Author: Carlos

Top 10 Things NOT To Do When Approaching Women

As a dating coach it’s only right that I share with you some of the “rookie mistakes” many of my students make when they try to approach women.

Why? So YOU won’t make the same mistakes as they’ve made of course!

I’ve coached over 600+ men with achieving dating success in 2008 and 2009 combined… and the moment I told them about these things not do? Was the moment they started getting a LOT more results with women, because everything gets much easier once you handle the fear of walking up to a woman to start a conversation.

Here’s the juicy secret: you’ll find out that women aren’t that scary once you actually start talking to them.

Anyways, here’s my top 10 things NOT to do when approaching women…

#1 Don’t Do A “Random Pick Up”
This one deserves the number one spot of most common mistakes of approaching women, hands down!

You see, women absolutely LOVE bad boys for lots of reasons… but they HATE players. Better said: no one wants to feel like they’re not important, like they don’t matter, like they’re far from unique and just one out of many… and women are no different. They don’t …

Etienne Charland: Mating Was Not Meant To Be So Complicated…

I’m proud to announce that my good friend Etienne made a column for the blog. This one’s about how mating was not meant to be so complicated.

He has some cool insights about dating to share. Me and him go a while back: back in early 2008 we were already discussing our asses off on dating expert Zan Perrion’s naturalgame.com forums… and we still discuss our buts off to this very day.

I give the word to Etienne from here…

I said many times that if mating was meant to be as complicated as it is, we wouldn’t be here today. If people always focus on, for example, what to text a girl instead of WHY to text a girl or not then things will remain the same. That’s what I’ve always said…

And I had no clue how right I was. I rarely read newspapers, but I happened to flip through the newspaper today and saw an articles that says that in 40 years, white people may become a minority in the United States because 48% of births are currently from immigrants.

That’s a huge thing right here.

With the mating dynamics of our Western society, unless there is …

Top 10 Reasons Why Looks Matter…

These days it’s a sin to be a dating coach who says looks matter, but once you know why looks matter I just know you’ll agree with me!

This makes why looks matter THE perfect topic to talk about for me, firstly because looks are actually important… and secondly, maybe… maybe I wanna talk about it because I’m just a big dramaqueen who likes controversy from time to time.

It’s quite funny to me to see all these dating coaches, dating experts, and dating gurus struggle to give you reasons why looks don’t matter, but looks matter. They do. Really!

Looks matter for more than just cosmetic reasons. Looks matter because of the halo effect and more

Don’t get me wrong, they matter less than most guys think they do, but looks matter in entirely different ways than just “he’s hot” or “he’s ugly” type of thinking.

So before I throw my top 10 reasons why looks matter at you, I want to point out to you that looks DON’T matter like you think they do. If that sounds strange, I promise you, it will make a lot more sense after you checked out the following top 10…

Sex On The First Date And Why Looks Matter

There has been some very interesting research going on lately. …