Author: Carlos

My Thoughts On Relationships & Relationship Advice….

I just want to say: I’m pissed off about relationships. To be more specific: I’m pissed about the relationship advice that’s given these days.

Here’s why…

– Most dating experts out there SKIP relationships altogether, saying dating is different from relationships and thus limiting their fans and students to achieving SHORT TERM success. That SUCKS!

– Of the dating experts that DO give relationship advice, most are coming from either a false Hollywood fairytale position of total bullsh*t, or, even worse… the way too old perspective of “a relationship means being married to someone for 10-20 years.”

In short: there’s nothing in the middle. There’s no one….

No one that really talks about how to “keep the girl” after dating her several times.

No one that talks about the early stages of a relationship.

No one that talks about how long to wait before saying those 3 magic words (I… love… you)

I think you get the point.

That’s why I’m happy to announce that I’ve made some cool videos about relationships which contain TONS of top notch relationship advice. Better said, what you’re about to hear is me coaching one of my students (Tom) on the topic of relationships……

Carlos Xuma Recommends…

Hey guys,

As always, it’s Carlos Xuma from Win With Women here, and I’d like to share some cool sites with you…

These are some interesting dating blogs and sites for various reasons: they contain huge amounts of awesome tips, there are lots of videos there, or the blog posts are simply so damn entertaining to read.

Let’s get to it!

April Braswell’s Blog
April’s one of the top FEMALE dating coaches out there today. Why not learn about women… from a woman? If anyone claims to know more about women than women themselves (and me), they’re lying. I highly recommend you read some of her blog posts.

They’re entertaining and insightful.

http://aprilbraswell.com/blog/

Ask Dan And Jennifer
And then there’s Dan and Jennifer. After telling you that it’s probably a good idea to seek out some dating advice from a female dating coach, I’m gonna go ahead and tell you that dating advice from a couple isn’t a bad idea either. Dan and Jennifer’s site has lots of question and answer-like articles and videos about numerous topics:

Sexuality, how to break up with someone, how to “keep the girl” and more… go and see for yourself!

http://www.askdanandjennifer.com

Dating Advice From

Brian Tracy’s Psychology Of Achievement Review

Hey it’s Carlos Xuma here and it’s my honor to do a Brian Tracy Psychology of Achievement review today, because Brian Tracy is a freaking legend in my book!

In case you lived in a cave for the last 20 years: Psychology of Achievement is one of self help guru Brian Tracy’s best selling books.

In my opinion “spectacular and life changing program for any man in need of improvement” is a much better title, but book is a little shorter and easier to use, wouldn’t you agree? Anyways, what’s making me do this psychology of achievement review?

Here’s the juicy secret: it will PERMANENTLY change the way you think about rejection, failure, success, your potential, negative emotions and a whole lot more.

Brian Tracy's Achievement Psychology

But I’m getting ahead of myself here…

Here’s how I approach doing reviews: the impact it had on me personally, compliments, and disappointments. That means I talk about both the good and the bad. So, let’s get to it!

The Impact Of Brian Tracy’s Psychology Of Achievement

 I’m a down to earth, practical dude… so I’m not feeling hippie weirdos, flower power, overly spiritual nonsense and people that are kinda “out there”. As a result, I’m skeptical …