How To Win With Women

Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips & Secrets

Author: Carlos Xuma

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How To Know If A Girl DOESN’T Like You – 5 Signs

Sure, you probably already know all the ways to know if a girl is attracted to you, right?

She’s smiling, laughing, plays with her hair, slaps you on the arm, yadda yadda.

Well here’s the deal..

It’s just as important – if not more – to know when she DOESN’T like you. You don’t want to stand there buying this girl drinks, making small talk, if she doesn’t want anything to do with you.

I’ve stood there hanging around a hot girl, hoping she was interested, only to find out she was eyeing my wingman. It was pretty humiliating.

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I could have saved myself the time and money (and embarrassment) if I had only picked up on her signals.

So how do you know if a girl isn’t interested in you?

I’ll show you 5 easy clues so you know when a woman is leading you on or not.

The first signal she isn’t into you: She’s constantly checking her phone.

This one is a must – you have to get her to stop texting and checking the time on her mobile. If she’s paying attention to someone who ISN’T there, then you’re not doing …

5 Ways to Date Younger Girls

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5 Ways to Date Younger Girls

Let’s get one thing out of the way right now…

Youth is always attractive.

Young skin… smooth… firm…

None of those qualities are bad.

There’s a scientific reason you like those qualities: They indicate youth – and youth means fertility.

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It’s an evolutionary design that WORKS for a reason.

If you hook up with a girl who demonstrates the signs of youth and fertility, you have a greater chance of getting your DNA into the next generation. It’s how we were programmed by Mother Nature.

But guys are made to feel guilty and “dirty” if they find younger girls naturally attractive. I urge men out there to watch for these little subtle ways that we are made to feel guilty for our natural biology.

It’s how men are whipped into sad, defeated puppies that beg for girls instead of showing their noble masculinity.

When it comes to dating younger girls, guys are portrayed as shallow horny creeps who manipulate women for sex. Women are then painted as helpless victims.

Even though women are – on average – ten times more socially manipulative than men are.

But let’s get back on track here before I get off on …

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How To Make Her Want You

Women are like a computer that you have to hack into so you can get her to feel attracted to you. And if I had mad hacking skills, this wouldn’t seem so hard.

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But girls aren’t computers, last I checked.

So we have to figure out how to “hack” her system another way to make her like you and want you.

I’m going to share 5 ways to get her to want you using simple tricks of psychology. The best part is that they work on a subconscious level that she won’t even register.

The first one is:

How to make her desire you with body language: Exaggerate your shoulders

One of the interesting things I see in guys I coach is that almost every guy who has a tough time with confidence inhibits or constrains his body language. Almost as if he’s smothering his self-expression.

The easiest way to overcome this is to consciously take control of your body language for a while until you break this habit. Chances are you’re being far too restricted with your movements.

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One of the best ways to communicate confidence with your body is through exaggerating your shoulder movements as you …