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Author: Carlos

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Happy Holidays: Here’s Some Free Dating Advice

Dear Friend,

Let me start this email by saying: I wish you happy holidays!

And for all my Christian/Western fans out there: Merry Christmas!

The year 2009 is almost coming to a close, which means reflection time for most people. Time to reflect on what you´ve achieved during the past year: are you one step closer to getting the success you want, did you achieve success beyond your wildest dreams, or was it all just one big mess you plan on forgetting as fast as you freaking can?

If you´re still looking to improve things next year, let me cut right to the chase: I´m not the guy to go to for career planning, for creating happy families, for earning you the money to buy a Ferrari and what not… but I CAN help you with getting more dating success and social success in 2010.

And I plan on starting with doing that RIGHT AWAY by pointing you in the direction of some cool sites where you can check out tons and tons of free dating advice that I´m giving away there. I highly recommend you check them out and become a part of the Win With Women Community.

My …

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Carlos Xuma Column – All Is Fair In Love And War

Let´s talk about one of my favorite subjects: having a guilty conscience… just kidding! I do want to talk about the so called ´shoulds´ and ´should nots´ though, the things that people tell you are not done and smart to do.

Let get straight to the point: people will tell you a whole bunch of crap, especially men when it comes to women & dating. You see, most men HAVE NO CLUE about what women want or what women are really attracted to. It´s not their fault or your fault though, no, it´s all because of our ´machismo culture´.

We as men are raised with the mindset that talking about our feelings is WRONG, that talking about women in a different context than sex or body parts is WRONG, and about problems with women? We simply DON´T talk. What men do is this:

Guy 1: ¨How you doing Todd?¨
Guy 2: ¨My girl just broke up with me man…¨
Guy 1: ¨Damn thats f*cked up man… want a beer?¨

And that´s it. Most men NEVER talk about the how to´s… how to get a woman´s phone number, how to call women, how to create attraction, and especially not the sensitive …

News & events

Win With Women Community – Forum News

Hi there! It´s Carlos Xuma here with another update of what´s happening inside the Win With Women Community, so here´s the forum news:

Win With Women Forum – How To Text Women Topic
Forum member RockyJJP shared some valuable concepts about how to send text messages to women, after which an entire gang of other members shared their favorite techniques. If you have trouble going from getting phone numbers to getting dates, then I highly recommend you check out this topic. And oh, ´phone game´ lovers can eat their hearts out in this topic too!

How To Text Women Topic

Win With Women Forum – Meeting Women Through Your Social Circle
I started a new forum where everyone can share their techniques for the most common way for men to meet women: through their social circle! Only this time, I (and the other forum members) will share the RIGHT way to do it with you and there are already some very interesting topics up and running. Check them out via the link below:

Meeting Women Through Your Social Circle Forum

A Success Story You Should Read, NOW
Forum member King Tom shares an amazing story in his `whoop whoop` report …