How To Win With Women

Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips & Secrets

Category: Building confidence

You need to start building confidence to get the girl, because how can you love someone if you don’t love you? Learn how to build confidence now!

How? Check out my blog post(s) about building confidence below to find out more…

Attract women / Building confidence / How to create attraction / How to talk to women / Inner game

3 Steps To Becoming The Man That Women Want

3 Steps To Becoming The Man That Women Want

Women are attracted to masculine men, no matter what the media tries to tell you.

You’re going to hear more and more nauseating, confusing and ridiculous information that tells you to “condemn the patriarchy” and embrace someone else’s ‘vision’ (agenda) for the future.

Go ahead and listen to them, and read them if you like, but keep your critical thinking hat on.

Don’t let them confuse you from the truth about what women want.

Women want one thing and one thing only, no matter how much everyone tries to believe the opposite:

Women want real MEN.

What’s a ‘real man,’ anyway? Isn’t that subjective?

Doesn’t that just change depending on who you ask?

No, not really.

Masculine – AKA ‘manly’ – traits are fairly consistent.

In my 16 years of doing this dating advice for men gig, one thing I’ve noticed is that feminists (and women with issues – often the same people) rarely (like almost NEVER) challenge me. They seem to sense right off the bat that I’m fully grounded in my identity as a man. I don’t buy into their fluffy white idealistic …

Attract women / Building confidence

How I Hacked My Brain and Boosted My Self-Confidence

I wasn’t always good with women. In fact, the thought of walking up to a woman and getting her interested in me was absolutely TERRIFYING.

It felt like there was just too much riding on a conversation. I thought to myself, “Oh man, if she knew how insecure I really am, I’m screwed.” Even back then, I knew that women could sniff out the SMALLEST hint of weakness.

And so my brain always worked overtime, coming up with the worst possible case scenarios that haven’t even happened yet. With all that stuff going on in my head, I couldn’t keep my emotions in check.

Consequently, my neediness showed every time, destroying my social value with women. It was a BRUTAL cycle – failing with women, feeling bad about myself, and doing even WORSE the next time.

Sounds familiar?

Win With Women

You’ve probably experienced this too. Maybe the anxiety got to you so much that you ended up as a nervous, tongue-tied version of yourself who couldn’t string a couple of sentences together.

I know how much that sucks because I used to suffer from the following:

  • Wasting countless opportunities to meet women because I was TOO SCARED to try
  • Pushing women away
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Building confidence

Improving Self Confidence With Hank Moody

If you want to start improving self confidence, you need Hank Moody. Because take the last four syllables of Californication and that’s what Hank Moody gets:

Fornication. Week after week. How does he do it? And how can you start improving self confidence?

So how do you do it? How is improving self confidence up until the level of Hank Moody done so you TOO can get as many fornication (that’s sex, dude) as he gets?

Moody (played by David Duchovny in the TV show) is a writer living in LA, and despite the fact that he hates living in California and hates mostly everything about California?

He has no problem picking up his fair share of California girls. Girls like these:

Can you get California girls by improving self confidence? Yes you can! Keep reading to learn more

Hank’s a boy stuck in a 30+ year old body, sarcastic, and downright disrespectful.

But this gives him a certain charm. It gives him his self confidence. All he has to do is put on his signature jeans and black T-shirt, and he’ll pick up the first attractive girl he runs into.

It’s so easy for Hank Moody…but why? Because he’s extremely self confident around women. And you’ll be too, after you read this blog post on …