Author: Carlos

Hi it’s Carlos and I want you to join me today as I interview dating guru Derek Rake. Derek is the author of the INFAMOUS Rake Letters, the newsletter which I’m sure some of you have heard of, a LOT of useful articles and mastermind behind the very insightful Seducer’s Vault. Inside you’ll find POWERFUL advice on how to handle the information overflow of the entire WORLD of dating systems out there, he talks about the current NLP hype and you can ALSO find a very useful bonus we’re giving to YOU, our dear reader.

So without further ado I present to you…Derek Rake!

Welcome Derek. I’m glad you took the time to do this interview with me. Off course the BIG question everyone always wants to ask is: How did you yourself start in the dating game, and how did you become an authority in it? Why are you a dating guru these days?

It was about 6 years back when I was on the verge of an extremely nasty breakup. During that time, I was in the middle of a dramatic change in my life, not only in terms of my relationship (with my then long-time girlfriend), but …

My dear friends Dave & Nick recently wanted to do an interview with ME (Carlos Xuma), so I agreed for the love of it. Now this is no “bragging fest” of an egomaniac right here, no in retrospect I think there are some DEEP insights in this one that I want to share with YOU guys: my respected readers!

Firstly, Thank you very much for your time, we know how busy you are as a dating guru and we appreciate this alot.
No problem…let’s get to it!

Tell us how you became involved in PUA and lifestyle change?

I’ve had several periods during my younger years where I HAD to change my lifestyle: I’ve moved homes 3 times, I once had thousands of dollars in bad debts thanks to a gold digger while I was in high school, got kicked to the kerb by my family TWICE after lots of fights, got involved with the wrong people and did some bad things etc.

On numerous occasions it was “change or die” for me, until I realized that most –if not ALL- problems originated from me not being able to communicate with women, not being able to understand them. I started …

Join me today everyone as I interview a close, personal friend of mine who has been a natural in picking up women for YEARS and years now. We learned a LOT from each other, and he’s been my best wingman up until this day. Right before I interviewed him I asked him to dig in his game as deep as he possibly could and might I say this DEFINITELY shows?

Now….onto the interview!

Welcome Giant, how you doin buddy? So good to have you here and to finally have the opportunity to go in DEEP with you about your succes with women and dating!

No problem at all Carlos, glad you took the time because I KNOW you learned a couple of things from me.

Lol! Very true. So…let’s get started. Was there a time you had LESS succes with women, that you were a wussy? Or did you always have succes but just got more and more succesful over time?

To be honest: before I was like 15 or 16 I didn’t even look at girls! I was far to busy being outside, getting myself intro trouble and as a result of it getting spankies from my mother haha! …