How To Win With Women

Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips & Secrets

Category: Body language

Signs a woman is interested in you

The Top 20 Signs A Woman Is Interested In You

Do you know the signs she likes you? If you don’t know the signs a woman is interested in you, then you’re missing out big time! You’d better learn the signs…

The fact is not only are there obvious signs she likes you but there are little known secrets about how a woman’s brain works that you can use to your advantage.

There is nothing wrong with taking the direct approach: you see a hot chick at a bar and you walk right up to her and give her your best shot, then say something without having a clue if she’s interested in you, or not.

The problem is that you’ll look like a total nerd if you don’t know the signs a woman is interested in you.

Yes, knowing if she likes you isn’t as easy as in the image below…

the signs she likes you aren't as easy as these, but still easy to see!

But no, it isn’t difficult to understand body language either! You just have to know what to look for…

And once you know? You can relax, sit back, and enjoy a woman’s interest…

After all, why go through more trouble if you know she already wants you? That’s like shooting an irritating bug with a tank!

Or, why …

Body language

Top 10 Reasons Why Looks Matter…

These days it’s a sin to be a dating coach who says looks matter, but once you know why looks matter I just know you’ll agree with me!

This makes why looks matter THE perfect topic to talk about for me, firstly because looks are actually important… and secondly, maybe… maybe I wanna talk about it because I’m just a big dramaqueen who likes controversy from time to time.

It’s quite funny to me to see all these dating coaches, dating experts, and dating gurus struggle to give you reasons why looks don’t matter, but looks matter. They do. Really!

Looks matter for more than just cosmetic reasons. Looks matter because of the halo effect and more

Don’t get me wrong, they matter less than most guys think they do, but looks matter in entirely different ways than just “he’s hot” or “he’s ugly” type of thinking.

So before I throw my top 10 reasons why looks matter at you, I want to point out to you that looks DON’T matter like you think they do. If that sounds strange, I promise you, it will make a lot more sense after you checked out the following top 10…

Sex On The First Date And Why Looks Matter

There has been some very interesting research going on lately. …

How to get physical with a woman

Getting Physical With A Woman: How It’s Done

Bad news: most regular guys such as yourself have no freaking clue about how getting physical with women is done. So why is this such a huge problem?

Recent research has shown that although men are very good at recognizing negative body language (hostile threats), we SUCK at recognizing positive body language (indicators of interest, smiles, and so on). That’s the area of body language that women can easily recognize.

Do you understand what that means?

It means that by nature, we’re at a disadvantage in the dating game compared to women caus’ it takes us longer to see that a woman is interested in us… and being interested is the requirement for escalating things physically.

Put simply: if I don’t know a woman likes me, I won’t try to get physical with her… unless I would be a rapist off course.

Meanwhile, women decide what’s going to happen at the end of the day, because if they don’t feel comfortable and safe enough around us they won’t make that next step with us.

The result: getting physical with women is far from an A to Z process, it’s much more a two steps forward, one step back kind of …