What women want

Early in life, most guys realize that what women want for real is different from what they say they want. So what DO women want? Here are some hints!

In case you’re wondering WHY what women want is different from what they say they want: it’s because women base what they say and think on logical reasoning. Opinions.

That’s why you’ll find women saying women want honesty, a sweet guy who treats them right, who has a sense of humor and bla bla bla… while any nice guy knows women prefer bad boys over “sweet guys who treat them right.”

And that’s because attraction isn’t a choice. And not an opinion either.

Attraction is a feeling based on emotions that are illogical, which is why no amount of logical reasoning from women will change what women want.

It’s why what they say and think is irrelevant, because they still want the same thing.

Read the newsletter about what women want below to get your hints about what it is that they want right away…
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How To Be at Your Most Alpha

Posted by Carlos Xuma | Posted in Attract women, What women want | Posted on 24-09-2014


Masculinity is a word that gets thrown around all the time, and not enough guys understand what it’s about – or embrace its true meaning.

Some think having a Porsche or cash to burn is what attracts women, but all this external stuff is just icing on the cake. The qualities that constitute “being a man” helps a guy get those things, but more importantly, they’re also responsible for turning women on.

Now, in a world where traditional gender roles are being challenged, the definition of manliness might be a bit fuzzy for some guys. Families with stay-at-home dads and working moms are a good example of breaking stereotypes.

Men in these situations need to make use of feminine skills like nurturing relationships, caring for others and finding joy in the beauty of life. Women in the workplace on the other hand, need to be competitive, driven and focused – all of which are masculine qualities.


But when it comes to dating however, it’s a whole other ballgame. Even if we’re living in a progressive time like this, you’ll still need those masculine traits to activate a woman’s feminine attraction circuitry.

Here are a few ways to be more manly …

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20 ways to make her leave you!

Posted by Carlos Xuma | Posted in Attract women, What women want | Posted on 09-09-2014



If you’re left clueless every time your girlfriend seem to be annoyed with the things you do, or not do – or if you’re wondering how to make sure she doesn’t leave you, take a little look-see at the article below.

What they talk about is 20 ways of how to make her leave you…

It might sound confusing to think this way, but you’d be surprised at what this can tell you about your own behavior. And then you’re a step closer to making her happy and contented with you.

Stay Alpha,

– Carlos Xuma


Title: 20 ways to make her leave you!

As we all know, breaking up is hard to do. For the average person, it’s the only time in our lives when we deliberately say something that makes someone else cry. It’s awful. It’s horrible. It’s inhuman. So, how do you get round it? How do you slip the noose without causing pain? Make her break up with you.

Shift that responsibility. Unshoulder that blame. Turn yourself into the injured party and leave her pride intact. With a little cunning, you can easily create a case of constructive dismissal.

How is that to be …

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The Biggest Sign You Have a Chance With Her – and What to do Next!

Posted by Carlos Xuma | Posted in Attract women, What women want | Posted on 01-09-2014


It’s tough to figure out if the woman you’ve been flirting with likes you or not. You definitely want to make sure you’re not misinterpreting her “nice” gestures towards you – and you don’t want to end up in the Friends Zone.

But, most importantly, you wouldn’t want to pass the chance if she does like you and waiting for you to make your move.

So, how would you know?

Check out this article, the BIGGEST sign will help you figure out if she’s into you – or not.


Stay Alpha,

– Carlos Xuma

Title: The Biggest Sign You Have a Chance With Her – and What to do Next!

There are two questions that I get asked more often than just about any other…

#1: When a guy first meets or goes out with a great woman, how does he know whether he has a “chance” with her?

#2: If he feels like he does have a chance, what should he do next?


All of this uncertainty is caused by one simple fact: once a guy gets the vaguest whiff of a woman who might be interested in him, he usually starts doing almost everything WRONG. His …

The Benefits Of Learning What Women Want

Aren’t the benefits of learning what women want obvious? I mean, just think about it:

- No more irritating “do I look fat in these jeans? No honey! Oh you’re only saying that to please me!” type discussions.

- No more “what do you want to do tonight honey? I don’t know. What do you want to do?” type situations.

- No more confusion and frustration if you already have a woman in your life

- And no more desperation if you want to get a woman in your life, because then they can say anything they want but you’ll keep doing what you do because you know they like it…

I’m telling you, the world would be a better place if every guy learns what women want.

That’s why you need to check out my article(s) on what women want above here right away. Come on man! Save yourself the time and energy of figuring women out on your own.

You can also check out the myths of what women want below…

The Biggest Myths Around What Women Want

I feel I HAVE TO address some of the biggest myths around what women want here, because they’re still confusing a lot of people.

Here we go…

First off, candlelit dinner, flowers, candy, chocolate, gifts, romantic music. It’s what you see in all the romantic comedy movies and TV shows, but they aren’t real. They aren’t. That may be what women want, but they want it later on.

When you use all that romantic crap on the first date though, then you’re trying to impress. Trying to impress women with things other than yourself makes them wonder what’s so bad about you that you’re trying to make up for it…

Secondly, what women want isn’t a rich guy. Don’t confuse looking for security by marrying a rich guy so she can screw up whatever she does and still be okay… with attraction. The sad truth is that the majority of marriages are still about security, not about attraction.

A woman didn’t choose a rich guy because of attraction, because how many times do I need to sound like a broken record by saying attraction isn’t a choice?

Materialistic crap isn’t what women want. Hollywood just tries to make you believe otherwise to keep the consumer (that’s you) buying useless crap.

What women want is personality. Charisma. The proof is in the pudding: I met dozens of women when I was dead broke, didn’t have a car, had no home of my own, and some cheap looking clothes. All with my personality.

Last but not least: what women want is NOT a guy who’s in touch with his feelings, loves fashion more than they do, and all that other “metrosexual” nonsense.

They want a real man that’s true to all the stereotypes: rough, strong (mentally or physically), loves booze, loves competition, loves women, and does whatever the hell he wants.

And if you want to know more about what women want, what they really want, then I highly recommend you check out my tips on how to get with a girl you like.

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women