Early in life, most guys realize that what women want for real is different from what they say they want. So what DO women want? Here are some hints!
In case you’re wondering WHY what women want is different from what they say they want: it’s because women base what they say and think on logical reasoning. Opinions.
That’s why you’ll find women saying women want honesty, a sweet guy who treats them right, who has a sense of humor and bla bla bla… while any nice guy knows women prefer bad boys over “sweet guys who treat them right.”
And that’s because attraction isn’t a choice. And not an opinion either.
Attraction is a feeling based on emotions that are illogical, which is why no amount of logical reasoning from women will change what women want.
It’s why what they say and think is irrelevant, because they still want the same thing.
Read the newsletter about what women want below to get your hints about what it is that they want right away…
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Posted by Carlos Xuma | Posted in Attract women, What women want | Posted on 28-11-2013
What is she really thinking? I bet you want to know. And who doesn’t?
Hell, sometimes SHE wants to know what she’s thinking.
Women are confusing and they don’t make things easy on guys.
Even Edward Cullen, the supposedly hottest vampire from the “Twilight” movies – who women drool over – would want to read Bella’s mind, the woman he loves – and it frustrates the hell out of him because he can’t.
A scene from a “Twilight” movie proves that:
Isabella Swan: Wait. You say you heard what they were thinking? So what you…you read minds?
Edward Cullen: I can read every mind in this room apart from yours. There’s…Money. Sex. Money. Sex. Cat…And then you, nothing. That’s very frustrating.
The same thing happens in the True Blood series, where they give the WOMAN the ability to read men’s minds – which is a woman’s fantasy-come-true.
We asked a few women and here are some of the things they think about that you might find helpful to better understand the woman you want in your life.
WHAT SHE’S THINKING ABOUT: The first time you meet
The first time she sees you, she’s checking you out. Thinking …
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Posted by Carlos | Posted in What women want | Posted on 02-02-2010
I wrote a newsletter about what women want that is crucial for men to win the dating game. Why? Because what women want differs from what one thinks they want!
So enjoy these insights about what women want. I hope you’ll learn from this newsletter!
QUESTION FROM A READER
This question is gonna sound strange but here goes nothing: what do women want Carlos? I don’t know what women want! I mean..what do they really want from men, the thing that makes them feel attracted to us? Ever read that book women are from Venus, men from Mars? That’s how I feel because I don’t understand women and I know I’m doing something wrong.
You mentioned female psychology here and there, so can you please help me with your insights? I’m so confused about what they want, sometimes they’re hot than they’re cold, than they want this and then that. Really irritating. Whenever I go out I just can’t get 1 phone number and I fail over and over.
Thomas, Amsterdam, the Netherlands
What do women want?
Yeah… asking me that makes you sound like a total dumb ass…
But unfortunately, most men are …
The Benefits Of Learning What Women Want
Aren’t the benefits of learning what women want obvious? I mean, just think about it:
- No more irritating “do I look fat in these jeans? No honey! Oh you’re only saying that to please me!” type discussions.
- No more “what do you want to do tonight honey? I don’t know. What do you want to do?” type situations.
- No more confusion and frustration if you already have a woman in your life
- And no more desperation if you want to get a woman in your life, because then they can say anything they want but you’ll keep doing what you do because you know they like it…
I’m telling you, the world would be a better place if every guy learns what women want.
That’s why you need to check out my article(s) on what women want above here right away. Come on man! Save yourself the time and energy of figuring women out on your own.
You can also check out the myths of what women want below…
The Biggest Myths Around What Women Want
I feel I HAVE TO address some of the biggest myths around what women want here, because they’re still confusing a lot of people.
Here we go…
First off, candlelit dinner, flowers, candy, chocolate, gifts, romantic music. It’s what you see in all the romantic comedy movies and TV shows, but they aren’t real. They aren’t. That may be what women want
, but they want it later on.
When you use all that romantic crap on the first date though, then you’re trying to impress. Trying to impress women with things other than yourself makes them wonder what’s so bad about you that you’re trying to make up for it…
Secondly, what women want isn’t a rich guy. Don’t confuse looking for security by marrying a rich guy so she can screw up whatever she does and still be okay… with attraction. The sad truth is that the majority of marriages are still about security, not about attraction.
A woman didn’t choose a rich guy because of attraction, because how many times do I need to sound like a broken record by saying attraction isn’t a choice?
Materialistic crap isn’t what women want. Hollywood just tries to make you believe otherwise to keep the consumer (that’s you) buying useless crap.
What women want is personality. Charisma. The proof is in the pudding: I met dozens of women when I was dead broke, didn’t have a car, had no home of my own, and some cheap looking clothes. All with my personality.
Last but not least: what women want is NOT a guy who’s in touch with his feelings, loves fashion more than they do, and all that other “metrosexual” nonsense.
They want a real man that’s true to all the stereotypes: rough, strong (mentally or physically), loves booze, loves competition, loves women, and does whatever the hell he wants.
And if you want to know more about what women want
, what they really want, then I highly recommend you check out my tips on how to get with a girl
To More Dating Success,
Win With Women