Category: What women want

Early in life, most guys realize that what women want for real is different from what they say they want. So what DO women want? Here are some hints!

In case you’re wondering WHY what women want is different from what they say they want: it’s because women base what they say and think on logical reasoning. Opinions.

That’s why you’ll find women saying women want honesty, a sweet guy who treats them right, who has a sense of humor and bla bla bla… while any nice guy knows women prefer bad boys over “sweet guys who treat them right.”

And that’s because attraction isn’t a choice. And not an opinion either.

Attraction is a feeling based on emotions that are illogical, which is why no amount of logical reasoning from women will change what women want.

It’s why what they say and think is irrelevant, because they still want the same thing.

Read the newsletter about what women want below to get your hints about what it is that they want right away…

Why You Can’t Get A Girlfriend – 7 Reasons

Why You Can’t Get A Girlfriend – 7 Reasons

One thing I’ve learned doing dating coaching over the last 16 years, and that’s this:

Most men (and women!) have almost NO CLUE about how attraction between the sexes really works.

Now, when I say NO CLUE – I mean that they THINK they understand it, and PRETEND to understand relationships, but honestly don’t. I think it’s mostly because they don’t want to seem like they’re ignorant to the other 98% of the population that is also pretending to know what they’re doing.

Most of the guys who pretend to know how to date a lot of girls will give you the same lame advice:

  • Dude, you gotta be confident…”
  • You gotta know how to talk to women…”
  • You gotta know how to dress…”
  • “You gotta…”

Well, sad to say that half of these guys are usually “naturals” with women (meaning they intuitively have gotten women without knowing what the $#&% they are doing, or they’re good looking.)

The other half are guys that don’t really have ANY skill with women, but just happen to have a girlfriend at the moment. Which means they’re currently doing 100% better …

7 Ways To Be Attractive To Girls

7 Ways To Be Attractive To Girls

It’s the 21st century… and the truth is that it’s harder than ever for most guys to really attract girls.

When I say “really” – I mean sexually attracted. Like – she wants to tackle you, throw you into bed, and have her wicked ways with you for eight hours straight

Okay, maybe that’s over the top…

Look, maybe you’ve had the experience of going out on a date with a girl, and maybe you bought her flowers – chivalrous chap that you are.

how to get that girl

But then you meet up with her, and she looks at you with a weird expression that says you must have done something wrong. And even if you don’t think you did, you feel like it.

And it SUCKS.

Maybe she gives you a polite “thanks” and takes them, but you can tell she isn’t as impressed as you thought.

Or maybe she tells you, “Thanks, but you’re trying a little hard.”

Which is closer to the truth.

Hey, man – you didn’t know!

And aren’t chicks supposed to like that crap?

Well, don’t get depressed, my friend. I’m going to guide you through a few of the ways that men can be …

turn off women

The 3 Behaviors That Turn Women Off

Somewhere right now, a well-meaning guy is making women hate him without even knowing why. He thinks he’s trying to be a decent dude with certain gestures and habits, but in reality he’s killing his own appeal with them.

He’s thinking to himself, “What’s her deal anyway? I was just trying to be nice but she’s acting like I did something wrong.”

Unfortunately, he did do something and flip the wrong switches in her head, but can’t quite put his finger on it.

turn off women

After all, he was polite, didn’t make any creepy remarks about her body and or make any of the OBVIOUS mistakes with women.

Yet, a lot of men still turn women off, despite being on their best behavior.

So, what gives? Well, let me shed a little light on the things men do which actually work against them:

#1: Trying to Rationalize Dating

I know how weird it is to get turned down by the ladies even though you’re acting perfectly normal. But the thing is, there’s no point in rationalizing the attraction process.

On a basic level, attraction is a feeling, NOT a choice.

Making a conscious decision has NOTHING to do with liking someone.

Therefore, …