rule tells you to wait for three days with the first phone call after you get a woman’s number. That may work in “realistic” movies like The Hangover…

But in the real world? In the real world that’s not when to call her because:

– When you wait for days or weeks with calling, then she’ll think you were not that interested. So when you do call her? She’s not that interested either, if you know what I mean. Women want a guy who has a genuine interest in them and waiting 3 days or more is not being genuinely interested.

– There are plenty of women who will get the wrong idea if you keep them waiting. They’ll think you’re playing games… and once they do? They’ll return the favor with test after test, after test… most of which regular guys like you and me don’t get = rejection!

– Attractive, interesting women get approached by guys in one way or another 6 times a day. Sure, some attempts are pathetic, but what makes you say she’ll remember you after days or weeks? She might as well have met a great guy, which has made your efforts a waste of your freaking time.

Do you now know why listening to tips for when to call her that say you need to wait for days/weeks is a bad idea?

I can almost hear you think: “So what is the right time for when to call her then?”

And on weekdays (Monday ‘til Thursday) it’s one day after you get her digits, because it shows her you have a genuine interest but that you’re not a desperate wussy, that you’re not playing games… and she’ll still clearly remember who you are when you call her.

And here’s a juicy secret about when to call her: do you know how many guys literally tell a woman WHEN they’ll call her?

How many tell her what they’ll do with her number?

HINT: it’s less than one. That’s right. NONE.

And it’s stupid because when you tell a woman you’ll call her tomorrow, then she’ll immediately know you’re really interested and not playing games…

AND…

There’ll be a whole lot more anticipation. She’ll wait for your call. Think about it: when you’re about to get that thing you ordered via Amazon that you’ve wanted for a long time, then are you looking forward to getting it more when you don’t know when it’s coming… or when you know it’s coming tomorrow?

I know you know the answer. So when it comes to when to call her on weekdays, call her the next day AND tell her you’ll call her then.

When To Call Her During Weekends

During weekends, there’s a better time for when to call her than after one day on weekdays…

Here’s why: most people go out and have fun on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. Clubs, bars, restaurants, the movies, bowling, midget golf, ice skating, BBQ, and so on and so forth.

And it makes sense because your Average Joe needs to work or go to college on weekdays but not during weekends. Same goes for women: they’re already planning on having fun because their week was boring, so why not take advantage of that?

Instead of figuring out when to call her so you two can meet up on Tuesday or whatever when it’s probably only for a little while because she needs to work/go to college…

Why not get her number and call her somewhere early on in the evening the same day and say something alone the lines of:

“You know what? I had so much fun with you earlier today that I want you to join me for XYZ so we can have some more fun. I insist.”

You can replace the XYZ with a club, bar, restaurant or any of the other stuff I mentioned before and there you go. You got yourself a date!

And that’s when to call her during weekends. In my opinion it’s easier than calling her on weekdays.

Now let’s look at a more difficult situation below: what to do if she’s busy…

When To Call Her If She’s Busy

Let’s get one thing straight right away about when to call her if she’s busy: I mean two different situations when I say busy.

When to call her situation 1: she answers the phone but is distracted
When it comes to when to call her, one of the worst things you can do (EVER) is still trying to talk to her when she answers the phone and is obviously distracted.

Some common distractions include:

– She’s with friends. You can tell by her avoiding intimate questions and giving short answers
– It takes her a while to reply (she’s looking at/for something or thinking about other stuff)
– She’s going somewhere and it’s noisy (lots of people, public transportation noise, etc.)

In all these situations you can forget about having ANY real conversation with her, let alone asking her out on a date! So whenever she does anything I described above, tell her:

“You sound kind of busy, so I’ll let you do your thing and I’ll call you some other time.”

Then hang up. Yes, even before she gets a chance to reply. Because even if she wants to talk to you she can’t because of circumstances. It will be a pain in the ass to try, so don’t even try.

It’s a GREAT way to test if she’s interested in you by the way: does she call you back or text asking why you hung up or saying she does have time to talk? Then you know she wants you.

Anyways, call her again after a couple days so she knows you’re not desperate. Now THAT’S when to call her if she’s busy (distracted), wouldn’t you agree?

When to call her situation 2: she doesn’t pick up the phone at all
When it comes to when to call her, there will always be times when there’s no response.

Don’t freak out over it because everybody has a life. People work, go to college, go see their family, want to stay in shape, etc. So freaking out and calling multiple times will only make you look desperate and it’ll scare women away.

And here’s another don’t of when to call her: if she doesn’t answer the phone, don’t leave a voicemail. She already sees she has a missed call from you, but leaving a voicemail too?
That’s desperate… and less and less people listen to their voicemail anyways nowadays.

Try again after a couple days if you can’t reach her and see what happens then…

One More Thing About Knowing When To Call Her…

Now you know the brutal truth about when to call her you may be wondering HOW to call her.

To be a little more specific: do you want to know how to call her and attract her enough to ask her out and hear a “YES”? And do you want to know the EXACT words you can say to ask her out without much effort?

If so, then you should definitely get the free tips inside my Calling Women and Texting Women Newsletter. Inside, you’ll find everything you need to know about calling women and getting dates… and they’re tips I don’t share ANYWHERE else.

Oeh! Did I mention the tips inside the Newsletter are free already? Sign up now dude!

And hey, also be sure to leave a comment on these tips for when to call her, alright?

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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Let’s be honest first though: if you think the best way for how to impress a girl on the phone is a brag fest about how awesome your life and your bank account are… don’t keep reading.

But if you have a gut feeling learning how to impress a girl on the phone is about attracting her enough so you can ask her out? Then by all means: keep reading my friend!

Because this blog post right here gives you the principles and techniques for making girls fall in love with you in just a few phone calls, so that when you ask them out? You’re guaranteed to hear a “YES!”

How to Impress a Girl on the Phone: Picture Perfect

You know what? I’ve been helping men with how to impress a girl on the phone, date her, and have a relationship with her for many years now. And what regular guys like you and me fear most is that they get nervous and don’t know what to say on the phone.

So, here’s how to impress a girl on the phone, even when you’re scared shitless of what she will think of you OR of the fact that you could screw it up:

– Find the funniest photo, image or t-shirt you can get your hands on via Google. It needs to make you laugh. Find a t-shirt that says something like this…

– Have the photo or image displayed on your computer while you call a girl

– Whenever you get nervous when you’re talking to a girl on the phone, just look at that funny image and you’ll start laughing again

This helps you relax and feel comfortable so you’ll loosen up a bit. That’s what you need!

You’ll find that, as you keep learning how to impress a girl on the phone, you’ll need to look at it less and less until you can relax while talking on the phone without it.

And hey, don’t feel ashamed that you need a “crutch” to lean on for learning how to impress a girl on the phone. Have you forgotten that you learned how to ride a bicycle with training wheels? And how to drive a car with a driving instructor? I rest my case dude!

How to Impress a Girl on the Phone Thanks to Stallone

I can almost hear you think: “What the f*ck has Sylvester Stallone to do with learning how to impress a girl on the phone?”

And the answer’s simple:

Stallone was in the movie Cliffhanger… and cliff hangers are what you need to impress a girl on the phone. To create tons of attraction. Here’s why:

When you don’t reveal everything there is to know about you or tell everything that’s going on right away? You will leave a girl wanting more. Humans are extremely curious by nature, so when you leave some details out we feel compelled to fill in the blanks.

It’s the art of being mysterious that goes hand in hand with how to impress a girl on the phone: she likes what she sees so far and knows that it’s not everything you got, so she wants more!

Here’s how to always leave a girl wanting more on the phone:

– When she asks you a question, tell her “That’s a very good question!” and then either keep quiet or tell her you’ll answer it when you want to. It will drive her crazy! She MUST know…

– When she asks you a question, ask her a question in return so you avoid answering hers. It’s even more confusing for her if you ask a question in return about a completely different topic

– Whenever you’re telling a story, stop halfway through the story and say you’ll tell her the rest later. You can also say you will tell her later before you have even started telling your story or that important thing you wanted to talk to her about…

Here’s a juicy secret: learn to be mysterious and you learn how to impress a girl on the phone, because not only does it make her curious… you’ll also be a lot harder to get than other guys.

And women like a challenge. They love the thrill of the kill as much as we do, so thanks Mr. Stallone!

How to Impress a Girl on the Phone With “Phone Bashing”

No this is not where I tell you to throw your phone at the wall or to start jumping on it. This is where I reveal how to impress a girl on the phone by being even more hard to get.

How? By teasing a girl on the phone of course! Question everything she says, tease her with everything she does and does not do, and keep it up for 10 minutes to half an hour.

That is what I call “phone bashing” and it works because you clearly let her know that, sure, she’s cute and all… but you expect more from her than looks alone.

If THAT doesn’t make you a guy that’s harder to get and thus more interesting than anyone else? Then I don’t know what is!

So make teasing a big part of learning how to impress a girl on the phone, alright?

And if you want some specific examples of how to tease when you call girls, then check out my huge list of resources with tips on how to call girls for more info.

How to Impress a Girl on the Phone: He Who Laughs Last…

A funny thing I have noticed about most guys who call girls, especially the ones that are trying hard to learn how to impress a girl on the phone… is that they laugh.

They laugh at their own jokes. Or they immediately start laughing when a girl laughs. Wrong move!

That’s definitely NOT how to impress a girl on the phone. Why? Because…

– When you laugh at your own jokes, the only thing you do is trying to laugh away the tension. Don’t do that because it makes you look insecure. Don’t say (for example) “Why is that haha?” Just don’t. You’re a man. Not a sissy like George Michael is.

– If you pay close attention to comedians, then you will discover that the audience laughs the hardest when the comedian jokes around with a poker face. They show no emotion at all and THAT’S what makes it so funny. So tease her but don’t laugh every time she laughs to make her laugh even harder.

So I guess it’s true what they say when it comes to how to impress a girl on the phone: he who laughs last, laughs best.

How to Impress a Girl on the Phone With Michael Jackson

Don’t worry buddy, I won’t advise you to start talking with a soft and gay voice like MJ did. Or that you should make sure to be suspected of being a child molester as well.

Look, love him or hate him, but Michael Jackson can teach you a thing or two about how to impress a girl on the phone… by being a smooth criminal.

What do I mean with a smooth criminal you say?

Simple: in a society where people are more impersonal and disconnected than ever because of smartphones, Facebook, computers, and so on… compliments are hard to find and to get.

While compliments did not work in the past, society is getting less and less social by the minute and romance is DEFINITELY seen as a word that has a gay-ish ring to it among men.

And that’s why you should use compliments if you want to know how to impress a girl on the phone: 9 out of 10 guys don’t give them, so start giving them!

When you give genuine compliments about the way she looked when you met her, her eyes, her hair, her smile, or her personality? It’s hard for her to NOT get shy.

They KEY word here is genuine: don’t give compliments all the time, but give ’em once in a while before you hang up or before you leave… so she has something to remember you by.

Believe me or not, but being a “gay-ish” romantic who gives compliments works better now than ever. That’s why you should be open for all opportunities to learn how to impress a girl on the phone: a lot of stuff that works best has always been around, you just didn’t see it yet.

Check out my Calling Women and Texting Women Newsletter for more free tips on how to impress a girl on the phone AND get a date, without much effort.

And before this movie junkie watches Priest, which is about humans versus vampires (one of my favourite topics for a flick)? I just want to say: hope you liked my tips for how to impress a girl on the phone!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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If you want to know how to get a girl’s number faster than you can say, “Charlie Harper ain’t got SHIT on me!”, then read on and pay attention. Your love life depends on this.

Before I show you how to get a girl’s number as easily as Charlie Harper does though, let’s get some nasty stuff out of the way first.

If someone says women are selective bitches who don’t give their phone number to just anyone, you need to start saying: BULLSHIT!

If someone says it’s all a waste of time because most give out fake numbers anyway, you need to start saying: BULLSHIT!

You CAN learn how to get a girl’s number, her REAL digits, without much effort…

Hell, you CAN get tons of phone numbers even if girls says no at first. How? I’m going to show you how to do it today.

But as with most things in life, there’s a wrong way and a right way to do it.

How To Get A Girl’s Number: The Wrong Way

How do most men learn how to get a girl’s number? They learn they can ask a chick: “Can I have your number?”

If this is the only “technique” you’ve ever used to get a girl’s number, do us both a favor will you? BITCH SLAP yourself right now!

I can almost hear you think: “What the hell?! Isn’t this how to get a girl’s number?”

No.

No, because if you ASK for a girl’s phone number, you’re asking for her permission to call her and that WILL stop you from getting the results you want with women.

And the same goes for all of the yes/no questions that are variations of the one above:

– May I have your number?
– Can I call you some time?
– Would you give me your phone number?
– Etc…

These types of questions SUCK BALLS and won’t ever work when you want to get a girl’s number. And if you want to know why doing this stuff will hurt your results, then listen up…

When you ask for permission to get a girl’s phone number, you’re not showing her ANY sign of confidence. The result?

Women will walk away because of it, because if they wanted a pussy they would have gone to the pet store…

The ladies want guys who ooze confidence, real go-getters who know what they want and go for it. Women don’t want pussies who ask for permission to call them.

By trying to learn how to get a girl’s number and doing it by asking for it?

You simply HURT any attraction you’ve created up until that point, because no one’s attracted to a guy who seems to have zero confidence.

And now you know that asking Yes/No questions when you want to get a girls number is definitely not the way to go, I want to cheer you up a little bit here.

After hearing the brutal truth about how to get a girl’s number I shared with you just now, you’ll be happy to know that there is a way…

There is a way to get a girl’s number that’s successful 90% of the time.

And you’re about to discover the way… the right way to do it.

How To Get A Girl’s Number: The Right Way

So, you’ve come this far and you still want to know how to get a girl’s number? Congratulations!

You’re on the road to becoming a better man (or at least becoming one who gets more women).

So, at this point you’re wondering how to ask a girl’s number. Well, the answer is: you don’t ask. At all. No. You tell her what to do instead.

Want some examples? Here you go:

– Give me your number.
– Let’s exchange phone numbers.
– Tell me your number.

What happens when you stop asking girls for their number and start telling them you want their digits? I’ll tell you what happens…

You’ll start to sound confident. Dominant. And like a guy who is ready to take control of the situation. And chicks LOVE that.

So in a few words, it’s better to tell women what you want than to ask for it.

But there’s one more secret about how to get a girl’s number I want to share with you…

On Stalkers And How To Get A Girl’s Number…

One of the keys to learning how to get a girl’s number is understanding what I like to call the “Stalker Objection”.

You’ll encounter the Stalker Objection when a girl is reluctant to give you her digits because she’s had previous experiences with guys who texted or called her every damn day. She lost her interest in them, but they just didn’t understand so they kept on calling. These kinds of “stalkers” creep her out!

And because these stalkers made her a little scared and made her feel very uncomfortable, she’ll hesitate to give you her number a little longer than usual when you tell her you want her digits.

So, how do you avoid this “Stalker Objection” then? Simple. YOU accuse her of being the stalker because…

Because when you accuse her of being one, you’ll come across like YOU aren’t one yourself.

Think about it: how many nerds bully other nerds by saying they’re stupid nerds?

And now we’ve got the basics of how to get a girl’s number covered, let’s continue and see what you need to say if you want to succeed.

Getting A Girl’s Number: The Right Words To Say

Let’s look at what (in my mind) is the only way to learn how to get a girl’s number successfully. It’s saying the following…

“You know what? I really should get going. Give me your number, and we’ll continue this conversation some other time. But, please, promise me one thing. NO stalking, ok? Don’t send me hundreds of text messages in one day, PLEASE.”

This is how to get a girl’s number in the blink of an eye…

Because it only takes seconds to tell her this and get what you want. Wanna know why this works so well?

I thought you’d never ask!

First, whenever you say “I gotta go” or “I have to go now”, she’ll know she’s about to lose you. She’ll know you have somewhere else to go.

And this creates attraction. A sense or urgency. She’d better give you her phone number now, or she might never see you again.

Did you notice that you’re not asking for permission by the way? You’re telling her what to do instead. You’re being dominant. Dominance creates attraction. And without learning what attraction is, there is no learning how to get a girl’s number.

And finally, by saying, “so we can continue this conversation some other time”, you’re giving her a REASON to give you her phone number.

Her brain won’t have to deal with all of the logical reasons why she should or shouldn’t give you her digits.

Now I did something for you, I want you to do something for me. And it’s this…

Now you’ve learned how to get a girl’s number, I want you to go out there RIGHT NOW and get as many phone numbers from women as you possibly can.

Because it’s one thing to know how to get a girl’s number…

And another thing to actually go and get it. So go and get it already! Get it and then use my comprehensive list of resources for learning how to call girls so you can kick ass in that department as well.

One More Thing About How To Get A Girl’s Number…

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How?

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And I hope you liked my tips on how to get a girl’s number.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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I’m sure you’ll scratch your head after reading the following, asking yourself why in the hell you couldn’t get it right before!

How To Call A Woman Technique #1:
“What Are You Doing Right Now?”

How To Call A Woman Technique #2:
Give Her A Party Invitation

How To Call A Woman Technique #3:
Like Normal People Do …

What’s that? Trying to call here but she doesn’t answer the phone? Then solve it by following the instructions I put down in writing in my blog post about what to do if she doesn’t answer the phone.

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“Carlos, what to do if she doesn’t answer the phone and you get her voicemail” My answer: you don’t do anything if she doesn’t answer the phone in like 15 seconds or so.

If She Doesn’t Answer The Phone, Forget Her Voicemail

You see, when you call her and if she doesn’t answer the phone it will notify her with a “You have a missed call from …” type of message, so what’s the point in leaving a voicemail? It’s letting her know you called TWICE, making it a desperate thing to do… so don’t.

Besides, who listens to the voicemail these days anyways? Less and less people do it, hell, I know I and almost everyone I know don’t because we assume that if someone was calling about something important they’d call again.

That’s why you should avoid that nasty little voicemail every single time you call a woman: call her and hang up after you hear the dial tone for the third time, because voicemail is activated right after it. That’s what phone game is all about, whether you plan on becoming some kind of pua (pick up artist) or not.

That’s what you do if she doesn’t answer the phone. But what if YOU miss HER call?

What To Do If YOU Don’t Answer The Phone

Please… whenever she calls you, don’t pick up the second your phone starts ringing okay? It’s like you have nothing else going on in your life and are sitting around, waiting for her to call you. Does being desperate get any worse than this? I don’t think so.

If she calls you and you’re not sure that you’ve created enough attraction yet to ask her out on a date, wait a couple seconds before you pick up the phone… just enough to not let your phone go to voicemail.

If she calls you and you already know that she’s very much interested in you and that all you have to do is set something up to get a date, then don’t even pick up the phone the first time she calls. If she calls a second time, sure, go ahead and do it, but if not then you should wait for 5 minutes. This may sound radical to you, but it isn’t… it works really, really well.

I call it the 5 Minute Rule of how to call girls!

And here’s why it works so well:

– Waiting for 5 minutes before you call her back shows that you’re not needy, have stuff to do and that you’re not sitting around, hoping she’ll call. It’s the opposite of answering the phone right away.

– Calling her back instead of accepting her call let’s you be in control of the situation, be dominant (and thus create attraction) because you call her on your time schedule, you’re available for her when you want to and not when she wants you to be. It makes you come across as hard to get and by now you know that it’s something you should strive for.

– Just like you don’t know if she’s available right now when you call her, she doesn’t know either. She doesn’t know if you left your phone at home, if you’re hanging out with some other girl, or if you so happened to be in the kitchen grabbing yourself something to drink. She doesn’t know the reason for you not answering the phone, which makes HER more desperate if she’s interested in you.

Next time she calls you? Don’t just pick up but ignore the phone call and call her back after about 5 minutes because as you can see, there are a lot of advantages doing so will give you… that’s the art of phone game, of how to call women my friend.

And hey… same thing goes for text messages: don’t text her back right away, but wait around 5 minutes with doing so for the exact same reasons as I mentioned above. The 5 Minute Rule has given me so many success that I have a hard time summarizing it here in a short sentence: women asking me if I was talking to another chick (which shows they want to keep me all to themselves), women almost literally stalking me by calling me 3 times in a row and so on…

There is a tiny exception to the rule though: don’t wait 5 minutes if you’re about to meet her for a date, because she probably wants to know where you are or can’t find her way around wherever you’re meeting her. If you let her wait for 5 minutes now, she’ll probably get angry, stressed and the whole nine yards… which isn’t a good way for her to start a date, wouldn’t you agree?

So if she happens to call when you’re about to meet her, either wait a couple of seconds with answering the phone or call her back after a minute or so to avoid getting her angry at the start of the date.

Then again, make up sex is the best sex you can have!

WARNING: there is more to attracting women with your phone and getting dates than what to do if she doesn’t answer the phone or if you don’t, but there’s no need to worry.

Why?

Because if you want to discover how to call women and get a date from start to finish, for FREE, then you can gain access to dozens more tips right away by signing up for my Calling and Texting Newsletter.

Hope you liked these tips for what to do if she doesn’t answer the phone man…

To More Dating Success, 

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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Want to get your hands on my “formula” that shows you how to get women’s phone numbers? Here it is:

“You know what? I have to go now, give me your phone number so we can continue this conversation another time. You have to promise me something though… NO stalking! I don’t want 10.000 text messages on one day okay?”

Do you see what I’m doing here? When I try and get women’s phone numbers, I’m NOT asking for permission or asking a yes/no question, I’m NOT being a stalker (I’m accusing her of being one), but I’m also doing something else.

The words “I have to go now” are very powerful after you’ve created attraction with a woman, because it makes her feel perceived loss. It’s a fancy psychological term for: she’s interested, she wants to get to know you better, but it looks like you’re trying to leave so she may lose her chance to get the guy or so to speak.

Saying you’re going back to your friends or that you’re about to leave creates a sense of URGENCY, a limited timeframe to make the most of an opportunity. Her mind immediately connects the dots and she knows that when you tell her to give you her phone number, it’s a now or never thing… that she has to TAKE ACTION if she ever wants to get to know you better.
      
But WAIT – there’s more science to my short phone number getting technique…

How To Get Women’s Phone Numbers Thanks To Science

Lets repeat part of my way for how to get women’s phone numbers and see if you noticed too:

“I have to go now, give me your number so we can continue this conversation another time.” Did you notice the so…? The reason I gave her for giving me her phone number?

Why am I even doing that… why am I still giving her a reason when she knows she’s attracted to me and I do too? Because there’s a HUGE DISCONNECT between what’s socially accepted (her logical reasoning) and her sexual nature. Allow me to explain…

You can’t choose who you feel attracted to, heck… not even how fast you’ll be attracted to that person!

Attraction isn’t a choice that’s based on logical decisions, but a FEELING that’s based on EMOTIONS… and we all know how rational and logical our emotions are right? They’re NOT.

Attraction can be created by pushing the right buttons, or to talk evolution here: by displaying the right amount of fitness indicators. More on that later, because we have other business to attend to…

Because while she FEELS attracted to you, she THINKS something else. Our emotions always end up overriding our logical reasoning, but that doesn’t mean that our reasoning isn’t there! That’s why a woman will think things like…

“I normally don’t do this…”

“I normally don’t give my number so fast…”

“I don’t give my phone number to strangers…”

And blah blah blah.

My guess is that you’ve heard at least one of these in your lifetime… and it’s because her logical reasoning tries to backwards rationalize what just happened. Sounds more difficult than it is, because all it means is: while her heart is already temporarily yours, her brain needs a reason to justify it.

That’s why you give her a REASON… a because for giving you her phone number. Tell her it’s because you want to continue the conversation later on, because you want to get to know her better, because she can give you a tour of the city some time because you just moved there.

On Getting Phone Numbers And Why A “Because” Works…

What reason to give a woman for getting her number? It doesn’t matter… because researchers did this test once with AMAZING results. Pay attention if you want to learn how to get women’s phone numbers!

Ok, it was this test where someone tried to cut in line at the photo copier of some random company. They wanted to see what kind of reason people needed to let someone go first.

At first, a plausible reason was tested: “can I please go first, because my job is at stake if I’m late for this presentation I need to do”. And the guy could go first. But the last test was to see if people would still let someone go first with a BS reason: “can I go first? Because my dog ate the previous copy”. Guess what? As long as the guy gave a REASON, people let him go first 90% of the time!

So please, use a because when you use my technique for how to get women’s phone numbers:

“You know what? I have to go now, give me your phone number so we can continue this conversation another time. You have to promise me something though… NO stalking! I don’t want 10.000 text messages on one day okay?”

Hope you liked my tips for getting phone numbers. Stay tuned for more dude! And if you want to know what to do once you get a number and can call a girl, then check out my post on how to call a girl right now.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

P.S. Only 1 in 5 women will date you after you get their number, unless you know why the other 4 say \"NO\" and what to do about it. Discover how to get a date with your phone all the time with the tips inside my FREE Texting Girls Newsletter. Click here now to get more tips.

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I’m pissed off because some people made up this little rule that screws up many men’s chances with women. You see, you too have probably been told the big, big lie about when to call women.

I don’t know where the unwritten rule came from, but that whole when to call women “Three Day Rule” that suggests you wait 3 days before calling a woman for the first time? It’s based on BS and here’s why:

– The longer you wait with calling her, the less interested you seem to be. In fact, if you wait 3 days before calling a woman it’s very possible that she’ll think “how many women did you call before you called ME? Am I girl number 1… or girl number 3!?” I’ve asked a lot of my female friends if they actually thought like this and the majority of them confirmed it.

– The longer you wait with calling her, the less likely it is that she’ll remember who you are. Do you remember the research project where scientists wanted to find out how many times per day an attractive woman was approached by men in one form or another? On average, it’s 7 times per day… so imagine if you’d wait a week before calling… it would make you guy #49, or worse!

– The longer you wait with calling her, the more she’ll suspect you of playing mind games… of pretending to be hard to get. “But two can play that game…” is what she’ll think, so you can bet your ass that she’ll flake on you by not answering the phone, not showing up on the date and so on. If it’s not to get even with you, then it’s to save her honor as a woman. Bet you didn’t think of this when asking yourself when to call women huh?

In short, this all means that waiting too long with calling a woman isn’t a good idea, in fact, it’s NEVER a good idea to take a woman’s number without telling her what you’re going to do with it.

That’s a DON’T of how to call girls.

And it makes sense doesn’t it… and yet I know a total of ZERO guys who actually tell a woman what they’re going to do with her number: when they’re going to call her! They know nothing about when to call women, and I intend on changing that.

I can just hear you think: “but wouldn’t that spoil the surprise, if she knows when you’re going to call? So what’s your secret behind when to call women then? ”

Well, telling her you’re going to call her tomorrow evening isn’t exactly knowing the EXACT time your going to call her now, is it? In fact, it only makes her anticipate, look forward to, and get nervous about receiving a call from you as soon as the evening starts. By the time you’re going to call her, she has quietly already waiting for you to call for a couple hours… so it’s a HUGE advantage if you tell her because then she has something to anticipate.

So how long should you wait before you call that hot babe?

One day.

If you call her the next day you won’t come across like you’re a player or like you’re playing mind games. You’re also pretty sure that she remembers who you are because it was only yesterday that she met you. Plus, waiting a day makes you come across like you actually have a life and that you’re not SO desperate that you have nothing better to do than calling her an hour after you met her like the needy little wussy that you are.

No… it makes her want you to call her just enough… so when it comes to when to call women, call her the day after you got her phone number.

At What Time To Call Her

What’s the most annoying thing that could possibly happen when you’re all excited about calling the woman you met yesterday? Her not picking up her phone and you hearing that nasty little voicemail voice. Not being able to reach her can be very frustrating… and just so you can prevent all of this nastyness from happening to you I want to share with you my insights about at what time you should call women.

Best time ever: after dinner, which is anywhere between 8 o’ clock in the evening until around midnight.

Why?

First of all, no matter how old you are, the girl or woman that gave you her number is either working from 9 to 5 or going to school during that same time period. Then it seems VERY likely that you’ll get her voicemail if you call before 5 P.M., wouldn’t you agree?

Then there’s the dinner thing: calling while someone’s eating is pretty rude and you can bet your ass that she won’t pick up the phone then. Most people wine and dine somewhere between 5 and 8 P.M. and I’m not saying that no woman will ever pick up the phone during supper, but it’s a pretty safe bet to assume that most won’t.

Lastly, although I’m a night stalker who can stay up until 3 A.M. even during the week, not everyone is one too. In fact, most people go to bed around twelvish when they have to get up early the next day for work or school.

That leaves us with a timeframe that pretty much narrows things down for us: women are most likely to pick up the phone after dinner and before going to sleep, which is anywhere between 8 P.M. and midnight.

I hear you thinking: “Yeah but buring the weekends though, people tend to stay up way longer because most don’t really have to go anywhere, right?”

Sure they don’t, but guess what most women do on a Saturday during the day? They go shopping, preferably with their friends, and that means they’ll be less talkative, won’t respond to everything and are more secretive in general too. Why? Because they don’t want to embarrass themselves in front of their friends, especially if you’re a guy they’ve only just met.

Calling a woman while she’s gone clubbing won’t be very effective either because she won’t be able to HEAR your phonecall. Again, that pretty much narrows it downs to after dinner and before she’s in the club… which is from around 8 P.M. to 1 A.M. where I come from.

So as a general rule, call a woman somewhere in the evening. It’s the safest bet you can play when you want someone to actually pick up the damn phone.

If the woman you’re calling is busy, at work, or being distracted, just say “you know what? I’ll call you back when you’re not distracted”. If she tries to get you to stay and talk to her some more, then stay unless the distraction is freakishly annoying.

Know you now when to call women and at what time to do that, I suggest you get started right away with creating attraction and getting more dates!

And hey, say you call a woman and she isn’t there? Don’t panic! I got you covered with the insights I shared in my post about what to do if she doesn’t answer the phone.

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

P.S. Only 1 in 5 women will date you after you get their number, unless you know why the other 4 say \"NO\" and what to do about it. Discover how to get a date with your phone all the time with the tips inside my FREE Texting Girls Newsletter. Click here now to get more tips.

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I’ve worked in call centers and on customer service departments where my job was all about talking to customer after customer on the phone for the majority of my life. The result: having supreme voice control and knowing so many techniques for how to call women that I’ve probably forgotten a couple ones while writing down the ones I’m about to share with you…

Both of these techniques are for displaying confidence and being a playful teaser who doesn’t take her, himself, OR her looks too seriously… and these are qualities that create TONS of attraction. Don’t believe me? Read my articles about creating attraction elsewhere on the site.

You’ll need these qualities for creating attraction, so let’s get right down to some of my most playful techniques for calling women.

How To Call Women

Technique #1: Who’s This?

This one will definitely make her jaw drop to the floor and wonder where you got the balls from to say stuff like that. And afterwards? Afterwards you’ll laugh your ass off for getting away with it every single time you use this technique. It’s just that funny. The goal isn’t to be the comedian though, it’s to display a high level of confidence and to display indifference.

Being indifferent to what a woman or other people will think of you is attractive. It shows that you’re truly being yourself and not trying to get anyone’s approval, unlike the desperate little wussies who shower a woman with compliments, gifts and flowers just to get her approval.

Allow me to give you a powerful example of the power of indifference: bad boys. Bad boys don’t give a crap about what people think or about any of the consequences their actions have. They simply do what they want when they want to do it and this is one of the main reasons for bad boys being so attractive: they have more freedom than most people will ever have, while everybody wants to be completely free.

Now you know the background story, here’s what you need to do if you want to know how to call a girl:

1) Whether she calls you or you call her, start the conversation all surprised: “uhm… hello?”

2) She’ll greet you because it’s the polite thing to do and you respond with “Heyyyyyy…uhm.. YOU” and stretch out that hey for as long as possible, just like you have NO IDEA of what the hell she’s talking about

3) And then you drop the punchline: “who’s this?”

– Silence – and “oh my God… you know who this is! It’s Cindy!” will be how women respond 90% of the time. This technique simply works excellent, especially if you two already spoke on the phone before! I highly recommend you use it. It’s probably the last thing she would expect you to do.

She’ll call you rude, say you’re terrible and all that stuff… but it’s only playing mad. It’s all part of the game.

It takes a lot of balls to ask a beautiful woman who the hell she is and most men simply don’t have the stones for it and because of this display of indifference and confidence she’ll end up chasing YOU. That’s why this technique for how to call women works so well: you show high levels of confidence by doing this.

How To Call Women Technique #2:

Disturbance a.k.a. Bad Reception

This one is probably my favorite because it has many uses. Doesn’t matter how you use the disturbance technique, it’s always to playfully tease a woman so let’s get right to showing examples of it’s many uses:

– You’re talking to her on the phone and she tells you she has achieved something, doesn’t matter what it is: she’s done her homework, she gave a good presentation, she got promoted at work, whatever. As long as it sounds like she’s kinda proud of it, you can accuse her of being arrogant like this “What? Wait! What did you so? I can’t hear you… there’s too much disturbance on the line because of your arrogance storm!”

– You’re talking to a woman on the phone and she wants you to do something, like giving her a kiss, helping her with something, doesn’t matter. As long as she wants you to do or give something you say really loud “WHAT? The reception’s bad. I’m going in a tunnel right…ow! …an’t… ear… you!”

– You’re talking to her on the phone and she’s teasing you back. If you can’t come up with a good reply then simply say: “Let’s pretend there’s some disturbance on the line and that I didn’t hear you!” Guaranteed to create attraction every single time.

– When you’re talking on the phone and YOU want her to do something or give you something, then you can also use the disturbance technique to trick her into giving you more. Say she just gave you a kiss right then you go “hello? Are you still there? I don’t hear anything…” off course she’ll confirm that she’s there, after which you ask her to repeat what she just said… and that means giving you that kiss another time (if she doesn’t just say “I think you were about to give me a kiss?”). And after all that has been said and done you admit: “Thanks for giving me 2 kisses honey! You’re quick to trick… damn… Gotcha!”

One more thing about how to call women: say she doesn’t answer her phone, what can you do? The answer’s simple: follow the instructions I share in my post about what to do if she doesn’t answer the phone!

And that’s all there is to it!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

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And have you ever experienced moments where you got a woman’s phone number, but didn’t know how long you should wait before calling her? Or how long before sending her a text message (a SMS)?

Have you ever messed up a phonecall with a girl you liked, because you didn’t know what to say or because you were really nervous?

Have you ever called or sent a text message to a woman, but just didn’t know how to go from a simple conversation on the phone or via text… to asking her out on a date?

Do you have a hard time with going from calling women to dating women with half or more of all the phone numbers you get?

If you answered “Yes” to only one of these questions or had your doubts about whether you’re really good at doing one of these things, then you need to improve your “phone game” my friend. Learning how to call girls is tough, isn’t it?

But it’s important, because why make such an effort of getting phone number after phone number… when you can hardly ever go from calling to dating? The whole phone number getting process becomes a waste of your freaking time then, wouldn’t you agree?

Meanwhile, if you learn the dating techniques for how to call a woman (and how to text her) you can go from needing to throw away HALF of the numbers you got or more… to going on a date with 80% of the women you call!

Makes a HUGE difference doesn’t it? The whole dating game goes like this for most men:

Approaching => creating attraction => getting phone numbers => calling women => dating women, so by improving your phone game more women will date you, in fact, improving any step means you’ll be able to go to the next step with more women. Do you see why dating success quickly becomes a number game now?

And if you want to go on more dates with more women thanks to you knowing EXACTLY how to call women, then you should pay close attention to your mail, my blog, my forum, and my Facebook profile… because I’m going to share something with you in the first weeks of the new year.

So if you want to know more about improving your phone game, pay close attention to what I’ll be doing in the next 2 weeks my friend…

But if you don’t want to wait that long with getting phone tips and to learn insights about calling women, then why not check out my blog post on what to do if she doesn’t answer the phone? It will help you prepare for those moments when you want to talk to her over the phone, but can’t.

Enjoy!

To More Dating Success,

Carlos Xuma
Win With Women

P.S. Only 1 in 5 women will date you after you get their number, unless you know why the other 4 say \"NO\" and what to do about it. If you want to learn how to get a date with your phone all the time, then get instant access to more tips by signing up for our FREE How To Text Girls Insider.

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