How to tell if a girl is into you… 9 Signals
How to tell if a girl is into you…
Life would be a helluva lot easier if you could just open an app on your phone and it would show you all the women around you that were into you.
Problem is, that app is a long way off in the future. So instead of wishing on a dream, why don’t we talk about the real world?
If you want to know if a chick likes you, you need to know what signs to watch for.
Let’s start with:
How to tell if a girl is into you – Signal #1: She’s whipping her mane…
There’s a great scene in Charlies Angels (the movie from way back) where Lucy Liu advises Cameron Diaz to “flip your damn hair.” Cameron does, and the guy loses his mind for her.
To be fair, Cameron would only have to show up for guys to lose it over her, but whatever.
That hair-flip maneuver works, though. It’s part of a whole set of actions women take subconsciously that give away her true interest level in you.
It’s called Primping. These are body language “tells” that show how much she wants you.
She’ll do stuff like:
- Flip her hair
- Play with her straw
- Fix her blouse
- Fix her hair
The list is really endless. Just watch out for those signs she’s giving off that tell you she’s lovin’ it…
How to tell if a girl is digging you – Signal #2: She’s smiling more than the Joker…
The reality of a woman’s interest is that she’s going to go a little over board to make sure you get the hint that she’s interested in you. Women usually put out way too many signals to count when she’s ready to play.
Smiling is one of those things she won’t be able to help herself from doing. She’ll smile a lot to show her happiness.
- Happy that she found a guy she didn’t have to lose like a case of the crabs…
- Happy that she doesn’t have to sit there alone and wonder if every person in there is judging her because she’s not talking to someone…
Happiness is going to show as a smile on her face.
If she looks too serious, you should consider that a sign of disinterest – especially if she isn’t ponying up some conversation to keep things going.
How to tell if a girl likes you – Signal #3: She’s confusing you…
On the other hand, a woman often doesn’t know how to make you understand she likes you without pulling away her interest every couple minutes.
This happens when she likes you, and starts showing that she likes you, and then realizes she’s showing her interest. Then she acts the opposite way to be “hard to get.” Mostly so she doesn’t have to feel like a “slut.”
Look, I didn’t make them like this. I know it sounds kind of crazy.
But that’s how women think.
They’re riding this insane roller coaster of emotions in their head (all self-generated emotions, mind you – but she wouldn’t believe that.) And she doesn’t realize how her actions reflect the awkward and irrational stuff in her head.
So if she’s confusing you with hot & cold signals, you can assume that there’s some interest there. If she wasn’t interested at all, you would only get the not-interested version of her.
How to tell if a girl wants you – Signal #4: She’s Laughing…
Not laughing AT you, but with you.
This is kind of a cliche, but it’s true. Women don’t want to lead guys on, so she won’t laugh at anything you’re saying if she’s not genuinely interested.
How to tell if a girl is attracted to you – Signal #5: She’s All Touchy…
If she’s suddenly touchy-feely with you, she’s got to be considering you as a romantic interest. Women don’t usually get physical with a guy they’re not at least a little interested in.
Now there’s another reason that women do this, and that’s to “Stir The Pot.”
You see, women like to provoke things to find out what emotions are involved. She’s wondering if she has any power or control over you, and she might be doing this to see how you’ll respond. If you get too touchy back, she’ll shut you down.
So just take it in stride and stay relaxed.
How to tell if she wants you – Signal #6: She’s Jealous…
If you talk to another girl and she gets snippy or weird on you, chances are:
- She’s interested – and
- She’s triggered…
By triggered, I mean that she’s got some emotional baggage that just came to the surface.
A lot of women have weirdness around handling situations with another woman in the picture. Either she’s been cheated on before, or she’s got some insecurities about relationships with competition in them.
Either way, it’s a good sign to start out with. But stay frosty and keep an eye out that she doesn’t have a psycho vibe underneath that. Sometimes a woman’s crazy will completely overtake her interest and feelings for you, and it will get weird – fast.
How to tell if a girl is into you – Signal #7: She hunts you down…
If a girl is interested in a guy, she will not want to take a chance that you’ll find someone else and ditch her. Women HATE lost opportunities.
So watch for her to actively try to get back with you. If you’re in a bar or club, she’ll find you. Or make her way back to you in some way.
She will have to do it by breaking away from her clique of chick friends, though, so be on the lookout for her. If she’s trying, you have to jump back in once you’ve confirmed she’s searching.
But also realize that if she’s hot, she doesn’t need to hunt anyone down.
Keep an eye out for her interest, and act while you’ve got her interest pointed toward you…
How to tell if a girl is into you – Signal #8: She points out the coinky-dinks…
If she’s liking you, she’s also going to seize any opportunity to send a signal to you that says: “Hey, this is destiny!”
She’ll pick up on any random thing that you both like, no matter how stupid.
“Hey, we both like breathing and eating food!”
Okay, maybe not that stupid, but you’ll know it when you hear it. She’ll point out simple, stupid things that connect you.
- Same taste in music
- Same taste in TV shows
- Same taste in food
- Same taste in drinks
You get the picture.
By the way, if you spot something she likes that’s particularly obscure – and you like it – you should point it out. She’ll take it as a sign.
Or … not.
How to tell if a girl is into you – Signal #9: She’s giving you verbal signals…
Women are both subtle AND predictable when it comes to language…
She will say things that are meant to be a green light for you to move forward with her. And if you don’t catch these signals, you might lose your shot. She only opens her window of interest for a short time, and she expects YOU to know when that happens!
Now, you have to know how to talk to a woman to find out if she’s giving you these signals. Otherwise, you’ll be waiting and hoping for them to show up. And that could be a long time coming…
The best thing you can do is know all the signals to look for – AND how women are triggered to feel attraction for you.
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