How To Win With Women

Carlos Xuma's Dating Tips & Secrets

Author: Carlos

What is attraction?

What Is Attraction? Attraction Explained…

A fan of mine asked me: what is attraction? My answer explains what attraction is and how to create attraction pretty damn well, so I’m sharing it with you.

Enjoy this newsletter turned blog post that answers the million dollar question: what is attraction?

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QUESTION FROM A READER
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Heya D. Thanks for your email about what women want. It cleared the air for me in several ways caus’ I used to have no clue of what’s attractive to women you know. At least I understand the basics now and I’m sure they’ll go a long way in giving me more success in the dating game and I’m definitely going to buy your Simple Inner Game System caus’ I noticed a real difference in how the honey’s respond to me. Thanks for showing the way.

I’m still a bit confused about creating attraction because while you say character trait this and character trait that are irresistible to chicks, they still post their wish lists on dating sites or talk about their ideal man in much the same way. None of these lists contain all of the traits you mentioned, so what am I missing here?

Jack B, Washington DC, …

How to call women

How To Call A Woman And Easily Get A Date 9 Out Of 10 Times

It’s one thing to know how to call a woman, another to call a woman and know exactly how you can guarantee yourself a date. Learn how to do it today!

I’m sure you’ll scratch your head after reading the following, asking yourself why in the hell you couldn’t get it right before!

How To Call A Woman Technique #1:
“What Are You Doing Right Now?”

 

Being spontaneous is exciting to women, because it makes you unpredictable. Being unpredictable makes you fun, exciting, and never boring… and boring is the enemy of attraction.

Do you know what “naturals” are? Naturals are the men and women who are naturally good at meeting & dating the opposite sex. The major difference between them and the general population is this: they try to get a date right now instead of setting up some artificial boundary where the date can happen this Saturday and all that crap.

In short: never fail to ask a woman what she’s doing right now and/or if she’s going to do anything fun tonight. If she doesn’t have anything better to do today then please… invite her to come along already!

That’s the REAL way of how to call

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If she doesn't answer the phone

What To Do If She Doesn’t Answer The Phone

What to do if she doesn’t answer the phone? It’s one of the first questions guys ask me when we’re talking about how to call women. It’s the age old question:

“Carlos, what to do if she doesn’t answer the phone and you get her voicemail” My answer: you don’t do anything if she doesn’t answer the phone in like 15 seconds or so.

If She Doesn’t Answer The Phone, Forget Her Voicemail

You see, when you call her and if she doesn’t answer the phone it will notify her with a “You have a missed call from …” type of message, so what’s the point in leaving a voicemail? It’s letting her know you called TWICE, making it a desperate thing to do… so don’t.

If she doesn't answer the phone, it's best not to leave a voicemail because it's coming across as desperate

Besides, who listens to the voicemail these days anyways? Less and less people do it, hell, I know I and almost everyone I know don’t because we assume that if someone was calling about something important they’d call again.

That’s why you should avoid that nasty little voicemail every single time you call a woman: call her and hang up after you hear the dial tone for the third time, because voicemail is activated …