Somewhere right now, a well-meaning guy is making women hate him without even knowing why. He thinks he’s trying to be a decent dude with certain gestures and habits, but in reality he’s killing his own appeal with them.
He’s thinking to himself, “What’s her deal anyway? I was just trying to be nice but she’s acting like I did something wrong.”
Unfortunately, he did do something and flip the wrong switches in her head, but can’t quite put his finger on it.
After all, he was polite, didn’t make any creepy remarks about her body and or make any of the OBVIOUS mistakes with women.
Yet, a lot of men still turn women off, despite being on their best behavior.
So, what gives? Well, let me shed a little light on the things men do which actually work against them:
#1: Trying to Rationalize Dating
I know how weird it is to get turned down by the ladies even though you’re acting perfectly normal. But the thing is, there’s no point in rationalizing the attraction process.
On a basic level, attraction is a feeling, NOT a choice.
Making a conscious decision has NOTHING to do with liking someone.