Attract women

To many men the secret of attracting women never reveals itself. They can’t attract women and die desperate or settling for less. Don’t let it be you!

How? By reading the many, oh so many blog posts about how to attract women I’ve written over the years. They’ll show you the when, why, how, where, and more of attracting women.

They cover topics ranging from why women fall in love with bad boys, do women like rich guys and if not then what do they like, how you can attract women without pretending you’re someone or something you’re not and much, much more.

So what are you waiting for? Check out my blog posts about how to attract women below… » Attract women

How To Get Emotional With Women Without Being a Wuss

Posted by Carlos Xuma | Posted in Attract women | Posted on 21-08-2014


Feelings: for guys, it’s the final frontier. Let’s admit it – as men, we’re not big on sharing our emotions.

Case in point: Ever notice how many books on self-help for men that AREN’T on the market?

Instead of taking our emotions apart, most of us would rather tinker with our cars or analyze the             socio-political themes in Watchmen.

Now I know there are exceptions to this, so if you like talking about your feelings, then props to you.


But for the vast majority of dudes out there – particularly those interested in meeting women – they’re hurting their game by not tapping into their emotional network.

Starting a conversation isn’t enough; you’ll need to actively engage her on an emotional level.

Otherwise, you might as well be STERILE. Fortunately, it isn’t that hard to trigger a woman’s feelings.

And no, it doesn’t mean pretending to gush over Eat, Pray, Love just to create that spark of attraction.

First of all, it’s OK to actually hint that you like a woman. It’s a delicate rope to walk for sure; being too direct may give away the game and turn her off.

But if you’re not working towards creating sexual … » Attract women

The Secret of What Women Want In Men

Posted by Carlos Xuma | Posted in Attract women | Posted on 18-08-2014


You give your all to make a woman like you, but sometimes nothing seems to make her happy. And you’re left wondering, “What do women really want?”

Here’s an article that can shed a little light on the answer – and remind you of the important stuff that she wants that you might be missing.

Sometimes, it’s so easy to be out of focus when you’re too close to the problem – and you’re concentrating too hard on making her happy.

Stay Alpha,

- Carlos Xuma


Title: The Secret of What Women Want In Men

“What do women want?” many men have wondered. Who knows. But figuring out what women want in men is crucial to becoming effective not only in dealing with women, but developing the kind of Dating Life you really want.

So what do women want from men? What traits do they look for? And why — what’s the reason behind it?

There are three specific traits. And naturally there are also three corresponding reasons why women want these traits in men.

Let’s take some time to explore them in detail…

Ultimately, what women want in men is to have their needs…

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How To Meet Women – With No Fear And No Rejection – Part 2

Posted by Carlos Xuma | Posted in Attract women | Posted on 28-07-2014


I’m going to give you a quick strategy you can use right now to overcome this fear in your own life. Or, at the very least, help you radically improve your odds of meeting a higher quality woman that will not only make you happy, but she will make you the envy of your friends.

1) Have an excuse

The best way to set yourself up for success is to simply have a reason to talk to her. And make it one that you believe in – because if it feels too “fake” to your subconscious mind, you’ll find ways to talk yourself out of it.


So go ahead and ask her for the time, or for directions, or where she got that incredible tattoo. The excuse you need to say something to her is there, somewhere. You just have to find it.

If you’re in a bar, your excuse is finding out what wine she’s drinking. If you’re in a coffee shop, it’s to find out which blend is the tastiest.

Once she gives you an answer you can transition into a natural conversation.  If she’s open to talking to you more, that’s great.  If she’s not, you haven’t …

Is Learning How To Attract Women Ethical?

If you’re wondering whether learning how to attract women is manipulating them or not, then keep reading…

Frankly, in my opinion? Learning how to attract women is not manipulating them. NOT learning is!

Because would you give your best friend flowers, take him out to dinner, give him cholocate, give him compliments for the way he looks all the time, and the whole nine yards? Hell no.

So, what are you doing if you do this for women? You’re acting in a completely different way than the way you normally act around your male friends. THAT’S manipulation.

Learning how to attract women by using the character traits you already have isn’t manipulation however, because it’s simply trying to achieve your full potential. What’s wrong with that? It’s being yourself for crying out loud!

And now we got that out of the way, let’s look at some of the common mistakes men make when they want to attract women…

Common Mistakes That Don’t Attract Women

Let’s check out some obvious and not so obvious mistakes you’re guaranteed to make when trying to learn how you can attract women:

1) One of the biggest secrets of attracting women most men will never know is that because you think getting a woman is hard, you try HARDER when her interest in you seems to be lower than before. It’s the logical thing to do, but attraction is based on nothing logical. It’s based on emotions, so when you do your best and a woman puts you to the test? Do less! Being harder to get than everyone else gets you the girl.

2) There are a 1000-and-1 ways to attract women, but there’s no need to learn them all. The less experience you have with women and the more you learn… the more you’ll be confused and the less you’ll do! So, find one thing that works and keep doing what works ad infinitum (until you drop dead to the ground).

3) Although there are things (character traits) that attract women of all ages, shapes, sizes, and races? No woman is the same as the one before her. That means that while they all respond to playful teasing, an attractive character trait, some women respond very well to it and others only barely because of their experiences in life. So know that if you want to attract women, better said ANY women, you have to adapt to who she is to do it…

And if you want to know more about getting women beyond attracting women, like how to ask them out for a first date, what to do on a date, and more? Then I highly recommend you check out our page with a list of all the best tips on how to get with a girl.

Anyways, I hope you found my thoughts on how to attract women useful. Make sure to stay tuned to the Win With Women blog, because there are more tips coming soon!

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women